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Masculinities Journal_issue 3
ISSN 2148-3841
MASCULINITIES
a journal of identity and culture
Issue 3
February 2015
MASCULINITIES
a journal of identity and culture
Issue 3, February 2015
ISSN 2148-3841
CONTACT
e-mail
[email protected]
Murat GOC
English Language and Literature Dept.
Faculty of Arts and Sciences
Pamukkale University
Denizli, Turkey
Masculinities, A Journal of Identity and Culture, is a peer reviewed international
academic journal published biannually by Initiative for Critical Studies of
Masculinity. The journal is published online and can be accessed
via http://masculinitiesjournal.org. The whole content of the journal is free for
public use and the authors possess the rights of their articles and they are
responsible for the content. The texts in this journal can’t be reproduced, stored,
transmitted or quoted in any form or by any means without the prior permission
of its author(s). To submit articles and reviews for future issues, please see the
guidelines at the end of the journal. For further information and enquiries, please
contact the editor(s).
Typesetting
Cover Design
Cover Photo
: Şenol Topçu
: Murat Göç
: Neşe Şahin
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EDITORIAL BOARD
Chief Editor
Murat GÖÇ
(Pamukkale University)
Editorial Board
Cimen Günay Erkol
(Ozyegin University)
Ozlem Duva Kaya
(Dokuz Eylül University)
Nurseli Yeşim Sünbüloğlu
(University of Sussex)
Selin Akyüz
(University of Oxford)
Review Editors
Gülden Sayılan
(ODTÜ)
Beril Türkoğlu
(ODTÜ)
Assistant Editors
Senol Topcu
(Independent Researcher)
Naz Hıdır
(Ege University)
Berfin Varışlı
(Maltepe University)
Atilla Barutçu
(Bülent Ecevit University)
Advisory Board
Aksu Bora
Hacettepe University
Dilek Cindoğlu
Mardin Artuklu Universitesi
Alev Özkazanç
Ankara University
Eda Acara
Queens University
Alp Biricik
Independent Researcher
Emel BastürkAkca
Kocaeli University
Arda Arikan
Akdeniz University
Esma Durugönül
Akdeniz University
Aslıhan Doğan Topcu
Mersin University
Fatma Umut Beşpınar
METU
Ayse Erbora
Okan University
Feryal Cubukcu
Dokuz Eylul University
Ayse L. Kirtunc
Professor Emerita
Figen Uzar Özdemir
Bülent Ecevit University
Berrin Koyuncu Lorasdağı
Hacettepe University
Funda Şenol Cantek
Ankara University
Burcu Alkan
Bahçeşehir University
Gamze Toksoy
Mimar Sinan Univerty
Chris Haywood
Newcastle University
Güncel Önkal
Maltepe Univerty
Cirus Rinaldi
University of Palermo
Hande Eslen-Ziya
Glasgow Caledonian University
Cüneyt Çakırlar
Nottingham Trent University- Bilgi
University
Hilal Onur-Ince
Hacettepe Univerty
Daphna Hacker
Tel Aviv University
Jonathan Allan
Brandon University
Joseph Vandello
University of South Florida
Orkun Kocabiyik
Mugla University
Maria Rashid
SOAS
Papatya Genca-Alkan
Celal Bayar University
Melek Goregenli
Ege University
Raewyn Connell
University of Sydney
Meryem Ayan
Pamukkale University
Sandra Slater
College of Charleston
Murat İri
Istanbul University
Selcuk Candansayar
Gazi University
Michael Kimmel
SUNY
Serpil Sancar
Ankara University
Nejat Ulusay
Ankara University
Simten Coşar
Hacettepe University
Nil Mutluer
Nişantaşı University
Şahinde Yavuz
Karadeniz Technical University
Nilgün Toker
Ege University
Seref Uluocak
Onsekiz Mart University
Content İçindekiler
3-8
Introduction Giriş
Articles/Makaleler
10-34
Coming Out as Heterosexual: The Evangelical Subversion of 1990s Identity
Politics and the Contemporary Quest for the Real Man - Heteroseksüelliğin İlanı:
1990’lar Kimlik Politikaları Tartışmalarının Evanjelikler Tarafından Tahribi ve
Günümüzde Gerçek Erkek Arayışları
Tamas Nagypal
35-54
The Othered Black Male: Images of Masculinity in African American Lesbian
Erotic Fiction - Ötekileştirilen Siyahi Erkek: Afro-Amerikan Lezbiyen Erotik
Kurgularda Erkeklik İmajı
Gloria Gadsden
55-85
Threatened Masculinities: Men’s Experiences of Gender Equality in Rural
Rwanda - Tehdit Edilmiş Erkeklikler: Ruanda Kırsalındaki Erkeklerin Toplumsal
Cinsiyet Eşitliği Deneyimleri
Mediatrice Kagaba
86-104
The Fragrance of a New Man? Masculinity and Fashion in Young Males’ Cologne
Commercials - Yeni Erkeğin Kokusu mu? Genç Erkeklere Yönelik Kolonya
Reklamlarında Erkeklik ve Moda
Iván Ferrero Ruiz
105-128 Drags, Drugs and Dirt: Abjection and Masculinity in Marilyn Manson's Music
Video (s)Aint - “Drag”ler, Uyuşturucular ve Kir: Marilyn Manson’un Müzik
Videosu “(s)Aint’’de Bayağılık ve Erkeklik
Nataša Pivec
129-155 “Ucundan Azıcık”la Atılan Sağlam Temel: Türkiye’de Sünnet Ritüeli ve Erkeklik
İlişkisi - A Steady Basis with “the Loss of a Small Piece”: A Relationship between
Male Circumcision and Hegemonic Masculinity in Turkey
Atilla Barutçu
156-188 “Ceremonial Circumcision” as One of the Mechanisms Which Enables the
Regeneration and Intergenerational Transmission of Manhood Culture in Turkey
- Türkiye’de Erkeklik Kültürünü Yeniden Üreten ve Kuşaklar Arası Aktarımını
Sağlayan Mekanizmalardan Biri Olarak “Törensel Sünnet”
N. Gamze Toksoy-Ayşegül Taşıtman
189-212 “Militarizing Masculinities in Red Army Discourse and Subjectivity, 1942-1943” “Kızıl Ordu Söyleminde ve Öznelliğinde Militarist Erkeklikler, 1942-1943”
Steven G. Jug
213-233 Gerçek Erkek Ayağa Kalkabilir mi Lütfen: Trans Erkeklerin Cinsiyetlendirilmiş
Performansı
Elijah C. Nealy
Reviews/Kitap İncelemeleri
235-239 Erkek Millet, Asker Millet: Türkiye’de Militarizm, Milliyetçilik, Erkek(lik)ler
Çimen Günay-Erkol
240-246 Eros and Tragedy: Jewish Male Fantasies and the Masculine Revolution of
Zionism
Aneta Stępień
247-249 British Pronoun Use, Prescription and Processing
Feryal Cubukcu
250-252 Contributors to this Issue
253-259 Guidelines
For Ozgecan Aslan and All Victims of Gender Violence
On February 11, a 20 year old woman, Ozgecan Aslan, was reported
missing in Mersin. Two days later, her body was found burnt by the bus
driver with the help of his own father and his friend. This tragic,
inhumane, and maddeningly routine murder isn’t the first and won’t be
the last. Only within the last year, almost 300 women were murdered by
men in Turkey according to the official reports besides thousands of
incidents of rape, domestic violence, harrassment and constraint. It is no
surprise that every day, and every day, we turn our deaf ears and blind
eyes and muted tongues to those unreported incidents of violence not to
mention hundreds of LGBT individuals who have been murdered, forced
to commit suicide, and exposed to legal negligence.
Why? No, it wasn’t that Turkey is an increasingly conservative
country although Islamist newspapers and journalists immediately
reacted that she died because of “secular freedom of sex” and “immoral
Western values”. No, it wasn’t also that Turkey is a land of repressed
sexuality although people in Turkey “proudly” raise the flag of being
number one google searchers of child porn and rape porn. No, it wasn’t
that women were socially isolated more than ever for the last couple of
years despite that ministers of the government advised women to be
career-wise by staying at home and raising their children (let alone that
sickening warning that chaste women shouldn’t laugh in public). No, it
wasn’t that women and LGBT individuals were politically suppressed
and left without an option although the leader of “New Turkey” pointed
his fingers at feminists and decreed that men and women can’t be equal
(in a meeting organized by a pro-government women’s organization
crazily applauded by women) and at LGBT people (the first case he took
to the court as the president of Turkey was against a queer activist). And
yes, it was because patriarchy and masculine violence have secured their
throne in Turkey every passing year thanks to the smothering discourse
created and promoted by high officers and politicians in Turkey although
some hillariously hailed the president as the revolutionary who tore
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down the towers of hegemonic masculinity. And yes, it was because
masculine violence is a virus and just like a virus, it seems
insurmountable at first, eats up our joy and feeds upon our silence and
fear and offsprings of violence need no explanation ofttimes.
Yet, we know that it’s not only about Turkey and its deafening
daily politics that encourages violence against diversity and plurality.
Every year, around 2500 brides are being burnt in their kitchens in India
so grooms don’t have to pay dowries. Just recently, Nigerian Boko Haram
kidnapped more than 300 school girls in serial incidents of kidnapping
since they thought girls should not go to schools and instead be married
at earlier ages. Only a few of them were found raped and brutally beaten
down. Human Rights Watch reported that Russian authorities
“effectively legalized discrimination against LGBT people” according to
CNN. Rape has been used as a systematic weapon of mass destruction
against women for many years by Serbian, Rwandan, Chilean, and
American soldiers. Mass media nestles down with the pornography of
violence and victims of violence can’t be heard unless they come up with
an “interesting news story” squeezed between two coming up nexts.
Violence against women and LGBT people is on the rise globally and
gendercide has never looked so frightening and inequality between
genders so crushing.
So, what do we want? We want no revenge for sure. We know that
any form of violence is deliberately masculine and those who live by the
sword die by the sword. We want to stop violence in any form no matter
who exercises for what reason. We want to raise our voices, men and
women and LGBT altogether, against gendered violence and negligence.
We want to unite and strenghten our ties with our siblings so that noone
can hurt anyone of us any longer. We want to maintain that we, as people
of the Initiative of Critical Studies of Masculinities, are here to inspire, to
protect and to fight against any form of gendered inequality and
discrimination.
Murat Goc, PhD
On Behalf of the Editorial Board
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Giriş
Ursula Le Guin’in kısacık harika öyküsü Omelası Bırakıp Gidenler
kusursuz bir mutluluk üzerine kurulmuş Omelas kasabasında geçer. Bu
kasabada ne elem ne keder vardır, herkes ne çok zengin ne çok fakir, ne
çok hasta ne çok sağlıklıdır. Kimse uyurken yarınına dair endişeler
duymaz, bir önceki günü özlemle anımsamaz. Bu mükemmel toplumun
mutluluğu ve huzuru tek bir koşula bağlıdır; bu kasabadaki evlerin
birisinin bodrumunda bir ufak çocuk hapistir ve orada kalmak
zorundadır. Bu güzel kasabanın insanlarının mutluluğu, unutmak ve yok
saymak üzerine kuruludur. Ancak hatırlayanlar ve yok sayamayanlar da
çıkar aradan ve Omelas’ı terk etmek zorunda kalırlar.
Çok yıllardır ara ara mutluluğumuzun ve huzurumuzun teminatı
olan cehalet uykumuzdan uyanıyoruz. Ya bir kadın öldürülüyor sokak
ortasında, ya da bir başkasının bedeninde sigara söndürülüyor. Bir
başkası
tecavüze
uğruyor,
dövülüyor,
alınıyor,
satılıyor,
ölüme
sürükleniyor. Bu kadınlar o kadar çoğalıyor ki hayatımıza devam
edebilmemiz, ancak unutmak ve görmezden gelmek ile mümkün
olabiliyor. Bu kadınlar o kadar çoğalıyor ki sadece gündüzlerimizi,
işyerlerimizi, sokakları, oturma odalarını değil, geceleri uykularımızı da
işgal etmeye başlıyorlar. Artık görmezden gelemeyenlerimiz, huzurlu
yaşamlarını terk etmek ve uzaklara giderek yeni yalanlarına sığınmak
istiyorlar. Gidilecek yerlerimiz ve sığınacak yalanlarımızı tüketiyoruz ve
bizi en çok bu endişelendiriyor.
Özgecan’ın katli, neredeyse ona üzüldüğümüz için utanmamızı
gerektirecek kadar içimizi acıtıyor. Utanıyoruz çünkü Özgecan, şimdiye
kadar onca kadın tecavüze uğradığı, işkence gördüğü ve alenen
öldürüldüğü için ve hiçbir şey yapılmadığı için ölüyor. Cehaletimiz ve
gözümüzü kapatıp kulağımızı sağır edişimiz kadınların ölü bedenlerinde
kendilerine karşılık buluyor. Ölümler rakamlara, rakamlar istatistiklere
dönüşüyor, oklar ve grafikler şiddetin kıblesini gösteriyor, ölüm ne kadar
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şiddetli olursa istatistiklere o kadar yansıyor. Bir kadının ölümü ne
zaman trajik olur mesela, ne zaman kabul edilemez olur, ne zaman
kanıksanır
ve
ussallaştırılır;
televizyonun
terazisinde
tartılıyor,
ölçülüyor, biçiliyor ve hükme bağlanıyor. Televizyon, devasa bir porno
panayırı gibi, şiddetin bile görülmesi ve duyulması için pornografik
olmasını şart koşuyor.
Ama son bir kaç haftadır gördüklerimiz, ölüme, ölümlere,
cinayete ve vahşete tepki verişimiz bizi biraz daha dehşete düşürüyor.
İdamın geri getirilmesini isteyenlerin sesini, televizyonlardan yankılanan
“önce adam ol!” nidaları bastırıyor. Hadım edilsinler diyenler bir tarafta,
senin anana bacına aynı şeyi yapsalar iyi mi diyenler diğer tarafta herkes
şiddetin sonuçları ile nasıl başa çıkacağımızı konuşuyor, öfkemizi,
çaresizliğimizi ve incinmişliğimizi nasıl yatıştırabilir ve nasıl hayatımıza
devam edebiliriz ve unutabiliriz, onun derdine düşüyoruz. Gazeteler
televizyonlar üzerinden bir hafta geçmeden dosyayı ve haberleri diğer
binlercesinin yanına kaldırıyor.
Nasıl duracak peki? Ne zaman erkekler öldürerek sevmekten
vazgeçecekler?
Ne
zaman
bitecek
erkeklerin
bu
alınganlıkları,
incinmişlikleri, kırılan gururları, "bir an kendimi kaybetttim, erkekliğime
laf etti, kendimi tutamadım, pişmanım hakim bey" leri? Erkeklerin hoş
görülemez, iyi halden indirilemez, ve uzlaşılamaz şiddetinin kaynağı
nedir? Neden, bir erkek, başka bir erkeği, başka bir kadını, ya da
LGBTİ'yi, cezalandırma hakkını kendisinde görür?
Bu soruların binlerce cevabı var ve ne yazık ki bu sorular yeni
sorular değil. Demek ki bu cevapların hiçbirisi, tek başına açıklamaya,
sorunu çözmeye, içimize su serpmeye ve geleceğe umutla bakmaya
yönelik çareler sunmuyor bize. Belki, bu yüzden, var olan cevaplar
yerine, başka cevaplar aramak, soruna biraz "yamuk bakmak", hep
cevabın olduğunu düşündüğümüz yere tekrar bir salim kafa ile bakmak
gerekiyor. Belki, mesela, bu şiddetin erkek şiddeti değil, eril şiddet
olduğunu düşünmek gerekiyor. Erkekliğin tek başına, aynı kadınlık gibi,
biyolojik bir mutlakiyet içermediğini, erkek bedenine sahip olmanın
kimseyi tek başına tahakkümcü, zorba ve şiddet dolu kılmadığını, erkek
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doğulmadığını ancak erkek olunduğunu düşünerek başlamak gerekiyor.
Bir kurum olarak erkekliğin, erilliğin ve patriarkinin üzerinde
yükseldiğini ve sadece kadınlarla olan ilişkilerinde değil, diğer erkeklerle
ve kendilerine göre "daha az" erkek olanlarla ilişkilerinde de hegemonik
bir tahakküm inşa ettiğini ve sürdürdüğünü göz önüne almak gerekiyor
belki. Bir tahakküm kurumu olarak erkekliğin ve erilliğin, bizatihi
kendisinin krizler ve şiddet üzerine kurulduğu, ancak kriz alanları ve
şiddet üreterek ayakta kalabildiğini, kendini dönüştürdüğünü, aç bir
canavar gibi hiç doymadığını ve daha fazla kriz ve daha fazla şiddet için
aşerdiğini de hesaba katmak gerekiyor. Erilliğin, daha bebek doğmadan
önce alınan mavi yatak takımları, süslü bebek başlıkları, dedesinin ismi
ile bebeği taçlandırma planları ile başladığını, sünnetle, oyuncaklarla,
kreşte asker elbisesi giydirilmiş müsamere kahramanlıkları ile, okulda,
sokakta, askerde, işyerinde, stadyumda ve yatakta her dakika sınandığını
hatırlamak gerekiyor. Yaşamın devamının erkek iktidarını sürdürmesine
bağlı olduğu, erkek olmanın milli bir vazife, dini bir emir, bir şeref ve
onur meselesi olduğu ve erkekliğine halel geleceğine ölmesinin (ve/veya
öldürmesinin) yeğ olduğu hatırlatılarak pekiştirildiğini akılda tutmak
gerekiyor.
Aslında bu mülahazalar, bugün ortaya çıkmış da değil. Bir
mücadele ve varoluş mücadelesi olarak feminizmin acı ve kan dolu tarihi,
erkeklik kurumuna, erilliğe ve patriarkiye karşı eleştirel bir tavır
geliştiren, erkekliği ve erilliğin mutlak iktidarını reddeden ve ona karşı
mücadele eden, kadın, erkek, LGBTİ ya da kendini her nasıl tanımlıyorsa
öyle olmak isteyen her bireyin kendini var etme ve var olma
mücadelesine destek verenlere örnek oldu. Türkiye dışında neredeyse
40 yıldır, Türkiye'de de 20 yıldan fazla süredir, kadın, erkek ve LGBTİ
bireyler, hep birlikte ve yan yana, erkeklik kurumunun dönüştürülebilir,
eril tahakkümün alaşağı edilebilir, erkek bedeninin ve kimliğinin yeniden
tanımlanabilir olduğuna dair "iyi niyetli" bir umudu içlerinde taşıdılar ve
bunun için mücadele ettiler. Elbette feminist mücadelenin kuramsal ve
pratik birikiminin yanında, feminizmi ve toplumsal cinsiyet kimlikleri
bağlamında eşitlik isteyen ve ayrımcılık karşıtı mücadeleyi desteklediği,
zenginleştirdiği ve yeni çözümler sunduğu da yadsınamaz. Erkekler, aynı
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kadınlar ve LGBTİ'ler gibi, kendilerine öğretilen erkeklik rollerini
tartışmak, eril tahakkümün içselleştirilmiş kodlarını çözmek ve "başka
bir erkekliğin" mümkün olduğunu önce kendilerine göstermek
zorundalar ve bunun için de büyük ölçüde feministlerin açtığı yoldan ve
deneyimlerinden faydalanmaya ihtiyaçları var.
Ama beri yandan da, her kimlik yapısının öncelikle söylemsel
düzlemde var olduğunu da akılda tutarak, bu söylemsel yapıyı alt edecek
pratikleri de hayata geçirmek durumundalar. Bu sebeple, ne yapılacaksa
bir an önce yapılmalı ve sonuna kadar sürdürülmeli ki, erilliğin görünür
görünmez
tüm
hallerinden
arınılabilsin,
iktidarın
kendisi
ile
hesaplaşılabilsin ve patriarkinin Babil kuleleri tekrar yükselmemecesine
yerle bir edilebilsin. Peki ne yapmalı? Erkeklere, erilliğe, ataerkiye dair
ne yapmalı ki artık erkekliğin kitabı hiç yazılmasın? Bunu söylemek, hele
bugünlerde, hiç uygun olmayacak ama öncelikle sabırlı olmak gerekiyor.
Erkekliğin iktidarı bir günde kurulmadı, bir yasa ile bir günde
değişmesini ummak, toplumsal yapının, dinin, militarizmin, kapitalizmin
kurucu öğesini bir günde ortadan kaldırmak, içimize yerleşmiş
hükmetme, sömürme ve yok etme arzusunu bir günde yok saymak
gerçekçi bir hedef değil. Ama bu patriarkinin tahakkümünün hiç alt
edilemeyeceği anlamına da gelmiyor; sadece uzun süreceğini ve aynı
yolları tekrar tekrar kat etmek gerekeceğini bilmek gerekiyor.
Erilliğin yapısökümü, her erkeğin, kadının ve LGBTİ’nin kendi
içindeki iktidar ile hesaplaşması ile başlayabilir ancak. Her toplumsal
grubun kendi iktidarını ve kendi şiddetini ürettiğini ve bu iktidar ve
şiddetin ancak erillik ile ilişkilenerek var olabileceğini ve önce her türlü
iktidardan ve iktidarı ayakta tutan sembolik ve fiziksel şiddetten bir
adım uzaklaşarak mümkün olabileceğini düşünerek başlayabilir. Eriliğin
bir kurum olarak eleştirisi, önce dil ile savaşmamızı, uzlaşmamızı ve dili
yeniden kurmamızı zorunlu kılar (feministler de böyle başlamamış
mıydı, bir kadın dili ve bir kadın eleştirisi (gynocriticism) kurmak kadına
ait bir kültürel alanı, ve böylelikle de bir ideolojik mücadele alanını
belirlemenin ön koşulu değil miydi?). Sadece bayan demek yerine kadın
demekle de çözülebilecek basit bir mesele değil bu, belki bir adım ama
orada bitmiyor. Misojiniyi hayata bakışının temeline yerleştirmiş ve
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yaratılış zırhı ile sorgulanamaz kılmışlar bir yana, kendini solda
tanımlayan ve modernliğin öncüsü olduğunu ileri süren bir parti her
hafta uzun rakibini “delikanlı olmaya” “mert olmaya”
davet etmese
mesela, bu bir başlangıç olabilir. Seçim sürecinde, “er meydanına”
çıktığında, rakibini eleştirip “Ey vatandaş evine ekmek götürecek parayı
bulabil diye, karının karşısında boynu bükük kalma diye bize oy
ver” nidalarıyla oy isterken, muhatabının erkek olduğu öncülüyle
hareket etmediği bir siyasi söylem başlangıç olabilir. Tarihi, kişisel ve
kolektif
tarihimizi
kurgularken,
kahramanlardan,
şehitlerden
ve
kutsallaştırmanın dilinden uzak durabilsek, bu bir başlangıç olabilir.
Hadım ve idam gibi cezaların, bir dereceye kadar, fallus merkezli kültürü
yeniden
üretebileceğini
de
düşünmek
bir
başlangıç
olabilir.
Okulda,sokakta ve evde erkek olmayı yücelten ve “erkek olmamayı” bir
ayıp, yenilgi ve eksiklik sayan her türlü söylemle azimli ve kararlı bir
mücadele için ufak da olsa bir adım atmak, bir başlangıç olabilir.
Ancak sadece söylemsel düzlemde üretilecek bir muhalefet
burjuva vicdanlarını rahatlatacak politik doğruculuktan başka bir şey
üretmeyecektir. Sürekli ve yaygın bir pratikle beslenmeyen her talep, bir
süre sonra çözümsüzlüğün kendisine dönüşür; tepkisellikle ve şiddet ile
sınırlı her çözüm önerisi kaçınılmaz olarak hayalkırıklığı ve öğrenilmiş
çaresizlikle sonlanır. Bu sebeple, her ne kadar “beyhude” ve “önemsiz”
görünse de, her çaba çok değerli ve önemli. 1970’li yıllardan başlayarak
profeminist erkekler ve erkeklik ve erillik ile sorunu olanlar birlikte
yanyana mücadele ediyorlar. Menengage ve White Ribbon gibi
oluşumlar, dünyanın dört bir yanında
sabırlı ve alçakgönüllü
çalışmalarının karşılığını alıyorlar. Türkiye’de Erkek Muhabbeti, Biz
Erkek Değiliz ve Ataerkiye Karşı Erkekler gibi cesur ama yalnız
hareketler, düzenledikleri atölyelerle, eylemlerle ve bilinçlendirme ve
farkındalık yaratmayı amaçlayan metinler ile ulaşabildikleri her yerde,
erkeğin iktidarı ve şiddeti ile hesaplaşmasına öncülük ediyorlar.
Çoğunluğunu farklı disiplinlerden bir grup akademisyenin ve aktivistin
oluşturduğu Eleştirel Erkeklik İncelemeleri İnisiyatifi, ulusal ve
uluslararası toplantılar düzenliyor, bir akademik dergi yayınlıyor ve
geçmişi neredeyse 20 yılı bulan tekil çalışmaları bir araya toplamak ve
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yaygınlaştırmak için çaba gösteriyor. Bu bağlamda, nasıl sınıf mücadelesi
sadece işçilerin, ırkçılığa karşı mücadele sadece siyahların, etnik
ayrımcılığa karşı mücadele sadece azınlık mensuplarının meselesi
değilse ve olamazsa, toplumsal cinsiyet temelli eşitsizlik, ayrımcılık ve
şiddetin de, sadece kadınların meselesi değildir. Bu çabaların
sürdürülmesi ve sonuçlarının kalıcı olabilmesi için, patriarkiye karşı
mücadelede kadın, erkek ve LGBTİ her bireyin üzerine düşen
sorumluluğu yerine getirmesi ve birbirine destek olması gerektiğini
düşünüyoruz.
Biz, Eleştirel Erkeklik İncelemeleri İnisiyatifi üyeleri olarak eril
ideolojinin görünen ve görünmeyen halleri ile olan mücadelemizde
kadın, erkek ve LGBTİ dostlarımızın da desteğiyle ilerlemeye,
dönüştürmeye ve mücadele etmeye devam edeceğiz. Eril şiddetin
mağdurlarını unutarak değil aklımızda ve içimizde taşıyarak yeni
mağdurların yaratılmaması için Omelas’ı, barış ve eşitlik umudu ile
kurduğumuz cennetlerimizi, terk etmeyeceğiz.
Çimen Günay-Erkol, Selin Akyüz, Murat Göç
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ARTICLES
Coming Out as Heterosexual: The Evangelical
Subversion of 1990s Identity Politics and the
Contemporary Quest for the Real Man
Tamas Nagypal
York University
Abstract:
This paper argues that the sexual discourses of contemporary
Evangelicals in the US represent a move beyond the liberal
democratic politics struggling for equal rights for different sexual
identity groups. By openly standing by a heteronormative and
male dominated form of social organization, Evangelicals aim to
overthrow the current symbolic order based on a hidden
heterosexual bias. I describe this move as the psychotic coming
out as heterosexual, organized around the idea of a new man, the
impossible norm of a real masculinity defined negatively which
can be seen as a return to the Freudian primal father. I suggest
that this new male figure escapes the logic of the FoucauldianButlerian understanding of power by standing in the short circuit
of its functioning, thus getting a hold of a sinister agency beyond
identity politics.
Key words: Evangelical Christianity, queer theory, liberal
democracy, real man, psychoanalysis, sexuality
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Heteroseksüelliğin İlanı: 1990’lar Kimlik Politikaları
Tartışmalarının Evanjelikler Tarafından Tahribi ve
Günümüzde Gerçek Erkek Arayışları
Tamas Nagypal
York Üniversitesi
Özet:
Bu
makale,
ABD’de
günümüz
Evanjeliklerinde
cinsellik
söylemlerinin, farklı cinsel kimlik gruplarının eşit haklar
mücadelesini yürüten liberal demokratik politikaların bir adım
sonrasına
geçtiği
savını
tartışmaktadır. Apaçık bir
şekilde
heteronormative ve erkek egemen bir toplumsal örgütlenme
örneği olan Evanjelikler üstü örtük heteroseksüel tarafgirliği
üzerine kurulmuş bir sembolik düzeni alt etmeyi amaçlamaktadır.
Bu değişimi, Freudyen atababa imgesine bir dönüş olarak
görülebilecek ve olumsuz bir anlamda tanımlanmış bir gerçek
erilliğin imkansız bir normu olarak yeni erkek fikri etrafında inşa
edilmiş psikotik bir heteroseksüellik ifşası olarak tanımlıyorum.
Bu yeni erkek figürünün Foucauldcu ve Butlercı iktidar anlayışı
çerçevesinden çıktığını ve işlevselliğinin sınırlı dairesinde kalarak,
bir kimlik politikası oluşturmanın ötesinde, netameli bir aracılığı
yerine getirdiğini öne sürüyorum.
Anahtar kelimeler: Evanjelik Hıristiyanlık, kuir kuramı, liberal
demokrasi, gerçek erkek, psikoanaliz, cinsellik
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Introduction
W
hen American liberals think of Evangelicals and sex, they
usually think of repression. They should think again, Dagmar
Herzog suggests in her 2008 book Sex in Crisis where she
identifies a surprising shift in the American Christian Right’s discourses
on sex, a turn away from prohibition towards what she calls “Christian
pornography”, the flaunting of the transgressive and even downright
obscene aspects of one’s heterosexuality. In this paper, while agreeing
with Herzog’s description of this move, I present it from a different,
psychoanalytic perspective. I revisit pre-9/11 queer theory’s critique of
the heteronormative bias in liberal identity politics suggesting that
something may have been lost in its contemporary, ostensibly more
radical version that focuses on the attack of homonormativity and the
repressiveness of the social symbolic order as such (Puar; Edelman). My
emphasis is on the way in which Evangelicals, just like radical queers,
also undermine today’s liberal democratic consensus that officially
provides sexual equality for all; they do this not by secretly enjoying its
latent heteronormative bias but by bringing it out to the open so that it
actually threatens the functioning of the reigning symbolic order already
bent in their favor. I call this procedure heterosexual coming out which I
examine in its fundamental asymmetry to similar performances
involving sexual minorities which, I claim, still rely on universal symbolic
institutions smoothly functioning in the background. Using Judith
Butler’s critique of gender identity as a starting point, I develop the
concept of the heterosexual coming out as the blind spot of Butler’s and
Ernesto Laclau’s politics of non-identity, arguing that such Evangelical
performances are ultimately non-identitarian themselves as they are
situated beyond universals, beyond the symbolic order, trying to
resurrect the Freudian father of the primal horde in a new postidentitarian figure of the real man. I draw on Slavoj Žižek’s
psychoanalytic theory of the inherent transgression to understand the
challenge they pose both to liberal identity politics and to a ButlerianLaclauian critique of it. As the illustration of heteronormative coming
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outs I present a series of rituals from different places of the
contemporary American Evangelical Christian right that are connected
not by a coherent ideology but by a common media strategy of attacking
the traditional Oedipal father’s authority for being ineffective in the late
capitalist society of the spectacle.
From Homosexual Coming Out to the Politics of Non-identity
W
hen liberals think of a “coming out”, they usually think of it as
a procedure concerning homosexuals. Furthermore, the idea
of some kind of isolated space, that of the closet is evoked
where the person can come out from to the light of the public arena
supposedly shared by all of us. Through this process, the liberal fable
tells us, even those who don’t share the sexual orientation of the
majority can become fully fledged members of society by representing
themselves, since, after all, we are all different and for that reason we all
need to show to others who we really are to get recognized. It is the blind
optimism of this doxa that Judith Butler already criticized in her
Imitation and Gender Insubordination when she warned about the
possible traps of gay and lesbian coming outs and their assumption of a
fixed identity. She showed how every assertion of “this is what I am”,
every disclosure of the “I” can work only through a radical exclusion, by
concealing and repressing something through which process the “I” can
gain clear boundaries. Coming out, she argued, in fact reproduces the
closet as it relies on the space of being “in” that supports the triumphant
being “out” (16).
This, of course, is an argument about the impossibility of fully
assuming any identity. What makes the case of gay and lesbian coming
outs more complicated, however, is the fact that homosexuality as an
identity category has a history in modern liberal democracies of
designating the unnatural opposite of the heterosexual norm. Or, as
Butler put it in Bodies That Matter, heterosexual gender identity is
formed through the disavowal of the same sex desire (235). For this
reason, a gay or lesbian coming out involves the avowal of a prior
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disavowal, leaving intact the ideological framework that designates gay
or lesbian merely as a bad copy of its original: heteronormativity
(“Imitation” 17). Someone with a gay or lesbian identity constituted this
way will count only as a secondary citizen in the supposedly equal public
space. Butler’s argument is also a good illustration of what in Ernesto
Laclau’s terms can be called the double inscription of heterosexuality
operating in the symbolic space of liberal democracy. It works both as a
hegemonic universal (based on the exclusion of other sexualities) and as
one of the particular identities in a series of apparent equivalences
defined against this universal background. Crucially, it works as the
norm, as the hidden background creating the illusion of equality between
different sexualities only insofar as it remains hidden in its normative
function. What remains invisible is how the contingent element of
heterosexual identity effectively posits itself as the necessary guarantee
of the very field that accepts multiple sexualities. Today’s sexually
tolerant yet fundamentally heteronormative liberal democratic space is
therefore only the latest manifestation of what Laclau calls universality
based on the logic of incarnation where a particular element directly
stands in for the universal. Such an idea goes back to the European
universalism of the 19th century, where, he argues, “there was no way to
distinguish between European particularism and the universal functions
it was supposed to incarnate, given that European universalism had
constructed its identity through the cancellation of the logic of
incarnation and, as a result, of the universalization of its own
particularism.” (Laclau 86).
For this reason, Butler, instead of the coming out, proposed the
deconstruction
of
the
hidden
binary
operating
within
the
heteronormative universal. She argued that rather than silently
accepting that homosexuality is just a copy, the task is to demonstrate
how the seemingly original heterosexuality is already an imitation. What
heterosexuals imitate, she claimed, is “a phantasmatic ideal of a
heterosexual identity, one that is produced by the imitation as its effect”
(“Imitation” 21). Since the construction of a fixed identity that would
fully reach this ideal (a complete overlap between universal and
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particular) always fails, the attempt has to be repeated again and again
through a performance that, while sustaining the ideal, also exposes its
vulnerability. On the positive side, it is precisely because “[all] gender is
a kind of imitation for which there is no original” (“Imitation” 21) that a
different kind of community is possible, one based on the universal nonidentity of its subjects. Or to use again Laclau’s formulation: “[this]
universal is part of my identity insofar as I am penetrated by a
constitutive lack—that is, insofar as my differential identity has failed in
its process of constitution. The universal emerges out of the particular
not as some principle underlying and explaining it, but as an incomplete
horizon suturing a dislocated particular identity.” (89). This doesn’t
mean, however, that Laclau and Butler’s version of democracy would
work without exclusions. For them, there is neither a subject, nor a social
field without a set of exclusions already at work; without them, Butler
argues, we would get an unlivable fullness of psychosis, a language
without effective universals. Real equality always remains an
unreachable ideal in this model. What we can do is to prevent any
particular to fix the meaning of the universal, to become naturalized; we
can make sure “that the hegemonic configuration is always open to
contestation and change” (Butler, Laclau, and Žižek 5-9).
To summarize, Butler argued against homosexual coming out
because for her it remains stuck within the identity politics that sustains
the liberal democratic political system which she sees “as an attempt to
fix the meaning of equality within definite parameters”, among them the
identity of heterosexuality (Butler, Laclau, and Žižek 8). Her underlying
assumption was that the original sin of politics as well as its worst
possible degeneration is to yield to the temptation of a fixed identity,
that is, the naturalization of a particular as the universal norm. She
reproached both heterosexual and homosexual identity politics for the
same reason, for leaving the hidden normative universal untouched in
the
background.
What
about,
however,
heterosexual
gender
performances that do not rely on such a hidden naturalization of a
universal; ones that posit themselves neither for, nor against, but beyond
the symbolic ideal of heterosexuality which they believe to be
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ineffective? What about heterosexual performances that are so
distrustful of the symbolic efficiency of heteronormative institutions that
they rather take matters into their own hands and, paradoxically, defend
their particular heterosexuality even against the symbolic order that is
biased in their favor? I will refer to these cases as heterosexual coming
outs, which, I claim, remain in the blind spots of Butler’s theory, as well
as of contemporary queer theory that focuses on the critique of
homonormativity.
Coming Out As Heterosexual as a Challenge to the Politics
of Non-Identity
W
here, then, should we locate heterosexual coming outs? In
their Deconstructing Heterosexuality, Celia Kitzinger and Sue
Wilkinson aimed to do this by pointing at a fundamental
asymmetry between lesbian and heterosexual feminists in terms of their
sexual identity. While lesbian feminists usually proudly embrace their
lesbian identity, their heterosexual colleagues, they suggested, tend to
deny that their sexual orientation has anything to do with their feminist
politics. They prefer to think of their sexuality as fluid, one that is open to
possible same-sex relationships even if they have lived all their life as
heterosexuals. The authors criticized this attitude by arguing that such a
“lack of reflexiveness is the privilege of power” (Kitzinger and Wilkinson
149). They found putting lesbian and heterosexual feminists into a single
category problematic since the latter could neutralize the struggle of the
homosexuals claiming their oppressed identity. Therefore, they
suggested, to regain this political potential, heterosexual feminists
should distinguish themselves by “coming out” themselves. The problem
is that the authors didn’t really deal with any actual ritual of coming out
as heterosexual that would be comparable to its homosexual version
described by Butler; instead they only used the term metaphorically.
Their primary example was that of “brave” heterosexual feminists who
are decent enough to admit they are privileged (150). One can hardly call
this coming out as it is performed more out of guilt than pride. The other
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example involved a feminine man who in all his life was considered gay
until he decided to come out of the closet to himself, that is, not in public
(145). Thus the question remains: are there analogous practices to the
homosexual coming out of the closet among heterosexuals, ones that
involve a comparable dimension of pride performed in public? And if so,
how does their politics relate to that of their homosexual counterparts?
To delineate what I understand by coming out as heterosexual, I
turn to Slavoj Žižek’s critique of Butler’s theory of the heteronormative
universal created through the disavowal of homosexuality. According to
Žižek,
what
universality
underprivileged
excludes
Other
is
whose
not
primarily
status
is
the
reduced,
constrained, and so on, but its own permanent founding
gesture – a set of unwritten, unacknowledged practices
which, while publicly disavowed, are nonetheless the
ultimate support of the existing power edifice. The public
power edifice is haunted also by its own disavowed
particular obscene underside, by the particular practices
which break its own public rule – in short, by its ‘inherent
transgression’. (Butler, Laclau, and Žižek 217).
What Žižek draws attention to is that, paradoxically, a hegemonic
universal doesn’t simply exclude its competing particularities trying to
elevate themselves to the place of universality but also itself as
particular. In psychoanalytic terms we are dealing here with the gap
between official symbolic (written) law and its supporting superego
double of unwritten rituals, such as obscene misogynistic army chants,
or the practice of married man visiting brothels where the
heteronormative public law is suspended and transgressed precisely
through an excessive performance of heterosexuality. According to Žižek,
such a gap is necessary for any symbolic order to function, which means
that besides the subject’s attempt to construct her symbolic identity by
accepting the normative interpellation we can also talk about the
ideological practice of imaginary disidentification, involving the subject’s
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false illusion that she has escaped, tricked the call of the law that aimed
to capture, identify her (Butler, Laclau, and Žižek 103).
The question then becomes whether it is possible to avow this
disavowal, to come out being proud of the very obscene rituals that the
authority of the social doesn’t allow us to express openly, while relying
on them working in the background? It seems impossible as long as we
move within the framework of the symbolic order in the Lacanian sense
which is built on the structural necessity of such a gap between real and
symbolic, a gap which is established upon a human being’s entry into the
common language, by giving up an imagined fullness of real enjoyment
through the process of Oedipalization, or as Lacan puts it, symbolic
castration (Lacan 575-585). In such a traditional social order, the public
presentation of disavowed obscene practices of enjoyment can break the
smooth functioning of the symbolic, making power—imagined as the
manifestation of the Oedipal father—embarrassed, so to speak. This is
how one can explain the initial effectivity of a movement like Queer
Nation in the early 90s. Their slogans such as “I praise God with my
erection” (qtd. in Berlant and Freeman 205) could be subversive
precisely because they touched upon the obscene rituals within
heteronormative religious practices, or, to put it bluntly, they exposed
the fact that Christians themselves already had been praising God with
their erections (as in the well-known cases of institutionally constructed
pedophilia in the Catholic Church) which made their calling
homosexuality obscene hypocritical. Such a critical procedure is very
much in line with the Laclauian-Butlerian politics of non-identity; it
reveals the disavowed particular dimension that supports the universal
claims of the ruling symbolic while proposing a different, more
constructivist relation to the very same universality. However, as
Dagmar Herzog suggests looking at contemporary American Evangelical
discourses on sex, during the last couple of decades another form of
power has been emerging that seems to be immune to such shaming
attempts as it situates itself beyond the traditional symbolic order.
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Evangelical Sex: Towards the Real Man
C
ontrary to the common belief of liberals, one cannot really say
that Evangelicals are anti-sex, at least not since the mid-70s,
Herzog points out by citing from sexual instruction manuals of the
era. Sex for the Evangelical Christian Right, of course, is to be confined
within the boundaries of heterosexual marriage, that is, homosexuality,
premarital sex or abortion is to be categorically eliminated. On the other
hand, when it comes to the married couple, sex can be pleasurable,
passionate, and orgasmic as it is all in harmony with God’s great plan.
Accordingly, religious handbooks of the 70s and 80s develop a language
that Herzog calls Christian pornography, full of explicit descriptions of
vaginal juices and fingering techniques. Even so, what is important to
note is that up until about 15-20 years ago, the underlying assumption of
this ideology was that “evangelical men naturally cherish their wives”
(Herzog 31).
According to Herzog, in the late 90s Evangelical sexual discourses
turn increasingly paranoid about the inner and outer enemy
endangering their carefully planned out design for godly sex. To battle
sexual temptation, they launch a full blown attack on masturbation and
fantasy, as they are now identified as the main causes that destroy
marriages by breaking the organic emotional bond that connects the
couple and substituting an intrusive, artificial prosthesis for it (Herzog
34). This way heterosexual married sex is not simply offered as a joyous
practice like in the 70s and 80s. It is now emerging as the only real sex
one can have in a world where sex is in a state of crisis, where its true
value is in danger. The historical context is important here; Herzog
identifies two phenomena in the late 90s the fear of which can lead to
such conclusion: internet porn and the invention of Viagra, both radically
dehumanizing our understanding of sexuality. First, the physical act itself
is perceived more and more in purely mechanical terms: Viagra
disassociates sexual arousal for men from any relationship to their
partner. Second, the wide availability of pornographic images promotes
masturbation from a shameful and repressed act into a commonly
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acknowledged practice, threatening to overdetermine the whole field of
sexuality. As a conservative observer notes, “a husband who uses porn is
‘masturbating inside [his wife’s] body while he is having sex with the
women on the screen”’ (Dr. Mary Ann Layden qtd. in Herzog 21). This
way the site of eroticism becomes more and more openly the domain of
fantasy, while the actual other person in the relationship is reduced to a
stage prop. From a Lacanian perspective, this move only reveals
something about human sexuality that has always been part of it. As
Žižek puts it, the sexual act is “a kind of ‘masturbation with a real
(instead of only imagined) partner’ […] The whole point of Lacan's
insistence on the ‘impossibility of sexual relationship’ is that this,
precisely, is what the ‘actual’ sexual act is; man's partner is never a
woman in the real kernel of her being, but woman qua a, reduced to the
fantasy-object” (Tarrying 42).
For Žižek, the crucial distinction lies here between imaginary
reality and symbolic fiction. While the former involves an attempted
closure, presenting a full image, the latter’s proper function is to remain
open, to always maintain a minimal distance towards reality. For
instance, heterosexual marriage works as a symbolic institution
precisely and only as long as it remains open what kind of imaginary
fantasy fills out the void of the symbolic, what husbands fantasize about
when they make love to their wives or the other way round. Through this
inherent void, gap, the symbolic evokes the dimension of the real, what
resists symbolization, the never attainable object-cause of desire that
Lacan calls objet a, which in this case is embodied by the fantasmatic
partner. Precisely because every imaginary representation is lacking in
some way, never fully being it, that it is possible to have multiple
fantasies supporting the institution of marriage. Even if its hegemonic
universal is heteronormative, monogamous etc., in the spirit of liberal
democracy when a man has sex with his wife, he can fantasize about
whoever he wants to, let it be man or woman, human or animal, adult or
a child, the symbolic functioning of the institution will be upheld. That is,
until we keep a distance between symbolic and imaginary, fiction and
reality (Metastases 76). By contrast, for the Evangelical Right, the
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opening up of this gap signals a crisis of the sexual relationship which
has to be countered through evoking the specter of real sex in which a
husband has intercourse as well as sex with his wife (she is the one who
he is supposed to fantasize about during sex).
This means that Evangelicals want to avow precisely those
primordially
repressed
obscene
practices,
hidden
heterosexual
particularities that support the heteronormative universals of their
institutions only insofar as they remain hidden. For this reason, their
coming out, their attempt to create the explicit rules for heterosexual sex
that could help married couples fantasize during intercourse is itself
symptomatic of what Žižek calls the contemporary crisis of symbolic
efficiency (Ticklish Subject 322-334), the lack of effectivity of and belief
in symbolic institutions (such as marriage, family, nation, etc.). This
paranoid regulation of fantasy “saturates the void that keeps open the
space for symbolic fiction,” makes objet a fall into reality by fixing it to a
particular object, and as a consequence our symbolic universe becomes
“de-realized”, ineffective. The psychoanalytic name for such a state is
psychosis, in which the subject makes desperate attempts to “evict objet
a from reality by force and thus gain access to reality” once again
(Metastases 77). In less abstract terms this is what happens when the
war on fantasy is executed through confessional practices, aiming to
purify the subject from unwanted imaginary stains. Herzog, identifying
in a Foucauldian manner the productive aspects of apparently repressive
apparatuses of power, notes how the new Evangelicals obsessively admit
their attraction to the things they supposed to hate, using a tactics that
effectively makes them impervious to “the traditional liberal strategy of
muckraking exposé of conservative hypocrisy. For there’s nothing
anymore to expose. The sins have all long been confessed.” (Herzog 40).
For instance, she cites a case from Arterburn and Stoeker’s self-help
book Every Man’s Battle: Weapons for the War Against Sexual Temptation,
where a man recounts in lucid detail how he couldn’t help but
masturbate to the sight of his sister-in-law laying on her stomach in front
the TV with the lines of her panties and her upper thigh clearly visible.
The same technique is applied to the process of coming to terms with a
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sinful, (hetero)sexually promiscuous past, involving making a teenage
girlfriend pregnant then aborting the baby, having multiple sexual
partners simultaneously or having sex with prostitutes. There are more
bizarre cases as well, like a husband’s account of his extramarital affair
with a 15 year old girl where the bragging tone of the confession taps
into the realm of sexual taboos as opposed to simple moral prohibitions
(Herzog 34-40). I will return to the complications this latter poses in the
section on abstinence.
The crucial point not to miss here, as Herzog stresses, is that the
impossibly pure sex Evangelicals set out to reach in fact refers to the
sexual purity of the husband. This is why, she argues, the apparent
feminist streak of these religious sexual discourses should not deceive
us. True, God now allows married couples to explore the domains of oral
and even anal sex, to use sex toys, masturbate together, etc. It is even all
right for the woman to come first during intercourse (Herzog 43). But
next to this move towards the equality of sexes in bed, there is a
significant clause that colors its emancipatory potential a little darker:
the general advice for wives to be sexually available for their husbands
all the time. As Herzog shows with regards to the wife’s sexual duties
towards their husbands in these practices, her role is to prop up the
myth of men’s limitless sexual potential. According to this narrative it is
always men who want to have sex more and they have to have sex all the
time based on the “scientific fact” that their sperm has to be released at
least once in every seventy-two-hour cycle (Herzog 53). Thus, Herzog
concludes, the project Evangelicals are working on together is not the
new couple but the new man, the real man, a wild man, every woman’s
dream as well as God’s will. This is the point where the classical
Oedipalized heterosexual bourgeois masculinity is also left behind as
castrated, feminized and passive: Herzog shows, citing from Robert Bly’s
Iron John, that when the time comes, the Evangelicals’ real heterosexual
masculinity has to be saved also from itself, from its tamed, domesticated
image presented by the Church. The new, overpotent man wants to have
it all. God wants him to have it all (Herzog 50-57).
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It is easy to distinguish in this new male ideal the specter of the
Freudian myth of the non-castrated father, leader of the primal horde
who not only has all the women as his property but has the unlimited
sexual potential to have them all the time. According to Freud’s
narrative, this obscene figure had to be killed in order for civilization to
be born through the son’s access to their father’s women. The name of
the dead father then functions as the symbolic law in the hand of the
newly founded patriarchal brotherhood. One possible interpretation of
Evangelical discourses on sex is to see them as an attempt to resurrect
this primal father figure of real manhood as it existed before the
institution of symbolic authority to save heterosexuality at the moment
of a universal crisis of symbolic efficiency.
The Seed of the Primal Father: The Quiverfull Movement
A
nother realization of the new non-castrated father ideal among
Evangelicals is put forward in the Quiverfull movement which
dates back to the 80s and offers its new traditionalist message of
restoring the patriarchal family unit with a more overtly antifeminist
edge than sex manuals. The main organizing principle of the group is
their anti-contraception stance, but they present it as a positive program
to follow God’s will by having a limitless number of children. The
ideological fantasy supporting their goals places the families in the front
line of a war they are waging against “what they see as forty years of
destruction wrought by women’s liberation: contraception, women’s
careers, abortion, divorce, homosexuality and child abuse, in that order.”
(Joyce 12). That is to say, they are building an army for God in which, as
they put it, children are the arrows for the battle. Not surprisingly this
idea comes from a literal (“psychotic”) reading of a Biblical passage: “As
arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath a quiver full. They shall not be ashamed, but
they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.” (King James Version,
Psalm 127.3-5).
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Feminist critiques warn about women’s return to the “cult of
domesticity” as the main purpose of their lives becomes now to serve
their husband in producing children for the good cause (Dixon 39). This
means not just availability for sex at all times but the acceptance of
tenets like “my body is not my own”, as one of the founding texts of the
movement puts it. It is also important to see that most Quiverfull families
are working class. As The Nation’s Katryn Joyce notes, for these “poor
women, the feminist fight for job equality won no career path but rather
the pink collar labor as a housekeeper, a waitress, a clerk” (Joyce 11).
What they encountered was another one of the categories doubly
inscribed within the liberal democratic consensus, the fact that the
liberal notion of female equality privileges not only heterosexual but also
(white) middle class women. The Quiverfull movement thus can be seen
as an attempt to overcome this lack of privilege in the form of an
antifeminist backlash turned proactive by becoming more normative
than those bourgeois liberals ever dared to be. By evoking the ideal of
the overpotent primordial father, these Evangelicals ultimately uncover
the hidden heteronormative hierarchies of the liberal democratic
consensus, creating an affirmative relation to them, accepting them as
natural, as God’s will, thus exposing, although inadvertently, the
contradictions of the liberal ideology. This is why, much like those
Evangelicals confessing their impure fantasies in public, they can be seen
as performing a heterosexual coming out, avowing the disavowed
obscene dimension of the heteronormative liberal consensus. They are
like Queer Nation without the irony, that is, without the underlying
assumption that some symbolic institution (such as the nation) still
works in the background to get the joke.
Performing Abstinence for Daddy
A
long with Evangelicals’ discourses on marital sex and
reproduction, there is an obvious shift in their treatment of
abstinence as well in the late 90s. While abstinence pledges
among such religious youth were not uncommon during the 80s and the
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90s, they worked more along the lines of what Foucault called an
incitement to discourse (Foucault 17-36), that is, by preserving technical
virginity they opened up the way towards a non-penetrative eroticism
such as mutual masturbation or oral sex. By the new millennium,
however, the world purity started to take up a different, more literal
meaning, closing the gap between ideal and practice. In this shift, the
movement’s apparent gender neutral balance toppled, the focus on
young women became obvious. Much like the Quiverfull wives,
abstinence girls started to talk about their body not really belonging to
them (belonging instead to God, of course) as well as about the necessary
sacrifice they have to make for their future married sex life to be perfect
(Herzog 98). Combined with the conviction that God has already chosen
the ideal man for the young virgins, it is not hard to see the new
abstinence movement as a supplement of the new cult of real
masculinity.
To elucidate this even more, I will look at the so called purity balls,
a social ritual among Evangelicals popular since the late 90s.
Symptomatically, they even made a Glamour Magazine headline: “It’s like
a wedding but with a twist: Young women exchange rings, take vows and
enjoy a first dance… with their dads. ‘Purity balls’ are the next big thing
in the save-it-till-marriage movement. Smart or scary?” (Baumgardner).
On the one hand, to be a purity girl appears as only one among many
fashionable and commodified subcultural trends, as playful slogans on Tshirts and pieces of underwear suggest: “Abstinence Ave. Exit When
Married” or “No Trespassing On This Property. My Father Is Watching.”
(Glanton). On the other hand it’s hard to ignore the obscene references to
incest and underage sexuality so overtly present in these rituals. The
purity ball guidelines describe the participants as “just old enough… [to]
have begun menstruating” making a reference to the well-known folk
wisdom about a young girl’s readiness for reproductive sex which
directly contradicts the ideology of abstinence. Also, the girls are
supposed to wear sexy black dresses in which they look more like the
girlfriends of their fathers, who in turn are encouraged to tell their
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daughters how beautiful they are. Not to mention that the most popular
song the couples dance to is titled “I’ll Always Be Your Baby.” (Glanton)
This is not to say that purity balls consciously work to promote
father-daughter incest. But it is also not enough to write off the
phenomenon as just another instance of the Foucauldian productive side
of power where the performance of abstinence in front of the panoptic
gaze of paternal authority could open up pleasurable sites of resistance
elsewhere. This, no doubt, happens as well, however I would like to
emphasize that when Foucault talks about the “perpetual incitement to
incest in the bourgeois family” of the 19 th century, he stresses that this
was possible by eliminating actual incest widely spread especially among
lower classes. “On the one hand, the father was elevated into an object of
compulsory love, but on the other hand, if he was a loved one, he was at
the same time a fallen one in the eyes of the law.” (Foucault 130). In
psychoanalytic terms, incestuous desire can emerge only as a
supplement to the castrated father of the symbolic law, in whose eyes
the real, primordial father becomes a fallen one. When the gap that made
the symbolic possible is eliminated, incestuous fantasies collapse into
symbolic rituals, they create a new obscene spectacle of the law
organized around the enjoyment of the returning primal father, the new
man who comes out of his closet as excessively heterosexual.
Challenging the Symbolic Father: Letterman vs. Palin
T
o illustrate the antagonism between the traditional symbolic law
of repression and the returning primordial father of the late
capitalist spectacle who has nothing to hide, I will present an
analysis of the media feud that happened between David Letterman and
Sarah Palin in the summer of 2009. The conflict started when Letterman,
host of the popular late night talk show in the US, told a rather tasteless
joke about (the Evangelical Christian) Sarah Palin’s daughter on the June
10 episode of his program. Here is what he said: “Sarah Palin went to the
Yankee game yesterday. There was one awkward moment during the
seventh inning stretch: her daughter was knocked up by Alex
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Rodriguez.” (MangoVisionHD). As it’s well known, Sarah Palin’s 17 year
old daughter did in fact get pregnant the year before, which was an event
that created a controversy of its own thanks to Palin’s abstinence only
sex education campaign and the way Bristol helped in its promotion by
serving as the bad example. As for Letterman’s joke, complications
started to appear when it became public that it was in fact not the (at the
time already) 18 year old Bristol but Sarah Palin’s other daughter, the 14
year old Willow who attended the game with her mother. Palin issued a
statement, accusing Letterman of joking about the statutory rape of
minors and how with this kind of talk he contributes to the sexual
exploitation of underage girls by older men, an outrage that happens in
an “atrociously high rate” in America (MangoVisionHD).
The fact that these accusations apparently made David Letterman
very uncomfortable is a sign that he, at the time, occupied the place of
symbolic authority the smooth functioning of which needs the disavowal
not only of rape and sexual abuse but the knowledge of underage
sexuality all together. The next day he spent 8 minutes trying to
discursively reestablish the boundary of acceptable sexual activity at the
age of 18, and as a “gentleman”, he also admitted the low quality of his
joke concerning Bristol Palin: “Am I guilty of poor taste? Yes. Did I
suggest that it was ok for her 14 year old daughter to be having
promiscuous sex? No.” (MangoVisionHD). It is crucial to distinguish on
the one hand Letterman’s liberal yet male chauvinist gender
performance involving a series of sexist jokes about Sarah Palin herself
that he had been telling since she entered the political arena (such as
describing her as a “slutty flight attendant” in the same June 10
monologue), and on the other this incident that actually broke the chain
of his performances by uncovering the disavowed underside of his
respectable persona that was there all along.
Palin didn’t accept Letterman’s answer, and came up with another
statement attacking him more directly as one of the nation’s dirty old
men abusing young girls. Responding to Letterman’s inviting her and
Willow to the show, she wrote: “The Palins have no intention of
providing a rating’s boost to Letterman’s show… Plus it would be wise to
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keep Willow away from David Letterman.” The paradox is that although
this was obviously a cheap political ploy on her part to exploit a situation
that happened by chance, she nonetheless was on the right track
subverting a male dominated symbolic normativity. She was, however,
on the right track for the wrong reasons. When she was asked to explain
the last part of her latest statement on the Today Show (“Do you suggest
that David Letterman can’t be trusted around your 14 year old girl?”),
she came up with a perplexing answer: “Maybe he couldn’t be trusted
because Willow’s had enough of these type of comments and maybe
Willow would want to uhh ‘react’ to him in a way that maybe would
catch him off guard” (Speakmymind02). After watching Letterman being
uncomfortable for 8 minutes by the mere thought of teenage sexuality,
one can imagine what kind of “reaction” Palin talks about that would
embarrass him even more. It might seem, again, that not counting her
insistence of calling her daughter’s showing of her sexuality a reaction,
Palin actually makes a valid feminist point by insisting on the agency of
her daughter. But it seems more plausible to read this Freudian slip as
Palin’s reproach to Letterman for not being man enough, unlike those
real men in Evangelical discourses, the ones who aren’t squeamish when
it comes to fucking teenage girls. This is the only way Palin’s accusations
make sense at the libidinal level, serving as a footnote to her dubious
political performances of self-objectification.1 Her act is subversive of
liberal morals and privileges, yes, but this subversion is in service of a
sexual counterrevolution aiming at the restoration of the Freudian
primal father.
As for Letterman, on Jun 18, he did the “right thing” that can be
expected from a male figure of traditional symbolic authority: he
apologized to the Palins by taking full responsibility for the public
perception of his joke regardless of his original intentions (Sarah Palin
For President 2012). In psychoanalytic terms, this move is called
See for example her complaints about a “sexist” Newsweek cover featuring her
in a fitness costume. Much like in the case of her daughter, her renunciation of
sexism turns into its opposite, sending one of her well known obscene winks to
the audience (BangTheNews).
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identification with the symptom; with the return of the repressed
enjoyment of his respectable gender performance materialized in an
obscene joke the effects of which he had no control over. It is crucial to
see that through this act, the “normal” order of things was (at least
temporarily) restored, the disavowed content got excluded again, that is,
Palin and her daughters could go back to where they belong in a
patriarchal symbolic order: to the private sphere of their family. It would
be too much of a speculation to say that Palin resigning from the
governorship for no apparent reason a couple of weeks later had
anything to do with the Letterman-affair, but as the subsequent Late
Show jokes suggest, the connection was made at least in fantasy
(ANTI_S_COOP). It is worth mentioning here that Letterman and the
symbolic order’s victory over Palin was a pyrrhic one. A few months
later he was unambigously exposed as an obscene father figure when his
sexual affairs with a series of much younger interns were revealed,
showing all too clearly that his old fashioned liberal morals and his
insistence on the separation of private and public are outdated in the
contemporary society of the spectacle where, as Guy Debord once put it,
“that which appears is good, that which is good appears” (12).
This means that while a Butlerian critique of phallic gender
identification is very effective against David Letterman performing the
role of Oedipal authority, Sarah Palin’s lack of concern for a coherent
identity and symbolic dignity needs a different set of critical apparatus,
one that differentiates her gender performance from the non-identity
Butler or Laclau talks about. It can be understood as serving the postsymbolic ideal of the “real man” which is not an identity that the subject
tries to reach through its imitation but a performance that renounces,
negates all existing, “castrated” forms of masculinity. It is such an ideal
that appears in discourses of the Evangelical Christian Right, the ideal of
the Freudian primordial father who has all the women and has unlimited
sexual potential. Thus while technically siding with Butler’s project of
the subversion of normative gender identities, Palin’s activities point
towards a much more sinister form of male domination.
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Curing Homosexuality by Coming Out as Heterosexual
B
efore concluding, let’s go back to the initial question about the
relation between homosexual and heterosexual coming outs.
How did the shift in Evangelical discourses on sex towards
practices of coming out in the late 90s change their relation to
homosexuality? Can the Christian Right’s attacks on homosexuals be
interpreted along the lines of their spectacular renunciation of
heterosexual transgressions mentioned in the previous sections?
According to Herzog, until the mid-90s, dominant conservative
discourses in the US treated homosexuality as the unnatural binary
opposite of the heterosexual norm. Based on this perception, anti-gay
activism did everything to associate homosexuals with sex criminals,
child molesters, and perverts. The stake was the mobilization of the
Christian Right around a pro-family, anti-gay agenda, as Pat Buchanan’s
1992 campaign slogan “Family Rights Forever/Gay Rights Never”
proclaimed (qtd. in Herzog 62). In Judith Butler’s terms, homosexuals
were treated here as abjects, foreign bodies of otherness that had to be
expulsed from the social like excrement from the human body so that
normalized subjects could reach their discrete boundaries (Gender
Trouble 169).
This relation changes in the mid-90s when as new strategy the
Evangelical Religious Right starts to emphasize the curability of the
homosexual condition. Gays and lesbians now are not criminals anymore
but victims—usually of some kind of abuse—and most crucially, as
Herzog points out, they are “insecure heterosexual wannabes”. This way
Evangelical ideology places them alongside other never pure enough
heterosexuals, offering them the psychotic identification with the
heterosexual abject to reach “gender wholeness” (Herzog 80), that is, the
possibility of coming out as heterosexual. In this light, the ritual of
coming out itself has to be reevaluated as the practices of Evangelicals
lay bare the deadlocks of liberal identity politics. Perhaps one could say
that because of this, contrary to the claims of contemporary queer critics
if homonormativity (Puar; Edelman), coming out as homosexual (or as a
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member of any other sexual minority) gains an additional importance.
What if the true political significance of these acts lies not in the avowal
of particular minority identities formerly excluded from the reigning
heteronormative site of universality? What if homosexual coming outs
instead involve a truly radical disidentification, a withdrawal not so
much from public, purely formal texture of the symbolic order as Butler’s
queer politics would like to have it (Bodies that Matter 4) but from the
very
obscene
rituals
supporting
it,
effectively
coloring
it
heteronormative. For this reason, coming out in a progressive sense is a
disidentification from a disidentification, the negation of a negation. This
framework also sheds a new light on the question of the closet. The
problem with being in the closet is the false conviction that it’s the best
defense against the oppressive public space out there biased against
homosexuals and other minorities. By contrast, as I have suggested,
heterosexual coming outs are oppressive in a different way, effectively
eliminating such an idea of the public in favor of private enjoyment that
saturates the former field of universality. In this sense Evangelicals share
the distrust of closeted gays and lesbians about symbolic institutions; the
difference is that unlike minorities, they can thrive even more effectively
in a post-symbolic space.
Conclusion
I
n sum, my thesis is that the sexual discourses of contemporary
Evangelicals in the US represent a move beyond the liberal
democratic politics struggling for equal rights for different sexual
identity groups. By openly supporting a heteronormative and male
dominated form of social organization, Evangelicals aim to overthrow
the current symbolic order based on a hidden heterosexual bias. I
described this move as the psychotic coming out as heterosexual,
organized around the idea of a new man, the impossible norm of a real
masculinity defined negatively which can be seen as a return to the
Freudian primal father. I suggested that this new male figure escapes the
logic of the Laclauian-Butlerian understanding of power by standing in
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the short circuit of its functioning, thus getting a hold of a sinister agency
beyond identity politics without being radically democratic. This also
means that the strategic shift of queer theory after 9/11 away from the
Butler’s Laclauean reformist politics of non-identity (or ironic identity
politics) towards a more radical anti-state anarchism may end up
fighting the wrong enemy. While American liberal democracy with its
hidden heterosexist bias was certainly the obstacle for queer politics in
the 90s, today we have a new form of anti-liberal (and ultimately antistate libertarian) heteronormative power apparatus emerging against
which queers may have to mobilize the universal symbolic framework
still present in the remainders of the liberal state, rather than throwing it
out with the bathwater of normativity.
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The Othered Black Male: Images of Masculinity in
African American Lesbian Erotic Fiction
Gloria Gadsden
New Mexico Highlands University
Abstract :
Constructions, reconstructions and deconstructions of
African American males abound. In particular, discussions
pertaining
to
their
hyper-sexuality,
unemployment,
criminal inclinations and proclivity for violence have been
discussed at great length. Additionally, researchers have
explored ways in which African American men have
contributed to notions of black womanhood in America.
From the mammy to the jezebel, black men have had a
voice regarding the images and roles of black women.
Missing are considerations addressing African American
women’s attempts to define, or redefine, their male
counterparts.
This paper explores notions of black
masculinity as constructed by one specific category of black
women, African American lesbian authors.
In their
contemporary, internet fiction, some traditional (and
stereotypical) images of black masculinity are embraced
while others are ignored.
Intersectionality, hegemonic
masculinity and other perspectives pertaining to gendered
socialization are considered in an attempt to explain these
constructions of black masculinity.
Key Words : African American masculinity, Erotic fiction,
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Ötekileştirilen Siyahi Erkek: Afro-Amerikan Lezbiyen
Erotik Kurgularda Erkeklik İmajı
Gloria Gadsden
New Mexico Highlands Üniversitesi
Özet :
Afro-Amerikan erkeğin inşası, yeniden inşası ve yapı
sökümüne dair argumanlar oldukça fazladır. Özellikle,
hiperseksüelite, işsizlik, suça ve şiddete yatkınlıklarına dair
tartışmalar uzun süredir devam etmektedir. Bununla
beraber,
araştırmacılar
Afro-Amerikan
erkeklerin
Amerika’da siyahi kadınlık kavramlarına katkı yaptığı
yolları araştırmaktalar.
Siyahi erkekler, anne imajından
kötü kadın imajına, siyahi kadınların rolleri ve imajlarına
dair söz sahibi olmuşlardır. Fakat burada eksik olan şey,
Afro-Amerikan kadınların erkek muadillerini tanımlama,
veya yeniden tanımlamasına yönelik düşüncelerdir. Bu
çalışma, siyahi kadınlığın bir kategorisi olan Afro-Amerikan
lezbiyen yazarların inşa ettiği siyahi erkeklik kavramını
araştırmaktadır.
Bu
yazarların
modern
dünyasında,
internet kurgularında, siyahi erkeklerin bazı geleneksel (ve
sterotipik)
imajları
ön
plana
çıkarılırken,
diğerleri
görmezden gelinmektedir. Bu çalışmada siyahi erkekliğin
farklı inşalarını anlamak amacıyla kesişimsellik, hegemonik
erkeklik ve cinsiyetlendirilmiş sosyalizasyona dair diğer
perspektifler ele alınmaktadır.
Anahtar Kelimeler: Afro-Amerikan erkeklik, erotik kurgu,
Afro-Amerikan kadınlık
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Introduction
“
If you show an image…enough to a group or person, then after a
while that group or person will
associate even implicit
representations of that image” (Jackson 54).
For this reason,
Holmberg suggests studying media representations is absolutely
essential because they potentially allow for a better understanding of
broader cultural and social forces. Scholars have spent an inordinate
amount of time examining how less powerful groups, based on race,
gender, class, and/or sexual orientation, are represented in media. More
specifically, studies abound about the harsh, abrasive ways in which
African American men are constructed, deconstructed and reconstructed
in popular culture.i Black men have been, and continue to be,
pathologized, portrayed as savages, predators, Uncle Toms, buffoons,
pimps, absent fathers and, for the most part, hypermasculine,
homophobic, criminally inclined, sex-starved, shiftless, unemployed,
unruly stray dogs governed by street culture (Anderson 177, Collins
2004: 186-87, Dines 287, hooks 1992: 91, Jackson 4-5, Quinn 118, Rose
1994: 173, West 26-27).
Some scholars have also recognized a
feminization of black males in public spaces that has persisted since
slavery (Neal 93). For example, the NFL draft, like the slave auction, has
become an important site where African American male bodies are
deemed legitimate objects of a more powerful male gaze (Oates 74).
Researchers have suggested that these representations of black males
provide opportunities to continually subordinate them, keeping black
males “in check” in various ways (hooks 1992: 91).
There
have
also
been
serious
considerations
of
the
representations of black women, and black femininity, in media. Seen
through a similar lens, which typically allows for examinations of
powerful groups’ depictions of powerless members of society, much of
this research has explored how women are defined and confined by a
variety of stereotypical images, including the asexual mammy, the
hypersexual jezebel or whore, the Hottentot Venus, the welfare
mother/queen, and the ball-busting bitch (Collins 1990: 116, hooks
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1992: 61, Magubane 824, Mayall and Russell 289, Rose 1994: 103-104).
Scholars have also discussed the manner upon which black women, and
men for that matter, have resisted these depictions. But much of the
focus has been on ‘defining’ images and the various ways in which black
women are governed by them.
Some academicians, like bell hooks, Tricia Rose and Cornel West,
have considered the role of black men in helping to create and/or
reinforce defining images of black women (and black femininity) in
popular culture, especially in music.
Black males seem to have
contributed, in numerous ways, to the perpetuation of misogynistic and
crude images of black women. However, few scholars have addressed
efforts on the part of black women to define black men, or notions of
black masculinity, in public spaces. This paper is an attempt to begin this
research by examining the ways in which black women construct notions
of black masculinity in contemporary internet erotic fiction.
Methodology
T
he sample of erotic fiction drawn for this textual analysis was
randomly selected from a free website titled Kuma. According to
McNay, textual analyses seek to consider the ways in which
power and knowledge operate at a micro-social level to produce images
whose representations can then be examined (McNay 76).
More
importantly, textual analyses provide tools to better understand how
language used in public spaces are potential sites for political struggle
and social (re)construction.
Kuma first appeared in 1998 (www.kuma2.net) and according to
the webmaster, the site is “for…black lesbians, especially those who are
closeted or do not live near a major metropolitan area [and] the stories
and poetry affirm that [black lesbians] are not alone or an unnatural
aberration.” This site was updated monthly until 2009. In its heyday, the
site received approximately 1,170 unique visits and 17,830 hits per day
(http://kuma2.net/aboutkuma.htm).
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The site “contain[s] over 1600 pieces of erotica [and] the
literature archive is the largest online collection of black lesbian writing”
(http://kuma2.net/aboutkuma.htm). Authors were not paid for their
work and all stories were filtered through the webmaster. No changes
were made to accepted stories.
Personal communication with the
webmaster over the course of two years revealed that stories including
any type of excessive violence (e.g., murder) were typically rejected.
Other themes (e.g., suicide) were also prohibited by the webmaster.
A random sample of 100 stories (approximately 20% of the
stories on the website) was selected from the Kuma website for the
purpose of this study. An effort was then made to contact every author
from the sample drawn. While most of the stories provided some way to
reach the author, some stories did not. Other contact information was
outdated or invalid. As a result, the researcher was able to contact 64%
of the authors. These authors were emailed a brief survey inquiring
about their age, race, biological sex, educational background, and sexual
orientation.ii There was a response rate of 65%. Each story written by a
woman-born, self-identified lesbian was then coded, using an identical
coding instrument, for the presence of at least one “masculine” character
(typically referred to as a “stud” in the stories iii) and the exhibition of
“masculine characteristics.”iv
It is important to note that black lesbians are a unique subset of
black women, multiply positioned and, in and of themselves, governed
by varying ideologies, identities, social systems, and inequalities (Collins
1990: 231, Moore 7). However, together, these positions can potentially
create a framework for understanding and articulating black women’s
construction of others (Moore 7).
More specifically, these differing
realities provide a place to begin the exploration of an othered group’s
constructions of black masculinity.
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Findings
T
he methodological process resulted in the selection of 44 stories
written by 25 self-identified lesbian African-American women.v
The average age of the authors was 32. All of the authors were
born in the United States and approximately half resided in the Southern
region of the country. An overwhelming majority of the authors (81%)
had completed at least “some college.”
Most of the stories selected for this sample (68%) included at
least one “masculinized character.”vi
These characters were often
referred to as “studs.” Obvious indicators that these characters adhered
to masculine gender cues included, the use of masculinized or
androgynous names (e.g., Dre, Shy, Tay, Te), adjectives used to describe
these particular characters (e.g., stud, dyke, daddy, papi, hersband,
studsband, boi), the type of clothing favored by these characters (e.g.,
jeans, hoodies, tee shirts, boxers, ‘wife-beaters’), the large vehicles
driven by these characters (e.g., Cadillac Escalades, Dodge Durangos,
Hummers), the type of jobs occupied (e.g., electrician, drug dealer,
rapper), hairstyle (e.g., shaved head, cornrows) and numerous
references to their physical bodies as “muscular.” vii These characters
also engaged in various, stereotypically ‘masculine’ behaviors (e.g.,
opening doors for more feminine characters, displaying a certain
cockiness when attempting to win the affection of more feminine
characters, demonstrating confidence that they would succeed at a
particular task). Finally, 50% of the ‘studs’ were perceived to be strong
(e.g., able to lift/carry femmes, referred to as “strong” by more feminine
characters) and 73% were unwilling or unable to express their emotions.
With respect to sexuality, most of the more masculine characters
(58%) initiated sexual activity. However, this was not necessarily a clear
indicator of masculinity in these stories considering 42% of the more
masculine characters did not initiate sexual activity.
Other, more
obvious, indicators of a traditional male gender script included studs
that were ‘aggressive’ sexually, desired to have a more feminine
character beneath them during sex (i.e., missionary position) and had a
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remarkable ability to please femmes in bed. As indicated by the number
of orgasms and an amazing familiarity with the G-spot, the vast majority
of the more masculinized characters (81%) were able to satisfy femmes
sexually. A final indicator that these characters tended to follow more
masculine notions of gender related to penetration. When penetration
was included in a story, the vast majority of the studs (86%) were
penetrators, not penetrated.
RESULTS
Public Displays of Black Masculinity
T
he stories rendered public displays of ‘doing gender’ an essential
part of the masculinity script.viii Important signifiers were linked
to gender identity and manifested in various ways. An excellent
example is the use of particular names.
Most of the masculinized
characters insisted on shortened versions of their formal, sometimes
more feminine, names.
For example, in the story titled Blind Love,
Andrea identified herself to a potential love interest as “Dre”:
“And who am I calling?" I asked…She took my hand, lifting it
to her lips. After the gentle kiss that I could feel all the way
to my toes, she winked at me. "Dre. Don't take too long to
call me” (Glitter).
And in Sweet Hellos and Goodbyes, the stud introduced herself as Jacs, a
shortened version of Jacqueline (Jai).
Other aspects of black masculinity deemed important by these
female authors included posturing in public spaces (e.g., hanging with
male friends, playing basketball), clothing style, gait, cars, language style
and the use of drugs/alcohol (used by 57% of the more masculinized
characters).
Public displays of one’s gender, and notions of self-identity, were
not the only ways in which characters exhibited masculinity.
The
recognition of gendered displays by others was also important. Studs
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were sometimes clearly identified as such by outsiders who helped to
uphold their status. In Can You Stand The Rain, when attempting to
explain why she was socializing with another woman, Tay stated “its
(sic) always a group. My niggas and [the] chicks just chillin and shit” (Lil
AJ). In this statement, Tay clearly indicated she was part of a larger,
masculine group that identified her as one of ‘them.’ And in One Mic,
after Pandora informs her best friend that her love interest is moving in,
he says, “damn, finally a woman in the house. That’s gonna be some shit,”
humorously acknowledging he did not classify Pandora as a typical
‘woman’ (Alexandria).
Another critical aspect of masculinity reflected in the stories was
the ability to treat more feminine characters like a ‘lady.’ Studs asked
more feminine characters out on dates, held doors open for them, kissed
the hands of more feminine characters, offered them a seat, and swept
them off their feet in various ways. For example, in Collision Unleashed,
Orion, the more masculinized character, gallantly carried Tisha’s
damaged bicycle and then opened her beer for her once they arrived at
Orion’s apartment (Cashazznjuice). And in One Mic, Pandora admitted
“my priorities were clear…all I wanted to do was protect my woman the
best way I could” (Alexandria). These indicators of masculinity appeared
in 38% of the coded stories, suggesting that these female authors
believed notions of chivalry, as it pertained to black masculinity, was not
dead.
In this sample, black masculinity was defined by public displays
that included strength, confidence, and chivalry. Additionally, 62% of
the more masculinized characters were gainfully employed or had some
type of sustainable income. Most of the more masculinized characters
could “take care of themselves” with respect to violence and were willing
to protect more feminine characters when necessary. For the most part,
black female authors sanctioned these more traditional, hegemonic
notions of masculine behavior.
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Private Behaviors and Black Masculinity
W
hile public demonstrations of traditional masculinity cues
were deemed important, there was a shift in the script when
examining private behaviors. In particular, studs in these
stories needed to be comfortable enough with their masculinity to allow
more feminine characters to initiate sexual activity behind closed doors.
This trend was evident in 42% of the stories coded. More feminine
characters in these stories were enthusiastic actors in the bedroom, not
simple objects of affection. For example, in Sex by Felicia 101, Rashida
(identified as a stud), does not discourage the femme character from
assuming the role of sexual aggressor:
I (femme character) slowly slid away from her, getting to
my knees, facing Rashida. We both stared at each other for
a moment, before I just grabbed her by the head, pulling
her face to mine. As soon as our lips met, I could feel her
shudder. It was such a strange experience for me, because
normally I am so passive with studs, but something about
Rashida just made me want to literally take over and turn
her ass out. And that is exactly what I was doing. (Glitter;
parenthesis added)
More masculine characters in these stories allowed femmes to assume a
more dominant role sexually, at least initially, and there was little
evidence that this variation in traditional behaviors emasculated said
characters. In other words, more masculinized characters were still able
to “do gender” appropriately after such encounters. In fact, many of the
relationships that began with an aggressively sexual femme blossomed
into long term, monogamous relationships in these narratives.
In most of the stories coded, it was also obvious that more
feminine characters wanted to partake in sexual activity. This fact was
coupled with the practice of more masculinized characters carefully
soliciting consent from
potential
partners.
For
example, in
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Discriminated, Keirstin, the more masculine character, actually paused
during a sexual encounter to ask for consent:
Although I knew I had to have her I wanted to be sure that
this what she truly wanted. As I removed my lips from the
sweetness of her mouth I [asked]. "Are you sure this is what
you want?" (Taneigha)
In I Always Get What I Want, after pushing her partner onto the bed,
Terez, a stud, asked, “can I have you” and waited for her femme partner
to answer (Infamous Trece).
And in Live 2 Dream, the more
masculinized character hesitated until her partner clearly consented,
saying “take it, it's yours” (EroticBrat).
Perhaps allowing more feminine characters to assume control, at
least initially, and scripting undisguised petitions for consent, allowed
black female authors to address concerns about sexual assault not easily
addressed otherwise. Although the topic of rape was blaringly absent
from the vast majority of the stories coded (97%), possibly because the
webmaster rejected ‘violent’ stories, overtly discussing consent, and
allowing femmes to lead the way sexually, suggested that these black
female authors were concerned enough about sexual violence that they
creatively circumvented the webmaster’s restrictions.
Instead of
focusing on acts that would render the more feminine characters victims,
they empowered these characters in a way that eliminated the need for
sexual violence while consistently protecting notions of black
masculinity.
Hypersexuality and Black Masculinity
H
owever, allowing femmes to assume a more aggressive role was
limited to the first sexual act between a more masculine
character and a more feminine character. Adhering to a more
traditional gender script, authors portrayed more masculinized
characters as particularly interested in sex, barely able to control their
sexual desire, always prepared for sex and experienced in the bedroom.
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Most of the studs, 81%, eagerly accepted sexual invitations, were able to
bring their sexual partners to orgasm multiple times and/or were able to
easily locate the traditionally elusive G-spot.
For example, in A Good Story And An Even Better Plot, a
masculinized tutor, referred to as a “dyke,” simply could not resist
having sex with two more feminine tutees in a public bathroom, “I am so
naive...I can see that [my seduction] is a plot! But I just go along with it”
(Northcoastgirl). In Distant Lover, the more feminine character declared
about her more masculine sexual partner, “no one could touch me like
she touched me” (Lil AJ). Monica, in The Balcony and the Fireplace,
invited her “hersband” out onto the balcony for an impromptu sexual
tryst (Mohanni). Her sexual partner just happened to come prepared
with “Purple Passion,” a sex toy Monica fondly referred to as her “baby’s
dick.” And the femme in the story titled Sunshine declared, “that’s it
baby, you do remember. Ooh, that’s my spot!” (InsatiableK).
And
moments later “her body tensed…as she screamed, ‘It’s yours Te, and I’m
yours!’” (InsatiableK).
These few examples were representative of the stories in
general, clearly indicating that black masculinized characters should be
interested in sex, were habitually prepared to engage in sex and were
able to sexually satisfy more feminine characters consistently. Very
much like stereotypes about black men more broadly in American
society, these masculinized characters were sexually uninhibited,
sported large “dicks” and seemed to have an innate ability to drive more
feminine characters, “nuts…[making her] beg and scream for it” (Jai).
Emotional Repression and Black Masculinity
S
imilar to broader masculinity scripts in the United States,
characters demonstrating notions of black masculinity rarely
expressed emotion. Seventy-three percent of the stories included
more masculinized characters that had difficulty expressing, or refused
to express, their feelings. In the remaining 27% of the stories, more
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masculinized characters were willing to articulate their emotions only if
their relationship was at risk.
For example, in One Helluva Night, Janelle, the more
masculinized character, revealed her true feelings only after she was
accused of cheating and her more feminine love interest was threatening
to end the relationship:
Listen to me damn it…You know I love you and I would
never ever cheat on you. I love you too much for that. You
are my life and my everything. No woman on this earth is
worth losing you. No pussy is worth not having you in my
life for the rest of my life…(Blaaze).
In Blind Love, Dre declared the following to her lover only to prevent her
from leaving:
You wanna hear me say it, Astoria? That I want you in my
life? That I need you in my life? That as soon as I first lay
eyes on you in that car, I saw how beautiful you were. And
not just because you're attractive, but the person that you
are. Baby, you got this way about you that just hypnotizes
me. The way you look at me is like catching me in this web,
and all I want to do is just hold you, be with you, and take
care of you. I can't force you to be with me, but I want you
to. I've never wanted someone in my life like this before,
and I do. And it's you (Glitter).
And in Distant Lover, Shy shared the following in an effort to win her love
interest back, “Tyla I've been thinking about you so much [since] we
broke up. I've wanted to get in contact with you so many times to say I
was sorry and that I made a huge mistake. My whole life has been so
empty [since] I left and...I...I miss you" (Lil AJ).
Stereotypes suggesting that males were calm, detached, resistant
to sharing their emotions and/or unable to express their feelings went
unchallenged by these black female authors.
More masculinized
characters were expected to be strong and emotionally withdrawn.
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Maintaining a traditional image of masculinity at all costs seemed
important with the exception of a last minute, heroic effort to repair a
failing relationship.
Discussion/Conclusion
K
uma is a free internet website.
Black women, although not
exclusively, control the site, publish on the site and visit the site.
The website attempted to provide a safe space for black women,
particularly black lesbians, nationally and internationally. This study
examined gendered and racialized images constructed by a sample of the
self-identified black lesbians found in this public space.
With respect to these images, most notable is a strict adherence
to Rich’s notions of compulsory heterosexuality. Although these black
lesbian authors could have (re)created and (re)defined relationships in a
variety of ways, most of them embraced the ideals of heterosexuality,
represented by aforementioned ‘stud’ and ‘femme’ characters. As noted
by Moore, black lesbians, possibly influenced significantly by their
upbringing, seemed committed to navigating intersecting identities and
social locations in ways that allowed them to retain racial group
commitments.
In this instance, they appeared to have embraced
traditional ways of defining black masculinity, instead of providing
alternatives.
These choices potentially reflected the importance of
African American socialization processes.
There was also a willingness on the part of these African
American female authors to embrace hegemonic definitions of black
masculinity. Hegemonic masculinity, in this instance, refers to
masculinity as governed and/or defined by those with power (Rose
1994: 15-16). As discussed previously, studies of media depictions have
revealed a preponderance of negative images with respect to black
masculinity. The depictions discussed in this study reflected these real
world
attitudes
and
understandings
of
black
masculinity.
Simultaneously, they appeared to suggest an allegiance with black males
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that black women may have felt obligated to uphold, refusing to
seriously challenge aspects of their masculinity as black men continually
struggle to redefine public images in more positive ways.
For example, one of the negative images often affiliated with black
masculinity is aggressive posturing, or the ‘Cool Pose.’ The Cool Pose is
an attempt on behalf of black males to present a controlled, composed
self-image which includes notions of respect, controlled violence and
indifference to problems, pain, and frustration (Majors and Billson 8).
This image is a protective shield used, theoretically, to empower
powerless black males (Anderson 163, Majors and Billson 8).
Stories selected for examination in this study appeared to
recognize the importance of, and to some extent protect, the
presentation of the Cool Pose. Characteristics affiliated with the Cool
Pose were clearly delineated, including earning respect, demonstrations
of strength, a willingness to protect the ‘fairer’ sex, control of one’s
emotions, contextualized violent behavior, minor violations of the law,
and the use of alcohol/marijuana. When constructing masculinized
characters, these black female authors were apparently reluctant to
dismantle this aspect of black masculinity, an aspect that has been redefined as potentially empowering for black males.
Another relatively negative image often linked to black
masculinity that failed to be challenged by these authors was the
stereotype of the ‘black buck,’ an image of hyper, uncontrolled sexuality
used to potentially control black men in various ways (hooks 1981: 52).
Kuma’s authors perpetuated this image by scripting black masculinized
characters that were always ‘ready’ for sex, barely capable of restraining
their sexual needs, willing and able to please a femme, and had a desire
to penetrate more feminine characters with their “girl dicks.” The black
buck was, therefore, another aspect of black masculinity these female
authors seemed unwilling to deconstruct.
Overall, the maintenance of these negative images provided a lens
through which one could consider the importance of race, as opposed to
sexual orientation for example, when interpreting black women’s
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constructions
of
black
masculinity.
Race
appeared
to
govern
understandings of how gender, sexuality, social class, and other axes of
power shaped the lives of black men according to these black female
authors and, more importantly, allowed for the eroticization of a
hegemonic perspective, embodied from a female standpoint, which
appeared critical to the prevention of black women’s possibility of
claiming true agency (Collins 1990: 207, Jackson 69).
Conversely, Kuma’s authors did not vilify black masculinized
characters when they failed to occupy more traditional social positions
(e.g., primary breadwinner). While black men have often been depicted
as “lazy” and “shiftless,” these authors refused to reinforce these
negative images, instead constructing black masculinized characters as
chivalrous, kind, considerate, and concerned about more feminized
characters as well as willing to protect them.
Black masculinized
characters in these stories were interested in committing to long term
relationships
and practicing monogamy.
And,
when absolutely
necessary, they expressed emotion and declared love. So, black female
authors embraced some of the time-honored, hegemonic images of black
masculinity, but they rendered others relatively invisible, potentially
contributing to efforts to (re)define black masculinity in more positive
ways.
In conclusion, more masculinized characters, as defined by this
sample of black female authors, were encouraged to embrace some of
the traditional images historically imposed on black males. However,
these characters were able to render less important other stereotypical,
controlling images. One could argue that this particular sample of black
women compelled black masculinized characters to walk a fine line. On
one side, the population was bound by compulsory heterosexuality and
hegemony, a reflection of their existence in the United States. On the
other, the characters were able to negotiate and renegotiate aspects of
black masculinity in limited ways, challenging traditional scripts.
Ultimately, it appeared these black female authors scripted
characters that attempted to create a balanced existence between
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controlling hyper-masculine images (e.g., the Cool Pose) and images
traditionally affiliated with notions of femininity (e.g., expressing
emotions, committing to long-term relationships).
These authors
encouraged their more masculine characters to struggle continually to
be “black” and traditionally “male,” reflecting the realities of their
historical and racialized roles in the United States, while simultaneously
rising to newly established expectations of black masculinity, redefining
and challenging previously limiting notions. Overall, these black female
authors did not write as if in an idealized fantasy world that was
completely governed by sexual orientation and ignorant of race. Instead,
their social upbringing, their race, and possibly their sexual orientation,
resulted in a complex (re)categorization of black masculinity that
reflected an allegiance with, and an understanding of, their black male
counterparts while simultaneously reflecting a type of semi-autonomy
that allowed them to help (re)define this targeted and controlled
population.
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i
African American and black will be used interchangeably in this essay.
iiThe
most important category, for the purposes of this study, was “biological sex”
because the author wanted to examine the ways in which black women, raised as
females in the United States, constructed notions of masculinity. Therefore, the
stories of any author failing to classify as “biological female” were rejected.
iiiThe
terms “stud” and “femme” were used by numerous authors in the sample
and will be used in this paper to capture notions of masculinity and femininity.
ivA
mixed-age focus group helped to generate a list of American masculine
characteristics used for this study.
vWhile
sexual
orientation
certainly
has
an
impact
on
one’s
understanding/construction of masculinity, for the purposes of this paper the
role of sexual orientation was de-emphasized (but not entirely ignored). The
author, instead, opted to explore how this group of female authors, generally
socialized as girls and women in American society, more broadly constructed
notions of black masculinity.
vi
This term was created by the author to describe the characters in these lesbian
stories that more closely adhered to broadly set expectations of masculinity.
Based on these stories, it was clear that characters did not have to be biologically
male to “do” masculinity. Additionally, lesbian relationships did not preclude the
existence of masculinity scripts.
viiAgain,
while these characters were created by lesbians to be ‘masculine’
lesbians, this fact does not preclude an examination of masculine characteristics
in and of themselves.
viiiThe
term “scripting” is used to highlight the process by which individuals
assign meaning to others “in an effort to structure their observations and
reflections concerning difference” (Jackson 74).
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Threatened Masculinities: Men’s Experiences of Gender
Equality in Rural Rwanda
Mediatrice Kagaba
University of Gothenburg
Abstract :
This article analyses how rural Rwandan men experience gender
equality laws and policies in their everyday lives. Traditional
Rwandan society had a patriarchal social structure that resulted in
men’s dominance and women’s subordination. A new constitution,
adopted after the 1994 Tutsi genocide, recognizes the importance
of gender equality and includes specific legal provisions to ensure
women’s equal protection under the law. Working from focus
group discussions in Kamonyi District, I explore men’s
experiences of shifting power relations in Rwanda. Men have two
main stories to tell in this regard: they appreciate the right of
inheritance that women have acquired, as it increases the family
assets, and new employment opportunities for women that offer
men relief from the burden of providing for the family. Yet they
also believe that men’s interests have been neglected in new laws,
leading to problems in the family and community. The process of
repositioning their masculinities today produces new forms of
household conflict.
Key words: Rwanda, Gender equality, Masculinity, Men
-MasculinitiesA Journal of Identity and Culture, Feb., 2015/3, 55-85
Masculinities Journal
Tehdit Edilmiş Erkeklikler: Ruanda Kırsalındaki
Erkeklerin Toplumsal Cinsiyet Eşitliği Deneyimleri
Mediatrice Kagaba
Gothenburg Üniversitesi
Özet :
Bu çalışma, kırsalda yaşayan Ruanda erkeklerinin toplumsal
cinsiyet eşitliği kanun ve siyasalarını gündelik hayatlarında nasıl
deneyimlediklerini
analiz
etmektedir.
Geleneksel
Ruanda
toplumunun, erkek egemeliği ve kadının ikincil konumda oluşu ile
neticelenmiş ataerkil bir sosyal yapısı vardır. 1994 Tutsi
soykırımından sonra uygulamaya konulmuş olan yeni anayasa,
toplumsal
cinsiyet
eşitliğinin
önemini
tanırken
kadının
korunmasını kanun kapsamına alan özel yasal koşulları da
içeriyordu. Erkeklerin Ruanda’da değişen güç dinamikleri ile olan
deneyimlerini Kamonyi bölgesinde yapılmış olan odak grup
tartışmalarından hareketle analiz ettim. Erkeklerin bu bağlamda
anlattıkları iki temel hikaye ortaya çıktı: ailenin mülkiyetini
arttırdığı için kadının veraset hakkını elde etmesini ve erkeğin
ailenin temel geçim merkezi olma yükünü hafiflettiği için kadının
yeni iş imkanlarına kavuşmuş olmasını takdir ediyorlar. Buna
rağmen, yeni çıkarılan kanunlarda erkeğin çıkarlarının göz ardı
edildiğini ve bunun da aile ve toplum içinde sorunlara yol
açabileceğini de düşünüyorlar. Erkekliklerini yeniden konumlama
süreci bugün yeni ev içi anlaşmazlıkları üretme tehlikesini de
beraberinde getiriyor.
Anahtar kelimeler: Ruanda, Toplumsal cinsiyet eşitliği, Erkeklik,
Erkek
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E
ven though gender equality has attained high importance in the
global political agenda (Squires 1) in Rwanda, it is a new concept
that emerged after the 1994 genocide. In the period before the
genocide, men dominated much of the social, economic and political
domain (Longman134), and gender inequality was a respected social
norm (Ministry of Gender and Family Promotion 8). The 1992 Family
Code established men (husband, father, elder son) as the head of the
household, the decision maker, the owner of the family assets, the
breadwinner and the family protector. Women and girls were caretakers
at home, responsible for childcare and domestic work of cooking,
cleaning, fetching firewood and water and caring for the sick or elderly
relatives (Adekunle 16). Women were expected to defer to men in
decision-making and were discouraged from speaking in public and
expressing their needs in the presence of men (Patra and Ansoms 1114).
Men were to talk and think for women. A woman who dared to challenge
men in public was considered insolent (Uwineza and Pearson 12). In
brief, women were treated as minors who were not permitted to engage
in economic transactions, control financial resources in the homes or
own or inherit land (Carlson and Shirley 3). When a male head of the
household died, property was passed to male heirs or to a man’s brother
rather than to the widow (Uwineza and Pearson 9). These gender
imbalances left women vulnerable to various forms of household
violence.
The 2003 Constitution marked the turning point for the country’s
gender equality. Rwanda established policies and programs aimed to
increase the role of women in social-economic reconstruction thus
overturning the country’s long history of gender inequality. There had
been attempts to enact gender-sensitive laws earlier, such as the 1999
Law on Inheritance and Marital Property Rights that establishes gender
equality in land inheritance and ownership within formal marriage. But
the new constitution accelerated the process, resulting in the land policy
of 2004 and Organic Land Law of 2005, both of which contain provisions
for gender equality in land rights. Also, a 2009 Gender-Based Violence
Law gives a woman the right to report gender abuses whether these
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occur in the household or outside the home. The same law sets out the
definitions of gender-based violence and introduces penalties.
Existing studies and reports portray Rwanda as a unique example
in the Eastern African region of gender equality underpinned by a strong
legal framework and progressive policy (Delay, Weeks Dore and
Umuhoza; FAO 48; McAuslan 116-119). Research on women’s
experiences of the new laws shows that woman’s empowerment
programs and gender sensitive laws positively affect women marriages
as well as gender relations in their communities (Petra and Ansoms
1112, Longman134; Hategekimana 237; FAO 48; Sentama, 86). However,
very little is known about men’s experiences of the new laws on gender
equality in Rwanda. Multiple studies have shown that violence against
women is increasing after the new equality laws and that the perpetrator
of such violence is often a husband/partner (RWAMREC 11-18; Carson
and Randell 10; GMO, 11 MIGEPROF, 10; NISR, 13). We also know that
gender violence occurs mainly in ‘family domains or homes’ in rural
communities (Rwanda Gender Monitoring Office 25). Studies on failed
masculinity suggest that when a man is unable to fulfil his traditional
roles in a dominant masculinity construction, a man feels threatened and
lives under frustration and can use violence to attest his manhood
(Cambell, 619; Connell 1812; Levant, 223, Sweetman, 5;Porter 488).
Therefore, because masculinities change and are part of gender
relations, listening to individual men about their lived experiences, can
serve as analytical and political tool in making sense of gender relations,
and can help understand the process of how men and women engage
(Connell, 71; Haywood, 577). Men’s narratives are essential to
understanding how the new gender relations are constructed and how
the shifting nature of power relations within the new legal framework
affects gendered lives (Ferguson, 119). It becomes critical because
gender is not all about women; it is about both men and women and
produces knowledge about gender relations (Marks, 5). With the
promotion of women’s rights and gender equality in Rwanda, several
studies focus on women’s experiences. Men’s experiences are rarely
discussed in the current Rwandan discourse on gender equality. Against
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this backdrop, it is important to focus attention on rural men and their
experiences of gender equality.
Masculinities and Gender Relations
M
asculinities are configurations of practice generated in
particular situations (Connell81, Campbell 534, Connell 81).
They are not fixed or embedded in the body or personalities of
individuals.
Rather,
masculinities
are
socially
and
historically
constructed (Connell and Messerschmidt 836, Connell 1803, Porter 487)
and achieved in front of others who evaluate and assess gender
performances (Barker and Ricardo 4-5). Under a patriarchal society, the
social construction of masculinities are mainly associated with a deeprooted power of men over women where men are seen as the head of the
family, the breadwinner, the decision maker and the family protector
(Slegh and Richters 6, Freedman and Jacobson, 6; Connell, 1813;
Lwambo, 50, Levant 223). A real man earns his position of authority
through protecting and providing for the family (Lwambo 52). For being
a man –is some level of financial independence, employment or income
(Barker and Ricardo 55). If a man does not comply with what is socially
expected from him, society rapidly informs him that he has ‘failed to be a
man’ (Porter 488). In other word, the inability to man up and become
the successful breadwinners, family head and leaders of wider society
which stereotypes of masculinity power and success demand of him, he
experiences threats and lives under pressure of not meeting the social
standards of being a man (Porter 497; Sweetman 4-5).
In most cases lack of access to income earning opportunity and
larger scale of poverty become a source of insecurity for men; they feel
that they cannot live up to their traditional roles of provider and
breadwinner. Their authority comes under threat and as does their
identity and self esteem (Silberschmidt, 195; Levant, 222; Freedman and
Jacobson, 11; Slegh and Richters 137; Connell, 1812-1813; Campbell
619; Hamber 82). The situation thus puts social and economic pressure
on men who have grown up with the expectation of being breadwinners
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(Connell, 1813). This failure cues the man to feel frustrated, humiliated,
emasculated and displaced in his family as well as his community, and it
is known that he often turns to drink and other women for consolation;
or some resort to the use of violence (Campbell, 621). Not only do lack of
employment and poverty challenge men’s masculinity as breadwinners,
but when a woman becomes more economically empowered, some men
also react negatively and violently (Narayan 197;Thornhill 79; Lwambo,
50-55, Sweetman 5; Silberschmidt 196).
Similarly, the inability to protect one’s family from attacks or
armed conflict is also a source of shame and emasculation for male
household heads (Freedman and Jacobson 6). The feeling of being unable
to protect their families also leads men to become violent (Freedman and
Jacobson 11; Baaz and Stern 505). The men’s roles and identities become
confused and contradictory, and many men express feelings of
helplessness, inadequacy, and lack of self-esteem (Silberschmidt 195).
Briefly, the changed gender situation initiates serious challenges to
traditional masculine identity and can result in a masculinity crisis,
which involves the collapse of the basic pattern by which men have
traditionally fulfilled their masculine role as the good provider role
(Levant 222). Gender humiliation thus becomes a key factor in
prolonging aggression and violent actions to reassert masculinity
(Lambon 50). The process of asserting masculinity then influences
subsequent gender attitudes and behaviours (World Bank 4, Barker and
Ricardo 26).
In short, masculinities are affected by historical and cultural
changes.
Moreover,
gender
relations
also
change
dramatically
throughout life, which leads to changing configurations of power
relations as well as men and women's roles (Connell 89; Jackson 93;
Connell 73). In addition, socially constructed behaviours vary across
local contexts and interact with socio-cultural factors of class, race,
poverty, ethnicity and age (Connell 77). In general, the roles of men and
women in any particular society are based on perceptions that are
shaped in the context of that society. In the new Rwanda, however,
gender relations tell us very little about how new roles are experienced,
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especially in the home. Most researchers inform us about what women
and men do, in general, but not how their interactions and relationships
are built and changed. One way to understand these interactions, as
Carolyn Nordstrom argues, is to learn from individual experiences
(Nordstrom 6).
The daily experiences can serve as the basis for talking about
what is happening in a community and establishing knowledge that can
help planners and activists rethink the appropriate strategies
(Nordstrom 6). The purpose of this paper is therefore to explore and
analyse men’s experiences from the country that is internationally
recognized as a model for promoting women’s rights and equality of
rights and opportunities between men and women. It addresses the
following main question: how do men living in rural areas of Rwanda
experience the new gender equality practices in daily household life? I
am also concerned to learn whether the new laws and policies are
actually producing gender equality. How do men and women interact
now and how are their behaviours changing in the household? The study
is premised on the idea that if empowerment is applied only to women in
Rwanda, men will continue to be seen as a problem and women as
victims who require assistance. It is vital to talk to men about how new
gender relations are being built or resisted and whether there are new
tensions emerging at a variety of levels. As Michael Kimmel (22)
explains, any effort to further gender equality that does not include men
as well as women’s lives is doomed to failure because gender is both men
and women’s issue.
Interviewing Men in Rwanda
T
he study uses a standard interview methodology for gathering
experiences on gender equality in 2014 from men in four villages
in Kamonyi District, a rural area of Rwanda. A single case study
methodology was appropriate because the emphasis was on gaining indepth understanding of men’s experiences with gender equality
practices in the new Rwanda. Kamonyi District is ranked by the
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Government of Rwanda as the best performing rural district in the
country with respect to four pillars of development - justice, social
welfare, good governance and economic development1 -and the
strongest in incorporating activities that advance rural gender equality.
Although the study results are not intended to be representative, the
conclusions drawn here could help formulate assumptions regarding the
experiences of men in other rural areas of the country, where problems
are likely to be more acute than they are in the best district.
Within Kamonyi District, four villages were selected as sites of
interviews with men, and within each village, the interviews were
organized around two focus groups, one with young married men aged
25-45, and the second with older married men aged 46 or older. The
questions asked were the same to all groups.
A total of 28 discussion
groups were conducted and 122 men participated in the study.
Contemporary laws provide land ownership rights only to women within
a legal marriage, and so legally married men were selected2. This
ensured that men could discuss the full range of rights for women if the
desired. The decision to separate men into two different generations
arose during the pilot phase of the research, when younger men were
reluctant to express themselves in the presence of the older generation.
The
groups
of
men
shared
generational
and
marital
status
characteristics, but were not homogeneous. Both groups consisted of
men involved in agricultural work, small-scale sellers of goods in the
open market and casual workers on construction and water irrigation
sites -the main work activities of men in Kamonyi District.
Overall, the focus group approach worked well providing space
and time for men to discuss their experiences with gender equality
laws/policies. Similarities and differences in experiences came up and
wider ranges of issues were discussed than would have been possible
using individual interviews or questionnaires (Bryman 349).
This research is part of a larger project on experiences of gender
equality in Rwanda that entails interviews with rural men and women
and also gender agencies of government. During the interviewing
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process, I lived in the communities and went out with people in Kamonyi
District on several occasions. At the beginning of the discussion with
men they asked me if I was going to broadcast on radio what they told
me. I said, ‘No, I will not’ and asked why? One man said, ‘These days
many people from Kigali [the capital city of Rwanda] come to this
community and ask women questions about their lives but no one has
asked us any question about our lives as you are asking.’ Another man
continued ‘Ubu abagore nibo bagezweho’ (during these days, all topics
focus on women). Men’s complaints gave me an understanding that men
very much wanted to share their experiences but have not been given
such opportunity.
As a young single woman, I found that some men were reluctant
to discuss their personal experiences, especially in their sexual relations,
with me. One man said ‘Ntabwo urashaka nushaka uzabibona, abagore
bahinduka nk’ibicu’(you are not married, when you get married you will
see, women change like the sky). As I experienced it, this created a sort of
power relation between men and me, especially during the discussion
groups for men in the older generation. Some men perceived me as a
young person who should not hear about marital conflicts related to sex.
Some men spoke about their stories using general examples, as if their
experiences were happening to someone else in the community; yet they
way they spoke indicated that they were speaking from personal-or at
least close experience. Other men offered deep details and examples of
their experiences in the new Rwanda, on the assumption that I was
unaware of what married people were thinking. In some cases, my
position as a single young woman actually gave me an opportunity to
learn more about what goes on in the homes –perhaps more than maybe
a married woman would have heard.
Moreover, as an educated female who works with the University
of Rwanda and was born and raised in an urban area, people living in
Kamonyi District often saw me as a knowledgeable person. During the
two months of fieldwork, some men wanted to talk to me about on-going
individual family problems, and some erroneously believed that I would
have solutions to their complaints or offer advice. I interpret this
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confiding behaviour as a sign of trust by the villagers; however, it could
also have created some expectations on their part that I could not fully
meet.
Using a few open-ended questions to elicit participants’ stories, I
found men loquacious on the topic of gender equality, one talking after
the other, supplementing each other’s views. They gave their own
testimonies as well as examples of their neighbours and the larger
Rwandan community. On the whole, the time I spent listening closely to
men speak of gender equality helped me to identify several themes in
their narratives and these appear in the next section.
Men Narrate Gender Equality
F
ive themes emerged from the discussions about gender equality
experiences: (1) economic benefits for the household; (2) changes
in traditional family practices; (3) women working outside the
household; (4) problems of infidelity and abandonment; and (5) the man
as a victim.
Economic Benefits for the Household
P
articipants recognized that gender equality laws have created
clear economic benefits for the household. One benefit is that men
can now share the family financial burden with women. One man
explained this as follows:
Life is getting better in my home. Before [gender] equality
came I was working alone. Everyone in the family was
looking at me. Today, both my wife and I work and earn
money. We have two incomes and the stress of providing
food for the home by myself is gone (Age 44).
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Historically, paid work was mostly done by men. The Rwandan Family
Code pronounced the man head of household thereby giving men the
primary responsibility of supporting the family, a responsibility that
became heavier when children enlarged the household. Today, some of
the men interviewed appear to be pleased with the new labour law of
2009 for giving women rights and opportunities to work for cash and
thereby contribute to family survival. Many of the men said they were
happy to be relieved of this burden by sharing family financial support
with their wives:
A woman was supposed to stay home, clean the house, cook
for the husband and children, fetch water and do
agricultural labour near the house. She was not allowed to
sit or speak where men were gathered. It was culturally
prohibited. Today, with [gender] equality laws, we sit with
women and they give their views, we eat together and we
socialize. A woman goes out and works for cash as a man
does (Group discussion 3).
Though women had their own work at home they were not earning cash.
Men tended to consider women’s sphere of work in the household as far
less important than theirs. The earnings women bring home are what are
appreciated. As men explained, this appreciation is due to the fact that
men feel relieved from their traditional duties of securing food for the
family. For some of the men, life as a couple is no longer a relationship of
dependence of a woman on a man. It is metamorphosed into more of a
win-win situation, with men’s traditional burden eased and women’s
assignment of work only in the household lifted. Earning outside income
also gives women a stake in family decision-making around managing
family assets.
Life today is better. We are not supposed to shoulder the
family burden alone. In the past, the household was for men
but now it is for both the wife and husband. One can look
for sweet potatoes while another one is looking for
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vegetables to make dinner, which was not the case before
[gender] equality [laws] came (Group discussion 7).
Many narrators express the idea that as women earn money and
contribute to family betterment, they acquire new status in the
household. In fact, the household becomes a unit for both husband and
wife and, as their interactions become easier, new dynamics take hold at
the core of the households, and communication and collaboration
improve. Indeed, the narrators perceive equality as building interdependence
between wife and husband. However, this experience
cannot be taken for granted because, as many men explain, if a woman is
not contributing to the family she does not gain entry to the ‘core’aspects
of the new relationship.
To be honest, if a woman does not bring anything home
how can you really plan together? About what?
When she also brings money,we can sit and bring what
both of us have earned and then plan for it.
We are not lying if she brings something home, it even add
something good in our relationship. It reduces conflict
because you plan together and accounts for each other.
Otherwise, everyone does his or her own thing (Group
discussion 8).
It appears that the earnings a woman brings home create happiness in
the house and mitigate the spousal conflict. Although such claim seem
obvious, later sections indicate that the picture is far more complex. Men
also recognize another benefit of the equality laws concerning
inheritance: the plot of land that women can now bring to the family.
In the past, a man owned all assets in the household. Today
because of equality women also own assets. For example I
have a plot inherited from my parents and my wife has one
from her parents. This means that our family assets are
from both sides and our say has the same magnitude when
it comes to any decision related to management of our
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belongings. Before equality came a woman had no right to
decisions about assets at home. What could she say if she
did not bring anything? (Age 56).
The narrator reports that equality law encourages women as well to
bring assets to the family. In fact, land in Rwanda is one of the primary
livelihood assets of rural citizens. It is more than a source of food
production. According to the Rwandan culture, land is a set of relations, a
sense of belonging and a symbolic relationship between people mediated
by symbolic and material value (Shearer 23). Getting land from wife’s
side, according to men, not only increases the family possessions but also
indirectly adds social recognition to the man’s position in the
community. On the other hand, men claim that the law has diminished
their traditional rights to make land decisions in the home. The 2005
Organic Law Determining the Use and the Management of Land gives
legally married women equal ownership rights to the family land with
men. If a man sells a plot of land without his wife’s agreement, the wife
has the right to inform the local leaders or the police. Before the law
passed, men disposed of family land as they pleased. Today if a man does
not negotiate or communicate, he can be in trouble, as men said:
As a man we could even give a friend a plot of land without
informing a wife.
We only tell them, ‘Do not cultivate the particular land we
gave it to a friend.
As a woman she could not say anything. Today we cannot
do that without her agreement since we will need her
approval, as it is a family asset.
The problem is that women are not cooperative, it feels bad
when you tell her –let sell a plot of land and she refuses, as
a man you feel devalued.
If you even try to do it without her agreement, and she calls
the police, men can be in trouble. These days we (men) are
very careful.
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Women are the ones guiding us (discussion group 13).
Reading such statements, it seems men are again pleased about some
aspects of the inheritance laws and also concerned about its effects on
their historic rights as men. The men say it is good that women bring a
plot of land from their inheritance that increases the possessions of the
family; yet that new right diminishes men’s decision-making power. But
now, men and women must negotiate decisions concerning family land,
and this requires even greater degrees of communication in their
relationship (Giddens in Ferguson126). The men express that they
experience the change of decisional power as disempowering –a loss of
one element of their masculinity. To recover this loss, men can use
violence against the ones over whom they do have power within
household (Sweetman 5-6).
A real man should be able to make a decision on his own.
Imagine if you are gathering with your peers and there is a
decision to be made, and you tell them -Let me go and ask
my wife. It is so shameful.
You lose your integrity with your peers. You cannot even be
considered as a wise man in the community (Group
discussion, 24).
You even become a subject of jokes in the community.
Whenever you pass, other men will be talking between
them- look at him; he is no longer a man. He asked! Don’t
you think it is a problem? (Age 44)
Equality laws are bringing good things but we men are
losing value indeed; not only in our families but in the
community as well. Equality is taking away our culture.
The problem is that in the future, we will find ourselves
without a culture (Group discussion, 20).
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It seems that the men are more concerned about their social position in
the community than anything that positive gender equality may provide.
They worry that their peers will see a subjected man, not a real man able
to make his own decisions. He experiences fear of not meeting the right
social standard for a man, the only standard he has lived with in the past.
And the culture does little or nothing to support the idea that a man
should actually negotiate with his wife before making a decision that
involves the family property.
Men appear to be worried about losing a culture of authority over
land and over women. They appear to be living with the fear of not
meeting the social expectations of men, and the fear of not knowing what
the future will bring. The positive aspects of gender equality seem to
disappear into their anger about culture and masculine privilege. Though
women are contributing to the household income and possessions, men
tend to put more emphasis on their feelings of losing influence. Below,
we explore what men do to challenge and cope with these experiences of
fear and ambivalence.
Changes in Traditional Family Roles
M
any of the men interviewed described the intervention of the
police and local authorities into family privacy as causing more
problems. Women now have the right to report violent
husbands to the police, something the men see as misuse and abuse of
women’s rights. Before the 2009 gender-based violence law was
endorsed, spousal conflicts and fights were handled by family elders,
who listened to arguments on both sides and tried to reconcile husbands
and wives. Today, most cases of what is called conjugal abuse are
brought to local leaders or to the police. Men view this new practice as
undermining family roles and further devaluing men:
Some men nowadays are seen as irrelevant or motionless
pylons in family. The power of a respected man is no more
a
reality.“Abagore
babahaye
intebe
aho
kuyicaraho
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bayihagararaho”. Women have been given a chair and
instead of sitting on it they stood on it.
Some women are nowadays very aggressive, as they know
that the laws overprotect them.
No woman wants family intervention in case of conflict
with her husband. They call the police (Group discussion,
13).
In Rwandan tradition, both wife and children should respect a man in the
household, for a man is the provider, the protector and the household
head; his privilege is connected to responsibility. A ‘real man’ earns his
position of authority through protecting and providing for the family
(Lwambo 52). He therefore expects respect and admiration. With the
new gender-based violence law, men can experience loss of respect in
the house, which is tied to the fact that women no longer must submit to
them. They narrate further that equality gives women rights but women
misuse and abuse those rights by rejecting all traditional obligations.
Traditionally, women were not allowed to reveal what was happening
inside the household. Where sexual violence occurred, it was treated as a
private matter and subject to a culture of silence: women were not
allowed to speak out about their experiences (Uwineza and Pearson13).
If they spoke, they would be considered arrogant or disrespectful
(MIGEPROF 8). Today with gender-based violence law, women speak
out, to the extent, men say, of revealing family matters by calling the
police. Men narrated this new fact of life in Rwanda as though the police
were invading men’s privacy and taking over their family role.
Listening to men, it would seem that women are reporting their
husbands to police in great numbers. National statistics show that only
28 per cent of cases are reported to police. Most men are not living this
particular experience of being caught by the police; instead they are
living with the fear of police intervention into their lives. A survey
conducted by the Rwandan Men’s Resource Centre shows that in most
cases across the country, the police only learn about gender-based
violence when the victim is badly injured and requires medical care
(RWAMREC 26). What really seems to worry the men is their loss of
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autonomy. Their options are now restricted more and they chafe under
the controls. Their anxiety of getting in trouble with the police is perhaps
due to the fact that the gender-based violence law stipulates clearly that
any act that results in physical, psychological, sexual and economic harm
should be reported to police; and men and women are mobilized by state
gender agencies to file reports with the police on these matters
(Rwandan Gender Based Violence Law, 3). The men feel diminished and
live with confusion and frustration, which is manifested as exaggerated
fear that their wives will go to the police.
These days the role of the family is taken over by the police.
Any minor misunderstanding between you and your wife is
reported to the police. This was not the case before. In the
past the larger family had the responsibility and role of
mediator in cases of conflict in the household.
Today things have changed. The police manage most of the
families. Do you think the police are resolving problems in
families? No. Instead, they create them.
Let me ask you, if a woman is taking you to jail at the police
station, you spend days or weeks there and then you are
back to your family, do you think you will speak to that
woman again? When you come back you come with other
strategies (Discussion group 26).
Household conflicts were traditionally resolved in a family council
headed by a chief of the extended family (always male). If a man was
found responsible, though this was rare, he was fined by the family
council. Today, the national police take the mediation role; however, the
men interviewed view the police more as troublemakers than mediators.
The man is punished in public now, whereas before he was punished by
paying fine and it was all kept in the family. Now, family privacy has
disappeared and everything can be public. The woman who once kept
family secrets is now enabled by the state to put the man’s mistakes on
view. To some men, this public policy interference in the private
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household causes problems. In the past, men believed in elders and
senior clansmen as the only wise and competent people to turn to in any
case of conflict with their wives. Scrutiny by the police humiliates some
men, who feel their household powers have been seized. There is a
saying in Rwanda that ‘Amafuti y’umugabo nibwo buryo bwe (man’s
mistakes are his capability). A woman speaking out about her husband’s
mistake loses her dignity as a woman, according to men. Respondents
said that when a man is jailed at the police station, he becomes angry
with his wife, and when he gets home he adopts new strategies of
controlling her. In most cases men describe acting quiet in the house as
an alternative strategy, so the police will not intervene. He does not beat
the wife or harm her physically; instead he uses silence. The participants
explained this in their own words: Can she call the police if we did not
fight? yahamagara police se ntarwanye nawe? Men justified their use of
silence in the homes as a strategy that helps them to carry on. Silence
disciplines wife and gives husband a passive-aggressive form of power
and authority. As a consequence, psychological abuses in the household
continue. And, silence may indicate a new way of undermining gender
policies and laws without openly challenging them (Kronsell in Parpart
6). Silence is a reflection of what is excluded from daily exchange (Smyth
583). The state’s claim to enforce gender equality by monitoring men’s
behaviour in their homes has spawned men’s new practice of privately
resisting without saying a word.
Women Working Outside the Household
M
en explained that they appreciate the earnings women bring
home but at the same time those earnings become a source of
conjugal conflicts:
When the woman knows that she generates income, she
wants to know how much you were paid and how much
you spend on a daily basis.
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Some women think that economic and financial capabilities
involve added value in terms of respect. They are no longer
obeying or respecting their husbands.
In the past a woman was the heart of the family but today
they are becoming crazy because they have money, and as a
man you have to keep quiet. Otherwise she will call the
police.
There is no space at all; there is no margin for maneuver.
For the sake of peace you keep quiet, what can you do? She
has her own money and she has the police toll free number
(Group discussion 11).
Now that women bring income home, some men think that women
disobey them and do not perform their traditional roles. Though men
seem to be narrating their stories as if all women earn money and
therefore became disrespectful to their husband, the integrated
Household Living Conditions Survey contradicts the men’s claims. The
survey shows that women in Kamonyi District are more occupied with
small-scale farming (83 per cent are farmers) than males and are
actually less involved in types of employment that provide high income,
like independent non- farm (business) or waged non-farm. Agriculture is
the main industry taking up 78 per cent for the population aged 16 and
above, followed by Trade 7 per cent and Construction 4.2 per cent
(Rwanda National Institute of Statistics 29-52). Women engaged in
agriculture do not earn income at the end of the day unless they do
casual labour, most of which is in government projects for road
construction and water irrigation (Kagaba forth coming 7). The survey
thus refutes men’s stories depicting women with cash in hand
controlling their husbands. It is more likely that men fear the possibility
that women will no longer depend on them. This creates anxieties that
turn up in their views on gender equality.
In the past before equality arrived, wives were nice people
but today they are just crazy because they have money.
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Have you seen a woman who enters the house after six in
the evening? Have you seen a woman going to bars? What
can you say? Can you beat her?
The state has made women crazy. I as a man I do not have
any say. I cannot touch her. We (men) keep quiet. It is now
time for women. Women do not know any more that they
are women (group discussion 19).
The narrators above are telling us that when women get money they
change their behaviours, which becomes problematic to men. It seems
that men blame the state for giving women rights, as it has caused
women to behave differently and ‘forget’ that they are ‘women’. Some
men believe that the state is giving more importance to women now than
men: ‘Abagabo ntamategeko aturengera tugira. Leta irikuduteza
abagore.’ men do not have laws that protect them; the state has devalued
us by focusing more on women. Before the gender law, the family was
clearly structured in such a way that men and women’s social spaces
were differentiated (i.e. the kitchen for women and bars for men). Today
men see the presence of women in bars and pubs as a violation of
culture. The narrators’ experiences may indicate concern that women
are now exposed to different realities by interacting and sharing
opportunities that may exist outside home.
Infidelity and Abandonment
S
everal narrators named infidelity and abandonment as another
potential consequence of equality in relationships. One participant
explains these concerns as follows:
When a woman gets money she becomes unfaithful to the
husband. We have seen so many cases here in our
community. For example, at P´s house there is a bar and
they show movies in the evenings and weekends, my wife is
working at the construction site as a helper, she goes in the
morning; I do not know whom she spends the day with. In
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the evening from the site she goes with her colleagues in a
bar, I cannot say anything because I did not give her the
money. She has her own. She comes home in the night if I
try to ask something in bed she refuses saying she is tired.
Two to three times saying she is tired. I looked for another
woman (Age 48).
This man expresses the view that as a result of women’s autonomy,
women no longer feel compelled to have sex with the husband as
traditionally expected; men had expectations and the women were to
fulfil them. But women are no longer as submissive as before, so some
men find ways of restoring their manhood by looking for another wife.
Traditionally, polygamy was socially accepted and not linked to
household conflicts as it is today. Although a newly formed family
becomes a refugee for man, it creates problems for the separated wife,
who has to carry the abandoned family responsibilities.
At the same time, men’s narratives reveal the fear that women
socialize now with different people and could be getting into intimate
relationships with other men:
In our days uburaya (infidelity between couples) is
increasing. Now that women have money they go out with
other men. If you try to ask her where she was, she says she
has the right to share a beer with her colleagues at work.
She is no longer responsible at home (Group discussion,
25).
According to men’s perceptions, equality laws interfere with marital
fidelity. Women’s interaction with other men at the workplace and in
bars, according to men interviewed, creates a form of infidelity in which
women have access to multiple partners. This situation is totally
opposite to Rwandan traditional culture, which recognized an
instrumental sexuality whereby the woman is expected to procreate and
sexually satisfy the husband. Now that gender-based violence allows
women to refuse to engage in sex with their spouses, many men of the
district are of the view that this refusal confirms their partners’
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infidelity. This puts men in a situation of uncertainty because they do not
know the outcome of their wives’ interactions outside home.
The Man as Victim
S
ome men feel lost in the new Rwanda with its emphasis on gender
equality. They explain that they are unable to fulfil their traditional
gender roles, making them feel disempowered in their community.
They are also ashamed and emasculated when women occasionally beat
them. The men are reluctant to contact the police for fear that they will
be seen as weak or defenceless, which is again contrary to the social
expectation of being a man in Rwanda. There is a saying in Rwanda that a
man never screams or cries. His tears never come out but rather flow
towards the stomach. Umugabo ntataka. Amarira y’umugabo atemba ajya
mu nda. One-man in a focus group seemed to concur with this view:
I cannot go to the police station crying that my wife has
beaten me as women do. You look stupid in the eyes of your
wife, children and the community at large. So, instead of
looking ridiculous to everyone, it is better to keep quiet
(Age 29).
No man will bring his complaints to the police and tell them
that his wife beats him. The police will laugh and make
jokes about him (Age 53).
Men feel loosing their manhood if they report their abuses. The Rwandan
Gender Monitoring Office also reports that men do not report household
violence against them because they want to keep their reputation. To be
respected, a real man keeps his victimhood a total secrecy: if you report
abuse, abandi bagabo baguca amazi. This is a popular term that means
somebody is useless. Men who try to report abuse are mocked and
ridiculed; they are embarrassed and feel a loss of their manhood. This is
in line with Porter’s suggestion that not meeting local standards of
manhood can cause feelings of shame, humiliation, frustration and loss of
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dignity (Porter 488-497). These feelings and beliefs position men
interviewed as existentially threatened people:
When you are in open conflict with your wife you are
surrounded by a wall of troubles.
Your wife makes sure that your children hate and do not
trust you.
She alerts local authorities so as to ensure that you will
never dare take any repressive action. You are on your
knees; you are no longer the genuine chief of your family.
You live under fear that she may call the police at anytime
(Group discussion, 16).
Many narrators appear to be saying that as a result of gender equality
laws and women’s changing practices, a man perceives himself as a
victim. In cases of family conflict, the woman not only alerts local leaders,
she also turns the children against him. In this respect, men then lose
their authority and prerogatives as the head of the family. They feel
incapable of fulfilling their family status and obligations and also
humiliated by their peers:
When you are obedient and submissive to your wife, you
are no longer a true man leading your family. You look
ridiculous in the eyes of your peers.
You cannot even give any idea in the community between
other men as everyone will question the soundness and
usefulness of an idea of a subjected man commonly
branded ikizibahu (housecoat).
You
cannot
feel
comfortable
when
in
public.
Ubaumezenk’uwapfuyeahagaze (you feel like a dead
standing person) (group discussion, 23).
Narrators further indicate the danger of respecting and obeying the wife.
According to men, if they are nice to their wife, they attract social
disapproval and are called ikizibaho 3. If they are not nice to the wife,
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they live with the fear that the police will punish them. The man is
puzzled. Besides being silent in their homes, men describe leaving home
as another way to cope with the new challenges. Weakened from inside
and outside the home, one-way strategy is to run away from the family.
Some men justify this by arguing that the state has caused women to
disrespect men, and those who do not want to be disrespected leave
their homes. In extreme cases, men told stories of some men who have
killed their spouses:
In these days spousal death is common. In the past, there
were no such cases. Have you heard any man killed by the
wife or wife killed by the husband? These days it is
becoming a fashion. If you think we are lying to you, listen
to the news in almost all radio stations; all the time there
are announces of a man or a woman killed by his or her
partner. Why do you think it is happening? He asked! It is
due to these equality laws (Age 56).
Before equality comes, we were living well. Women were
nice people, now they are becoming foolish because laws
overprotect them. They do whatever they want because
they know the law is on their side (group discussion, 2).
These men’s experiences reflect a growing problem in Rwanda. The
Rwandan national police report shows that in 2009 and 2010, the
number of murder cases related to domestic violence doubled. According
to the report, 38 women were killed by their husbands in 2009 and the
figure rose to 83 in 2010. These statistics may indicate the confusion and
controversy around the situation of gender equality in Rwanda today.
This situation reflects a genuine challenge that need to be addressed by
policy makers: new laws regulating gender-related modern practices
seem to be creating problems for men that can result in new problems
for families.
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Concluding Thoughts
T
he aim of this research was to listen closely to the voices of
Rwandan men and understand their stories about everyday
experiences of gender equality practices in light of the new
legislation. I learned that men had two types of stories to tell. On the one
hand, men believe that gender equality laws have enabled women to
contribute both materially and financially to their families. On the other
hand, the same laws have negatively affected the relationship of spouses.
Men perceive a loss of power and control over their partners and a loss
of authority to invasive police powers over areas of traditional family
privacy. Women enjoy outside resources and socialize now in ways that
may result in infidelity. Family abandonment by men becomes a
mechanism of regaining some perceived losses of power and
prerogatives.
Men in the district of this study express relief from the burden of
being sole breadwinner for the family and appreciate the inheritance law
that gives women the right to land from their families of origin. Both new
practices increase family assets and lift the man’s socio-economic
position in the community. However, men had another story to tell,
which emerged as the more dominant story: in the new Rwanda, men are
not well catered for by the gender equality legal provisions, and this has
a negative effect on social relations in the family and the community. At
the end of the fieldwork, I realized that men across the four villages
studied in Kamonyi District think their status is being ruined by the new
gender equality promoted by the Government.
Their stories reflect fear of punishment by the local leaders or
the police if they commit violence against their female partners. Gone is
entitlement to beat their wives and forced sex with them. Gone,
therefore, are the old warnings and punishments for women who do not
fulfil their culturally determined roles in a proper way. Men experience
fear and the anticipation of being disciplined without recourse to
assistance. Their overarching experience is extreme humiliation, which
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encourages them to exaggerate the empirical extent of problems such as
women reporting men to police or turning up in bars after work.
The narratives paint a picture of a man who does not know which
path to take. This uncertainty thus creates a new rural masculinity in
Rwandan society that resides in imaginary and nostalgic scenarios and in
fears and worries. Previous studies have shown that men in Rwanda are
becoming more violent in the household as they resist gender equality
practices (Carlson and Randell 10; RWAMREC 16; Slegh and Richters;
131-139). However, the narratives from interviewed men here indicate
that men are mostly confused and do not know what to do and how to
behave in their homes and community. This state of confusion causes
dilemmas for them: collaborating with their wives will lead to loss of
recognition by peers, and not collaborating can lead to the abuse of
gender sensitive laws which is punishable. Arguably, the men are
experiencing a masculinity crisis.
However, this crisis cannot be interpreted as persistent over time
or a flaw in gender equality policy and laws; rather it indicates a
transitional period of confusion that suggests the need to develop
strategies for gender equality that can reconcile conflicts between
tradition and equality practices. Reading from men’s narratives, it
appears that it is still difficult to achieve gender equality in the family.
However, it is possible in rural families to do so if men’s concerns receive
recognition as legitimate experiences. There is significant fear among
men of not meeting their usual masculinity requirements as well as fear
of not knowing what the future of equality will bring to men, and worries
about what women can now do outside the home. If planners of gender
equality do not take these experiences seriously, the usual binary of men
as perpetrators of violence in the home and women as victims will
remain or could even worsen. Gender equality laws and policies thus will
operate in vain until men’s expressed pain, complaints and worries are
heard and addressed. If men are to practice equality life in their daily
interaction with women in homes, then it is important to listen and to
legitimate their daily experiences with an empathic approach.
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Men’s narratives therefore reflect the demand for public space
where traditional perceptions can be discussed, evaluated and modified
in order to reconcile old and new practices, roles and responsibilities;
otherwise men’s narrative indicate that change in the traditional gender
norms worsens gender relations and may abet the breakdown of the
family. It would be useful to balance future research on women and
gender equality with considerations of men and masculinities in a
changing society.
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1(See
Districts Performance Evaluation Report 2011-2012)
2Under
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The Fragrance of a New Man? Masculinity and Fashion in
Young Males’ Cologne Commercials
Iván Ferrero Ruiz
University of Connecticut
Abstract:
The consolidation of the masculine market within the fashion
world has given rise to an increasing objectification of the male
figure. In such context, men’s cologne commercials portray a
youthful, handsome man who embraces masculinity from a
highly fashioned perspective. The style of these ads is imbued with
a sense of artifice, illusion and mirage that nonetheless blends in
with the man-model whose beauty and confidence become an
attainable goal for consumers. Here, the alluring rhetoric of
advertising comes into play, equating the possession of a
fragrance with such attributes.
Drawing on Lipovetsky (1987), I address the connection between
fashion and advertising, focusing on the particularities of the
perfume market. Subsequently, I examine commercials from some
of the current top selling fragrances for young males: Paco
Rabanne, Armani and Chanel. My analysis is two-fold: first, I focus
on the conscious background artifice; second, I examine gender
portrayal and expectations. My goal is to visualize current
patterns in masculinity and show how these commercials enhance
beauty and individualization. Such qualities are captured in
models that frame a type of man who combines the current
penchant for style and fashion with the traditional masculine
attributes of power and control.
Key words: masculinity, advertising, cologne, fashion.
-MasculinitiesA Journal of Identity and Culture, Feb., 2015/3, 86-104
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Yeni Erkeğin Kokusu mu? Genç Erkeklere Yönelik Kolonya
reklamlarında erkeklik ve moda
Iván Ferrero Ruiz
Connecticut Üniversitesi
Özet:
Erkeklere yönelik piyasanın moda dünyası ile birleşimi erkek
figürün nesneleştirilmesinde artışa yol açtı. Bu bağlamda, erkek
kolonyası reklamları erkekliği moda perspektifinden kucaklayan
genç ve yakışıklı bir erkek portresi çizmektedir. Bu reklamların
tarzı, güzelliği ve güveni tüketiciler için erişilebilir bir hedef haline
gelen erkek-model ile birleşen bir kandırmaca, illüzyon ve
yanılsama hissi ile aşılanmaktadır. Burada, kokuya sahip olmayı
bu niteliklerle eşitleyen reklamcılığın cazip retoriği devreye
girmektedir.
Bu çalışma kapsamında Lipovetsky (1987)’den yararlanarak ve
parfüm piyasasının özelliklerine odaklanarak moda ve reklam
arasındaki ilişkiyi sorgulayacak; akabinde ise, şu sıralar en çok
satılan, Paco Rabanne, Armani ve Chanel gibi genç erkek
kokularından
birkaçının
reklamlarını
inceleyeceğim.
Gerçekleştireceğim analiz iki katmanlı olacaktır: İlk olarak arka
plandaki bilinçli kandırmacaya odaklanacak; ikinci olarak da
cinsiyet betimlenmesini ve buna ilişkin beklentileri inceleyeceğim.
Amacım erkeklikteki güncel örüntüleri görselleştirmek ve bu
reklamların
güzelliği
ve
bireyselleşmeyi
nasıl
arttırdığını
göstermek olacaktır. Bu özellikler, stile ve modaya yönelik güncel
eğilimi ve geleneksel erkek özellikleri olan iktidar ve kontrolü
birleştiren
bir
erkek
tipini
çerçeveleyen
modellerde
bulunmaktadır.
Anahtar kelimeler: erkeklik, reklamcılık, kolonya, moda.
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T
he consolidation of the masculine market within the fashion
world, including beauty and style merchandise, has led to an
increasing objectification of the male figure that can be perceived
in the advertising campaigns of the male fragrance industry. Men’s
cologne commercials portray a youthful, handsome man who embraces
masculinity from a highly fashioned perspective. In my research, I
addressed four masculine fragrance commercials from some of the
current top ten selling scents for young men. These advertising videos
are imbued with artifice, illusion and dream-like situations which, as
part of the game of fashion, make consumers detach from the story and
focus on the model, a man whose beauty and confident demeanor
become an attainable goal for consumers. At this point, the alluring
rhetoric of advertising comes into play, equating the possession of a
fragrance with such attributes. In such framework, I intend to visualize
current patterns in masculinity and gender expectations. Drawing on
Lipovetsky (1987), I examined the connection between fashion and
advertising, focusing on the particularities of the perfume market.
Subsequently,
I
analyzed
the
videos
from
two
perspectives:
background/setting and gender. In them, the stylish, seductive young
male is accompanied by a woman who has succumbed to him, in an
intensely erotic, magic atmosphere. I will conclude that these
commercials enhance beauty and individualization, captured in male
figures that frame a type of man who combines the current penchant for
style and fashion with the traditional masculine attributes of power and
control.
The commercials under analysis are Invictus (2013) and One
Million Intense (2012) by Paco Rabanne, Bleu de Chanel (2010) by Chanel
and Armani Code Ice (2014) by Giorgio Armani. Besides the market
success of these colognes in countries such as the US, Spain, Germany or
France (Kafkaesqueblog, Perfurmative), these ads reflect the same
gender characteristics, in spite of their stylistic and contextual
differences. They construct identity by relying on traditional views of
masculinity, such as control, dominance, power and individualism, while
also presenting a fashionable, modern man at the surface level.
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The advertisements display a common mis-en-scène that
juxtaposes present and past and amalgamates unrelated locations. Here
is where fashion’s beautiful artifice and advertising’s crafty rhetoric
blend in to present a combination of realistic and dream-like scenarios
that create an illusory atmosphere. But artificiality is precisely the
defining characteristic of fragrance commercials that makes them
compelling and memorable. From a gender perspective, I will describe
the portrayal of male figures from two outlooks: the objectified body and
the man’s social role. All these males are youthful, beautiful and
seductive. They move in an intensely erotic ambiance where they display
self-awareness and a strong sense of fashion. For the past decades,
fashion has proved to be no longer a female activity; the men starring
these commercials follow current fashion dictates for individualism and
distinction, each of them displaying their own style. On the other hand,
their demeanor is the same for all four cases: the commercials present a
man who is active and takes over control. Conversely, women are shown
as passive, highly sexualized subjects that have been seduced by the
man. In spite of each commercial’s attempt to portray different versions
of contemporary men, they all rely on the same old gender division.
Fashion and (Cologne) Advertising
I
n The Empire of Fashion (1987), Gilles Lipovetsky accounts for the
expansion of fashion and its influence in social behavior. Fashion is
sheer seduction and beauty, but its shallowness and artificiality is
seen as an upside, since it puts distance between humans and their
interactions with the world. Such detachment, according to Lipovetsky,
fosters individualism and the ability to choose, thus making the world
more democratic. In chapter 5 (pp. 156-173), the author explains how
advertising has acquired the characteristics of fashion: “advertising is
communication structured like fashion, more and more under the sway
of the spectacular, personalized appearance, pure seduction” (158). With
seduction as the driving force, advertising becomes a conscious artifice.
Ads are superficial, and mere beauty is their goal. The rational and
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logical gives way to the fantastic, the spectacular, because that is how
seduction succeeds, in a “frivolous” way (156). Advertising and fashion
are thus bound to blend with one another because they are structured
through rhetoric. As Phillips and McQuarrie put it (2008), rhetoric
focuses on how; it does not necessarily seek “unadorned truth” (7), but
ways of persuading. It is, therefore, tied to seduction: what matters is not
the message, but how it is presented, hence the importance of stylistic
choices. Aesthetics is “primordial in the work of advertising” (Lipovetsky
159).
In this context, fragrance commercials are the quintessential
example where all these characteristics meet. No other ad “celebrates
artifice” in such a compelling way, presenting fantastic or dreamlike
situations. Even if they take place in real locations, there is always an
odd, playful combination of time and place that makes them unnatural,
pure pastiche. Moreover, they always incorporate magic and mystery, as
if encouraging viewers not to take them seriously. The illusory situations
of cologne commercials do not invite to closeness and identification, but
to distancing. For Lipovetsky, this is how fashioned advertising works: “it
has no subjective resonance, it elicits no emotional involvement” (161).
And yet, fragrance commercials resonate with a large part of the
population. Many of them have become widely popular, with their
models acquiring notable fame and admiration. Additionally, perfumes
and colognes make up a large part of the firms revenue, and they connect
haute couture with the pret à porter, casual, more accessible fashion.
Colognes are affordable for almost everyone, but very few consumers
can purchase a designer’s dress. With such economic potential, fashion
houses meticulously imbue perfume and cologne advertising with the
illusion of their high fashion sophistication, in order to save face down at
the world of the average consumer.
Even if the consumer does not just get fooled by the commercial,
advertising is vital for fragrances. The buyer will most likely test a
cologne before purchasing it, but when she enters the perfume store,
with its numerous fragrance samples, what makes her choose a sample is
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advertising imagery: “images give us a sense that we know places, times
and peoples that we have never experienced” (Schroeder 278). Whether
she liked it or not, it is stuck in her head, and the more striking, odd and
artificial it was, the better she will remember it. In “Narrative and
Persuasion in Fashion Advertising” (2010), McQuarrie and Phillips argue
the importance of the “grotesque” for effective advertising. Ads
containing negative values will trigger an “intense experience” (380)
from the part of the consumer. Although at different levels, the
commercials analyzed contain grotesque attributes. Their uncanny
elements can be unpleasant, due to the excessive power they confer on
the male characters, making them presumptuous, conceited and
overbearing. Along these same lines, the dominance of men over women
in the commercials can also be seen as grotesque.
McQuarrie and Phillips posit two important persuasive factors for
consumer engagement, called “transportation” and “immersion”, which
“work by intensifying brand experience rather than boosting brand
evaluation” (368). Transportation refers to the consumer “experiencing”
the story presented by the ad, an unlikely option for these cologne
commercials, due to the excessive artifice they deploy and viewers’
presumed distant attitude. However, “immersion” explains consumers’
potential engagement with the dream-like, illusory cologne commercials.
The authors describe this mode of engagement as “creative, innovative
and evocative” (387), similar to an art piece in a museum. Observers do
not intend to identify with it, but to pay attention to its aesthetics and
overall configuration. This factor can therefore explain the resonance of
cologne commercials among watchers, even if the ad itself does not
spark empathy or identification.
Finally, an essential issue to account for the nature of fragrance
advertising is the need to overcome the limitations of scent. According to
Zelman (1992), the sense of smell lacks linguistic resources and it is hard
to describe it “separately from its source” (110). In the absence of
discursive symbols, advertisers choose to rely on “sexuality, wealth [and]
rugged individualism” (112), which, combined with “mystery” (114), act
as the filler for the empty slot of the indescribable scent. All four men in
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the commercials embrace wealth and individualism, in an erotic
atmosphere with sexual tension arising between male and female
characters. The eroticism is enhanced by the mysterious ambiance of the
narrative, with ambiguous conversations and unclear background
stories. Much is left unseen and unsaid, but it is hinted by the gaze and
the conversations. Several cues lead to sex and sexuality, and that is why
gender roles and the representation of masculinity are of paramount
importance in the commercials.
The Commercials
T
he promotional videos belong to renowned fashion houses with a
long trajectory in the haute couture world. I have examined two
commercials from Paco Rabanne, Invictus and One Million Intense,
due to their influence and sales. The ads have an overwhelming presence
in the media, and the advertised fragrances have obtained excellent
sales: Invictus is currently the top fragrance in France and Spain
(Kafkaesqueblog, Perfurmative), and One Million heads the US market
(Top Ten for Everything). Additionally, these videos are worth comparing
due to their different setting but same clear-cut exhibition of male power
and female sexual subordination. In Invictus, all attention is drawn to a
shirtless man (former rugby player Nick Youngquest) who walks across
a crowded stadium at night, surrounded by Greek-looking deities. The
model is carrying a sports cup (which is also the cologne’s bottle) and he
destroys anything or anyone trying to get in his way, in a display of
herculean strength. When he gets to the fitting room, naked nymph-like
women are waiting for him, causing him to naughtily grin at the camera,
as if he were seeking the viewer’s mutual understanding. One Million
Intense, on the other hand, takes place in a bunker where a man (the
model Mat Gordon) with magic powers sets up an encounter with a
woman. Every time he snaps his fingers, he obtains something he wants,
gradually changing the setting and undressing the woman. In the end,
her skin turns gold, like the fragrance, and she ends up embracing him.
He therefore possesses her like he can possess the bottle.
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Giorgio Armani and Chanel opt for a more classic and classier
man. Armani Code Ice (2014) features Hollywood star Chris Pine, who
adopts different identities at the same time to show a woman passing by
that she will not be able to escape him: he is a bartender, a customer, a
businessperson and a trend-setter. Eventually, he waits for her in a car
and they both drive off together after he says “I thought I’d lost you”.
When the voice-over announces the fragrance, the message “Armani
Code: unforgettable” is displayed. Meanwhile, in Bleu de Chanel (2010),
the French actor and model Gaspard Ulliel plays a photographer who has
several flashbacks while he is giving a press conference. The person
prompting such memories is a girl seating among the other journalists.
The flashbacks provide a background story, in which he was a
photographer and she was first, his model, and then his lover. Back at the
present, he goes through a meltdown and unexpectedly leaves the room
after claiming “I’m not the man I’m expected to be anymore”, cueing the
fragrance’s motto: “be unexpected”. As he makes his way out, the walls
fall down, as if his energy had torn them down.
All four narratives are set in an uncanny atmosphere that is the
cause, or consequence, of the man’s magic powers, who is a youthful,
good-looking male in his late twenties or early thirties. He displays
confidence, authority and initiative, in contrast with his female
counterparts, who are passive individuals charmed by him. This same
trend is also present in recent videos by other fashion houses. In Only the
Brave (2014), by Diesel, an athletic man runs through a futuristic city.
The place is full of obstacles he has to elude, while a woman eyes him
and exchanges a deep, intimate gaze with him. Eventually, he makes it to
the top of a building overlooking the city and stares into the horizon
while a voice-over states “take over tomorrow”. In Dior Homme (2013),
Hollywood star Robert Pattinson exchanges sexual and other encounters
with a woman he has seduced and now follows him wherever he goes as
if she were his little puppet. All images are in black and white, providing
a vintage style, except for the end, in which the golden hues of sunset
match his beige and black attire, which also resembles the fragrance.
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The Artifice of Time And Place
I
n “Fashion and Popular Culture”, Wilson (2003) addresses the
concept of nostalgia as a mechanism deployed by fashion, which
seeks the “appropriation of the past” (172). In my study, I argue that
fashion also utilizes places in order to evoke alternative worlds, so that
consumers can impersonate not just an artificial epoch, but also a
physical space. Indeed, the defining characteristic of fragrance
commercials is time and place playfulness, superimposing the present
with previous eras and combining different spaces in the same scenario.
They constitute a key motif that makes the commercials eye-catching
and thrilling.
Such is the amalgamation of historical periods and geographic
locations that time and place cannot be analyzed separately. The lack of a
present or past is a key component in One Million Intense, where the
absence of outside references draws the attention exclusively to the man,
the woman and their sensuous encounter at an isolated bunker.
Meanwhile, the other three commercials share a nostalgic drive for a
classy past that connects with the present. Invictus is the video with the
most marked temporal and spatial contrasts, blending classic mythology
with contemporary music (the song Power by the rapper Kanye West)
and fashion shows with sports games. The sports theme connects the
athletic spirit of Old Greece with a present-day stadium, but the world of
fashion modeling also intervenes, as the man seems to catwalk on an
arena that resembles a fashion show. At some point, it is worth
wondering whether Nick Youngquest is an athlete, a model, a deity, or all
of them at once.
In “Behind the scenes with Chris Pine”, the video director of
Armani Code Ice, Andrew Dominik, expressed his desire to include an
“Italian setting”, resulting in the combination of Italian architecture with
the skyline of Los Angeles, and thus fusing the classic and the modern.
Another optimal example is the video’s tune, a remix of Rossini’s Barber
of Seville by DJ Brian Burrows that fuses opera and electronic music.
Additionally, Chris Pine’s multiple roles are a modern impersonation of
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the main character in Rossini’s piece, who disguises himself in order to
seduce a woman. Finally, Scorsese’s Bleu de Chanel mixes the present of
the press conference with the 1960-1970’s aesthetics of the flashbacks.
The song “She said Yeah” (1965) by The Rolling Stones, and the women’s
hairstyle and clothes are the main cues that enable the time travel.
Regarding space, two other locations appear besides the press
conference room: New York’s subway and a bourgeois home reminiscing
of the 19th century. In the last sequence, Gaspard Ulliel hastily leaves the
room while the thin walls fall down, revealing the actual movie studio
and accentuating the artificiality of the whole scenario.
In spite of such remarkable references to the past and alternative
spaces, something remains in the present and sparks the connection
with the young people these commercials try to persuade: the men
themselves. Their overall style and demeanor do not mirror the past;
instead, they reflect a trendy person who lives in the present and
presents himself as a role model of current masculine beauty. This clash
of the ultimate, good-looking model that belongs with fashion magazines
with other worlds and periods heightens the purposeful artifice of
cologne commercials.
All these men have supernatural powers that help them take over
the people and space around them: “in advertising contexts […] men
create a sense of identity by extending out from their body to control
objects and other people” (McKinnon 91). This mysterious magic is part
of the fictional world involving cologne commercials, which makes them
derisible and even subject to mockery. But this ostensive display of
fantasy is perfectly balanced with an element consumers can relate to:
the body. The models showcase a fashionable, beautiful and youthful
body whose perfection becomes a desirable goal.
The Man: His Body
T
he 19th century brought about a significant change in the habits
and attitudes of men and women towards clothing and cosmetics.
Men “were excluded from the glitter of artifice” in what was
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coined as “the great male renunciation” (Fluegel 1930, Lipovetsky 1987,
Entwistle 200). The reason for this shift can be found in the rise of
bourgeois society, in which men were expected to be “useful” (Entwistle
154). As a consequence, the luxury and pomposity associated with
fashion was reserved just for women. In such context, the suit became
the masculine garment par excellence, linked to “respectability and the
desire to be business-like or professional” (Entwistle 173). Neglected
from the sphere of fashion, ignored by the gaze, men in suits were the
representation of a de-sexualized body (Entwistle 174). The 1980s,
however, were a major breakthrough in terms of men and fashion:
clothing, style and beauty were no longer exclusively for women. As
opposed to the aforementioned “renunciation”, the male figure also
became the target of fashion advertising, thus reflecting a “narcissistic
preoccupation with his appearance” (Entwistle 146). Since the early 19 th
century and up to the late 1900s males were outside the fashion
spectrum; their relation to dress and appearance was supposed to be
purely practical. But from the 1980s, the access of males to the fashion
realm and their presence in ads and magazines brought about the
eroticization and objectification of male bodies. It was the advent of the
“new man” (Triggs 1992; Entwistle 2000).
In the Invictus commercial, overt eroticism is shown in the
model’s tattooed, muscled torso. The gaze is inevitably drawn to his halfnaked body, and his demeanor also indicates that he wants to be the
center of attention and the object of desire. The other three commercials
show men in suits. These garments, contrary to the old-style idea of desexualization, contribute to eroticism: “clothing […] is a crucial feature in
the production of masculinity and femininity” (Entwistle 143). The suit
has a dual goal: it showcases the traditional, respectable man while also
making him desired, bridging the classic with the more youthful and
rebel spirit. All three men wear the suit in a non-traditional way:
unbuttoned shirt and no tie. The dressed body shows signs of
undressing, inviting the viewer to imagine the man’s naked body and
picture the sexual encounter with the woman who is so enthralled by
him. Even though the body is only overtly exposed in the Invictus
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commercial, the different garments the other models wear and the
frequent glimpses to their chests are a sign of their muscular, slender
figures: “physical power is denoted by the muscular tones of the male
body […] viewed as both aesthetically and sexually pleasing although the
latter is not readily accessible” (Triggs 28).
Moreover, the commercials show pervasive beauty and youth, a
symbol for the “hedonistic, juvenile mass culture” (Lipovetsky 99)
elicited by modern fashion. The men always look impeccable no matter
what they do or how they feel. Nick Youngquest (Invictus) is carrying a
large, bulky trophy, showing no exhaustion whatsoever. One Million’s
Mat Gordon is swiftly moving around, but his look is always spotless.
Giorgio Armani’s Chris Pine adopts multiple roles in the commercial, but
his face stays the same, and he looks neat in all occasions. Chanel’s
Gaspard Ulliel is put under pressure, but no sweat or awkward frowning
affect his handsome face. The force of beauty makes it transcend the
human and transport the models to the divine. Besides the magic powers
that all four protagonists have in common, it is worth noting the
influence of classic Greek aesthetics and topics in the Paco Rabanne
commercials. Triggs claims that Greek corporeal culture and naked
representations were a “cult for wholeness and physical beauty” (28)
that went beyond the material, thus placing desire out of reach and
transforming the human into the divine. In Invictus, the man is
surrounded by gods and goddesses, and the women waiting for him at
the fitting room replicate the nymphs and priestesses. In One Million, the
man turns the woman’s naked body into gold, thus mirroring the myth of
king Midas.
But the objectified, seductive male body finds its most clear-cut
expression in the cologne bottle. Back in 1994, Murphy already pointed
at the ingenuity that sellers put into the package. A striking, artistic
bottle was also necessary to try and overcome the growing competition
among brands. The advertisers of these four fragrances seek to transport
the model’s youthfulness and flawless beauty to the bottle; their
attributes are conveyed by the container. Invictus’ bottle is the trophy
the model carries; One Million’s is a tall, narrow bottle that resembles the
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model’s slender body; Armani’s is dark and elegant, like the man’s
clothes; Bleu de Chanel’s squared shape matches the model sitting with
his arms stretched and his blazer on. Additionally, the bottle’s color
matches the predominant hues in the commercial: grey, gold, black/grey
and dark blue, respectively.
The Man: His Role
T
he men in the commercials are highly fashioned. Their style is
crucial for their seductive power, and they are all objectified and
perused by the sexualized gaze. However, this new man does not
go beyond the aesthetic. In terms of demeanor and attitude, the models
communicate the traditional role of masculinity, defined as control and
power. Their supernatural abilities empower them and endow them with
confidence and self-assertion. They have complete control over the
situations, and they spark an intimidating, yet enchanting feeling.
Moreover, the models display ostensive wealth and success,
visible in their clothes but also in their relation to spaces and objects.
Invictus is an admired celebrity; One Million appears in a luxury bunker
resembling a Swiss bank; Armani Code drives an expensive sports car;
Bleu de Chanel inhabits a bourgeois house. Three out of the four men are
smothered by paparazzi, and all of them dominate the moves and
feelings of women. They exert control, but they are not controlled by
others. This visual manifestation of strength and affluence is the symbol
of the confidence they irradiate, which ultimately sustains the “myth of
masculine independence” (McKinnon 89). They do not have family ties;
instead, they search for the woman they want, conscious of their success.
McKinnon (2003) defines the 1970s as a period of “stereotypical”
gender portrayal. The concepts that, according to the author, 1970s
advertising communicates about men are “intelligence”, “independence”
(88) and “authority/dominance” (90), and all of them correspond with
the men in the studied cologne commercials. Conversely, he advocates a
shift in the perception of men during the 1990s, more lenient with the
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aforementioned eroticism and objectification. McKinnon claims that in
more recent decades men have been deployed by advertising in ways
that in the past would only correspond to women, due to the dynamism
of gender as a construct (93). However, he argues that a certain type of
advertising sticks to very traditional views of masculinity: car and beer
commercials. After examining the characteristics attributed to men in
these advertisements, I found them to be analogous to my four case
studies: free, individualistic men surrounded by women who “admire
and respond sexually to masculinity” (98). Cologne commercials can
then be grouped with alcohol and vehicles, which coincidentally are
present in the analyzed videos (One Million prepares a drink while his
woman gets naked, and the Armani Code commercial features the sports
car). These four men therefore embody the traditional notion of
masculinity as powerful, independent and authoritarian, while also
portraying an intense sensuality and voyeuristic desire that masculinity
has been immersed in since the 1980s and 1990s: “male representations
have changed in the last few decades, but male dominance remains”
(Schroeder and Zwick 45).
The image of the lone man who makes advances was labeled as a
“hero shot” by Schroeder and Zwick, who argue that the lack of evidence
for the heterosexuality of these individuals might easily allow for a gay
reading. To safeguard this much cherished masculinity, these
commercials ensure that their men have an active role that justifies their
(sexual) scrutiny. One of Paco Rabanne’s men is a rugby player, and the
other might easily be conceived as some tycoon or entrepreneur; Chris
Pine adopts multiple personalities including white collar jobs and
bartending; and Gaspard Ulliel plays a photographer. Additionally, they
compensate their being eyed by the viewer with doing something:
walking, setting up a date, driving, giving a press conference and so forth.
In this sense, Holt and Thompson (2004) account for the existence of a
“man-of-action hero” in American consumer culture, who is the middle
ground between the traditional “bread-winner” (the hard-working,
responsible father) and the “rebel” (the amoral, independent cowboy):
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Man of action: must be adventurous, exciting, potent, and
untamed, while also contributing to the greater social good.
He must be perpetually youthful, dynamic, and iconoclastic,
while at the same time fulfill the duties of a mature
patriarch. He must continually defy the social status quo,
while he enjoys a considerable degree of status and respect.
He must be an unreconstructed risk taker, be dangerous,
and yet be utterly indispensable to the integrity and
functioning of the social order (429).
The men from Rabanne, Dior and Chanel fit into these characteristics,
showing a sassy, sometimes unorthodox behavior. But despite their
recklessness, arrogance and self-absorption, they are very much
respected and admired, partly thanks to the alluring voice-overs and the
fascination and devotion shown by female characters. Furthermore,
these men are not evil or cruel, like the cowboy, but mischievous rascals
with a mysterious aura that intensifies their attractiveness.
On the other side of the spectrum we find women. Unlike the
active, daring and powerful man, females adopt a submissive role that
obliterates their personality. Their only active intervention (if there is
any) is to facilitate the sexual encounter with the man: “the male
embodies the active subject, the business-like, self-assured decision
maker, while the female occupies the passive object, the observed
sexual/sensual body, eroticized and inactive” (Schroeder and Zwick 34).
Naked, nymph-like women lie on a bench at the fitting room waiting for
their Invictus; meanwhile, a girl is undressed and turned into a (literal)
piece of gold for One Million, looking like the actual fragrance. The female
lover of the Chanel man is just a passive model of his camera lens and his
own eyes. Finally, Chris Pine is said to be “a businessman, a trend-setter,
a bartender and a client”, while the woman is just described as “the
beautiful woman” in one of the promotional videos for the Armani
commercial. This description sums up the limited female roles: they are
just beautiful objects, princesses who have been enchanted by the
powerful magician. Completely seduced by him, the woman just follows
her man.
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In Gender Advertisements (1979), Irving Goffman accounted for
the role of men and women in advertising. Thirty five years later, many
of his examples still prevail in the cologne ads. Goffman explains that
men usually take the executive role (32), but he also provides more
specific details. For instance, women “are pictured on floors and beds
more than are men” (41). In the cologne advertisements, women appear
motionless, sitting on benches (Invictus), armchairs (One Million), car
seats (Dior) or chairs and floors (Chanel). In contrast, if the men are
portrayed sitting down, they do not remain still, like the women.
Goffman also contends that women tend to be “unoriented” (57), and on
many occasions “drifting from the physical scene around them” (64). In
the commercials, the woman is never mentally present: while she is not
with the man, she is thinking of him; while he interacts and plays with
the watcher, she is oblivious to the voyeuristic eye and remains focused
on him. Therefore, a clear-cut gender demarcation is very much alive in
these commercials. She is what he is not: “as an engine of consumption,
advertising plays a strong role in promulgating dualistic gender roles
and prescribing sexual identities” (Schroeder and Zwick 21). Despite the
modern aesthetic that presents a groomed, fashioned man, there is still
an old, classic message.
Conclusion
T
he 1980’s and 1990’s shift towards male objectification is a
consolidated trend today, with the unstoppable incorporation of
men to the fashion world in which beauty, youthfulness and
individualism prevail, as it has been shown in the four cologne
commercials under analysis. And yet the meticulous, stylish and cuttingedge physique of the male protagonists goes hand-in-hand with
traditional views on gender, in accord with Goffman’s study of gender
advertising during the 1970s: a subordinate woman and an affluent,
successful male who exerts the executive role. This gender division
(present not only in the studied commercials, but also in brands such as
Diesel and Dior), reveals a pattern in male cologne advertising. On the
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other hand, the reinforcement of conventional masculinity may be an
attempt on the part of the sellers to respond to the traditional
assumption that fragrances are something feminine. To reach out to
male population, fashion houses need to emphasize masculine attributes.
These men’s bodies are the target of the gaze and their attire and aspect
are the result of a meticulous selection. But the potential vulnerability of
a male figure that is under scrutiny is balanced out with conventional
masculine features: from physical, tangible elements (suits, cars, sports)
to demeanor and attitude (power, self-assurance, control, wealth). It is
therefore feasible to think that we are not completely over the “great
male renunciation”, and that men’s engagement with fashion and style
still needs to be justified. However, this is just a possibility, and not an
assertion, due to the particular characteristics of advertising.
These commercials incorporate sufficient artifice for consumers
to ignore the content and just pay attention to the form. McQuarrie and
Phillips’ research demonstrates that the grotesque is an effective tool
that “forms a duality with the pretty” (379) and fosters seduction. The
“pretty” is consumers’ ultimate goal, and advertisers deploy all the
persuasive and engaging means at their disposal to cater to it. Society is
immersed in the quest for beauty, and the grotesque can be acceptable
so long as it serves the purpose of perpetuating youthfulness and
attractiveness. For this reason, I cannot venture to claim that men still
cling to the idea of dominance and power over women just because the
commercials picture it that way, since advertising portrays a fantasy of
which consumers are usually well aware. Therefore, future research
needs to shift from advertising to an analysis of consumer behavior and
motivations when purchasing fragrances. That way, we will be able to
verify the actual influence of this type of advertising in society, and also
confirm if a new kind of masculinity has emerged, or if the age-old macho
has simply put on a new, fashionable disguise.
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Drags, Drugs and Dirt: Abjection and Masculinity in
Marilyn Manson's music video (s)Aint
Nataša Pivec
Independent Researcher
Abstract:
Music videos as a medium of popular cultural discourses have
become more widespread and acknowledged by the public
because of the music industry's emphasis on visual aspect of
music and the rise of new media (internet, social media) that are
more or less visual-oriented.
The article examines the presence of various types of abjection in
the video (s)Aint by the artist Marilyn Manson, positioned as
liminal or threatening to the construction of hegemonic
masculinity and its elements: body, heterosexuality and agency. It
also highlights the lacking representation of women in the video
and the privileging principle of heteronormativity that also
creates hegemonic and subordinate forms of heterosexuality
(BDSM culture).
Key words: rock music, hegemonic masculinity, abject.
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“Drag”ler, Uyuşturucular ve Kir: Marilyn Manson’un
Müzik Videosu “(s)Aint’’de Iğrenti ve Erkeklik
Nataša Pivec
Bağımsız Araştırmacı
Özet
Popüler kültür söyleminin bir aracı olan müzik videoları, müzik
endüstrisinin müziğin görsel yanı üzerindeki etkisi ve hemen
hemen görsel odaklı olan yeni medyanın ortaya çıkışı (internet,
sosyal medya) sayesinde daha yaygın hale gelmiş ve ve herkes
tarafından kabul görmeye başlamıştır.
Bu makale, sanatçı Marylin Manson’un (s) Aint adlı videosunda yer
alan ve bir eşikte olma hali olarak, veya hegemonik erkekliğin ve
onun öğelerinin; beden, heteroseksüellik ve erkeksi failliğin
inşasına yönelik bir tehdit olarak konumlanan çeşitli bayağılık
biçimlerini ele almaktadır. Aynı zamanda söz konusu videoda
kadın temsilinin eksikliğine ve heteroseksüelliğin hegemonik ve
madun formlarını (BDSM kültürü) yaratan heteronormativenin
ayrıcalıklı kılınmasına dikkati çekmektedir.
Anahtar sözcükler: rock müzik, hegemonik erkeklik, igrenç.
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Introduction
I
n a discourse of popularity as a world wide recognition, rock music is
a popular musici genre, Marilyn Manson (MM)ii, a rock celebrity, and
music videos as audio-visual texts also share a certain level of
popularity due to their widely circulation via mass media, social media
and internet (e.g. YouTube). Rock music as a type of popular music is
inclined to direct or indirect celebration of masculinity (Frith 234; Cohen
28) that can be seen in the use of instruments – guitar as a phallic
symbol, lyrics about themes, related to masculinity – male omnisexual
gratification for example, visual style performance – cocksure maleness
and in the construction of women as sexual objects, groupies or passive
consumers.
The aim of the article is to examine a possibility for
deconstruction
of
hegemonic
masculinity
(e.g.
male
body,
heterosexuality, heteronormativity, agency) via specific cultural forms of
shock rock as a particular rock genre and music video as its medium.
For the analysis of the chosen music video and its embedment in
broader cultural context, various theoretical concepts will be employed,
such as Mary Douglas' dirt and Julia Kristeva's abjection that can
function as a tactic to challenge R.W. Connell's hegemonic masculinity.
Dirt – Abjection – Body
T
he definition of dirt according to anthropologist Mary Douglas is
that it is "a matter out of place [which] implies two conditions: a
set of ordered relations and a contravention of that order" (35).
Deriving from this definition, the acknowledgement of something or
somebody as dirt or dirty, also constitutes the relation between
dominant (proper, clean) and subordinate (improper, dirty), where dirt
permanently threatens to pollute or forcefully appropriate the position
of the dominant group. Douglas explains that "where there is dirt, there
is system [because] dirt is the by-product of a systematic ordering and
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classification of matter" (35), so the existence of dirt depends on the
context and is therefore a relative category. Despite its symbolic and
linguistic construction, dirt functions on a material level; the direct or
physical experience of dirt means that dirt is disgusting, repulsive,
repugnant.
The development of concepts of dirt and cleanliness in Western
industrialised societies was aligned with the rise of science of hygiene or
"germ theory" and its hierarchical framework of hygienic or unhygienic.
Yet the perception of dirt is always guided by an emotional (or moral)
and physical rationale (Campkin et al. 2) and because ideas of dirt are
very pervasive, they dictate what is normal and force an ordering of
people down the axis of gender, skin colour, ethnicity, citizenship, class,
dis/ability, sexual orientation and identity.
Julia
Kristeva
(125)
understands
dirt (waste
or bodily
decay/death) as one of the categories of abjection, together with sexual
difference and food or bodily incorporation; all three of them serve for
the preservation of life and constitute the proper social body to conform
to the cultural expectations of the physical body. As Elizabeth Grosz puts
it, "the abject is what of the body falls away from it while remaining
irreducible to the subject/object and inside/outside oppositions" (192).
But with the concept of abject, Kristeva embraces everything that is
within prevalent Western discourse construed as Other: unthinkable,
preoedipal, semiotic or psychotic and for these reasons, something or
somebody that is simultaneously appealing and appalling. Kristeva's
concept of abjection can highlight relationships between marginalized or
Othered people and their spatial or material contexts (e.g. body odour,
living spaces, lifestyle habits, cleaning practices, gender performances,
language usage etc.) that constructs them as Othered (Campkin et al. 5).
Filth, as Cohen puts it, “represents a cultural location at which the human
body, social hierarchy, psychological subjectivity and material objects
converge” (viii).
To return to the body, in dichotomous opposition between mind
and body, the lattter is always considered as Other and this has remained
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correlated with an opposition between male and female, with the female
regarded as enmeshed in her bodily existence. Other enmeshments into
corporeality were also attributed to (1) colonised or non-white bodies,
(2) lower classes, (3) mentally impaired and (4) non-heterosexual
subjects (e.g. male homosexuality) because they deviate from the
standard of hegemonic masculinity (Connell 72) and are regarded as
Other bodies.
Besides its Otherness, the body is also leaky in a literal sense and
it is a woman who is perceived as lacking in bodily self-containment due
to her multiple bodily orifices (Grosz 203). Bodily fluids and secretions
are inscribing women's corporeality in a mode of an uncontrolled
seepage. Leakiness of the body is a sign of a lack of self-control or control
in general, which could be translated into an assumption that the body
controls the woman and diminishes her subjectivity (mind, ratio). But as
Douglas (115) explains it, all borderline positions or bodily orifices are a
site for pollution or contamination and as such serves as an opportunity
to deconstruct the ideal and unobtainable illusion of the non-leaky
("perfect") bodies (i.e. male body). The male body has remained, as Grosz
(198) argues, phenomenologically unanalysed and that is the sole reason
for its position as non-leaky.
Non-leaky male corporeality is a part of the hegemonic
masculinity, a prevalent ideal of masculinity, most honoured and most
wanted, also associated with the following characteristics: physical
power (height, weight, muscle mass), virility, wealth or capital
(economic, social, cultural, symbolic), emotional self-control with
accentuated
civil
aggression,
competitiveness,
rationality,
instrumentality and emphasized heterosexuality (Connell 76-81). This
configurative principle of social reality, which is not permanent, but
conditionally chosen from cultural repertoire of masculine behaviours,
excludes anyone, who does not at some historical moment or cultural
context belong to that model and is consequently subjected to the
process of Othering. The principal Othering is directed towards
femininity and male homosexuality because hegemonic masculinity as a
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dominant postulate strives to differentiate and distance itself from these
Othered ("dirty") categories.
The sexual component of hegemonic masculinity consists of
heterosexuality because sexuality as a historical and social organization
of the erotic (Weeks 17) is, despite of the existence of non-middleclass
(i.e. working class), non-white and non-heterosexual sexualities, in its
historical
core
a
postulate
of
middle-class,
white
and
male
heterosexuality, where the main dichotomous divide is between
heterosexuality and (male) homosexuality. Modern concept of male
homosexuality has been constituted as abnormal or Other and as such
has been perpetually reaffirming heterosexuality as norm/al. The
normalisation of assumed heterosexuality, compulsory heterosexuality
(Rich 633) or heteronormativity (Warner 14) strategically erases any
sign of effeminacy in male sexuality (e.g. passivity, receptive anal
pleasure) by establishing a heterosexual/homosexual hierarchy, but also
creates hierarchies among heterosexualities, resulting in hegemonic and
subordinate forms of heterosexuality (Seidman in Ingraham 40), such as
intergenerational sexuality, BDSM, sexual choices based on class,
ethnical and racial diversities (Sedgwick in Angelides 170). All those
subordinate sexualities can be characterised as sexual dirt, an idea that
will be further discussed.
Marilyn Manson as Other(ed)
A
s already briefly mentioned, the construction of Other represents
someone who is different or uneven to us, a dichotomous
opposite and therefore a bearer of negative traits because they
represent the deviance from anything that is central, safe, normal and
conventional (Pickering 204).
Here are some informations about Marilyn Manson (MM) and his
work that could define him as Other(ed) according to the popular music
standards. MM is the frontman and band founder of an American rock
band by the same name, formed in late 1980's that are mostly known for
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their shock value lyrics, videos and performances. The appearance and
artistic agency of MM are deliberately designed to offend contemporary
social sensibilities of the American culture (Bostic et al. 54). To begin
with, his portmanteau name is constituted from names of two American
cultural icons – Marilyn Monroe and Charles Manson. The former
functions as a historically and world wide acknowledged symbol for
femininity and sexuality while the latter has become an American
cultural symbol for serial killing. The merging of two incompatible
symbols together (sexuality and death) can also be defined as cultural
dirt.
As it is common in a shock rock traditioniii, his appearance and
stage performance are the combination of elements that create
discomfort: androgynous black clothing, ghoulish appearance and heavy
make-up (white foundation, black eyeliner, lipstick, contact lenses), stage
props
(blood,
fire,
chainsaws,
animals,
cages),
stage
attitude
(antireligious with acts of Bible burning, anti-moral by nude selfexposure, Chapman 336) and rageful and provocative lyrics and videos.
Naming of his albums also depict his assertive stance against
conservative American culture: Portrait of an American Family (1994),
Smells Like Children (1995), Antichrist Superstar (1996), Mechanical
Animals (1998), Holy Wood (In the Shadow of the Valley of Death) (2000),
The Golden Age of Grotesque (2003), Eat Me, Drink Me (2007), The High
End of Low (2009) and Born Villain (2012). The visual aspect of his music
(album covers, videos) are inspired with the art of grotesque and abject
that serves as an expression of his artistic nonconformity to an average
taste of normalcy, particularly present in the popular music industry and
broader Western culture.
All those elements are part of his stage or media persona (a
fantasied alter ego, Bostic et al. 54) that has positioned him as a different
type of Other, as an Antihero. The cultural trope of Antihero that is most
appealing to youngsters and most appalling to their parents and adults,
can also be regarded as a generational abject or an unbridgeable
disparity between their world views. His self-proclamation of being an
Antihero led in a right-wing conservative notion, which is an influential
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political opinion maker in the American society, to the media
demonization of his stage persona. He is therefore considered as a "body
without a (Christian) soul", something that is easily translated into, what
would Kristeva called it, a corpse or absolute abject (126). That
conception of him is deliberately magnified by his appearance, which
resembles the corpse or non-human entity – white foundation for face
make-up, black wardrobe, tall and sleek posture.
Due to his complex Antihero pop status, he can be labelled as a
pop abjection or dirt so does the chosen video (s)Aint because it was
banned due to the inappropriate content. At this point there are two
positions of abjection – MM's rock status and banned music video and as
it was previously outlined, the idea of abject or dirt functions as a
disorder or challenge to the system, in this case to the system of
hegemonic masculinity.
Music Video as a Representational Medium
M
usic video as a crossover video form between advertising
commercial and film has, as any other cultural text,
polysemious nature and can be used as a subversive reading
against the dominant culture of representations or meanings (Shuker
167). Every text is already an interpretation of a specific discourse or
discoursive formations because nothing exists in a social or cultural
vacuum; music video as a chosen medium therefore to some extent
naturalises and generates specific interpretations of a social reality –
social meanings, identities, power distribution, which supports existing
social structures and hierarchy. According to Prince (Gabor 282), a film
can occupy a stance of an ideological support (i.e. the film supports and
promotes the dominant ideology), ideological critique (i.e. the film offers
a critical view of the established values) or ideological incoherence (i.e.
the film offers an ideological mix to produce an ambiguous product that
would attract as many members of the targeted audience as possible
while offending as few as possible). Due to some similarities between
film and music video, we can assume that a music video is a political text
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and therefore a bearer of a certain ideological stance. In a case of music
video (s)Aint, it is the combination of critique and incoherence that
brands it as ambivalent because of the ontological nature of music video
and the specific content of it.
Dirt as a Tactic of Gender Subversion in (s)Aint
F
or the forthcoming analysis to be as intelligible as possible, here's
a quick description of the music video and its visual signifiers,
important for this case study: mood of the video, the narrative
structure, the degree of realism or fantasy of the settings in the video,
theme of the video, the importance of performance, modes of sexuality
and the prevalent symbols in the video (Shuker 168-169).
The mood of the video is dark, murky, almost like a delirium or
nightmare and could be categorised as an on-edge-of-the-consciousness
episode of a drug deprived and hallucinating person, so the narrative of
the video is non-linear and incoherent (e.g. switching back and forth
from one scene to another, camera angles are crooked). The setting in
the video is realistic, a hotel room or perhaps a drug addict's living space,
where the activities and mental states, linked with a drug abuse are the
central theme. The main protagonist and performer is MM, who is more
or less passive (i.e. laying on the bed or in the bath tub, cutting himself
on the chest with a razor blade, crammed on the couch while waiting for
the drug dealer to come).
Due to the scenes of nudity, drug use and self-harm, the video was
banned by the label and could only be purchased on DVD or directly
from MM's website at its time of release in 2003. Now it is easily
available on his YouTube channel. The scenes of nudity include a
dreamlike sex acts with a drag queen, MM's masturbation while the drag
queen, wearing a white wedding dress, presumably exposes their
genitalia to MM, an image of a woman in bondage (there's a glimpse of
cunnilingus and shaved labia majora) and a homoerotic threesome
petting with the drag queen, the drug dealer and MM. Beside the general
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murkiness of the video there is also an ongoing presence of the colour
red (MM's red fingernails, red lipstick on people's mouth, blood from his
chest wounds or nose, red book cover of the Holy Bible) and material
filth (piles of decaying food leftovers, blood crusts on MM's face).
It is the presence of dirt or abject in this particular video that can
be loosely divided and categorised into: (1) directorial, (2) spatial, (3)
bodily, (4) psychosomatic, (5) social, (6) gender and (7) sexual and
function as a subversive tactic towards the system of hegemonic
masculinity. While these categories of dirt frequently overlap, the article
presents a separate discussion of these elements to create a clearer
understanding of them.
The first type of dirt, named as directorial dirt, is linked with the
person who directed the video and that is Asia Argento, the daughter of
the Italian filmmaker Dario Argento, known for his horror genre giallo,
which significantly influenced modern horror movies. Horror movies
are, according to Barbara Creed (10), an illustration of the abjection,
constituted from the body (corpses, mutilated bodies, bodily wastes),
border (human – nonhuman, man – woman, proper body – abject body)
and construction of maternal figure as threatening. The chosen director
of the video is therefore connected with the concept of abject through
father's creativity and kinship ties.
The spatial dirt is depended on the the location of the video which
is a murky hotel room, filled with material dirt (e.g. food leftovers,
unclean rooms) and darkness. The hotel room is not despite all the
comfort it has a place that could be called a home because it is
anonymous, neutral, transitional, borderless and uncertain. Home, on
contrary, is personal, permanent, certain and with boundaries. It
embodies safety (physical, emotional, material), individuation (home as
an extension of a person's body), privacy (control over one's self, things
and information) and preservation (construction and reconstruction of
one's self (Young 151-154) and is constructed as an opposite to the
uncertainties and dangers of the street, foreign territories, others or
even from oneself.
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The protagonist in the video, placed into a hotel room, is unsafe
(i.e. lack of self-agency, passive stance to life, acts of self-harming:
cutting, drug abuse) and does not control his body, space and people
around him (hotel room as a borderless space, open to anyone). Home
represents the affinity between the material house and the body, which
in this case does not exist, because there is no home or normally
functioning body. This could be read reciprocally: a body is dysfunctional
because there is no home or there is no home because the body does not
function. Home can also be viewed as a substitute womb (Young 124),
but the dark hotel room is just a distorted or abject version of the safe
space.
The bodily dirt is embedded in a forementioned premise about
body as being entity of dirt despite the societal processes of civility and
discipline of the body. But it is the female body that is prone to be
defined as dirty, so an illusion of a proper or unleaky body is something
only men can obtain. The body of MM in this video is deliberately dirty; it
is bloody due to the self-harm and drug use, covered with vomit and
inactive. This deliberate body stance can be read as a tactic of
feminisation, grotesqueness and genderfuck or perhaps, as Kristeva
would put it, a fantasied return to preoedipal or semiotic phase (86). The
idea of a grotesque body originates from notes by Rabelais (Burkitt 45)
and his informal discourse of carnival, markets and people. Carnival
imaginary is limitless, open and subversive to a formal language and
modes of the human conduct. Representations of the grotesque body (i.e.
improper or disproportional body shapes) are focused on lower parts of
the body (bowels, buttocks, anus, genitalia) or body cavities (mouth,
ears, nose, navel, penis) and are intentionally uninhibited – visible,
exposed, emphasised (Burkitt 47).
A man's body is grotesque, when it is feminised (Creed 57) and
MM's grotesqueness lies in a notion of genderfuck or feminisation of his
male (although slender and non-muscular) body; he is wearing make-up,
caries himself as emotionally shattered (e.g. anxiety, self-harm), his
passivity is visible in his constant waiting and occupying small amounts
of space around him (e.g. squeezing himself into a bathtub, kneeling by
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the toilet). The last acitivity is something that is culturally imposed to
women's bodies. Grotesque bodies are connected with the concept of a
carnival, so his grotesqueness can be read as an opening (to be
uninhibited or uncivilized) of the (male) body. By wearing makeup and
being passively emotional, he is acting carnivalesque or genderfucking
with the normal, civilized and self-disciplined male body.
On the other hand, every body is at some point of life course open,
uninhibited or uncivilized. It is the gender undifferentiated infant phase
or as Kristeva (90-101) called it, a semiotic state that is characterised
with socially allowed infant's wallowing in his/her own bodily wastes
(excrement, vomit, saliva) and by being indecent, fleshy, ambiguous,
chaotic, emotional, instinctual and subjected to maternal authority. On
that terms can MM's bodily behaviours and expressions be also read as
an attempt of a comeback to the childlike phase, for example blood
crusts on his face can be a metaphor for remains of the child's attempt to
eat food, adult bloody nose for a child's nose full of phlegm, his
unsexualised naked body for a childlike image of the human body, his
passive demeanour as a subjection to maternal authority, dirty hotel
room as a sign of impossible comeback to the mother's womb. MM's
representations of himself as a grotesque or childlike body (the semiotic)
do challenge the corporeal component of gender order of the hegemonic
masculinity – the perfect male body that is, as Grosz puts it, "sealed-up
and impermeable" (201).
Another level of challenging the sealed-up and impermeable male
mind is connected with so called psychosomatic dirt, the dysfunctional
position between body and mind, manifested as mental health issues
(e.g. eating disorders, panic attacks, phobias). To further the concept of
MM's mind as also being a part of psychosomatic genderfuck, he is
engaging in activity of self-cutting. Self-cutting is a part of self-harming
body practices and it is a gendered, white, classist and ageist activity;
most of the self-mutilators are white, middle-class girls or young women
of above average intelligence who initially began mutilating themselves
in middle to late adolescence (Hewitt 55). Self-harm is, as Hewitt writes,
"an attempt to reintegrate the self from fragmented state of
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depersonalisation and gain attention from a social milieu from which
individual feels alienated" (55). The main purpose of self-harm is to
create connectedness with others and to intensify the awareness of body
limits and boundaries and to overcome them, together with the space of
alienation between self or the body and others or environment.
Self-cutting as a deliberate bodily superficial self-injury uses
instead of words the body to communicate with others and to express
the inexpressible. But self-mutilation is a solitary activity, private and
impulsive. A person wants to be heard yet silences herself/himself,
therefore cutting can be defined as an abject activity between speech and
silence. It also revolves around body and blood as an abject substance
and retains itself on the border between the person's body and
inanimate surroundings. This behaviour provides the participants the
internal sense of self-control as a compensation for the lack of control of
their external circumstances that are for women mostly linked with the
desire and need to fit into the tight cultural modules of emphasized
femininity (mother – wife – homemaker). Cutting can be understood as
women's carving themselves into those moduls or as a protest against
those constructions of femininity, so once again, the activity possesses
the liminal or abject trait with political undertones.
MM's self-cutting in the video with razor blade on his chest is
another method to contest the notion of perfect male body and
behaviours related to it. Blood is a symbol of life and energy and can be
interpreted as (1) a resistance against an imposed masculinity, which
denies any option for emotional and mental weakness or corporeal
openness for men, (2) a testimony that body can never be proper or
clean, (3) a proclamation of the priority of the body over subjectivity, (4)
a further genderfuck of MM's body – blood as a woman's signifier for
menstruation and childbirth, prevalent red colour in the video (red
lipstick, red fingernails, red book cover of the Holy Bible) and (5) a way
to cohere the drug addict's self with other parts of self, due to his role of
a drug addict in the video.
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The latter (the drug addiction) is part of the notion that there are
individuals or social groups, considered and treated as social dirt.
Goffman (170) calls them social deviants, although in his conception the
social deviancy is more of an act of self-agency or choice than ascribed
position due to the lack of favourable economic, social, racial, gender and
sexual conditions. The drug addict in this video is a social deviant as
Goffman defines it; an individual
"[…] who act irregularly and somewhat rebelliously in
connexion with our basic institutions — the amity, the agegrade system, the stereotyped role-division between the
sexes,
legitimate
full-time
employment
involving
maintenance of a single governmentally ratified personal
identity, and segregation by class and race" (170).
As already mentioned in the description of the video, is MM in a role of a
drug addict, waiting for his drug dealer to come, but is meanwhile falling
into nightmarish delirium.
The male drug addict is a representation of an economic, gender
and body failures. The economic facet is shown in his unacceptance of
capitalistic work ethics (i.e. rational instrumentality, discipline of the
body and the mind, compartment of working and leisure time), the
gender aspect in his abandonment of the masculine agency (i.e. passivity,
uninvolvement in the controlling of space around him, lack of selfdiscipline, narcissism, self-appointed leisure time) and body failure is
evident in his lack of hygienical customs and new openings of the male
body via drug consumption. The heroin injections through veins and
cocaine inhalations through nose are not so common modes of the
opening of the (male) body; the injection pierces skin or the outer
covering of human body and nose rarely functions as input body part.
Drug consumption can be interpreted as a food abjection; it is
appealing (the sense of being high and bodiless) and appalling (the
addiction, the decay of the body, sickness) consumption, that creates a
different type of dependence for a person to survive. MM's addiction
delirium can also be identified as a liminal or abject state of mind, a state
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that is neither awaken or asleep. Another signifier of MM's Antihero
status ("body without a soul") is evident in his act of cocaine inhalation;
the powder is distributed and then inhaled on the red cover of the Holy
Bible, something that can be read as a blasphemy or antireligious act.
The next one is the concept of gender dirt that has been gradually
developed through other types of dirt: bodily, social and psychosomatic.
It is apparent by now that in this music video, MM is constantly undoing
gender (i.e. hegemonic masculinity) by being passive, body-centric, antiinstrumental, socially deviant and engaging in feminine activity of selfharm.
The focus so far has been mostly on MM, but for this analysis,
representations of other people and their contexts in a video narrative
are also needed and important. One of them is a drag queen and
following our discourse of abjection and Newton's writing that "[a drag]
is a double inversion that says, appearance is an illusion, […] my outside
appearance is feminine, but my body is masculine, yet my inside essence
is feminine," (Butler 137), a drag queen can easily be subjected to
Othering. The representation of a drag queen is not pathologised,
ridiculed, demonised or similarly Othered due to their gender
expression, but they are submitted to the same socio-economic Othering
as MM and other male participants (i.e. drug dealer). It is the power
dynamics between the drag queen and MM that defines the drag queen's
position as an equal or even dominant to MM. The sexual relationship is
embedded in a narrative of dirt and power. The drag queen is dressed in
a filthy wedding dress, their posture is dominant and masculine, attitude
authoritarian. MM, on the contrary, is mostly nude, appears physically
weak and submissive to them. The dress is a key power signifier and MM
can be read as an unfit bridegroom – sick, passive, addicted and unable
to fulfill one of the key social roles of hegemonic masculinity – to be
someone's man or husband.
The last type in the classification of dirt is sexual dirt with already
discussed sexual relationship between the drag queen and MM, which is
one of three sexual relations, occurring in the video. The sexual dirt
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challenges a hierarchical system of sexual value or sex hierarchy
(although Rubin employs the syntagm "sex hierarchy", it will be
understood as "sexual hierarchy"), where the top erotic position
occupies marital, monogamous and reproductive heterosexuality (Rubin
151). Sex hierarchy changes discoursively and materially, so some of the
practices and identities, previously stigmatised, were gradually
depathologised, decriminalised and therefore relatively normalised (e.g.
masturbation, interracial relations, homosexuality). But some are still
positioned
lower
in
(bondage/discipline,
the
hierarchy:
trans*
domination/submission,
people,
BDSM
sadomasochism,
fetishism) members, sex workers, promiscuous people, polyamorous and
intergenerational relations (e.g. older woman – younger man).
All those currently low-placed sexualities are depended on the
concept
of
heteronormativity,
homosexual/heterosexual
which
dichotomy,
besides
also establishes
creating
a
hierarchies
among heterosexualities (e.g. BDSM heterosexual sex vs. conventional
heterosexual sex) and causes constructions of sexual dirt. In the video
(s)Aint are representations of three types of sexual dirt: relationship
between the drag queen and MM, homoerotic threesome and an image of
a woman in bondage. The relationship between the drag queen and MM
is sexual, but not power equal; MM is the submissive one, a passive,
incoherent subject. There are scenes of sex between them, masturbation,
hand sex, yet the identity of the drag queen is ambiguous; in some scenes
there is a man, in others a woman which could be a visual confirmation
of the forementioned definition by Newton what the drag queen is. The
homoerotic threesome formed from the drag queen, the drug dealer and
MM includes a brief mouth caressing of the upper body (face, neck) and
those representations of sexual behaviour, identities and corporeality do
challenge paradigm of male heterosexuality, but it is the homosocial
setting of the video that is problematic. There is only one image of a
woman in bondage (i.e. placed into a BDSM context).
In the recent years, mainstream culture had been pervaded with
one dominant and monolithic representation of BDSM subculture and
that is the one of a woman in bondageiv. But not any woman, a woman
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who is young, beautiful, thin and white with shaved pubic area. This is
the encountering of the social abjections in a form of ageism, lookism,
thin and white privilege, body image and the cultural undesirability of
body hair.
The consensual bondage (for any gender) as a state of being
restrained with rope, handcuffs, gags, blindfolds or scarves within erotic
context is just one segment of the BDSM culturev, but the main
component are the ongoing consent (i.e. usage of safe words at any
moment, regardless of expectations or interpretations on the part of
either party, the act can and will end, which allows them more
negotiating space for receiving pleasure) and safe environments (clubs,
parties, home).
The woman in bondage (young, white, beautiful, thin and without
any pubic hair) in the video is placed into an unsafe environment (hotel
room as a transitional public space) and unknown context (a lingering
image of her, without beginning or end) which insinuates the lack or
dismissal of an ongoing consent, a key factor for BDSM. She is exposed as
a sexual object without any agency for a male gaze only, something that
is alligned with the mysognistic notion of the female body as an object
(to be looked at, examined, objectified) and an abject (to be disciplined
or a site for fantasy and fetishisation, to be shown as a spectacle).
Another dimension of her sexual objectification can be traced down to a
feminist-vegetarian theory by Carol A. Adams. She argues that (1)
women and animals in patriarchal societies are constructed as meat, (2)
meat-eating as a dietary activity is a signifier and amplifier of hegemonic
masculinity and (3) on the grounds of gender and species inequalities,
both are consumed or annihilated by society; animals as inanimate
objects with no power (a piece of food) and women as an animate
objectified subjects with minor power (Adams 103).
Those are crucials point where video fails in an attempt to
challenge the standard of hegemonic masculinity despite the presence of
various abjections that do so. The video narrative, constructed as a
liminal and dreamlike episode and MM's position as a genderfuck
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Antihero do not, for example, include male fantasies of men in bondage,
sexual practice of pegging, male submissiveness to women or
deconstruction of conventional beauty standards, emphasised femininity
and female sexuality.
Lyrics of the Othered (s)Aint
T
he music video also consists of song lyrics or an audio part, but
because there is not much referential codependency or
correlation between audio and visual elements, the textual
analysis of the lyrics is separated from the visual component of the video
and will be interpreted in a context of before mentioned MM's media
persona as Othered artist.
Art or poetic language, as it is articulated in Julia Kristeva's work,
derives from the margins of the Symbolic order and it is defined by
characteristics, such are maternal, ambiguous, chaotic, disorderly,
impure. The poetic language is capable of breaking through the
conventional social meaning and is, according to Kristeva (76), the only
method to change established meanings about language. Yet the semiotic
(i.e. revolutionary-maternal) as a source of poetic language is only
allowed to male avantgarde artists, something that can be ascribed to
MM.
MM's artistic persona and expression as Othered can also be
traced in lyrics of the video (s)Aint. As it is evident from the title, an
abbreviated "s" from the word "saint" connotes his affirmation as an
abject persona within pop cultural realm and music industry. This
confirmation is multiplied in a repetitive chorus: “Hold the S because I am
an AINT”. Another cue of his Otherness can be located in the next verse:
“I don't care if your world is ending today because I wasn't invited to it
anyway”. The syntagm "your world" can be interpreted more widely, as
mainstream culture, where he as an Othered media persona shares a
status of an abject – he is belonging to the music industry, but only on the
grounds of his visual, musical and artistic Otherness.
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The visual aspect of his persona is described almost selfdeprecatingly in the following verse: “I'm […] a death's head on a
mopstick […]”, a visual idea that resembles the image of the corpse or an
absolute abject.
Another dimension of dirt can also be traced down in the usage of
profane language in MM's lyrics. Words, such are "fucking" or "bitch", are
words of obscenity that challenge notions of semantic properness or
"purity". Yet the connotation of the word "bitch", employed as a slur
against women and amplified with the visual image of the immobile
woman in bondage, is still embedded into a misogynistic notion of
femininity and therefore does not function as a term of gender
deconstruction or empowerment.
The verse “But now I'm not an artist I'm a fucking work of art”
comprises his overall comprehension of himself as a part of the music
industry that emphasises the importance of performance over substance
or essence. MM is Othered on the grounds of his media persona and selfOthered because of his possible discontent with the lack of the artistry in
music industry.
Conclusion
T
he decision for an in-depth analysis of music video (s)Aint has
been made because of MM's self-chosen position as Other(ed)
persona in music industry and the ban of the video due to the
explicit content ("dirt"), reasons that were credible enough to reconsider
them as a threat to the assumptions about hegemonic masculinity.
Various types of dirt or "a matter out of place" (Douglas 35), identified as
material, spatial and symbolic dirt, were employed as a subversive tactic
within the text (i.e. music video) to challenge or deconstruct that
paradigm.
The abjection of MM as an rock celebrity is evident in his Antihero
persona, resemblant to the corpse or absolute abject and his fascination
with grotesque as an artistic expression of the abject. The results of the
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chosen music video analysis predicate with following conclusions about
gender and sexuality:

the identified dirt as a part of genderfuck narrative in a
chosen video did challenge the hegemonic masculinity as a gender
standard on several levels: male body, male agency and male
heterosexuality. MM is changing his body boundaries (self-cutting,
drug abuse, vomiting), his body posture (passive, naked, drug
addicted, wearing make-up), agency (not implemental, anticapitalist, leisured) and sexuality (sexual activity with the drag
queen and homoerotic petting with other men) and

the one-woman representation (i.e. woman in bondage)
reaffirmed the notion of hegemonic masculinity on behalf of the
unchallenged gender stereotype, related to women as absent or
objectified in music videos. The objectification of women that are
narrowly carved into a heteronormative model of youth, beauty,
thinness and whiteness and the simplistic appropriation of
subordinate heterosexualities (BDSM culture in this case study)
function as a particular amplifier of hegemonic masculinity via the
construction of emphasised femininity.
But to fully deconstruct the notion of hegemonic masculinity, the
challenge should not be confined only to the one-gender realm (e.g. male
homosocial setting) as it is in this music video, but the subversion should
also spread to the paradigm of femininity, women's subjectivity and
sexuality. In this particular video, the subversion of hegemonic
masculinity did happen and yet the new genderfuck masculinity is still
positioned as dominant gender concept in relation to the subordinate
femininity because it employs the symbol of emphasized femininity (i.e.
an image of the woman as passive beautiful object in bondage without
BDSM context) as a convenient tool to preserve its primary position. To
solely challenge hegemonic masculinity without inclusion of subverted
femininities, only conveys that rock music still does not acknowledge the
existence of plural identities of women, however abjectly this may sound.
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i Popular music as a part of popular culture defies precise and straightforward
definition, so the loose yet sufficient criterion for our analysis is going to be
employed – the meaning of adjective "popular". This term indicates that
something – a person, a product, a practice or a belief – is commonly liked or
approved of by a large audience or the general public (Shuker 3); but in this case
the verbs "approved" or "liked" will be altered with "globally recognized".
ii When refering to Marilyn Manson, it is not the band at large that is being
discussed, but their frontman, Marilyn Manson or Brian Hugh Warner.
iii The forefathers of shock rock are Alice Cooper and Ozzy Osbourne from the
band Black Sabbath.
iv If you google with search words "bondage, discipline", the majority of images
will be the ones of women in bondage, mostly taken out of context and
sometimes conflated or even substituted with images of violence against women.
v BDSM culture also includes power exchange, pain/sensation play, leather-sex,
role-playing and fetish within sexual or erotic context (Williams and Storm 2).
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“Ucundan Azıcık”la Atılan Sağlam Temel: Türkiye’de
Sünnet Ritüeli ve Erkeklik İlişkisi
Atilla Barutçu
Bülent Ecevit Üniversitesi
Özet :
Bu makale erkek cinsel organına uygulanan müdahaleleri
mitolojiden başlayarak ilkel kabileler ve tek tanrılı dinler
üzerinden incelemekte ve bu müdahaleleri günümüzdeki sünnet
ritüeliyle
ilişkilendirmektedir. Bu müdahalelerin geçmişten
günümüze erkeklikle ilişkisinin değişik bağlantılarla da olsa
sürekli varlığı söz konusudur. Sünnet ritüelini özellikle Türkiye
odaklı
ele
aldığımızda
erkeklerin
cinsel
organlarından
kaybettikleri ufacık bir parçanın onların erkeklik inşasında sağlam
bir temel oluşturduğu görülebilir. Çünkü sünnet ritüeli, Türkiye’de
çoğunluğu oluşturan Müslüman Türkiyeli erkekler için hegemonik
erkeklik yolunda bedene tezahür eden kalıcı bir işaret olarak
görülür ve dini görev olarak yapılmasının yanı sıra erkek cemaati
içinde yer edinebilmek için gerekli olan bir ihtiyaca da işaret eder.
Erkek cinsel organına uygulanması sebebiyle zaten hali hazırda
kaçınılmaz bir erkeklik ritüeli olan sünnet, karar mekanizmaları,
ekonomik
giderlerinin
karşılanması,
kirvelik
gibi
içinde
barındırdığı pek çok boyutuyla da erkeklik tekelinde bulunur. Bu
makalede erkeklik dayanışmasıyla da ilişkili olan sünnet ritüeli,
üzerine yüklenen anlamlarla bir iletişim aracı olarak da
görülebilen ve etkisini günden güne kaybediyor gibi görünse de
hala varlığını ve erkeklikle olan ilişkisini devam ettiren bir ritüel
olarak okunacaktır.
Anahtar Kelimeler: Sünnet, ritüel, erkeklik, hegemonik erkeklik,
erkeklik inşası.
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A Steady Basis with “the Loss of a Small Piece”: A
Relationship
between
Male
Circumcision
and
Hegemonic Masculinity in Turkey
Atilla Barutçu
Bülent Ecevit Üniversitesi
Abstract :
This article examines the rituals about male sexual organ from
mythology and primitive tribes to monotheistic religions, and
relates these rituals with today’s circumcision. It is argued that
these rituals have always relationship from past to present with
the masculinity and the construction process of it in different
ways. When we take circumcision into hand with respect to
Turkey, it can be seen that the loss of a small piece from sexual
organ is never seen as a loss, it provides a basis for a construction
of masculinity instead. This is because circumcision is seen as a
permanent sign on a male body in the way of masculinity for
Muslim men who are majority in Turkey, and it refers a need to
acquire a place in masculine community next to its strong
religious role. Circumcision which is seen inevitably and not
surprisingly as a ritual for masculinity because of its
characteristics about where the operation is implemented is also
monopolized by men with its traditional features like “kirvelik” (a
type of relationship between the family of a child and the man
who holds a child during the operation and usually responsible for
economic
costs)
and
circumcision
feast. In
this article,
circumcision will be read as a ritual which is related with
masculine solidarity, which works as a communication tool
because of its embedded meanings, and which continues its
existence and its relations with masculinity although its effects are
not as strong as it has in past.
Keywords:
Circumcision,
ritual,
masculinity,
hegemonic
masculinity, construction of masculinity
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Doğduk,
Göbeğimizi kestiler,
Sünnet olduk,
Kestiler,
O gün, bugün kesiyorlar,
Kes babam kes.
Veli
(Hayal Molaları – Şemsa Yeğin, s. 247)
Giriş
T
oplumsal cinsiyet rolleri çerçevesinde erkeklere biçilen rolün
erkeklikle ilişkisi üzerine yapılan tartışmalar kadın çalışmaları
tarihiyle kıyaslandığında çok genç de olsa son birkaç on yılda
önemli gelişmeler kaydetmiştir. Kadın hareketinin ikinci dalgasıyla
özdeşleştirilen “farklılık” meselesinin erkek cinsi için de tartışılması
gerektiği fikri, kadın hareketinin ikinci dalgasına denk düşen bir tarihte
ilk tohumlarını atan eleştirel erkeklik çalışmalarının önünü açmış ve
günümüzde erkeklik çalışmalarının interdisipliner bir alana yayılmasıyla
varlığını sürdürmüştür.
Bireyin doğumundan itibaren çevresinden gördüğü ve edindiği
bilgi, deneyim ve öğrenmelerle toplum içerisine karışması ve kendine
toplumda bir yer edinmesi, bu yer edinmenin aynı zamanda kadın ve
erkeğin biyolojik cinsiyetlerine uygun kimlik inşa etme süreçleriyle de
yakından ilişkilidir. Erkeklerin kimlik inşalarında kendi cinsiyetlerine,
yani erkekliklerine yapılacak güçlü bir vurguya ihtiyaç vardır. Toplumsal
beklentiler erkeklere çeşitli görevler ve roller dayatır ve erkeğin bu
görevler ve rollerdeki performansı, onların ya toplumda üst tabakalarda
yer almasını sağlar ya da toplumdaki egemen yapının dışına itilmesine
neden olur. Erkeğin bu görevdeki performansı, yaşadığı toplumdaki
egemen erkeklik konumuna erişmede tartışılmaz bir rol oynar. Erkeğe
dayatılan bu rollerin çeşitliliği ve toplumdan topluma gözlemlenen
farklılığı ise kültürel bir mirasla şekillenir.
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Bu makalede sünnet ritüelinin erkeklik inşasıyla ilişkisini Türkiye
toplumu odaklı ele alacak ve tartışacağım. Pınar Selek Sürüne Sürüne
Erkek Olmak adlı çalışmasında Türkiye’de egemen erkeklik konumuna
erişmek için dört temel aşamanın geçilmesi zorunluluğuna dikkat
çekmişti. Bu aşamalar sırasıyla sünnet, askerlik, iş sahibi olma ve
evlilikti.1 Bense cinselliği de en az bu dört temel adım kadar önemli ve
kritik gördüğümden ayrı bir adım olarak ele alıp bu aşamalara ekleyerek,
beş temel adımın varlığını Türkiye erkeklerinin egemen erkeklik
konumuna erişmek için aşması gereken zorunlu adımlar olarak
görüyorum. Türkiyeli erkeklerin bu zoraki adımları gerçekleştirme
sıralamasında ise cinselliği, Türkiye toplumunun ilk cinsel ilişkiyi temsil
eden “milli olmak” meselesinin önem arz ettiği bir toplum olması
açısından sünnetle askerlik arasına koymayı uygun buluyorum. Bu
aşamalardan sünneti, erkek bedenine tezahür eden kalıcı bir etki
yaratmasından dolayı bedensel bir aşama olarak görebiliriz. Cinsellik ise
hem erkek bedenini besleyen ve bu bedenden etkilenen bir aşama
olmasından, hem de başarılı bir cinsel hayatın erkeğin yaşamı boyunca
sürdürülmesi beklentisinden dolayı bedensel ve toplumsal bir aşama
olarak ele alınabilir. Askerlik, iş sahibi olma ve evlilik ise daha çok
toplumsal yönü ağır basan aşamalar olarak erkeğin
karşısına
çıkmaktadır. Elbette ki erkeğin görevi evlilikle bitmez. Artık erkek, baba
olmakla ve ulaştığı düşünülen o “kudretli” erkeklik konumunu ömrünün
sonuna kadar sürdürmekle sorumludur. Bu aşamaların Türkiye’de
Connell’in “hegemonik erkeklik”2 kavramını temsil eden idealize edilmiş
egemen erkeklik konumuna ulaşmak için olmazsa olmaz adımlar
olduğunu vurgulamanın yanı sıra; bu beş temel adımın birbirine bağımlı
olduğunu, tek başlarına yeterli olmadığını, (kaslı ve sağlıklı bir vücuda
sahip olmak, namus bekçiliği üstlenebilmek, vurdu mu deviren olabilmek
gibi) yan rollerle desteklendiğini ve güçlendiğini unutmamak gerekir.
Son aşamaya ulaşıldığında ise içselleştirilen bu sürecin ellerinden
tutulan küçük erkek çocuklarının benzer algıyla aynı amaca doğru
götürülmesiyle bir döngü sağlandığını ve böylece bu algının varlığını
sürdürdüğünü söylemek yanlış olmaz.
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İlk aşama olarak ele alınan sünnet, erkeğin bu yolda sağlam bir
başlangıç yapabilmesi açısından oldukça önemlidir. Sünnet, günümüzde
artık dünyanın her yerine yayılmış bir ritüel olma özelliğine sahiptir.
Bugün sünnet eski değerini yitirmiş gibi görünse de hala din, sağlık ya da
gelenek-görenek gibi pek çok sebeple uygulanmaya devam etmektedir.
Ancak günümüzde erkeklik kurgusuyla da yakından ilişkili olan bu ritüel
hakkında pek çok soru kritik önem taşır. Cinsel organa uygulanan bu
müdahalenin kökeni neye dayanmaktadır?
Bu
müdahale hangi
aşamalardan geçerek bir ritüel haline gelmiştir? Sünnetin erkeklikle
ilişkisi ne zaman ve nasıl oluşmuştur? Bu ilişkinin taşıdığı anlam hep
aynı mıdır yoksa tarihsel veya mekânsal etkilerle dönüşüme uğramış
mıdır? Ve sünnetin günümüze kadar gelen ve tüm dünyayı etkileyen bu
tarihsel yayılımı nasıl gerçekleşmiştir? Bu soruların yanıtını aramak,
bugünkü sünnet ritüelini anlamlandırmak için önem arz eder.
Akademik literatürde daha çok antropolojik araştırmalarda
karşımıza çıkan sünnet ritüelinin toplumsal cinsiyetle ilişkili olarak ele
alınıp incelendiği çalışmaların sayısı ne yazık ki oldukça sınırlıdır.
Türkiye’de sünnet ritüeline odaklanan kitaplar ya tıp yanlısı bir bakış
açısıyla sağlık ve din boyutlarına odaklanmış 3 ya da sünnetin daha çok
tarihçesine odaklanarak zararları ve yararları üzerinde durmuştur 4. Bu
makale sünnet ritüeline geniş bir tarihsel çerçeveden bakmaya çalışırken
sünnetin özellikle erkeklikle ilişkisini tartışmayı ve böylece literatürde
yeri hala tam olarak doldurulmamış bu alana bir katkı sunmayı
amaçlamaktadır.
Antropolog Felix Bryk, sünnet hakkındaki geniş kapsamlı
çalışmaların ilk örneklerinden olan Circumcision in Man and Woman: Its
History, Psychology and Ethnology (Erkek ve Kadında Sünnet: Tarihi,
Psikolojisi ve Etnolojisi) başlıklı kitabında sünnetin tarihini incelerken
sadece bu cinsel sakatlamanın gelişimi ve dağılımıyla ilgilenmemeli, aynı
zamanda literatüre de yansıdığı gibi çağlar boyunca süren bu geleneğin
başlangıç sebebi de dikkate alınmalıdır der. Bu yüzden Bryk kitabında,
sünnetin tarihini ele alırken kullandığı kaynakları ikiye ayırdığını
belirtir. Bunlardan ilki mitolojide ve çeşitli seyahat betimlemelerinde
bulunan farklı uygulama ve dini tören formları ve bunlara bağlı davranış
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ve kuralları içeren özgün kaynaklar; diğeri ise farklı yazar ve insanların
sünnetin amacı, nedeni ve yayılımı hakkındaki görüşleridir (Bryk 16). Bu
makalede ben de sünnetin tarihini Antropolog Bryk’in kitabında önerdiği
gibi iki temel kaynak çeşidine dayanarak ele alacağım. Sünnetin anlamını
erkeklik ve fallus ilişkisi üzerinden tartıştıktan sonra sünnetin tarihsel
gelişimini mitolojiden başlayarak ilkel kabileler ve tek tanrılı dinler
üzerinden günümüze kadar getirecek ve sünnetin amacını ve onu
destekleyen gelenekleri anlamlandırabilmek için çeşitli yazarlardan
fikirler sunacağım.
Erkeklik Yolunda Atılan İlk Büyük Adım: Sünnet
S
ünnet, erkek çocuğunun cinsiyetine uygun kalıcı bir aşama
kaydettiği ilk durak olarak görülebilir. Öyle ki sünnet olan çocuğun
cinsel organını herkese göstermesinin gurur kaynağı haline
getirilmesinin altında erkekliğe attığı adımın heyecanı yatar. Sünnet,
erkek çocuğunun o ana kadar pek vurgu yapılmayan cinsiyetinden dolayı
sadece “çocuk” olarak algılanmasının sona erip, biyolojik cinsiyetine
uygun kimlik kazanmaya başladığı algısıyla “erkek” diye adlandırılmasını
sağlaması açısından oldukça kritiktir. Çocuğun sünnet olmasıyla birlikte
artık erkekliğe önemli bir adım attığı düşüncesi hala oldukça yaygındır
ve bu algı sünnet olan çocukların büyüdüklerinde kendi çocuklarına veya
yakın ilişki içerisinde bulunduğu çocuklara da aynı algı çerçevesinde
davranmasıyla varlığını sürdürür.
Sünnet olmak Türkiye’de erkekliğin bedene tezahür eden ön
koşullarından biridir. Hali hazırda zaten bir erkekliği temsil eden penisin
bir güç simgesine, yani fallusa dönüşmesi için sünnetli de olması gerekir.
Halperin fallusu, “toplumsal gücün kültürel olarak inşa edilmiş bir
göstereni” olarak tanımlar (113). “Fallus olmak, her zaman eril bir özne
için olmaktır ve böylece eril özne de ötekinin ayrılığını tanıyarak kendi
konum ve kimliğini (iktidarını) gerçekleştirmiş olacaktır” (Taşıtman
116-117). Bu yüzden Türkiye’de sünnetsiz bir erkek, öteki olmayı
deneyimler ve fallusa sahip olmada zorlanır.
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Segal fallusun, penisin ve bu nedenle de erkek iktidarının her
yerde hazır ve nazır simgesel temsili olduğundan bahseder (117). Ancak
burada Butler’cı bir yaklaşıma da vurgu yapmak gerekir. Butler fallusun
açık bir şekilde modern cinsel kültürler içindeki ayrıcalıklı bir yolu
yönettiğine vurgu yapmaktadır (89). Dolayısıyla toplumlardaki egemen
kültür içerisinde erkek cinselliğinin üstün olduğu göz önüne alındığında,
fallusun
erkeklikle
ve
erkek
cinsel
organıyla
ilişkilendirildiği
açıklanabilir olmaktadır. Ancak Butler fallusu Lacan’cı bir yaklaşımla
dilbilimsel olarak ele alır ve fallusu penisten böylece ayırmış olur. Butler,
fallusun Lacan tarafından anlamlamayı (signification) meydana getiren
veya üreten ayrıcalıklı bir imleyen (signifier) olarak düşünüldüğü
üzerinde durur (60). Yani bir imleyen (signifier) olarak fallus, her zaman
erkekliği temsil etmek durumunda değildir. Dolayısıyla fallusu direk
penisle bağdaştırma yanlışına düşmemek gerekir. Fallus penisi değil,
iktidarı temsil etmektedir. Penis sadece bu iktidarı temsil etmekle
yükümlendirilmiş bir araçtır. Türkiye özelinde ise bu temsili çoğunlukla
sünnetli bir penis üstlenir.
Sünnetin fallusa sahip olmada ve “tam” erkekliğe erişmede önemli
bir durak olduğu algısının, bu ritüelin aslında erkek cinsel organının bir
parçasının kesilmesiyle sağlanması oldukça ironiktir. Erkek çocuk
penisinden bir parça kaybederken, erkeklik inşasına sağlam bir temel
atar. Özellikle ergenlik döneminde (ve özellikle ikinci adım olarak ele
aldığım
cinsellik
aşamasıyla
yüzleştiklerinde)
penis
boylarıyla
erkekliklerini kanıtlamaya çalışan gençler, sünnet olmasalardı neyin
değişeceğini bilmedikleri için penislerinden alınan ufacık bir parçayı asla
bir eksiklik olarak algılamazlar. Bilecik ilinin Söğüt İlçe merkezi örneği
üzerinden sünnet uygulamasını anlatan Antropolog Taylan Akkayan,
“gerçekten, ergen olma çağı öncesinde doğal olarak sinir uçlarının yoğun
olduğu bir bölgeyi kaybedenler, neyi yaşayamadıklarını hiçbir zaman
bilememektedirler” der (139). Yaşadıkları toplum içerisinde sünnet
olmayan erkeklerin azlığı nedeniyle bu kişilerle deneyim paylaşımları da
yapamayan erkekler, sadece sünnetsiz erkeklerin cinsel ilişkiden daha
fazla zevk aldıklarına yönelik yapılan popüler tartışmalara katılmakla
yetinirler.
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Sünnetin
kelime
anlamına
baktığımızda
Arapça
“sunna”
kelimesinden geldiğini ve işlek yol, yayılmaya uygun davranış
anlamlarını taşıdığını görürüz
(Akkayan
139).
Benim üzerinde
duracağım, bedene etki eden cerrahi bir işlem olan sünnet ise “Arapça
‘hitan’, yani erkek cinsel organının ucundaki derinin bir kısmının ya da
tamamının kesilmesi anlamına gelmektedir” (Kırımlı 152). Her ne kadar
sünnet denildiğinde akla ilk olarak erkek cinsel organına yapılan
müdahale geliyor olsa da ve tanımlarda genel olarak sadece erkek
cinsiyetinden bahsediliyor olsa da, sünnet tartışmalı bir biçimde her iki
cinse de uygulanmaktadır. Bu makalede sünnetin erkeklik inşasıyla
ilişkisini ele alacağım için kadın sünneti üzerinde durmayacağım.
Sünnetin kelime anlamındansa toplumsal anlamına odaklanmak,
üzerinde tartışacağım konu açısından da yararlı olacaktır. Sünnet “dilde,
söylemde kurulan, özel alandan beslenen, burada karşılığını bulan ve
nihayetinde kamusal alanda meşru zemini oluşturulan, toplumsal kabul
gören bir erkeklik ritüeli” olarak tanımlanabilir (Taşıtman 111). Sünnete,
sünnet edilecek cinsel organın sahibinin genellikle bilinçli bir rızası
olmaksızın bedenin bütünlüğünü bozma olarak bakıldığında, bu ritüel bir
zarar verme veya sakatlama ritüeli olarak da okunabilir. Örneğin Taylan
Akkayan makalesinde sünneti bir sakatlama geleneği olarak işlemiştir ve
bu fikrini sakatlamanın tanımını şu şekilde yaparak desteklemiştir:
Sakatlama, sağlığa kavuşmak gibi bir gerekçesi bulunmayan,
kişisel ve/ya birkaç kişisel istekle sınırlı olmayan; toplumun
önemli bir kesimi veya tamamı tarafından paylaşılan davranış
kalıpları sonunda; gelenek veya görenek düzeyinde ilke, kavram,
kuralları netleşmiş; biyolojik doğal yapının, kültürel gerekçelerle,
kırılma, kesilme, yarılma, parçalanma, form bozma vb. bir
uygulama ile tamamen veya uzun bir zaman dilimi için fenotipik
özelliklerin değiştirilmesi eylemidir (131).
Sünnet ritüeli iyileşme amacıyla yapılmaması, toplumun büyük
çoğunluğu tarafından gerekli görülmesi ve uygulanması, ilke, kavram ve
kurallarıyla
gelenekselleşmiş
olması
ve
biyolojik
doğal
yapıya
uygulanması gibi özellikleri bakımından Akkayan’ın sakatlama tanımıyla
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birebir uyuşmaktadır. Dolayısıyla sakatlamanın bu tanımını kabul etmek,
sünnet ritüelininde bir sakatlama geleneği olduğunu savunmayı zorunlu
kılar.
Erkek cinsel organına yapılan bu müdahale, elbette ki farklı
şekillerde de olsa Arapça “hitan” olarak adlandırılmasından çok daha
önceleri de mevcuttu. Günümüzdeki sünnet ritüelinin aldığı şekil tek
tanrılı dinlerin ortaya çıkmasıyla oluşmuştur. Ancak tek tanrılı dinlerden
çok daha önce de erkek cinsel organına yapılan müdahalelerle
karşılaşmak mümkün. Örneğin tıp doktoru ve akademisyen Asaf
Ataseven’in
Sünnet adlı
kitabında
da
belirttiği
gibi
arkeolojik
araştırmalar sonucunda sünnetin M.Ö. 5000 yılında Babiller tarafından
da yapıldığı kabul edilmektedir (11). Tarih boyunca bedene uygulanan
bu tarz müdahaleler toplumsal bir algı ve kabulle meşrulaşarak varlığını
sürdürmektedir.
Peki erkek cinsel organına uygulanan bu müdahaleler geçmişten
günümüze hangi aşamalardan geçerek gelmiştir? Mitolojide erkek cinsel
organına uygulanan şiddetin altında neler yatıyordu? İlkel kabilelerin
cinsel organlarını neredeyse işlevsiz hale sokacak noktaya getirmelerinin
altındaki sebepler neydi ve bu müdahaleler tek tanrılı dinlerin doğuşuyla
nasıl günümüzdeki şeklini aldı? Bu sorulara cevap aramak, erkek cinsel
organına uygulanan müdahalelerin geçmişten günümüze erkeklikle
ilişkisini anlamlandırmada oldukça yararlı olacaktır.
Mitolojide Erkek Cinsel Organı ve “Kesme”
M
itolojik hikâyelerin günümüzdeki ritüelleri temellendirmedeki
etkisi tartışmaya açık bir konu olsa da, ele aldığımız sünnet
ritüelini mitolojiden başlayarak anlamlandırmaya çalışmayı
uygun görüyorum. Bunun nedenlerinden biri mitolojide bedene
uygulanan müdahale veya şiddet örneklerine çokça rastlamamızdır.
Özellikle erkek cinsel organına uygulanan kesme-parçalama işlemi için
örnek oluşturabilecek üç önemli mitten bahsetmek mümkündür. Bunlar
Yunan mitolojisindeki Ouranos (gökyüzü) ve oğlu arasında geçen
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mücadele, Anadolu mitolojisinde yer eden Attis ile Kybele arasındaki aşk
ve Mısır mitolojisinde yer eden Seth ile kardeşi Osiris arasındaki
savaştır. Bu mitolojik olayları Roberto Carvalho de Magalhaes’in
Antikçağ’dan Günümüze Sanatta Mitoloji adlı kitabından yola çıkarak
kısaca ele alabiliriz.
Yunan mitolojisinde gökyüzü olan Ouranos ile yeryüzü olan
Gaia’nın
çiftleşmesinden
Titanlar,
Kykloplar
(tepegözler)
ve
Hekatonkheirler (elli kafalı, yüz kollu üç yaratık) doğmuştur. Ouranos
kimilerine göre kıskançlığından, kimilerine göre ise sevmediğinden
dolayı (belki de ikisi birden) Kykloplara ve Hekatonkheirlere gün yüzü
göstermemeye karar verir ve onları yeryüzünün derinliklerine
yollayarak annelerinin karnına hapseder. Gaia bu olaya çok kızar ve
diğer çocukları olan Titanları babalarına karşı kışkırtır. Titanlardan
sadece Kronos annesine karşılık verir onunla işbirliği yapar. Gaia bir
tırpan hazırlar ve bunu oğlu Kronos’a verir. Ouranos bir gün arkadaşı
gece ile birlikte Gaia’ya çiftleşmek için gittiğinde ve onu boydan boya
sardığında, Kronos bu tırpanla babasının cinsel organını deşer ve
uzuvları denize atar. Böylece Kronos babasının cinsel organını kesmesi
sayesinde onu alt etmiş olur ve kardeşlerini de kurtararak gücü eline alır.
Kronos’un denize attığı uzuvların toprağa damlayan kanlarından
devlerin, uzvun denizde meydana getirdiği köpüklerden de bakireliğiyle
ön plana çıkmış olan güzellik ve aşk tanrıçası Aphrodite’in doğması ise
oldukça ilginçtir.
Kronos daha sonra babası Ouranos gibi iktidar telaşına düşecek ve
çocukları tarafından alt edilmemek için onları canlı canlı yutacaktır.
Ancak karısı Rhea’nın bir oyununa gelip oğlu Zeus’un doğumuna engel
olamayacak ve o da tıpkı babası gibi oğlu tarafından alt edilecektir.
Anadolu mitolojisindeki örnek ise Attis ve Kybele arasında geçer.
Attis aşkına karşılık bulduğu Kybele’ye evlilik vaat etmiştir. Ama zaman
geçtikçe bu evlilik sözünü unutan Attis gönlünü Kral Midas’ın kızına
kaptırır ve onunla evlenmeye karar verir. Düğünde Kybele ile karşılaşan
Attis büyük bir vicdan azabı çeker ve kendini cezalandırmak amacıyla
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cinsel organını keser. Acılar içinde kıvranan Attis’e acıyan Kybele onu bir
çam ağacın çevirir ve ona sonsuzluğu bağışlar.
Mısır mitolojisinde ise dört kardeş arasında geçen olay dikkat
çekicidir. Bu dört kardeş Seth, Osiris, İsis ve Neftis’tir. Aynı zamanda Seth
ile Neftis, Osiris ile de İsis karı kocadır. Seth savaş ve çöl tanrısı olarak
bilinir. Çöl tanrısı olarak bilinmesinin sebebi Seth’in hiç çocuğunun
olmamasına bağlanmaktadır. Seth çorak bir çöl gibidir. Pek çok kişi
tarafından sevilen kardeşi Osiris ise tam tersi bir şekilde oldukça
bereketlidir. Seth bu durumun yarattığı kıskançlıkla kardeşi Osiris’i
öldürmeye karar verir. Bunun için bir plan yapar ve bir eğlence düzenler.
Bu eğlenceye hazırlattığı oldukça süslü bir sandığı getirir ve sandığın
sahibinin bu sandığa sığabilecek kişi olacağını söyler. Osiris deneme
amaçlı sandığa girdiğinde, Seth sandığı kilitleyip ırmağa atar. Ama İsis ne
yapıp edip sandığı bulur ve kocasını kurtarır. Seth bu sefer başka bir plan
yapar ve kardeşi Osiris’i on dört parçaya bölerek parçaları Mısır’ın
değişik yerlerine dağıtır. İsis yine işin içine girer ve parçaları tek tek
bulur. Osiris’in bir balık tarafından yenen cinsel organını ise çamurdan
yapar ve tüm bu parçaları birleştirerek kocasını tekrar canlandırır. Bu
olaydan sonra tekrar çocuk sahibi olurlar ve oğulları Horus dünyaya
gelir. Horus büyüyünce babasının öcünü alacak ve Seth’i alt ederek onu
çöle sürecektir.
Bu üç mitolojik olayda da erkek cinsel organının belirli bir gücü ve
buna bağlı olarak erkekliği temsil ettiği açıktır. Her bir olayda bu güce
kast etmek isteyenlerin erkek cinsel organına uyguladığı bir müdahale
söz konusudur. Yunan mitolojisindeki olayda Kronos, babası Ouraos’un
cinsel organını keserek onun gücünü elinden alır ve böylece kardeşlerini
kurtarır. Anadolu mitolojisindeki Attis ve Kybele aşkında ise Attis, yine
gücünü ve erkekliğini temsil eden cinsel organını kendine ceza vermek
amacıyla keser. Çünkü Attis verdiği evlilik sözünü bir erkeğe
yakıştırmadığı biçimde tutmamış ve bu sözü verdiği kişiyi unutarak
başka bir kadınla evlenmeye yeltenmiştir. Mısır mitolojisinde ise direk
cinsel organa değil, erkek bedeninin bütününe uygulanan bir şiddet söz
konusudur. Osiris’in bir balık tarafından yenen cinsel organı çamurdan
yapılmış bile olsa, bu cinsel organla yapılan çocuğun güçlü bir şekilde
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doğup babasının öcünü alması yine erkek cinsel organının bir gücü
temsil ettiğini gözler önüne serer.
Bu üç olayı göz önünde bulundurduğumuzda, erkek cinsel
organına
uygulanan
meşrulaştırılmış
bir
müdahale
olarak
ele
alabileceğimiz bugünkü sünnet ritüelinin mitolojideki kesme-parçalama
gibi müdahalelerden oldukça önemli bir farkı olduğu gözümüze çarpar.
Mitolojideki bu tip olaylarda erkek cinsel organına yapılan müdahale, o
erkeğin gücüne ve erkekliğine zarar verme amacını güdüyorken;
günümüzdeki sünnet ritüeli tam tersi bir şekilde gücü ve erkekliği
besleyen bir gelenek olarak karşımıza çıkar. Farklı olmayan şey ise erkek
cinsel organının mitolojide dahi bir iktidarı temsil edişidir. Uygulanan
müdahale bu bağlamda erkeğe yine erkekliği üzerinden yapılan bir
vurguyla geri döner. Günümüzdeki sünnet ritüeli ile arasındaki anlam
değişmesinde ise ilkel kabilelerdeki çeşitli ritüellerin etkisi olduğu
varsayılabilir.
İlkel Kabilelerde Erkek Cinsel Organına Uygulanan Müdahaleler
T
ıpkı mitolojik hikâyelerde olduğu gibi ilkel kabilelerde de
çocukların veya genç erkeklerin cinsel organlarına uygulanan
çeşitli müdahaleler bugünkü sünnet ritüelini temellendirmede
yardımcı olma rolünü üstlenir. İlkel kabilelerdeki bu müdahalelerin
mitolojidekilerden farkı ise buradaki müdahalelerin bir ceza veya
kötülük amacı taşımamasıdır. Erkek cinsel organına uygulanan
müdahale mitolojide bir gücü alt etmek için yapılıyorken, ilkel kabilelerle
birlikte artık bir gücü arttırmak veya bir inancı desteklemek için
yapılmaya başlanır. Amaç farklı da olsa bu müdahalenin altında yatan
sebep yine erkek cinsel organına atfedilen büyük değerdir.
Geçmişten günümüze bazı ilkel kabileler ergenliğe ve yetişkinliğe
geçiş olarak kabul ettikleri çeşitli törenler gerçekleştirmiş ve bu
törenlerde genç erkeklerin cinsel organlarına çeşitli müdahalelerde
bulunmuşlardır.
Bu müdahaleler bugün insanlar tarafından akıl
erdirilemeyen tehlikeli ve vahşi olaylar olarak algılanırken, taşıdığı
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anlamların sünnet ritüelinden çok da uzak olmadığı açıktır. Öncelikle
Desmond Morris’in Çıplak Adam: Erkek Vücudu Üzerine Bir İnceleme (The
Naked Man: A Study of the Male Body) adlı kitabında yer verdiği birkaç
örneğe bakmak yararlı olacaktır.
Aborjinler için ergenliğe geçiş töreninin sosyal önemi oldukça
büyüktür ve bu tören için on üç yaşındaki çocuklara “içeriden yarma”
olarak bilinen ameliyat biçimi uygulanırdı. Böylece ergenlik çağına giren
bir çocuğun penisi önce şimdiki sünnet ritüeline benzer bir biçimde
sünnet edilir, dört yıl sonrasında ise penislerinin alt tarafı bir bıçakla
boydan boya veya kısmen kesilip idrar borusu yarılırdı. Böylece
yayvanlaşan penisin kadınlara daha büyük bir zevk verdiği düşünülürdü.
Öte yandan bu müdahale nedeniyle erkekler de kadınlar gibi oturarak
idrar yapmak durumunda kalır, aynı zamanda cinsel birleşme sırasında
sperm aktarmada da sorun yaşarlardı (Morris 214-215). Morris bu
geleneğin mitolojik bir kökeninin olduğunun akla yatkın olduğunu
açıklar. Mitolojiye göre bu ritüel Aborjinler’e kertenkele-adam olan
ataları tarafından
verilmiştir. Çünkü
kertenkelenin
erkeklerinde
çiftleşme esnasında çift penis görünümünde bir uzantının çıktığı
bilinmektedir. Böylece kabile halkının bu özelliğe sahip olmaları, onlara
atalarının
güçlerini
bağışlayacaktır
(215-216).
Aborjinler’in
bu
geleneklerinde erkek cinsel organının yine bir güç ve erkeklik simgesi
olduğu açıktır. Yapılan müdahalenin ergenliğe geçiş evresi olması ve bu
evreyle atalarının güçlerinin kendilerine bahşedileceğinin kabul edilmesi
bu argümanı destekler.
Başka bir penis kesme ritüelinin de Mısır’da ortaya çıktığını
görebiliriz. Morris, Eski Mısırlıların uyguladığı yöntemin daha sonra
Ortadoğu kültürlerinde taklit edildiğini ve uygulanan ritüelin sebebinin
zamanla unutulup, âdetin tek gerekçesinin Tanrı’nın sünnetli penisleri
tercih etmesi olarak kalmış olabileceğini belirtmiştir. Mısırlılarda sünnet
ritüelinin kökeni bir yılandır. Mısırlılar bir yılanın deri değiştirme anına
tanık olmuş ve bunu yılanın yeniden doğuşu ve ölümsüz olması olarak
adlandırmışlardır. Buradan yola çıkarak erkeğin de üzerindeki bir deri
parçasını atmasının onu ölümsüzlüğe kavuşturabileceği düşüncesi
ortaya çıkmıştır. Bu derinin penisten bir deri olmasının sebebi ise
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şüphesiz ki penisin yılanla olan benzerliğidir. Bu mantıktan ortaya çıkan
ritüel gitgide yayılmış ve daha sonra da “yılana tapınma” anlamı
unutularak sadece Tanrı’nın isteği olarak devam etmiştir (216). Bu
gelenek, günümüzdeki sünnet ritüelinin akla yatkın temellerinden biri
olarak okunabilir.
Bunların yanı sıra Doğu Afrika kıyılarında, Asya ve Okyanusya
adalarında bazı halklar arasında “penis deşme” ritüeli mevcuttu. Bu
ritüelde penisin uç derisinde tek bir kesik açılır ve derinin herhangi bir
parçası tamamen koparılıp alınmazdı. Bu ergenliğe geçiş törenlerinin en
az hasarlı olanlarına örnek teşkil edebilir. Arabistan’ın bazı kesimlerinde
ise “deri sıyırma” olarak adlandırılan oldukça sert bir âdet mevcuttu. Bu
işlemde penis sapındaki derinin tamamı sıyırma yöntemiyle alınırdı. Bu
işkenceye bağırmadan katlanabilen erkekler ise en muteber yetişkin
sayılırlardı (Morris 219). Bu örnek bize acıya dayanma eşiğinin
erkeklikle olan ilişkisini de yansıtır. Günümüzde sünnet olan çocukların
cinsel
organlarına
müdahale
esnasında
ağlamamaları
gerektiği
yönündeki telkinler de aynı şekilde “erkek adam ağlamaz” safsatasının
bu ilkel kabiledeki algıyla benzer olduğunu ortaya serer.
Şüphesiz ki bu verilen örneklere benzer daha pek çok ritüelin
varlığı mevcuttur. Önemli olan şudur ki pek çok ilkel kabilenin erkek
cinsel organına uyguladığı bu tarz müdahaleler, erkeklerin çocukluktan
çıkıp birer yetişkin olmasını sağlama amacıyla yapılmaktadır. Yani
erkeklik inşasında cinsel organa uygulanan müdahalenin kritik değeri
ilkel kabilelerde de ön plana çıkar ve bu durum bugünkü sünnet
ritüelinin erkekliğe giden yolda önemli bir durak olmasıyla birebir
örtüşür. Bu örtüşmeyi görmezden gelemeyeceğimiz gibi, günümüzdeki
sünnet
ritüelinin
tek
tanrılı
dinlerin
mevcut
olmadığı
ilkel
topluluklardaki bu âdetlerden etkilenmiş olabileceğini de göz ardı
edemeyiz. Öte yandan günümüzde az da olsa hala bulunan ilkel
kabilelerin devam ettirdikleri yetişkinliğe geçiş törenlerinin modern
toplumlardaki sünnet ritüeliyle varlığını bir arada sürdürmesi, üzerine
düşünülmesi gereken bir başka konudur.
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Tek Tanrılı Dinlerde Sünnet
T
ek tanrılı dinlerin doğmasıyla birlikte erkek cinsel organına
yapılan müdahale bugünkü sünnet ritüeline dönüşmüştür ancak
bu anlayıştaki sünnetin nerede ve nasıl başladığına dair pek çok
tartışma süregelmektedir. Ataseven’in aktardığı gibi bazıları sünnetin Hz.
İbrahim ile başladığını kabul etmektedir. Ancak Ataseven, Hz. İbrahim’in
sünnetin unutulduğu bir devirde, ilahi emir üzerine kendi kendini ve
oğulları Hz. İsmail ve Hz. İshak’ı sünnet ettiğini ve müminlerine sünnet
olmalarını bildirdiğini savunur (13).
Sünnet günümüzde Müslümanlık ve Yahudilik dinleri içerisinde
mevcut olan bir ritüel olarak karşımıza çıkar. Türkiye toplumu içerisinde
sünnetsiz bir erkek gayrimüslim olarak lanse edilir ve Müslüman erkek
topluluğu tarafından kolaylıkla ötekileştirilebilir. Sünnetsiz erkek de
zaten sağlam bir erkeklik inşası için gerekli olan ilk adımı atamadığından
bu yolda diğer erkeklere hiçbir zaman yetişemeyecektir. Taşıtman “Bir
dinin üyesi olabilmek için de bazen bedeninde belirleyici olan bir iz,
işaret bırakmak gerekli olabilir. İşte sünnet de gerek Yahudi gerek
Müslüman toplumların erkekleri için olmazsa olmaz bir semboldür ve bu
sembolün simgesel anlamının ağırlığını taşır” der (123). Sünnetsiz
Müslüman bir erkek bu sembolik ağırlığın altında ezilir, dininin
gerekliliklerini yerine getirmediği için “dinsiz” olarak yaftalanır. Sünnet
olmamanın altında yatabilecek başka ideolojiler olabileceği fikri
çoğunlukla ihtimal dâhiline bile alınmaz.
Öte yandan sünnet ritüelinden Müslümanların kitabı olan Kuran’ı
Kerim’de hiç bahsedilmemesi sünnetle ilgili bir başka ironik durum
olarak görülebilir. Neden Müslümanlıkta zorunlu tutulduğu ise sünnetin
peygamberin hadislerinde geçtiğinin savunulmasıyla açıklanmaktadır.
Müslümanlıkta sünnetin fıtrat, yani yaradılış, tabiat, tabii eğilim olduğu
düşüncesi oldukça yaygındır. Ataseven beş şeyin İslam fıtratından
olduğunu aktarır: Sünnet olmak, kasık bölgesini temizlemek, bıyıkları
kesmek, koltukaltı tüylerini temizlemek, tırnakları kesmek (12). Hz.
Muhammed’in neden veya nasıl sünnet olduğu üzerine ise çeşitli
rivayetler vardır. Hz. Muhammed’in sünnetli bir şekilde dünyaya
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geldiğini savunanların çokluğunun yanı sıra, doğumunun sekizinci
gününde dedesi Abdülmuttalip tarafından ziyafet verilerek sünnet
ettirildiğini veya sütannesi Halime Hatun’un yanında bulunduğu sırada
melekler tarafından sünnet edildiğini düşünenler de mevcuttur (19).
Assmann’a göre “dinin genel işlevi hatırlamak, canlandırmak ve
tekrarlamak yoluyla geçmişin devamına aracı olmaktır” (Akt. Taşıtman
122-123). Bu bağlamda bir Müslüman geleneği olan sünnetin Kuran’ın
Kerim’de yazmamasına rağmen İslamiyet’in doğduğu günden şimdiye
kadar nasıl geldiği, dinin Assmann’ın açıkladığı bu işlevsel özelliği
sayesinde açıklanabilir. Benzer şekilde Bouhdiba da sünnetin bir İslam
pratiği olmasından öte Müslümanların pratiği olduğunu savunur. Yani
sünnetin sosyolojik boyutunun kutsal boyutundan daha önemli
olduğunu ileri sürerek toplumsal önemine vurgu yapar (26). Sünnetin
Kuran’ı Kerim’de yazmadığı halde Müslümanlar arasında bu derece
önem arz etmesi, Bouhdiba’nın sünnetin sosyolojik boyutunu öne
çıkardığı bu analizini destekler niteliktedir.
Kitab-ı Mukaddes’te ise Tekvin bölümünde sünnetle ilgili ayetler
yer almaktadır. Bu ayetlerde Hz. İbrahim’in, kendi soyundan olmasa bile
sahip olduğu kölelerin ve evinde doğmuş her erkek çocuğunun sünnet
edilmesi gerektiği, bunun Tanrı ile aralarında bir antlaşma olduğu
bildirilir.
Tekvin, 17: 10-14:Seninle ve soyunla yaptığım antlaşmanın
koşulu şudur: Aranızdaki erkeklerin hepsi sünnet edilecek.
Sünnet olmalısınız. Sünnet aramızdaki antlaşmanın belirtisi
olacak. Evinizde doğmuş ya da soyunuzdan olmayan bir
yabancıdan satın alınmış köleler dâhil sekiz günlük her erkek
çocuk sünnet edilecek. Gelecek kuşaklarınız boyunca sürecek bu.
Evinizde doğan ya da satın aldığınız her çocuk kesinlikle sünnet
edilecek. Bedeninizdeki bu belirti sonsuza dek sürecek
antlaşmamın simgesi olacak. Sünnet edilmemiş her erkek
halkının arasından atılacak, çünkü antlaşmamı bozmuş demektir
(http://incil.info/#%2Farama%2FTekvin%2B17
Son
04.07.2014).
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Tekvin, 17: 23-27: İbrahim evindeki bütün erkekleri -oğlu
İsmail’i, evinde doğanların, satın aldığı uşakların hepsiniTanrının kendisine buyurduğu gibi o gün sünnet ettirdi. İbrahim
sünnet olduğunda doksan dokuz yaşındaydı. Oğlu İsmail on üç
yaşında sünnet oldu. İbrahim, oğlu İsmail’le aynı gün sünnet
edildi. İbrahim'in evindeki bütün erkekler -evinde doğanlar ve
yabancılardan satın alınanlar- onunla birlikte sünnet oldu
(http://incil.info/#%2Farama%2FTekvin%2B17
Son
erişim:
04.07.2014).
Bu ayetlerle birlikte sünnetsiz bir erkeğin sünnetli erkekler
tarafından ötekileştirilip cemaat içine alınmaması dini bir temele
dayandırılabilir. Çünkü Yahudi bir erkek sünnet olmamışsa bu Tanrı’yla
aralarındaki antlaşmaya uymadığına işaret eder. Bugün Yahudilerin
büyük çoğunluğu hala çocuklarını sünnet ederler. Bu ritüel kutsal
kitaplarında yazdığından dolayı onlar için genellikle dini bir amaç taşır.
Bu yüzden “sünneti Sinagogda Hahamlar yapar” (Ataseven 16). Yahudi
olmayan bir doktorun, bir Yahudi çocuğunu sünnet etmesi söz konusu
değildir.
Hıristiyanlıkta ise bugün sünnetin dini bir boyutunu tartışmak pek
mümkün değildir. Ataseven’in aktardığına göre Hıristiyanlar Hz.
Musa’nın tebliğ ettiği şeriata tabidir. Bu yüzden de Hz. İsa doğumunun
sekizinci
gününde sünnet edilmiştir. Ancak Hz.
İsa’dan sonra
Hıristiyanlar sünneti devam ettirmemiş ve bu geleneği terk etmişlerdir
(16).
Müslümanlar
ise
Hıristiyanlıkta
olduğu
gibi
kitaplarında
yazmamasına rağmen Hz. Muhammed’e uygulanan bu ritüeli devam
ettirmiş ve ona pek çok sembolik anlam yüklemişlerdir.
Sünnete yüklenen sembolik anlamların en temelinde
bu
makalenin de odak noktası olan “erkeklik” meselesi yatar. “Grup, tarihini
hatırlayarak
ve
kökenine
ait
hatırlatma
figürlerini
belleğinde
canlandırarak kimliğinden emin olur” (Taşıtman 122). Bir erkeğin
bedeni, onun kimlik oluşumunda rol oynayan önemli bir etken olmasının
yanı sıra bu kimliği dışarı yansıtan temel araçlardan da biridir. Dini bir
amaçla sünnet olan erkek, bu adımla birlikte kendine diğer erkekler
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arasında yer bulmada kolaylık sağlar. Çünkü sünnet, erkek için dinsel
bağlılığın bedendeki tek kalıcı tezahürüdür.
Tüm bunların yanı sıra günümüzde sünnetin artık din için mi
yoksa sağlık için mi bir gereksinim olduğu tartışılır olmuştur. Erkek
cinsel organının sünnet edilmesinin pek çok hastalığın önüne geçmede
bir etken olacağının düşünülmeye başlanması, bugün sünneti Müslüman
veya Yahudi olmayan topluluklar tarafından da uygulanır kılmıştır.
Ataseven de sünnetin son yarım asırdan beridir birçok ülkede tıbbi bir
gereklilik olarak daha sık uygulanmaya başlandığını belirtmiş ve
sünnetsizlerde bazı hastalıkların görülebileceğini belirtmiştir5 (43). Yine
de sağlık sebebiyle yapılan sünnetler çoğu zaman dini amacın önüne
geçememektedir. Sünnetin bir diğer kalıcı rolünün ise dini işlevle de
yakından ilişkili olan ve bu işleve hizmet eden iletişim sağlama rolü
olduğu söylenebilir. Bu bağlamda sünnetin erkeklik inşasında kritik
önem taşıyan temsili daha anlaşılır bir hal alır.
Bir İletişim Aracı Olarak Sünnet
B
ir erkeğin bedeni onun toplumdaki konumu açısından önemli bir
göstergedir. Sakatlığı olmayan, kaslı, bedenen güçlü olan, kadınını
koruyup kollayabilecek ve diğer erkeklerle fiziksel kavgaya
giriştiğinde
kendini
ezdirmeyecek
bir
erkek,
erkeklik
inşasını
tamamlamada büyük artılara sahipken; zayıf, ufak tefek veya kadınsı
tavırları olan bir erkeğin bu inşayı tamamlaması çoğu zaman yavaş ve
zorlu, bazen de imkânsız olur. Benzer şekilde bir erkeğin anne ve
babasıyla olan ilişkisinin de erkeklik inşasına etkisi büyüktür ve sünnetin
bu ilişkide kritik bir önemi olduğu söylenebilir. “Bedeninden kesilen
parça, erkek çocuğun iç-anne dünyasından koparak dış-erkek dünyasına
geçtiğinin işaretidir” (Tuğrul 99). Yani sünnetle birlikte erkek çocuk, kız
çocuğa atfedilen annesinin dizinin dibinde oturma rolünden yavaş yavaş
uzaklaşır ve dış dünyaya adım atarak erkek topluluğu içinde kendine yer
edinmeye hazırlanır.
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Romanienko Body Piercing and Identity Construction (Bedeni
Delme ve Kimlik İnşası) başlıklı kitabında çağdaş batı toplumlarında
beden değişimi (body modification) adı verilen olayların gitgide
popülerleşmesinden bahseder ve bunları sözsüz ve sözlü iletişim araçları
olarak ele alır. Beden değişimine ise dövmeyi, delmeyi, dağlamayı,
kesmeyi, deriyi germeyi ve deriyi kazımayı örnek olarak verir. Hem bağlı
oldukları
dinin,
hem
de
adım
attıkları
erkekliğin
en
önemli
göstergelerinden biri olması açısından erkek bedenine uygulanan kesme
işlemi olarak görülebilecek sünnet ritüeli, Türkiye’deki erkekler için
Romanienko’nun ele aldığı tarzda önemli bir iletişim aracı olarak
okunabilir.
Connell de erkekliğin fiziksel anlamının oldukça karmaşık bir yapı
olduğundan bahseder. Bir erkeğin “boy pos ve şekli, tavır ve hareket
alışkanlıklarını, belirli fiziksel becerilere sahip olmayı ve belirli
becerilerin eksik kalmasını, kişinin kendi beden imajını, bunun öteki
insanlara sunuluş biçimini ve bu insanların buna karşılık verme
biçimlerini, kişinin bedeninin çalışma ve cinsel ilişkilerdeki işleyiş
biçimini içerir” (Connell 122). Dolayısıyla Türkiye toplumunda sünnetsiz
bir erkek, erkekliğin toplum algısındaki fiziksel tanımına uymaz, daha
doğrusu bu tanıma göre eksik kalır. Bir erkeğin toplumda egemen
olabilmesi için salt erkek olması yetmez, bu erkeğin toplumun
içselleştirdiği erkeklik normlarına da sahip olması beklenir. Bu ideal
erkekliğin özelliklerinden biri, dinine bağlı, dolayısıyla Müslümanlığının
bir getirisi olarak sünnet olmuş bir erkeğin sahip olduğu erkekliktir.
“İktidarı elde bulunduranlar olarak erkeklerin toplumsal tanımı, yalnızca
zihinsel beden imajları ve fantezilere değil, kas gücü, duruş, beden
duygusu ve dokusuna da dönüştürülür. Bu, erkeklerin iktidarının başlıca
‘doğallaştırılma’, diğer bir deyişle doğa düzeninin parçası olarak görülme
biçimlerinden biridir” (Connell 123).
Erkeklerin sünnet ritüeliyle birlikte erkekliklerine sahip olmaya
başladığının düşünülmesinin altında yatan nedenlerden biri de elbette ki
diğer erkeklerle aralarında var olan kısmi bir dayanışmadır. Lynne Segal,
“çocukluğun bağımlılığından ve zayıflığından ayrılmayı ve yetişkin
erkeklerin farklı dünyasında yeni bir ait olma duygusuna sahip olmayı
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içermesi gereken uygun erkekliğe geçiş törenleri varsa, erkekler
erkekliklerine kolektif bir güven duyabilirler” der (169). Geçmişten
günümüze erkeklikle ilişkisi yok olmayan erkek cinsel organına
müdahale ritüelleri, aynı zamanda bu ritüellerin içselleştirilmesini ve
meşru kılınmasını sağlaması açısından erkekler arası kolektif bir desteğe
ve güvene dayanır.
Peki bir iletişim aracı olarak da düşünülebileceğini tartıştığımız
bedene uygulanan bu müdahalenin erkeğin “müstehcen” bir bölgesinde
vücut bulması bu iletişimi zorlaştırmaz mı? Erkekler bu önemli adımı
attığına ve hem dinine hem de erkekliğine vurgu yapan bu ritüelin
gerçekleştiğine ilişkin kanıtı nasıl sağlar? İşte bu noktada devreye sadece
basit bir gelenekmiş gibi görünen ama aslında pek çok önemli işlevi olan
sünnet törenleri girmektedir.
Hatıralardan Silinmeyen Kalıcı Bir Kanıt: Sünnet Törenleri
B
ir çocuğun çocukluktan çıkıp erkekliğe adım attığının görünür
kılınmasını sağlayan en önemli olaylardan biridir sünnet
törenleri. Sünnet çocuğunun giydiği kıyafetten, at üzerinde
yaptığı gezilere; törende çalınan şarkılardan, verilen hediye ve altınlara
kadar geçmişten günümüze süregelen pek çok gelenek, toplum
tarafından sünnet ritüeline verilen önemi kanıtlamakta ve bu ritüelin
toplum içindeki değerini stabil kılmaktadır.
Bedeninde özellikle cinsel organı gibi üreme açısından önemli bir
bölgesine müdahalede bulunulan erkek, bu müdahale ile birlikte kimlik
oluşumuna büyük bir katkı sağlamış olur. “Birey verili kimliğinin
varlığını devam ettirecek ya da sürdürecek gücü cemaatten alır,
törenlerle pekiştirir ve alınan bu güç toplumsaldır” (Taşıtman 119).
Günümüzdeki sünnet düğünü geleneği veya ilkel kabilelerdeki erkekliğe
geçiş törenleri, erkeğin kimlik oluşumunu etkileyen bu tarz ritüellerin
gücünü toplumdan aldığının ve yine toplum tarafından beslendiğinin en
büyük göstergelerinden biridir. Beyazlar içindeki pantolonu, gömleği,
yeleği, ayakkabıları, pelerini, asası, tacı, papyonu ve “maşallah” yazısıyla
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sünnet kıyafetleri, bir çocuğun “çocukça” değil “erkek gibi” giydirilmesini
sağlaması açısından sünnetin en önemli ve kaçınılmaz geleneği haline
gelmiştir. Çocuğun bu sünnet kıyafetiyle oradan oraya gezdirilmesi,
herkese üzerinde oynanmış cinsel organını gösteremeyecek olan
çocuğun erkekliğe adım attığını daha kısa ve gösterişli bir yolla tüm
çevresine duyurmasında etkili olur.
Günümüzdeki sünnet törenleri elbette ki yerel farklılıklardan
beslenerek çeşitlilik göstermektedir. Bazı bölgelerde sünnetçi geleneği
devam etmektedir ve doktor olsun ya da olmasın bu mesleği yapan kişi
sünnet çocuğunun evine gelerek bu ritüeli gerçekleştirmektedir. Büyük
şehirlerde ise çocukların hastanelerde uzman bir doktor tarafından
sünnet ettirilmesi tercih edilmektedir. Bu yol günümüzde çocuğun sağlığı
açısından daha tercih edilir bir yol olmuştur. Ancak her iki durumda da
sünnetle birlikte erkek çocuğunun biyolojik cinsiyetine uygun kimlik
kazanmaya başladığı kabul gördüğünden, sünnet sonrası geniş çaplı bir
“sünnet töreni” veya daha mütevazı bir “sünnet kutlaması” yapılması
günümüzde hala devam eden bir gelenektir.
Ataseven’e göre İslam’da bir çocuğun sünnet olabilmesi için iki
şart vardır. Bunlar Müslüman olmak ve sünnet derisinin mevcut
olmasıdır. Bazı çocuklar sünnet derisi olmadan doğabilmektedir. Bu
çocuklar Ataseven’e göre doğuştan sünnetli kabul edilirler, ama
sünnetçiler bu çocukları sünnet yapmış olmak için biraz kanatırlar (23).
Bu durum bize sünnet ritüelinin önemini bir kez daha vurgular. Çünkü
bir erkek çocuğunun sünnetli doğmuş olmasına rağmen cinsel organına
müdahalede bulunulması, onun sünnet olduğunun ve erkekliğe adım
attığının duyurulması açısından önemli görülür. Herhangi bir sebeple
bebeklikte sünnet edilmiş bir çocuğa yıllar sonra bir sünnet töreni
yapılması da aynı şekilde çocuğun sünnet edilmediğinin düşünülmesinin
önüne geçmek veya çocuğa erkekliğe adım attığı bilincinin aşılanmasını
sağlamak açısından bazı aileler tarafından gerekli görülmektedir.
Sünnet törenlerinin gösterişli ve uzun olmasının önemi de oldukça
büyüktür. Çünkü bu törenler sünnet çocuğunun ailesinin veya masrafları
karşılayacak başka bir aile büyüğünün ekonomik durumunun en büyük
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göstergelerinden biridir. Elbette günümüzde ekonomik durumları uygun
olduğu halde çocuklarına sünnet düğünü yapmayan aileler de mevcuttur.
Bunun altında sünneti sadece sağlık için bir gereklilik olarak görme,
sünneti erkeklikle bağdaştırmama ve kutlamaya gerek görmeme veya
sünneti dini bir zorunluluk olarak görüp kutlamasını yapmayarak
gösterişten kaçınma gibi farklı sebepler yatabilmektedir.
Sünnet törenlerinin gerçekleşmesinde
ve gerçekleştirilecek
ritüelin öncesinde ve sonrasında pek çok karar mekanizması rol oynar.
Bir erkeklik ritüeli olan sünnetin gerçekleşmesi için alınan kararlar da
elbette ki çoğunlukla erkeklerin tekelinde bulunur. Sünnet işlemine
karar vermede aile reisi veya sünnet töreninin masraflarını karşılayacak
başka bir aile büyüğü esas roldedir. Sünnet işlemini yerine getirenlerin
başında sünnetçinin gelmesinin yanı sıra kirveler de bu ritüel içerisinde
kilit rol oynar. Erkeklerin tekelinde olan başka bir erkeklik kurumu olan
kirvelik, gerek sünnet çocuğunun gerekse de onun ailesinin bambaşka
bir ilişki kurduğu, çocuğu sünnet esnasında tutarak fiziksel rol
oynamanın çok daha ötesinde bir role sahip sosyal konumu temsil eder.
Erkeklik Ritüelinde Bir Erkeklik Dayanışması: Kirvelik
K
irve, Farsça “kir-kamış” ve “-tutmak” kelimelerinden gelmektedir
(Ataseven 28). Halk arasında basitçe çocuğu sünnet esnasında
tutan kişi olarak algılansa da çok daha derin anlamlar içerir.
Ataseven’e göre “kirve, erkek çocuğun sünnet masraflarını
karşılayan başka bir ailenin büyüğüdür, sünnet olacak çocuğu kucağına
alarak sünnetin yapılmasını sağlar” (28). Ayşe Kudat ise kirvelik üzerine
yaptığı kapsamlı çalışması Kirvelik: Sanal Akrabalığın Dünü ve Bugünü
adlı kitabında kirveliği, “bir erkek çocuğun sünnet töreninin yük ve
masraflarını, ana babasının dışında başka bir aile büyüğünün üzerine
alması ile iki aile arasında kurulan sanal akrabalığa verilen ad” olarak
açıklar (11). Kirve ise “temelde sünnet töreninin masraflarını kısmen de
olsa yüklenecek ve tören sırasında çocuğu kucağına alarak fiziksel olarak
hareket etmesine engel olacak kimsedir” (12).
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Doğu Anadolu bölgesine ait bir gelenek olan kirvelik, Kudat’ın da
belirttiği üzere, devletin uyguladığı değişik politikalarla birlikte sağa sola
dağıtılan Doğu insanıyla beraber bölgesel niteliğini değiştirmiş, ulusal,
hatta uluslararası yeni bir kimlik kazanmıştır (16). Dolayısıyla bu
gelenek bölgesel bir gelenek olarak kalmamış, sünnet ritüelinin tüm
Türkiye’de uygulanan bir parçası olagelmiştir. Ayrıca “Batı ve Orta
Anadolu’da, Doğu Anadolu’daki ‘kirvelik’ âdetine karşılık ‘sağdıçlık’
vardır. Sağdıç, dost anlamındadır. … Sünnet düğünlerinde, sağdıç sünnet
olurken çocuğun yanında bulunur” (Ataseven 29).
Sünnet törenlerinin ekonomik sermayeyle yakın ilişkisinden
bahsettiğimiz gibi, kirvelik ilişkisinde de sosyal sermayeden bahsetmek
mümkündür. Çünkü kirvelik ilişkisi kuran iki aile aralarında kan bağı
olmayan yepyeni bir yakın ilişki içerisine girmiş olurlar ve bu ilişki
sadece sünnet töreninin yapılıp bitmesiyle kalmaz, ömür boyu sürer.
“Çocuklarını birbirleriyle evlendiren aileler nasıl adına “dünürlük”
denilen kurumlaşmış bir yakınlık kurarlarsa, bir çocuğun sünnet
töreninin üstlenilmesiyle birbirine bağlanan aileler de kurumlaşmış bir
yakınlık içine girerler. Bu yakınlık onlar için önemli bir sosyal sermaye
kaynağı oluşturur” (Kudat 12).
Kirveliğin toplumsal bir rol olduğundan bahsetmek yanlış olmaz.
Kirvelik sünnet ritüeliyle ortaya çıkan bir kavram olmasına rağmen,
kirvelerden yapılması beklenen şeyler sünnet sonrasında da devam
etmektedir. Ataseven’e göre kirveler, çocukları sünnet ettirmek ve
masraflarını karşılamanın yanı sıra, ileride okumaları ve iş bulmaları
konusuna da onlara yardımcı olmaktadır. Ayrıca kirveliğin özellikle Doğu
Anadolu Bölgesi’nin bir âdeti olduğunu söyleyen Ataseven, kirvelerin
kan davalarının önlenmesine yardımcı olma, sosyal ilişkileri perçinleme
ve aşiretler arası dostluk sağlama gibi görevleri olduğunu da belirtir
(28). Ancak “ilginçtir ki kirvelik yoluyla kurulan sosyal birikimler de,
parasal birikimlerde olduğu gibi erkeklerin monopolisindedir” (Kudat
13). Kirvelik bağlarının kurulmasında kadının rolü yok denecek kadar
azdır. Bu da erkek cinsel organının konu olduğu bir ritüelin doğurduğu
her türlü ilişkinin yine erkekler ve erkekliklerle ilgili olduğunu ve kadını
dışarıda tuttuğunu bir kez daha gözler önüne sermektedir.
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Kirvelik aileler arası basit bir ilişki değildir. Kirvelik yapacak kişi,
bir çocuğun erkekliğe attığı ilk adımda ona maddi destek sunduğu ve
onunla birlikte olduğu için saygıdeğer bir konuma erişir. Kirvelik ilişkisi
hem babalar için, hem de kirve olacak kişi için bir erkeklik meselesidir.
Kirvelik ilişkisi kuran iki aile arasında verilmiş bir söz vardır ve bu
sözden dönmek “erkek adam”a yakışmayacağından, kirve olacak aile
reisi sözünü “erkekçe” tutmak durumundadır. Aynı şekilde kirve olması
için birine teklif götüren ve kabul alan bir sünnet çocuğu babası da son
anda başka birine daha teklif götürüp onu kirve yaparsa, bu davranış da
erkeklik kalıbına sığmaz ve toplum tarafından fazlasıyla ayıplanır.
“Kirvelik için verilen söz o kadar ciddiye alınır ki, şakası bile yapılamaz;
bir şakalaşma sırasında bile olsa ortaya atılan öneri kabul edildikten
sonra verilen sözden dönülmesi hoş karşılanmaz” (Kudat 38).
Çocuğuna kirvelik yapacak kişinin seçimi, üzerinde düşünülmesi
gereken kritik bir süreçtir. Bu süreçte adayların ekonomik durumlarının
göz önünde bulundurulmasının yanı sıra, bu adayların erkeklik vasfı da
sünnet çocuğu ve ailesi için önemlidir. Kudat, “genellikle, çocuğu sünnet
töreni sırasında kucağına aldığı için, ‘tören babası’ dediğimiz kişi evli,
askerliğini yapmış, ailenin seçkin kişilerinden seçilir” der (45).
Kendisinin de içinde bulunduğu yerel farklılıkların katkısıyla şekillenmiş
olan erkeklik algısı ve kalıpları içerisine girmeyen bir erkeğin kirve
olması düşünülmez. Örneğin, sünnetsiz bir erkeğin bir sünnet
düğününde kirvelik yapması abeste iştigal eder. Ya da henüz eli ekmek
tutmayan, bekâr genç bir erkek kirvelik için uygun görülmez. Kirvenin
tam
erkekliğe
ulaşmış
ve
Kudat’ın
belirttiği
gibi
“çocuğu
kucaklayabilecek ve fiziksel olarak hareketine engel olabilecek bedeni
güce” sahip olması beklenir (45).Yani sünnet ritüeli sadece sünnet olacak
çocuk için değil, kirvelik geleneği nedeniyle farklı aileler arasında da bir
erkeklik meselesi haline gelir.
Kirvelik ilişkileri günden güne değişen sosyal ilişkilerden ötürü
boyut değiştirebilmektedir. Yıllar öncesinin sıkı kirvelik bağlarının
günümüzdeki varlığından bahsetmek zordur. Türkiye’nin doğusunda
doğan bu geleneğin zorunlu veya gönüllü göçle önce batıya, oradan da
farklı coğrafyalara yayılması bu geleneğin varlığının evrensel bir hal
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almasını sağlamasının yanı sıra, yerel farklılıklardan ve değişik
kültürlerden etkilenmesi sebebiyle biçim değiştirmesine, varlığını bu
değişimle devam ettirmesine ve hatta bazen yok olmasına da neden
olmuştur. Yine de değişmeyen bir şey varsa o da kirveliğin bu erkeklik
ritüelinde ortaya çıkan ve erkeklik hamurunu iyice yoğuran bir erkeklik
dayanışmasının iyi bir örneği olmasıdır diyebiliriz.
Sonuç Yerine: Oldu da Bitti Maşallah
M
akale boyunca ele alınan sünnetin erkeklik ile olan ilişkisi,
sünnet olan erkeğin cinsel organının zaten bir iktidar simgesi
olmaya başladığını ve bu ritüelin hali hazırda bu amaca hizmet
eden bir rolünün olduğunu gözler önüne sermeyi amaç edinmiştir.
Türkiye toplumu ele alındığında erkek bedeninde kültürel değer
yüklenmiş gösterenlerin başında (başka birçok toplumda olduğu gibi)
elbette ki penis gelmektedir. Penisin bu temsili elde edebilmesinin
gerekli koşullarından biri de Türkiye toplumu için şüphesiz ki sünnet
olmaktır. Türkiye’deki erkeklerin hegemonik erkekliğe ulaşması ve
iktidarı elinde tutabilmesi için büyük ve sünnetli bir penise sahip olması
beklenmektedir.
Sünnet, erkek çocuğunun erkeklik inşa sürecinde uğradığı kilit
roldeki temel duraklardan ilki olarak görülebilir. Erkek cinsel organına
sahip olmasından ötürü doğumundan itibaren erkeğe uygun görülen
renklerde giydirilip, bu cinsiyete uygun görülen oyuncaklarla oynayan ve
erkek cinsiyetine atfedilen söylemlerle büyütülen çocuk, bir erkek olarak
toplumsal rol ve görevlerini yerine getirdiğini belirten en önemli
göstergelerden birine sünnet olarak sahip olmaktadır. Sünnet olan çocuk,
çocukluk evresini bir nebze olsun geçerek erkekliğe adım attığı için
gurur kaynağı haline gelmektedir. Bu bağlamda temelini mitolojiye kadar
dayandırılabildiğimiz sünnet ritüelinin altında tarihsel süreç içerisinde
asla değişmeyen kritik bir mesele yattığı savunulabilir. Bu mesele
erkeklik meselesidir.
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Geçmişten
günümüze
sünnet;
gerek
mitolojideki,
ilkel
kabilelerdeki ve tek tanrılı dinlerdeki konumuyla, gerek kutlama
törenleri ve kirvelik gibi gelenekleriyle ve gerekse de erkek tekelinde
bulunan kurgusuyla, erkekliğe yaptığı vurgu ve onunla olan ilişkisi asla
sarsılmayan bir müdahale biçimi olarak varlığını sürdürmektedir.
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“Ceremonial Circumcision” as One of the Mechanisms
Which Enables the Regeneration and Intergenerational
Transmission of Manhood Culture in Turkey
N. Gamze Toksoy
Mimar Sinan Fine Arts University
Ayşegül Taşıtman
Sabancı University
Abstract:
Male circumcision is a male tradition which can be traced back to
ancient times and is still practiced today as a religious duty by
Jewish and Muslim societies. In today’s modern societies, across
different geographical locations, there are cases in which
members of different religions practice it by claiming that it
enables the protection of men and baby boys from sexually
transmitted illnesses. However, apart from such cases and the
operations on baby boys carried out at hospitals, in Muslim and
patriarchal societies like Turkey, male circumcision is ritualized
by the majority of society. It is perceived as male rite of passage
and practiced in a manner similar to a wedding ceremony preparations extend over many days.
Starting from the day the preparations begin until the day the
ceremony is realized and the day after, ceremonial circumcision
involves culture codes centering around praises to manhood and
symbolic meanings. Several details like, what kind of preparations
are made before the ceremony, what parts the members of the
family play in the ceremony, which place is chosen for the
ceremony, how it is decorated, the qualities of the costume the
circumcised child is wearing, the words and the moves repeated
during the ceremony and the invitation cards chosen for the
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ceremony give us significant footprints of how manhood is being
regenerated in certain patterns in certain geographical locations.
In other words, as a manhood practice which involves direct
interference
to
male
existence,
ceremonial
circumcision
regenerates the manhood myth which is strong, enduring, unlike
women, or belonging to the masculine society to found the basis of
it.
In this article how circumcision ritual which is carried out as a
religious and cultural practice is provided with a legitimate
ground in social sphere and how it takes part in the generation
and transmission of the existing manhood patterns are going to be
problematized. The analysis that will be included in the text is
based on an ethnographic research realized by a group of men
who have experienced the circumcision ritual. The narratives
related to circumcision rituals collected during the research will
be examined in detail; in addition to this, the codes of manhood
which have become common will especially be evaluated. Besides,
the circumcision pictures every Muslim family has in their family
album today in Turkey, the invitations announcing the
circumcision ceremony in the social sphere also have important
part in the spreading and transmission of manhood culture. In this
regard, the analysis of visual aid will be covered in the article, as
well.
Key words: Male Genital Circumcision, Ceremonial Circumcision,
Masculinity, Man/Masculinity Studies, Gender, Social Memory
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Türkiye’de Erkeklik Kültürünü Yeniden Üreten ve
Kuşaklar Arası Aktarımını Sağlayan Mekanizmalardan
Biri Olarak “Törensel Sünnet”
N. Gamze Toksoy
Mimar Sinan Güzel Sanatlar Üniversitesi
Ayşegül Taşıtman
Sabancı Üniversitesi
Özet:
Erkek sünneti, kökeni oldukça eski dönemlere dayanan,
günümüzde ise yahudi ve müslüman toplumlarında dini
gerekliliklerden biri olarak hala sürdürülmeye devam eden bir
erkek
geleneğidir.
Erkek
sünnetinin
günümüz
modern
toplumlarında dini gerekçelerin yanında çeşitli coğrafyalarda ve
farklı
dinlere
mensup
erkeklere/erkek
bebeklere
cinsel
hastalıklardan korunmayı kolaylaştırdığı iddiasıyla da yapıldığı
örneklere rastlanmaktadır. Ancak, bu tür örneklerden ve erkek
bebeklere
yönelik
hastahanelerde
yapılan
sünnet
operasyonlarından farklı olarak, Türkiye’deki gibi kimi müslüman
ve ataerkil toplumlarda, erkek sünneti toplumun geniş kesimleri
tarafından ritüelleştirilen, erkekliğe geçiş töreni olarak kavranan
ve günlerce hazırlanılan bir düğün olarak pratik edilmektedir.
Bu metinde; Türkiye’de dini ve kültürel bir pratik olarak
sürdürülen sünnet ritüelinin toplumsal alanda meşru zemini nasıl
sağladığı ve mevcut erkeklik kalıplarının yeniden üretilmesinde ve
aktarımında nasıl rol aldığı sorunsallaştırılacaktır. Araştırmanın
sorunsalı, görüştüğümüz sünnet ritüelini deneyimlemiş erkeklerin
anlatıları ve ritüelin aktarımını sağlayan materyaller etrafında
örülecektir.
Anahtar Kelimeler: Erkek Sünneti, Törensel Sünnet, Erkeklik,
Erkek/Erkeklik Çalışmaları, Toplumsal Cinsiyet, Toplumsal Bellek
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T
he
male
image
is
founded
upon
willpower,
hierarchy,
unconditional commitment and loyalty to qualities such as
courage, fearlessness and invincibility. Yet, in the modern and
modernizing societies of today’s world, how much of a response to this
traditional image can be found? During the past twenty years manhood
studies have developed significantly, discussions about the eye-opening
questions related to how the roles and acceptances attributed to men in
the modern societies are perceived and how they are transformed
continue today. It can be seen that the “new” forms manhood is
transformed into are frequently discussed with thematic centering on
the “manhood crisis” in modern societies. The determination of the crisis
meets on the common ground that it is no longer possible to legitimize
the superiority of men for biological, cultural, economical or ideological
reasons. It is determined that a number of facts such as the changing
living conditions, dissolution of the relations in the countryside, the
modern organization of work life, the structure of the information
society etc. mean the dominant qualities of the patriarchal societies are
transformed (Sancar 111; Castells 134; Kimmel/Kaufman 261-266). In
today’s societies in which life is reorganized completely, significant
transformations have been and are being experienced in the roles and
acceptances concerning gender. On the other hand, in the aspect of
Connell’s definition, “ beyond the visible power struggle hegemonic
manhood continues to make its presence felt in the organization of
private life and cultural processes” (246). In the countries which depend
on male dominance like Turkey, we observe that manhood is pursued –
more specifically- as a practice of power. The status of manhood in the
basis of gender continues to be a determiner over the relationships
among people of the same sex. Masculine dominance which is nourished
with certain social institutions can still employ acceptance generating
mechanisms and is accepted in the public sphere.
The determination of the fact that manhood arises not from
biological and natural causes, but from social and cultural conditions,
inevitably points out that manhoods from different cultures and cultural
practices intended for men will vary (Cornwall&Lindisfarne 11-12)
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Considering this point, in Turkey manhood carries qualities special to
geographical location and culture. The effort made to understand these
qualities suggests the possibility of revealing the relations between
different manhoods and cultural functionings they are in negotiation
with, instead of perceiving manhood homogeneously through one point
of view, as if a single definition is possible. Hence, the ongoing and
changing forms of manhoods are nourished by numerous cultural
practices, and while some of these practices lose their influence over
time, some others can be adapted to present conditions and continue
their existence. In this study, we will focus on circumcision as a male
practice and despite the fact that social life has been widely reorganized
through Turkish modernization, we will direct our attention to basic
questions such as how we can give meaning to male discourse and the
unchanging sides of its products, how we can define the ways manhood
has penetrated into daily life and how we can evaluate the means which
enable the spreading and transmission of pursued manhood practices.
Although the manhood studies in Turkey do not have a deeprooted history, there do exist studies related to subjects within the scope
of our research, such as how the male identity is formed as an identity
and by which social institutions it is supported, how it can relate to
militarist-nationalist opinion, especially revealing culture based qualities
of manhood are increasing in number. (Kandiyoti; Atay; Sancar; Selek;
Kuruoğlu; Erdoğan; Altınay)i. With these kind of studies, we can see
corrosion of the traditional character of the system in parallel with the
changes in the network of social and economical relations in the Turkish
society which is dominated by patriarchal values. However, apart from
these corrosions not resulting in the elimination of inequality between
the sexes, it has led to the functioning mechanisms of male hegemony to
become more and more complicated. It can be said that the norms and
values which are influential in the organization of daily life are still
highly defined from the masculine point of view. Therefore, examining
the social mechanisms and cultural practices which are influential during
the process of forming the male identity is of basic significance in order
to understand the essence of manhood today and the social structure
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which is becoming more and more conservative every day (Kandiyoti
187).
Let us start from the way a male child is raised: in the street, in
work life, in the army where he must carry out compulsory service; in
brief, across each field of social life structured with norms, the
hegemonic qualities are protected in the aspect of Turkish men. In this
sense, hegemonic male image is in social circulation and pursues its
hegemony above the legitimacy it creates in the social ground. The
mediums which enable the continuity of its legitimacy are the rituals
which are rooted and repeated unquestioningly as much as today's
media which deal with masculine values. Rituals like circumcision are
examples of how the male body is "trained" and turned into cultural
image in the practices of daily life. On the other hand, these kinds of
traditional institutions provide the environment in which codes related
to manhood that are protected in the collective memory are regenerated
through repetition. In this context, it must be remembered that
ceremonies have the function of making a connection with the past to
form a basis for the identity of a group. The repeated words during the
rituals, practices reminding figures belonging to the roots refresh social
identities in the social memory. As a result, the sense of belonging to the
collective identity is strengthened (Assmann 56).
Male circumcision is a male ritual which can be traced back to
ancient times. A fresco which depicts a circumcision ritual in Ancient
Egypt shows that the known proof is dates back to 2400 B.C. (Gollaher 14) Some research points out that the practice of circumcision can be
dated back to very early times (DeMeo, J. 9-13). The study of
circumcision is one of the most disputed issues in contemporary
anthropology and anthropologists are criticized male circumcision from
multiple angles during the last century. Silverman’s analysis of
anthropological literature on male circumcision elucidated the wide
range of approaches to male circumcision (419-427). While some of
these approaches focused on circumcision as moral, political, and
scientific obligations of a cultural practice some others criticized this
practice as an impassioned debate on human rights. In this article, we
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are focusing on male circumcision as religious duties which reinforce
masculinity and as a cultural indicator.
The most widespread reason which brings the practice of
circumcision from the past to the present and enables its validity, even
today, is the fact that it is accepted as the compulsory condition of
religious duties. The unifying aspect of religious tradition differentiates
him from his other (female body and the uncircumcised); in other words,
ostracizes the other and brings him closer to the same kind. Owing to the
mark of circumcision, the male identity and the values attributed to
manhood are approved socially. In this context, it has been emphasized
that it has social meanings as a sign of masculinity (Immerman and
Mackey 267-273; Gün 32; Paige 40-47; Segal 119). The continuity of this
sign with rituals, which comes to surface with the rise of patriarchy can
be associated with the fact that patriarchal tendency is still strong.
Although religious reasons and traditions are shown as the causes of the
circumcision ritual today, the real cause is that hierarchical superiority
of men continues to exist in patriarchal societies (Montagu).
In today’s Muslim communities like Turkey, the practice of
circumcision which is an absolute must for boys to be admitted to
religion carries significant traces of how symbolic meanings related to
manhood and codes are embedded, how religious duties are
functionalised in this context and how it can still be performed in
modern societies. The event in which these traces are unfolded is the
circumcision ceremony. The ceremony enables the inheritance of
circumcision as a tradition from generation to generation and its social
legitimacy. Circumcision becomes a stage of transition to manhood by
way of the ceremony. It then is the indicator of belonging to male society
and finds its place in the socially approved belief system.
The holiness derived definition and design of the institutions
which are indispensable for the perpetuity of the masculine reign enable
their continuity and transmission. With the use of holiness, social
institutions and the meaning codes which shape their characteristics can
be more effective and permanent. Hence, circumcision is applied as a
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religious necessity in Turkey as it is applied in most of the countries
which are populated by a muslim majority and there is social acceptance
and approval of the ritual. In fact, in the Koran, the holy book of Islam,
there is neither a direct reference to circumcision, nor a suggested way
of celebrating it. The religious side of circumcision is based on the
prophet Muhammad’s sayings which state that male children must be
circumcisedii. Similarly, there is not a source clearly stating at what age
circumcision must take place. A muslim man can be circumcised at any
age. The period between the ages seven and twelve which is known as
puberty is mostly recommended for children. As for the ceremonial
circumcision practices in Turkey, the tradition of circumcising children
within the recommended age range is substantially approved of. In
certain cases, when there are two sons in a household, even if one is
much younger, they can be circumcised at the same time.
The perception of circumcision as a religious obligation in Islam
enables the continuity of this practice; thus it keeps existing by repeating
itself in the social memory. For this reason, the ethnographic observation
of the ceremony provides us with a rich field of study in which we can
perceive how the words and practices repeated through the ceremony
become permanent and turn into memory codes that we can associate
with manhood. Hence, we can see how the sexist discourse and practices
related to body become ordinary in daily life and how their
intergenerational transmission become stronger as they become norms.
The words and behavior repeated through the ceremony, the relations
founded with the objects, the new design of the place, wishes, prayers, all
give new meanings to the images of the past today, recycle them and
turn them into mediums of male hegemony.
On the other hand, rituals and ceremonies are a way of embracing
the values transmitted from generation to generation in order to be part
of a certain culture as well as being applications of the practices which
are products of those values. For this reason, a way of perceiving the
social acceptance of circumcision and how every man positions himself
within the male culture is achieved by listening to the experiences of the
circumcised men. Therefore, the basic arguments in the article you have
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before you, center around the circumcision stories of the men who have
agreed to share them with us. Certainly, the limited number of
narratorsiii we could interview cannot be claimed to represent the
entirety of circumcision experiences in this country. None the less,
listening to the experiences of the circumcised men in their own words
makes it easier to see the connections between the present gender
regime and those experiences. As we looked for the answer to the
question, we could see the transitivity between the stereotypes
concerning rooted genders in society and circumcision ceremonies. This
was observed through the circumcision stories of these men who were
born in different regions of Turkey, who have experienced living in a
cosmopolitan city (Istanbul) and who have grown up in average
economical conditions and had educational opportunities. The common
emphasis in the narratives has enabled us to understand how the
judgments which found hegemonic male identity are reorganized in the
field of discourse and to deepen our questioning about the male
existence under the masculine hegemony. Below, in spite of the changing
life conditions, roles, identities, and relations between genders in today’s
modernizing Turkey, the continuing masculine discourse and practices
which are influential on daily life and the relations between them and
the details of the ceremony will be examined by focusing on the details of
the ceremony.
Ceremonial Circumcision, First Step Taken to Manhood
T
he circumcision ceremony for which the child and the family have
been waiting for weeks, months, even years
and to which
relatives and neighbors are invited is arranged through a
number of preparations. A considerable part of the preparations take
place in the house of the child to be circumcised. The child rests on the
specially adorned circumcision bed after being circumcised and the
guests visit him there. For this reason, the house is cleaned days in
advance, the place of the bed is determined, the decorations for the
bedhead are selected with care; moreover, additional shopping is done
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for the bed lining and decorations. The house is prepared so that it can
host the guests during the circumcision ceremony and the following few
days and treats like snacks and beverages are kept available. Among the
preparations, the costume of the circumcised child is of significant
importance because of the symbolic meanings it has. Particular shopping
is done for the circumcision costume in advance. As every piece of the
costume has a different meaning and function, details are taken into
consideration. A comfortable undershirt is bought and appropriate
underwear and pajamas to be worn after the circumcision are chosen.
The outer pieces of the costume usually consist of circumcision pants,
shirt, a cloak worn over the shirt, and most of the time a hat designed
like a tarboosh.
Figure 1: Circumcision dress (see www.sunnetelbisesi.com)
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Figure 2: Circumcision dress (see www.sunnetelbisesi.com)
Protection from all evil is wished for the circumcised child with
the band saying ‘maşalllah!’iv worn over the circumcision costume and
blue beadsv. The hat, the gilded cloak, the scepter which completes the
costume turn the male child almost into a king. One of the interviewees
expresses what he remembers about the costumes as follows:
I remember going to İstanbul to buy the circumcision needs.
Lots of things are bought, all just for you. Such an important
thing! Your aunts, mother are making an effort. Some have
bought something and they are making a cloak, there is the
‘maşallah!’ band, those strange scepters, crowns. That is, you
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become the sultan’s son! It was beautiful in that sense. Then
the bed is made, huge, like a real sultan’s bed.” (1986, İzmir)
Figure 3: Circumcised child (Taşıtman’s Family Album, 1988 used with permission)
The bed which is prepared for the guests to see the child and the
balloons hung around the bed are of material that can entertain the child.
Besides, the gifts which the guests bring for the child (gold, money,
wristwatch, toys etc.) are placed on the bed in a way that they can be
seen. A jewellery case or pillow are kept ready for these. Moreover,
above the bedhead nationalist symbols such as the Turkish flag and
religious symbols like sections of the Koran and streamers written with
‘maşallah’ are given place. The direct association of circumcision with
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decretals are supported with the religious items that we see in different
ways, symbols with religious references and religious practices starting
from the preparations of the feast till its end. On the other hand, we
encounter nationalist symbols and nationalist discourse in certain
occasions throughout the ceremony. When it is taken into consideration
that nationalist point of view and nationalist movement are realized with
the power relations based on social gender, the relation between the
employment of nationalist elements during the circumcision ceremony
and the “masculinizing” practice of the male child can be seen. The
manhood myth which is nourished with discourse such as devotion to
one’s country, owning the mission of defending the country, sacrificing it
all for one’s country, have the function of strengthening and supporting
the relation between hegemonic manhood values and militarism. When
institutions like the army which enable the continuity of militaristic and
nationalist factors are observed, it can be seen that they completely
involve gendered practices. As a matter of fact, turning a young man into
a warrior requires certain institutional organisations and cultural
practices. To be invincible, powerful, fearless, to endure physical pain,
etc. are qualities which are stipulated for men by militarist-nationalist
policies and also lead to the reinforcement of the sexist policy in which
strict hierarchy between sexes gets stronger (Sancar 153-174; Enloe
208-224; Nagel 68-90) The perception of manhood as the basic element
which the nation is founded on and the mission of defending the country
assigned to him, require him to be a strong, courageous, venturous,
warrior. Likewise, endurance to pain, trial of the body with pain which
are frequently emphasized in the narratives are prices to be paid “to
leave behind the dependence and weakness of childhood and have a new
feeling of belonging in the different world of the grown up men” (Segal
169). Thus, the male body trained with pain rises in rank and
fictionalised courage is attributed to men by the society. The masculine
words which form these virtues are uttered to the male child repeatedly
during the circumcision feast. The symbols which are placed beside the
bed are praised and the child is taught to respect and value these
symbols.
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Figure 4: Circumcision bed (Hanged paper means “Real men must be circumcised”)
(Interviewees’s Family Album, 1995 used with permission)
After the preparations in the household are completed, the family
members and the close relations start organising the circumcision feast.
One day before the day of circumcision feast, the child is dressed in the
circumcision costume and taken to a Turkish bath with the children of
the relatives and other invited men. After the ‘purification’ and ‘cleaning’
ritual, again in the circumcision costume, visits the relatives and kisses
the hands of the elderly. If there are any religiously significant places in
the city the family inhabits, these places are visited to make wishes and
pray for the circumcision to be auspicious.vi
In some regions the circumcision feast starts with the henna
ceremony. The henna ceremony is a festivity which takes place the night
before the circumcision to which close relations and family friends are
invited. Snacks are served and guests dance with the child to be
circumcised. The henna night is a commonly practised part of the
Anatolian culture and is celebrated at the bride’s house the day before
the wedding or it can also be organized for a man who is conscripted
(Sharabi 11-42; Acara 91-94). Henna is applied to the bride’s hands with
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best wishes. Likewise, it is applied to the child’s hands praying that he
will be a healthy, strong and successful man in the future. As it has been
mentioned above, the symbols identified with male strength can be
observed during the henna night. One of our interviewees describes his
henna night as follows:
The circumcision festivities last two days. Before the
circumcision the henna night takes place. There is
entertainment and henna is applied to my hands. That day,
women applied henna to their hands besides me. Henna was
applied to my hand in the shape of a gun, my thumb pointing
up and my index finger forward. Not in my hand palm but to
my fingers like that. (1986, İzmir)
The men interviewed used themes in common to define the day of
circumcision as a stage one has to go through, or even a childhood
trauma. An interviewee born in 1981 describes the necessity of
circumcision as follows;
It is as if circumcision is like a doxa, it was going to happen
anyway. I mean, nobody had to cheer me up or prepare me
for the event. There was no need for neither my father nor my
brothers to prepare me as it was going to happen; it had to
happen. This thing that had to happen was completely a
requirement of religious codes and Islam which had to be
carried out (1981, Van).
In these stories, “uncle circumciser” who comes to the house to
circumcise the child is a feared person. Most of the time he is not a
doctor, but someone experienced in circumcising. Before and after the
circumcision the child bears in mind the scary image of this man holding
a razor in his hand for a long time.
The circumciser is a feared profile, but uncles tell about him,
your father tells about him and you just remember the known
razor. (1985, Ankara)
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The circumcisers in the village…well, the man never had
schooling, but he circumcises. For two days we couldn’t walk.
On the fourth day, we could stand up, I waddled for fifteen
days. What’s worse we had it done in winter, I was galled all
over. (1975, Kars)
Besides,
the person who holds and keeps the child still during
circumcision, ‘kirve’, tells him calming words such as he should be a
strong man, he should endure pain and be a real man. He is also a person
who will be an important figure in the child’s future. Being a Kirve is a
sociocultural institution in the tradition of circumcision. Kirve can be a
friend of the family or a close relation like an uncle or an adult man who
is granted rights over the child like a father by the family. Even when
there is no blood relation between the child and his kirve, he is counted
as one of the close relatives of the family and is of moral and material
support to the child. Kirve may also have a share in the circumcision
feast and his wife or his mother may help with the preparations.
Circumcision is realized in a room of the house where women
(especially the mother of the child) are not allowed to enter, with the
operation of the uncle circumciser accompanied by the kirve and close
male relations who are present in the room to hold the child still. The
child who may shout and cry during the operation is calmed down with
words like, a real young man/man does not cry. After the child is
circumcised, he is put to the circumcision bed. The family members,
relatives and guests visit him lying in his bed. They celebrate and dance
before him. Special dishes are prepared only for him. They try to
entertain him all day so that he can forget his pain. The circumcised child
gets pats on his back, hearing sentences like, “now you are a man”, “from
now on you are a strong man enduring pain”. He is spoiled with gifts
such as toy cars mostly and toy guns and rewarded for his courage.
However, the liveliness of the festivity day is replaced by the painful
healing process of the child’s wound. The majority of the interviewees
who were circumcised between 1960- 90s have stated that the dressing
for the wound to heal is an unbearably agonizing process. It can be
understood that different from today’s hospital treatment or doctor
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practices, in those years quite primitive techniques were commonly used
to dress wounds.
The period after the circumcision was much worse than
circumcision itself. I still remember that. Especially what
happened to my brother and I. I really cried for that. It was
one of the worst pains I have ever had. (1980, Aydın)
The dressing was applied first. It has a special powder and
there is a hat on it. The man came again 3-5 days later. Of
course, by then you are alone, there is no attention. The
excitement disappears. He came to take off the dressing.
Taking off that bandage was the most painful of all. It hurt so
bad. (1952, İzmir)
I always saw that moment in my dreams after the
circumcision. It was terrible. It had to happen, everyone’s
watching you. It was a disaster for my brother. It caused
serious damage on him. (1975, Kars)
It may be the first trauma of a man. The earlier, the better. It
better not be remembered. I generally sense the worry that
the child shouldn’t remember it. I do remember. I don’t know,
but maybe it has several effects on me which I don’t know or
haven’t realised. (1981, Van)
There are studies stating that the trauma created by the moment of
circumcision taking place during childhood or even infancy and the
treatment stage following it, remain in the body memory and thus affect
the behaviors of the person in the future (Immerman and Mackey;
Montagu; Salam 9-17). In this context, male circumcision provides a field
of
study
for
disciplines
such
as
medicine,
psychology
and
interdisciplinary studies they are interested in as much as it does for
social sciences readings related to rituals. Within the framework of our
focus of attention in this study, we emphasize that the codes related to
male body that have long been reproduced are reproduced during
circumcision ceremony. On the other hand, ceremonial circumcision has
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a dominant part in the construction of the codes related to the” myth of
the mighty man” which connects the past with the present and enables
the continuity of the patriarchal system and the reconstruction of these
codes in the cultural area. In the mythological narratives which came
into existence thousands of years ago, circumcision stories with different
cultural functions from one another can be encountered. In these stories,
circumcision is sometimes a condition to become a member of a tribe,
the symbol of growing into manhood from childhood, sometimes a proof
of strength, the fruitfulness and holiness spilling blood brings or
knowing your enemies and at times, a sign of building a different identity
from the others, a way of punishing prisoners of war (castration), a
control over sexual pleasure, a protection from disease etc. vii (Gün 33-34;
Taburoğlu 37; Bell 104; Salam 1-9) In the narratives about ceremonial
circumcision and its application it can be observed that themes such as
blood, sacrifice, trial with pain have always been repeated. There are
strong ties between the meanings attributed to these themes by the
society and the continuing advantageous status of the male child in
patriarchal societies. Blood and blood relation are indicators of
belonging to a group. In patriarchal societies, male sided blood relations
are in the centre of the line of descent and masculine discourse. It is
believed that the genealogical and common religion based qualifications
are transmitted by blood from father to son. In religious texts and
mythological narratives many examples are given related to the holiness
that is reached by spilling blood, protection from evil spirits derived by
the blood of the sacrifice, blood as an indicator of a heavenly contract.
The blood spilled, the discourse generated about the pain suffered are
still significant parts of the circumcision ceremony today. The fear the
child experiences, the pain he suffers are of vital necessity for him to
proceed to an important stage in his life, becoming a “man”. From then
on, with the contributions of the adults, the child starts to feel himself in
the advantageous position he deserves. His body which is tested through
pain is blessed and heroized.
Circumcision is about being a man and when we consider it
publicly I can say it is related to courage. If you dare to do
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something, if you can present a bold front you are a man. If
you can’t, you are called a sissy. It can be said, courage is a
must to be a man. (1977, Ankara)
With this intervention to a male child’s sexual organ his body is marked
and this mark turns into a special indicator which ensures that he is
approved by other similar collectives of men. Like his peers, the child is
marked with the piece ruptured from his body. In this regard, penis, an
organ of a male child’s body, gradually leaves behind its biological
existence, finds a place among practices which help his collective identity
as a “male” to be approved and ceremonial circumcision turns into a
public approval of manhood. According to this point of view, ceremonial
circumcision can be described as an operating male institution. That is to
say, it is an indicator of a man’s acceptance to religion and his becoming
a member of a group of men of his kind; therefore, it is one of the most
significant factors of a man’s socialization. In the protection and
transition of the male culture within certain codes, the social
mechanisms which enable the approval of the culture function in various
ways. In the masculinizing process of men, families, relatives, male
friends, neighbors, local culture, cooperate as homosocial structures
feeding this process. The realization of the ritual as it should be and its
being announced to the social circle are the necessities of the social
control mechanism:
As you cannot isolate yourself from the society, circumcision
is a prior condition to be a man. We should look at the matter
from the society’s standpoint. To me, that ritual is necessary.
To be a man, you are to be circumcised. For this reason, I
would have my child circumcised and with a feast. (1985,
Ankara)
When everyone around you says, you can’t be a man without
being circumcised, what can you think as a boy of 7-8?
(1987, Trabzon)
Circumcision does not mean anything to me, but the society
puts pressure on you for this. It is probably the same with
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marriage, you get married because of social pressure. If I
were to turn 20 without being circumcised, I would be
ostracised. I would be ostracised by my close boy and girl
friends. (1986, İzmir)
When I was circumcised, I felt relieved when among my
friends. I had it done too, I joined them as well. Indeed, the
circumcised are like a community in childhood, saying, oh
that boy isn’t circumcised, he still hasn’t had it done at this
age, worked like a ostracizing mechanism… (1981, Van)
On one hand, the ceremony which is defined as the very first occasion
that gives joy to the family is referred to as mürrüvetviii by the male
child’s parents, and is really significant for the prestige of the family as
much as it symbolizes the approval of manhood in their own social circle.
Details such as how the family organized the feast, whom they invited,
how they carried out the preparations, what was served to the guests etc.
are also related to the family’s, especially to the father’s status among
relatives and neighbours. The parents have to carry out their religious
duties and socially approved responsibilities as well as strengthening
their own socialization process by way of the ceremony.
For starters, there is pressure on your family. Parents who don’t
have their son circumcised are very likely to be despised. Senior
members of the family will put a lot of pressure on them to have it
done. Secondly, it will be a problem for the child’s social circle. Hey,
are you uncircumcised? Moreover, as it is imposed by Islam, it can
be drawn to the religious ground or the person can even be exposed
to sexual insult. The person may be made fun of about his gender.
These things happen. For this reason, not being circumcised may
cause lots of problems. (1980, Aydın)
While referring to the role of the circumcision feast in the socialization of
the family, it must be mentioned that as the stories covered in this study
belong to the middle class urban families, the details quoted are of
ceremonies which middle income families can afford to. However, as the
level of income changes, although the traditional elements which form
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the basis of the ceremony are repeated, some differences or additions
may be observed in celebration styles. For instance, for a family with a
high level of income, the circumcision feast may take place in luxurious
places. It can turn into ceremonies in which special nights, dinner
parties, entertainment are prepared for guests which may even last for
days. In Turkey, especially during the last ten years of conservative
governing, this kind of circumcision feasts have become popular. Some of
these feasts have been so attention grabbing that they aroused great
public attention, found coverage in newspapers and televised. ix On the
other hand, it is striking that for families who cannot afford to hold a
feast, municipalities organize “mass circumcision ceremonies” These
ceremonies in which many children are circumcised together are
referred to as public service and whose expenses are covered by the
municipality are worth being the subject of another study. They are also
significant as they show the part institutions of public utility play in the
generation of acceptance related to circumcision.
The Repeated Images of Social Memory
Figure 5: “The Dance of the Father and Son”, (Taşıtman’s Family Album, 1988 used with
permission)
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As is seen, the circumcision feast is a performance displayed in the
social sphere rather than being the privacy of the child or an event in the
family from beginning to the end. It adjusts to the patriarchal system of
values. It is reinforced by the religious and nationalist discourses.
Although there is direct intervention to the child’s body at an age he can
remember the event, this intervention – with the social discourse and
practices which frame it- is approved of by large sections of the
community; in other words, it has a legal ground in the eye of the public.
At this point, visualizes must be considered among the means of
circumcision which feed the hegemonic male culture and normalize it in
daily life. Hence, pictures certifying various moments starting from the
day before the circumcision when the circumcision costume is bought, to
the time when the feast ends are kept as the page of honour in the family
album in the homes of the average Muslim Turkish family. Beyond being
the pictures of this special day, they are the repeated images of a social
memory in which we can find the traces of the cultural history of a
specific society.x These conventional pictures in the family albums
represent the memories which the family finds important and therefore,
chooses to pass on to the next generations. They are a way to affirm and
keep the experience the family had alive. In certain cases the pictures of
the circumcision day are hung on the walls for many years and thus, kept
observable. Similarly, the invitation cards which are the announcement
of the circumcision day are still significant parts of it.
It is customary to send invitation cards to acquaintances, relatives
and close friends to inform them about the ceremony in advance. The
words and images repeated in these invitation cards are like the refined
versions of the common acceptance of hegemonic male culture. When
the words, written mostly as short poems, and the visuals accompanying
them are evaluated as a whole, we can see the examples of how
hegemonic male culture is kept fresh in daily life. These images which
are the announcement and notification of manhood to the neighbours
are the stimulus of the manhood myth rooted in the social memory and
they normalize them in daily life.
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Figure 6: Invitation Card (see www.sedefcards.com)
Figure 7: Invitation Card (see www.sedefcards.com)
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The idea emphasized in most of the invitation cards is that the boy
will become a man from then on. In the majority of the samples there are
expressions referring to the necessity of ceremonial circumcision to
grow into adolescence, the continuity of the father’s lineage, courage and
fearlessness. Mostly, a picture of the child in his circumcision costume,
holding a scepter in his hand on horseback (like a prince) accompany
these expressions.
Figure 8: Invitation Card
“They put a tarboosh on my head, and I suddenly
Turned into a prince, I am not afraid circumciser,
Cut as much as you will.” (see www.yasambu.com)
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Figure 9: Invitation Card
“On this blissful day our one and only son
will take his first step to manhood,
we will be honoured to see you, our friends beside us” (see
www.bursadavetiyeci.com)
Figure 10: Invitation Card
It will hurt, but I am not afraid, come and see I am becoming a
man,
I expect the ones who love me and my beloved to my feast (see
www.bursadavetiyeci.com)
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Figure 11: Invitation Card
“They kept saying ‘circumcision’ and got me fed up.
And they said, if no circumcision, no bride,
Farewell to childhood, salute to youth, I will be expecting you to my
feast”
(see www.fotobeyza.de)
As well as the traditional circumcision costume, we may come
across visuals of toys such as cars and motorbikes which are coded as
boys’ fields of interest in the invitation cards. The short folk poem which
emphasizes the importance of the male child, “I am the only son of the
family and the right arm of my daddy, I grew up and I am becoming a
man” is one of the most frequently used ones. These short poems which
are employed in the invitation cards are customary, just like the rituals
repeated during the ceremony. Despite certain improvements in the
technical specifications of the photographs, studio shootings or
invitation cards, the lines of the overtold poems are old-dated and they
are imprinted in our memories along with the visuals which they form a
symbolic pattern with. Among these ingrained images which nourish the
hegemonic male culture, we can encounter nationalist and militarist
expressions as well. The short folk poem, "I must cross such a bridge, I am
the Turk son of a Turk, not a coward. Come and see I will be circumcised,
then everyone shall know how a man must be"xi is remarkable for the
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emphasis it puts on both manhood and nationality as we have
mentioned. In the invitation cards which this emphasis is made, Turkish
flag can be seen in the circumcised child’s outfit or in the background.
Figure 12-13: Invitation Card (see www.sunnetdavetiyeleri.org)
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Conclusion
S
ince the 90’s the organization of daily life has been changed
significantly by the social transformations and these changes are
pressing forward toward new lifestyle habits in which identities
and belongings make themselves more visible than ever. In the
beginning, the transformation of present social habits which is felt
especially in the cities, reflected on the relations between the sexes. The
roles and responsibilities assigned to sexes at home, in the work place,
and in the street are brought up for discussion from different
perspectives. Especially, as an attainment of the struggle of the feminist
movement which is getting stronger day by day, the practices causing
inequality between the sexes are being questioned and are trying to be
neutralised. However in Turkey, with those who are currently in power
in the political system, institutions that foster and cultivate the
patriarchy have continued to dominate without the slightest sign of a
loss or diminishing of power. Indeed, institutions such as that of the
family, the institution of marriage that confirms the heterosexual male
and heterosexual relationships, the institution of male justice, which
aims to control women sexually and socially, implements sanctions and
punishments in the name of morality and takes shame and honour as
criteria for decision making, are still quite intact and functional.
All these make it vital for us to reconsider the ongoing practices in
our daily life and the present permanent social institutions that we are
accustomed to. Hence, circumcision, a functioning institution, can
regenerate the basic values of the patriarchal system and the roles and
responsibilities given to men within the opportunities of the modern
world. It can add legitimacy and normalize it in the public eye. Looking at
male practices, like circumcision, is a way enabling us to see how
masculine discourse, which penetrated into the details of the ceremony
and generations of this discourse, can be brought to life through
repetitions, and how it wins a place in the social memory and is
transmitted to the next generations. Moreover, ceremonial circumcision
is the story of the experiences they have on the road to “being made a
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man” which is in fact, a burden that they are forced to carry thoughout
their lives and which becomes heavier every day.
i
As an example for the socially influential platforms where critical discussions on
manhood
are
made
and
male
experiences
are
shared
in
Turkey,
see http://www.erkekmuhabbeti.com/.
ii
The word circumcision originates from “Sunna” in Arabic. It means track,
course of events. As an Islamic Law term it refers to the statements, actions and
proposals of the Prophet Muhammad. They are accepted as the secondary source
to code decretals after the commandments of the Koran. Although circumcision is
also used to mean male circumcision in Turkish, in Arabic there is another word,
“hitan” for it. For further details, see,
http://kurul.diyanet.gov.tr/soruSor/DiniKavramlarSözlügü
iii
The stories of twenty men interviewed so far are covered in the study (the ages
and the places of birth are stated at the end of the stories told so that they can
give an idea about the period of time the information belongs to). The research is
expanded around the academic thesis of Ayşegül Taşıtman.
iv
The term maşallah which means, will of God shall happen, is used to state
apprecitiation in case of a well-liked, nice, good or succesful event and to ask for
protection from evil eyes in colloquial language. For further details, see
http://kurul.diyanet.gov.tr/SoruSor/DiniKavramlarSozlugu.aspx
v
These beads which are dated back to ancient times and are believed to protect
people from evil eyes are mostly eye shaped , blue in colour and made of glass
inTurkey. Especially, when there is a birth or circumcision ceremony, these
beads are pinned on the child’s costume or somewhere on the bed along with the
other gifts presented.
vi
Among the visits made a few days before the ceremony the one to Eyüp Sultan
is the most respected. This is the place where the grave (tomb) of His holiness
Eyyüb Ensari which is enshrined by the muslims is. It also has historical value. It
is visited before the circumcision and prayed for the circumcision operation to be
succesful and good wishes are made for the male child. As the tomb is in İstanbul,
mostly inhabitants of İstanbul visit the place; yet there are also people coming
from other cities.
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vii
We may come across the practice of circumcison in mythological narratives
which generated in different geographical locations with different cultural
functions and symbolic meanings. Among these mythological narartives, Kybele
and Attis is remarkable for the symbolic loss of manhood, sacrifice, blood and
fertility.
For
an
example
narrrative,
see
http://mitoloji-
mithology.blogspot.com/2008/12/kybele-ve-attis.html
viii
The word “mürrüvet” which means character, manhood and personality
originates from Arabic, and is used to express the pride and joy felt in occasions
like birth and circumcision. For further details, see
https://kurul.diyanet.gov.tr/SoruSor/DiniKavramlarSözlüğü.aspx
;
http://www.tdk.gov.tr./index.php?option=com_gts&arama=gts&guid=TDK.GTS.
5311cdfe3330a6.83919735 Here, the expression “ilk mürrüvet” refers to the
first of the three stages men are expected to go through. In the social acceptance
these are circumcision, military service, and marriage (becoming a father).
ix
For
further
examples,
see
the
following
news
coverages:
http://www.haberler.com/isadamindan-ogluna-festival-gibi-sunnet-dugunuhaberi/;http://webtv.hurriyet.com.tr/2/54667/0/1/isadaminin-oglununsunnet-dugununde-dolar-yagmuru.aspx ; For the organization of circumcision
feasts in Cıragan Palace, one of the most luxurious places in Istanbul, see
http://www.adilorganizasyon.com/sunnet-dugunu-organizasyonu.html
x
For the article about circumcision photographs which provided the motivation
which had significant influence in the beginning of this research, see Taşıtman,
Ayşegül (2012), “Kutsal Erkekliğin İnşasında Bir Durak: Sünnet Ritueli”, in
N.Gamze Toksoy (ed), Bellek İzleri, İstanbul: Kalkedon Yayınları.
xi
For similar short folk poems, see http://www.ankaramatbaa.web.tr/sunnet-
davetiyesi-sozleri-manileri.html
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“Militarizing Masculinities in Red Army discourse and
subjectivity, 1942-1943”
Steven G. Jug
Baylor University
Abstract:
This article examines the development of soldierly masculinities
in the Red Army in 1942-1943. The period served as a critical
juncture between initial crisis and fully mobilized national war
effort, in which rhetoric, identity, and experience had yet to adapt
to the reality of total war. By comparing individual soldiers’
writings and Soviet media sources, this article argues that the
interaction of soldierly and official masculine norms that shaped
their evolution over the course of the war. The article focuses on
how individuals developed a masculine subjectivity that
responded to links with home, frontline experiences, and official
discourse as their senses of self evolved in wartime. Studying
masculine subjectivity in the seemingly stifling context of
Stalinism at war reveals the important role masculinity played in
the legitimating and contesting of power that replaced direct
challenges to political or military authority.
Such a study of
masculinity in the Stalinist context likewise affirms the larger
theoretical and methodological value of focusing on the reception
and
adaptation
of
masculine
discourses
alongside
their
production.
Keywords: Russian history, masculinity, subjectivity, discourse,
Red Army, World War II
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“Kızıl Ordu Söyleminde ve Öznelliğinde Militarist
Erkeklikler, 1942-1943”
Steven G. Jug
Baylor Üniversitesi
Özet:
Bu makale askerî erkekliklerin, 1942-1943 yıllarında Kızıl Ordu
içindeki gelişimini incelemektedir. İncelenen bu zaman dilimi,
savaşın başlangıcındaki kriz durumu ile tam bir ulusal savaş
seferberliğine geçişin yan yana geldiği kritik bir dönemdir.
Retorik, kimlik ve deneyim bu geçiş sürecinde, topyekûn savaşın
gerçeklerine henüz uyum sağlayabilmiş değildir. Bu makale,
sıradan askerlerin mektupları ile Sovyet medyasında yer alan
haberleri ve yorumları karşılaştırarak, askerlerin ve resmi
yetkililerin bağlı oldukları erkeklik normları arasında savaş
boyunca
süren
şekillendirdiğini
etkileşimin, askerî
savunmaktadır.
erkekliklerin
Makalenin
gelişimini
odak
noktası,
bireylerin savaş sırasında benlik algılarının değişmesiyle birlikte,
geride bıraktıkları aileleri, cephe deneyimleri ve resmi söylem
arasındaki ilişkileri idare etmelerini sağlayacak bir eril öznelliği
hangi şekillerde geliştirdikleridir. Savaş zamanı Stalinciliği’nin
görünürde boğucu atmosferi çerçevesinde erkek öznelliklerini
incelemek, politik ve askeri otoriteye doğrudan meydan okumanın
yerini almış olan, iktidarı meşru sayarak onunla çekişme
sürecinde
erkekliğin oynadığı önemli
rolü ortaya
koyar.
Stalincilik bağlamında erkekliği bu şekilde incelemek ayrıca, odak
noktasına
erkeklik
söylemlerinin
üretimlerinin
yanı
sıra,
alımlanmaları ve uyarlanmalarının da yerleştirilmesinin teorik ve
metodolojik kıymetini bir kez daha göstermektedir.
Anahtar kelimeler: Rus tarihi, erkeklik, öznellik, söylem, Kızıl
Ordu, İkinci Dünya Savaşı
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T
he Soviet Union’s sudden, forced entry into the Second World
War presented a new set of physical and psychological challenges
to a generation of men who lived through the extraordinary
transformations and turmoil of the Stalinist 1930s. Soviet propaganda
had emphasized the masculine character of national industrial
achievements and individual labor heroes throughout that decade,
providing a rough template for wartime mobilization (Schrand, 2002:
195). Under Soviet leader Joseph Stalin’s iron hand recycled political
slogans and increasingly prevalent national themes, all of which received
apathetic public responses, contribute to a case for continuity in wartime
discourse (Berkhoff, 2012: 274). This article asserts that a study of
masculine ideas in both official discourse and the soldierly subjectivities
of individual men reveals change in Soviet propaganda and the diversity
of Soviet soldierly masculinities. The lens of masculinity enables this
analysis of Soviet wartime culture to move beyond political or
ideological binaries of support and opposition or belief and rejection by
illustrating the interaction and reinterpretation of crucial motives and
goals for fighting men.
This study focuses on masculine themes in Soviet frontline culture
by drawing from the work of theorists as well as historians of
masculinity and gender.
The article engages sources based on the
insights of Michael Roper, a historian of masculine subjectivities, who
asserts that soldiers’ writings constitute a site of gender performance
alongside their actions at the front (Roper, 2004: 301-302).
Roper
provides a further methodological parameter essential to this study:
incorporating subjectivity into the study of masculinity restores the
importance of personal relationships and emotions over the clear but
often hollow discourse of official culture (Roper, 2005: 59-61). The
theoretical works of R.W. Connell and Demetrakis Demetriou underpin
this article’s analysis of Red Army masculinity’s official and soldierly
variants. They explain gender hierarchy as comprised of ‘internal’ and
‘external’ masculine hegemony, in which internal domination over
subordinate masculinities serves as a prerequisite for external
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patriarchal domination over the opposite and inferior ‘emphasized
femininity’ (Connell and Messerschmidt 2005: 847-848). Demetriou
provides further elaboration of the reformulated theory of hegemonic
masculinity crucial to this article’s analysis, whereby masculinity
changes but remains dominant through the evolution of different
elements of a ‘masculine bloc,’ which develops through a process of
constant hybridization and incorporation of ‘diverse elements from
various masculinities that makes the hegemonic bloc capable of
reconfiguring itself and adapting to the specificities of new historical
conjunctures’ (Demetriou 2001: 348-349).
These distinctions are essential to understanding the complexity
of wartime masculinities in the Soviet Union, in which ideas of femininity
and actual women’s roles mattered, but contested ideas and interactions
among men played a critical role. Male political workers, whose writings
and speeches constituted frontline propaganda, and male soldiers
entered the war with different notions of masculine duty, and responded
differently to the strategic changes and local conditions of war. Beyond
illuminating divergent ideas of masculine duty, this article seeks to
engage the role of ‘social practice' in relationships between individuals in
forming subjectivities to consider the ways in which gendered
subjectivities deviated from official norms and models (Connell and
Messerschmidt 2005: 843).
By employing a theory of dynamic
masculinity, this article argues that masculine ideals and subjectivities
changed during the war. Soldiers were willing to adapt or ignore official
discourse without opposing it, while aspects of soldiers’ views of duty
often appeared months later as elements of the heroic masculine ideals
presented in propaganda. Such changes become apparent in a close
reading of official newspapers and leaders speeches in combination with
soldiers’ letters and memoirs.
The start of 1942 marked end of the immediate German threat
to capture Moscow, and by the end of January 1943, the commander of
the German Sixth Army surrendered at Stalingrad.
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The period therefore provides a valuable chronological case study
of a much larger set of interactions, changes, and adaptations as a time
when the initial shock of invasion and crisis of invasion had subsided and
new ideals of duty and interpretations of military service developed
amidst see-sawing military fortunes. The stabilization of the front line
by the start of the year provided a clearer glimpse of the German enemy
and the invasion’s impact on the country. Entrenched at the front,
soldiers faced the reality of extended removal from their role as familial
provider and the renewed existential threat to national and familial
survival that put prewar and wartime duties in conflict. In this phase of
the war, the interaction and divergence of official and soldierly
masculinities focused on the contrast between Soviet and enemy
treatment of women, the use of violence, and the nature of comradeship.
The significance of this transition period from initial crisis to sustained
and total war lies in the reinterpretation of masculinity it forced on
propagandists and soldiers alike, with few illusions of quick victory and
restored civilian status surviving the winter months of 1942.
The German Enemy as Masculine Other
O
nce frontline propaganda began to consistently represent the
German enemy in 1942, it produced a figure unseen in the
desperate months of 1941. Propagandists no longer sought to
present a worthy foe as they had with Japanese or Finnish enemies
during the border war period, but an antithetical masculine other, who
challenged the Red Army hero’s honor and ethics through his attacks on
Soviet women and civilians (Petrone, 2002). The German enemy
appeared in a battle between two types of men idealized as good and
evil, rather than battlefield opponents engaged in a struggle of strength
and tenacity.
Enemy atrocities began to feature prominently in the main Red
Army newspaper, Krasnaia Zvezda [Red Star] from the first days of the
year based on the reports of soldiers advancing into occupied territory
and ‘preliminary information’ from areas further behind enemy lines. In
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early January, a front-page editorial entitled ‘A Pack of Murderers and
Robbers’ elaborated on the scale and variety of ‘heinous acts of violence’
the enemy had perpetrated in occupied territory, including the numbers
of dead in different regions and the methods involved. The editorial
highlighted ‘women, girls, and schoolchildren’ as victims and explained
that the atrocities took place due to the ‘unleashing…of the most base,
animal instincts among [enemy] officers and soldiers’ (Red Star, 1942: 1)
Such reports continued to appear in Krasnaia Zvezda throughout the
winter, including a multi-panel illustration of the hanging of Soviet
civilians on February 6. Neither Hitler nor fascist ideology received
more than a passing mention, if any, in the condemnation that
accompanied these reports.
Instead, the German rank-and-file soldiers and frontline officers
appeared as the central perpetrators in a consistent definition of a single
enemy type. Such articles made clear that the enemy pursued violence
outside the normal bounds of the conventional soldier, which suggested
he would not surrender or obey the rules of war or accepted military
conduct. Above all, he lacked honor. In an article titled simply, “On
Hatred,” celebrated Soviet writer Ilia Ehrenburg explained the
psychology of the enemy:
Spite drives every soldier of Fascism… One German lance
corporal wrote in his diary that torture ‘cheers and even
excites’ him… The naïve ones thought that there were
people marching against us, but against us marched
monsters who had selected the skull as their emblem,
young and shameless robbers, vandals who were thirsting
to destroy everything in their path (Red Star, 1942: 4).
Rather than traditional notions of honor or national duty, destruction
and violence drove the enemy to fight. Ehrenburg went on to explain
that it was the enemy’s perpetration of atrocities during the invasion,
rather than killing on the battlefield, which made them barbarians:
Above all, they brought death with them to our land. I do not speak
of the death of
soldiers: there is no war without victims. I speak of the
gallows on which Russian girls
swing, of the terrible ditch near Kerch
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where the children of Russians, Tatars, and Jews were buried. I speak of
how the Hitlerites finish off our wounded and burn down our peasants’
homes (Red Star, 1942: 4).
Descriptions of the enemy as “monsters” and “vandals” were part
of a consistent set of terms that emphasized his sadistic use of violence
in war, which separated him from the soldiers of the Red Army. In line
with the overall portrayal of the enemy in Krasnaia Zvezda, Ehrenburg
articulated the belief that the objects of the enemy’s violence, and the
reasons for that violence, distinguished and diminished him as a soldier
and as a man.
What fully set apart and vilified the German soldier in Red Army
propaganda, and further marks Ehrenburg’s portrayal as that of an
enemy soldierly masculinity, is his behavior towards women and
children. An editorial on 10 April, ‘For the honor of our women!’ named
several women found raped and killed by the enemy before elaborating
on the larger ramifications of such behavior: ‘German fascists, brazenly
mocking the honor of Soviet women – these are lustful animals.’ Beyond
the obvious love of destruction and violence evident in their behavior,
the motive of lust reinforced portrayals of the enemy as driven by
savage, but human impulses. The editorial emphasized that the enemy’s
actions were not the result of wartime circumstances, but had deep
roots: ‘They have defiled their youth in German brothels and made the
customs of brothels the catechism of their behavior in occupied
countries.’ The editorial continued to emphasize how the enemy’s lustful
behavior and rape of women, rather than the torture of other civilians
generally, was definitively the behavior of savage men: ‘They have no
shame, no remorse, [and] no heart. In the village of Semenov in Kalinin
oblast Hitlerites raped 25-year-old Olga Tikhonova, the pregnant wife of
a Red Army soldier.’ Young German men with lustful and violent ‘animal
instincts’ were therefore the typical enemy type to appear in propaganda
(Red Star, 1942: 1). Such depictions helped strengthen the contrast with
Red Army soldiers’ rational nature and ethical defense of their
homeland.
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The propaganda effort to characterize the German invader as a
savagely masculine figure also explained how heroic Red Army soldiers
should respond. They were to hate the enemy, but fight differently than
him, and of course treat women in an entirely different manner.
Inspiring hatred would help motivate soldiers, according to Stalin in his
May Day speech:
A change has also taken place in the ranks of the Red Army.
Complacency and laxity regarding the enemy, which was
evident among the troops in the first months of the war,
have disappeared. The atrocities, pillage, and violence
perpetrated by the German fascist invaders against the
peaceful population and Soviet POWs have cured our men
of this disease. … They have learned to hate the German
fascist invaders.
This newfound hatred would inspire soldiers to defeat the enemy,
because ‘one cannot defeat the enemy without learning to hate him with
every fiber of one’s soul’ (Red Star, 1942: 1). Hatred did not mean Soviet
troops should themselves become like the enemy. Their task was to kill
only the enemy, rather than massacre prisoners and ravage civilians:
“acre by acre, town by town we are cleansing our land of the rapists.
There is no greater exploit’ (Red Star, 1942: 3). The invocation of a man’s
duty to defend women’s honor revealed an unambiguous distinction
between Soviet citizens’ relationship with violence, and the masculine
nature of national defense.
Amidst the new focus on the enemy in propaganda, male
soldiers, writing to an overwhelmingly female audience of relatives,
wives, and girlfriends, continued to perform a civilian-oriented
masculinity in their letters home. Red Army troops’ focus on family and
personal ties affected their discussions of the enemy more than the
vitriolic language of newspaper propaganda. Many troops cursed the
enemy simply for disrupting their lives, as one junior officer explained:
‘At the enemy that has broken our happy life, I strike mercilessly, to
destroy every one of them’ (GARF Fond 6903 Opis 9 Delo 142 List 161).
Some troops expressed their duty to contribute to the enemy’s defeat,
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but nonetheless presented returning home as their ultimate priority. A
reconnaissance squad leader on the Kalinin Front explained this to his
wife and daughter: ‘the duty of every soldier should be to destroy the
German oppressor in order to return home with victory’ (RGASPI Fond
M-33 Opis 1 Delo 48 List 1). A lieutenant reassured his wife in a similar
manner: ‘don’t worry, everything will be alright. …be fully confident that
I will return home only as a hero who destroyed the [fascist] reptiles’
(RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 779 Listy 9-10).
Another soldier,
lamenting that he had not yet seen his newborn son, wrote to his wife: ‘If
it weren’t for these Hitlerite dogs, we would be enjoying our life
together’ (RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 254 List 11). Taken together,
these letters suggest the continued importance of personal motives and a
duty to family for frontline soldiers in early 1942.
Instead of discussing the enemy, Red Army men’s letters usually
sought to minimize concern for their own safety. The favored way to do
this was by focusing on their family’s well-being in the rear and omitting
any discussion of frontline danger as a way to remain a symbolic
masculine protector. Lieutenant Ismaev expressed this concern when he
wrote to his wife: ‘I’m very happy, that [my parents] are out of harm’s
way… About me there’s nothing to write, I’m healthy’ (RGASPI Fond M33 Opis 1 Delo 222 List 5). Red Army men still attempted to provide for
their families’ material needs through the unreliable option of sending
home their pay. In typical fashion, one soldier promised his wife: ‘I do
not know if you have received any from me, [but] I have money now
from which you will get a sum of 750 rubles every month’ (RGASPI Fond
M-33 Opis 1 Delo 254 List 13).
When faced with the prospect of
confirming their families’ fears of frontline danger, wounded soldiers
continued to downplay the seriousness of their condition to minimize
their loved ones’ worry. A soldier on the Leningrad front took a typical
approach to report his condition in a reassuring manner: ‘presently, I am
wounded, but it is not serious so do not worry… Kiss [our] son and
daughter for me, and tell them that papa will soon be home’ (RGASPI
Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 110 List 14). While only a performance, in this
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way, soldiers could preserve some calm at home by silently enduring
frontline hardships.
The focus on hatred of the enemy that emerged in soldierspecific propaganda in 1942 followed the discovery of mass atrocities in
liberated regions. The same pattern seemed to operate in individual
expressions of hatred against the Germans, whether contemporary or
remembered decades later. Violence distinguished enemy and hero, not
only as opposing forces, but as fundamentally different men, with
women as passive figures caught in between. As a mobilizing tool,
official rhetoric emphasized the suffering of women and children,
Germans’ animalistic nature, including sexual urges, and the defense of
women’s honor as recurring theme tied to the masculine ethic. Still
strongly oriented toward family, especially in the first months of the
year, servicemen showed little concern for Germans’ violation of general
ideals of honorable warfare. Only after soldiers grew more accustomed
to frontline life and especially combat would they contrast themselves as
soldiers.
Heroic Violence and the Individual Soldier
A
s the Red Army prepared to expel the German invader in 1942,
the violence and aggression of offensive operations gained
greater attention at all levels of the military. A new hero emerged
in propaganda to reflect the focus on using violence differently from the
enemy. This imagined Red Army fighter’s motives, qualities, and combat
exploits marked a departure from the desperate calls to sacrificial
defense of 1941. In their place, propagandists and political workers
sought to connect the male soldier of 1942 with the New Soviet Man and
masculine labor heroes of the 1930s, and in particular coal miner Alexei
Stakhanov, who gained national fame for a record-breaking shift in the
mine attribute to Communist zeal.
This new ideal, hitherto referred to as the Stakhanovite-at-arms,
strove to exterminate the hated enemy by engaging his fellow soldiers in
socialist competition. On 20 January, a report about Communist Youth
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League work in the military, one of the first efforts to promote the new
movement, demanded that ‘the expansion of competition among fighters
in the destruction of fascist troops. There is too little fury [at present].
…Political work is needed to support this competition’ (RGASPI Fond 77
Opis 1 Delo 936 List 8). In February, Andrei Zhdanov, chief Party
representative on the Leningrad Front, deliberately employed the
language of socialist competition and Stakhanovism to explain the
heroism that political workers should promote: “the Komsomoltsy of a
single division decided to begin socialist competition between units in
the extermination of the fascist reptiles…there are many similarities with
the Stakhanovite movement, and I would call our exterminating soldiers
Stakhanovites on the military front’ (RGASPI Fond 77 Opis 1 Delo 938
List 5). Such heroes’ skills and optimistic belief in victory were to
overcome the unfavorable military realities that prevailed at the front in
1942, just as Stakhanovites’ strength and will-power overcame the
empirical limits of production (Clark, 1993).
Socialist competition to exterminate the hated enemy, inspired by
Stalin, motivated the new hero, and the number of enemy dead he
produced demonstrated his merit. The new ideal combined established
norms of masculinity in labor centered on strength and skill with a
military focus on killing. Official rhetoric promoted a high number of
enemies killed as the measure of a hero, rather than the bravery or risktaking otherwise involved in successful battler performance.
The
difference in who and how the hero killed further defined the
“Stakhanovite-at-arms” through contrast with the enemy. Unlike the
enemy barbarian who slaughtered women and children, the hero of Red
Army propaganda only struck down other men, did so skillfully, and
killed with a calm, detached demeanor, despite his hatred.
The new hero also provided another important example for Red
Army men: the basis for frontline comradeship.
Snipers commonly
appeared as examples, given their favorable circumstances to personally
kill (and keep count of) individual enemy soldiers and officers, but were
not operating as isolated hunters. Zhdanov explained that what further
distinguished these new heroes was their ‘fulfillment of their comradely,
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civic duty to the [other] soldiers of our army, to pass on their shooting
experience to their comrades by all means’ in order to ‘raise all
marksmanship in our army to the highest level’ (RGASPI Fond 77 Opis 1
Delo 938 List 8). Indeed, Zhdanov made sure to emphasize that other
skillful soldiers could achieve the feats of snipers, and that the
Stakhanovite-at-arms ‘exists among soldiers of all types of weapons’
(RGASPI Fond 77 Opis 1 Delo 938 List 11). Much like his predecessor in
labor, the new ideal soldier was to act as an example for others to
emulate and proof that the Soviet system could transform men, whether
from peasants into advanced workers or from civilians into
sharpshooting exterminators. These skills and their dissemination were
to form bonds, but they simultaneously created an elite status that
reinforced the notion of combat and national defense as a masculine
realm.
Red Army fighters began to develop masculine bonds at the front
without any connection to these calls to kill counts or skill sharing.
Soldiers emphasized the masculine character of their new bonds by
describing them as brotherhoods. They used this term only starting in
1942, when their sense of solidarity and commitment to each other grew
strong, and well after official rhetoric deployed it in the first months of
the war. A tank man explained that he liked to use
The term brotherhood. The crew was one family. Of course,
much depends on the character of the commander and on
the character of the crew, but in the majority of cases, in the
absolute majority, the crew had one united purpose, it was
one person. It never happened, that one or two did
something, and the others sat or watched or smoked.
Everyone worked together (Shishkin, 2007: 254-255).
Popular usage at the front differed from propagandists’ description of
the whole Red Army as a brotherhood that followed Stalin’s guiding
hand.
Troops did not discriminate by age or generation, but they
remained selective in terms of who belonged, even among the men of
their regiment, by ensuring that everyone received and provided mutual
support. Among infantry, brotherhood could begin on the march to the
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front, as when soldiers took the packs of those who struggled during
overnight marches: ‘In the war such small gestures of assistance, and
others like it, gave rise to frontline brotherhood. …We particularly
valued these unwritten rules of conduct. They eased our difficult army
life, drew the men together, and lifted our combat spirits’ (Gorbachevsky,
2008: 65).
Such brotherhoods were not national, nor counted in
millions, but operated as close knit groups that functioned as surrogate
families. Individual actions counted, punishment and praise operated
outside the rank or disciplinary structure, and propaganda had little
influence.
Non-combat hardships at the front further contributed to the
formation of primary groups among Red Army fighters. Among frontline
soldiers, the same action, taken for oneself or for ones comrades,
prompted contrasting reactions. The same submachine gunner noted
without criticism how ‘one of our soldiers slipped secretly into a food
cellar adjacent to a house where an outside office stayed. The officer
caught the soldier red-handed and shot him down on the spot’ and yet
fondly remembered how the next evening, thanks to a thieving orderly,
‘The main course of our company’s festive table was the goat’s meat. To
steal in your shelter is the highest extent of meanness! There we were!’
(Guzhva, 2012: 56-57). It was with everyday aspects of front life that
bonds were forged, even before combat, given the extent of the hardship
and the feelings of separation from civilian life that they brought (Lynn,
1996: 29). Traditional practices of Russian working class masculinity,
drinking and smoking also added to group bonds outside battle (Starks,
2008: 181). A tank man remembered how while waiting for the order to
advance, ‘The gun-layer Vitya Belov and the loader Misha Tvorogov lit up
“goat legs” [hand-rolled cigarettes] – how quickly they had learned from
the ‘old guys’ how to roll a cigarette deftly around the little finger’
(Krysov, 2010: 8). In each aspect of front life, both the shared practices
themselves and the extra effort that comrades displayed for each other
helped build the cohesiveness of their primary group and the linking of
their sense of self with it as a collective (Lynn, 1996: 33).
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In response to presentations of exterminator-heroes and kill
tally exploits, letters from Red Army troops expressed a remarkable lack
of enthusiasm about the act of killing as part of their duty as soldiers.
While some fighters adopted the language of killing and exterminating
enemy soldiers, making proclamations such as ‘I can already note a tally
of 21 exterminated white Finns,” they more commonly failed to mention
it at all’ RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 445 List 2. This likely reflected
the fact that Soviet military failures throughout the winter and spring
provided few opportunities for troops to match official rhetoric and
exterminate the enemy in large numbers. Perhaps the most compelling
reason that soldiers failed to embrace the socialist competition in killing
promoted in official rhetoric was their actual experience of combat at the
front. A political worker, who was otherwise responsible for spreading
propaganda in his unit, wrote his wife a bleak letter, hoping to
discourage his son from volunteering for the front: ‘at the front, romance
and poetry are much less [evident] than hardships and even horror. War
is war. It is full of death, wounds, and other terrors’ (RGASPI Fond M-33
Opis 1 Delo 92 List 7). Such sobering thoughts of combat hardly endorse
the masculine ideal of propaganda that linked the numbers of passive
enemies killed with records in coal hewing.
For many other Red Army men, killing remained a basic and
inevitable part of warfare, part of the duty they had to perform to end
the war and return home. One soldier explained this view matter-offactly: ‘If you don’t kill the German, he kills you’ (RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis
1 Delo 254 List 12). Others did not accept the new measure of a fighting
man, and understood the exterminator-hero as one role among many.
Signaler Aleksandr Myl’nikov explained this to his brother: ‘I have not
managed to finish off a single German because I am not a rifleman, nor a
machine-gunner, nor an artilleryman, but a radio operator and such
opportunities have not yet arisen…and I carry out my orders pretty well’
(RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 484 List 3).While Myl’nikov addressed
the significance of personally killing the enemy, he expressed an
alternative pride in his specialization, which lay outside the bounds of
socialist competition and the sniper-centered heroic ideal.
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responses amidst a general silence about the specific act of killing
demonstrate the limitations of the new heroic ideal, the Stakhanovite-atarms, to resonate amidst soldiers who otherwise shared some of the
hatred of the enemy present in official rhetoric.
In 1942, comradeship, despite its value for unit cohesion and
combat effectiveness, provided for the greatest divide between the ideal
hero of propaganda and the masculine subjectivities of the rank and file.
Soldierly subjectivities focused on a sub-unit-sized group of comrades,
not the Red Army or Soviet population at large, which was not inherently
a problem for military effectiveness, but revealed the limited
effectiveness of official rhetoric and political work.
Given the
articulation of a clear model of soldierly behavior in the Stakhanovite-atarms, soldiers’ orientation toward local front groups shows how
independent their thinking could be. While they upheld a sense of
masculine bond that separated them from family at home, front
experiences limited their interest in official discourse.
Desperation and the Interaction of Masculine Ideas
A
fter the Germans launched a massive offensive in June, a new
soldierly ideal in propaganda developed from the deteriorating
military situation that culminated in the battle for Stalingrad.
Propaganda continued to present the enemy as a brutal killer, but a
much more dangerous one, who threatened the very existence of the
Soviet people. Stalin used this approach when he mentioned that the
enemy would shoot civilians if partisans prevented ‘some German
beast… from raping women or robbing citizens’ in his October
Revolution anniversary speech (Stalin, 2010: 67). Discussions of such
enemy villainy sought to inspire soldiers’ hatred and will to resist, and
began to echo soldiers’ focus on home and defense of family.
Hitherto
referred to as the Last Soviet Man, this ideal figure fought out of
desperation, killing to keep his country from being overrun, and no
longer part of the march to impending victory. A notion of young men’s
generational duty helped define the new hero, in which “sons” had to
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defend the victory of their fathers and the gains of the Revolution. In
battle, the Last Soviet Man remained disciplined without resorting to
sacrificial actions, and yet he refused to retreat under pressure. Instead,
he fought on and stayed alive because his will was greater than that of
enemy.
Speaking to agitators on the Voronezh Front in September,
formed after the German summer offensive began, Army Commissar Lev
Mekhlis focused on the stakes of the battles about to unfold while
explaining what motivated the Last Soviet Man:
We are talking about – whether or not the great Russian
people will be in slavery, and all peoples of our country,
who on the field of battle have bloodily linked their fate
with the fate of the great Russian people…We are talking
about – Comrade Stalin has highlighted this – whether or
not there will be Soviet power…The issue is the national
and social enslavement of our country (RGASPI Fond 386
Opis 1 Delo 14 Listy 26-27).
The existential threat to the Soviet people and the Soviet system
operated as the basic motivation of the new hero, and reflected
desperation totally absent from the “Stakhanovite-at-arms” ideal soldier
that preceded him. Newspaper articles explained to soldiers directly
that in response to the enemy’s invasion ‘there can only be one answer:
death or victory!’ because death could allow ‘fascist bandits…to make
your wives and children into slaves’ (Red Star, 1942: 2). Despite changes
to official soldierly masculinity, it remained tied to the femininity of the
Soviet home front to be defended and of victims under occupation.
Generational distinctions further differentiated the “Last Soviet
Man” from previous soldierly masculinities in official rhetoric. Such
soldiers had a duty not only to defend Soviet women, but also as ‘sons of
October,’ to defend the Revolution their fathers had won and thus prove
their manliness (Red Star, 1942: 3). On 4August, a Krasnaia Zvezda
article presented the oath of a group of Don Cossacks, who, ‘death
threatening our children, our wives…Vow on the honor and blessed
memory of our fathers, grandfathers, and great-grandfathers…to destroy
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mercilessly the hated enemy’ (Red Star, 1942: 3). In September, another
such article invoked the duty of the younger generation of men to act as
defenders, this time unfavorably comparing battles of the Russian Civil
War to those of 1942: ‘when under the ruins of our homes our wives and
children perish, we, the defenders of Tsaritsyn, decided to contact you,
defenders of Stalingrad’ (Red Star, 1942: 1). To mark the anniversary of
the Revolution, editorials reinforced the message of inter-generational
male contrast and obligation, ‘In October of 1917 our fathers and
brothers went into battle against the forces of slavery and
oppression…in battles with the hated German invaders we defend the
gains of October’ (Red Star, 1942: 1). The language of family in official
rhetoric consistently presented the general duty of soldier heroes as
unambiguously masculine: saving wives, honoring fathers, and holding
off total defeat and the loss of a generation’s worth of progress under
Soviet power.
The combat exploits of the “Last Soviet Man” also diverged from
those of the heroic ideal that preceded him, and continued to contrast
with portrayals of the enemy’s use of violence. Red Army soldiers no
longer became heroes by accumulating a high number of enemies killed,
but by overcoming larger forces through whatever means necessary,
fueled by greater will and hatred. A lieutenant in the article ‘One against
ten’ demonstrated the power of hatred: ‘he was wounded, but his hatred
of the enemy gave him strength. He pushed the German off him and,
grabbing him by the throat, strangled him’ (Red Star, 1942: 2). Killing
the last of ten Germans with his bare hands, the Lieutenant highlighted
the importance of continuing to fight, rather than panicking or
retreating, not only to display heroism, but also to survive, as the
Lieutenant’s actions helped his unit escape encirclement and continue
fighting. The article ‘Not a step back!’ emphasized this same theme:
‘Four fearless Soviet guards, Belikov, Aleinikov, Boloto and Samoilev
drove back the attack of 30 enemy tanks, destroying 15, and they
themselves remained alive. Staunchness conquers death’ (Red Star,
1942: 3). Rather than skills or kills, or sacrifice against superior enemy
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numbers, soldiers who were so driven to destroy the enemy that they
would not retreat, panic, or even die appeared as the true heroes.
As the Red Army’s crisis over the summer and fall of 1942 grew,
Red Army soldiers’ letters changed significantly in response. The
intensity of combat and high casualties wore down the resolve and
altered the masculine performance of many Red Army men in their
letters home. Troops could still emphasize their devotion to family, but
their pessimism about survival was clear, as in a soldier’s final letter
before reaching the front outside Stalingrad: ‘I’m sorry that we did not
have more time together, but nothing can be done about war’ (RGASPI
Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 299 List 1). A junior lieutenant wrote to his wife:
‘Many of my comrades from the academy assigned here have been
wounded or killed. Several mortars just fell not far from where I am
writing’ (RGASPI Fond M-33 Opis 1 Delo 76 List 3). Soldiers’ growing
willingness to share such details communicated not only their proximity
to mortal danger, but also the continued development of new
relationships and loyalties at the front. Another soldier began a letter to
his mother by detailing the fate of two comrades: ‘Firstly, I want to
report that I am alive and healthy. Ilya Baiakin was killed [10 days ago],
and Ivan Bogatov was wounded in his first battle’ (RGASPI Fond M-33
Opis 1 Delo 1413/6 List 3).
This focus on the fate of comrades
underscored the breakdown of earlier letter-writing performances along
with the growth of new relationships with male comrades.
Alongside seeing fellow soldiers die, the need to kill increasingly
separated troops’ war experience from that of their families in the rear
as the year wore on. Men at the front often realized that combat altered
their sense of self, as Mansur Abdulin, an infantryman, recalled: ‘By
nature I am a tender and sensitive person. I was never a hooligan or a
brawler. But when I went to war I wanted to destroy the Fritzes: “Kill or
be killed.” This was my message to the newcomers’ (Abdulin, 2004: 109).
Changes like the one Abdulin described helped very different people
integrate into effective units and emotionally connected groups of
soldiers, but often at the price of their family ties. A submachine-gunner
reflected on the difference between ‘relatives and the group on which he
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places his hopes in combat. At times, [the group] will pull him to shelter.
I would not give preference to one relationship – they are parallel and
very important’ (Evdokimov, 2012: 29). Others more casually noted the
contrast between the toughness of the combat collective and the
comforts of home: ‘If anyone started to grumble, he was immediately
rebuked: “You haven’t come to your mother-in-law’s for pancakes!”
Quite so!’ (Gorbachevsky, 2008: 67) Troops often idealized home as a
safe place as their own lives grew more centered on violence. Their
feeling of distance from family and their civilian selves contributed to an
imagining of front and rear as distinctly masculine and feminine spaces.
Soldiers’ reactions to death and killing reveal the cultural
transformation of citizen soldiers that took place as the Red Army
replenished its ranks in 1942.
Killing had profound meaning to
individuals, in strong contrast to thoughtless kill count accumulation of
the Stakhanovite-at-arms, which provided few soldiers with a serious
blueprint for action. Red Army troops believed that killing set them
apart from civilians, brought them closer to the veteran combatants
among them, and reflected a certain masculine nature to undertake.
Because it had such an impact on them, they believed that it defied the
capabilities of most women. Troops thus possessed a parallel view of
violence dividing the front and rear, but changes to their sense of self,
rather than propaganda portrayals, fueled their assessment.
Conclusion
T
he experience and exercise of violence dramatically reshaped
Soviet perceptions of the war effort by integrating the enemy as a
counterpoint to heroic masculine ideals and driving individual
men to form new relationships and communities at the front. Contrasting
uses and targets of violence distinguished official heroic and enemy
masculinities, while fighting men found combat and violence to have a
transformative impact on their sense of self. Propagandists focused on
the character and motives of the enemy to explain his violent actions,
which targeted Soviet women and children above all. Rather than simply
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dehumanizing the enemy, frontline newspapers presented an enemy
soldier who contrasted with his counterpart in the Red Army in very
specific ways, but remained comparable as well as different. He emerged
as an “other” to the Red Army hero as a soldier and as a man, defined by
opposing notions of honor regarding motives for waging war, the
individual use of violence, treatment of women, and personal courage in
the face of danger. The enemy’s villainy therefore rested on heinous
wartime behavior and motivation, rather than ideological differences,
historical connections, or leaders’ machinations. The depiction of the
enemy that emerged reinforced the masculine ethic and underpinned
exhortations to drive him out of Soviet territory. Despite this sustained
effort, soldiers’ reaction to the enemy were quite varied, and the
universal hatred expressed in print rarely echoed in soldiers’ views, even
in hindsight, without firsthand experience of atrocities.
The Soviet idea of enemy masculinity contrasted significantly
from that of its two major allies, the United States and Great Britain, both
in content and in the extent to which it helped define their respective
heroic masculinities. In British newspaper propaganda, the enemy
appeared as an overly-militarized but professional soldier: focused only
on war and combat, always in the company of other soldiers, quick to
show dominance and aggression, and utterly devoid of civilian
relationships or interests. In contrast, British soldiers appeared as
typical citizens above all: husbands and fathers, who retained their
civilian personas and morality in wartime through humor, camaraderie,
and reserved emotions (Rose, 2003: 153-159). The prevailing American
view of the German enemy was essentially that of an honorable foe,
although a clear competitor in masculine vigor and physical power.
However, American propaganda appeared quite similar to its Soviet
counterpart when discussing its Japanese enemy. Racist rhetoric
constructed Americans’ Japanese enemy as a savage killer, prone to
torture and rape, and often compared him to animal figures such as
monkeys or gorillas (Jarvis, 2004: 125-129).
In both British and
American cases, much more limited experiences of German soldiers in
battle and especially occupation were likely a factor in the more
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restrained presentation of the German enemy, just as specific atrocities
appeared as a consistent feature of the Soviet idea of enemy.
Nonetheless, the differing cases of its allies show the extent and
significance of the enemy in Soviet efforts to define the Red Army hero
and motivate soldiers to fight.
Official and soldierly perspectives interacted as a masculine bloc,
modulating and responding to developments
while preserving
combatant status as an elite masculine role. Troops’ bonds and feelings
of comradeship developed in opposition to the women they left at home
and engaged through letters, as well as through interaction with official
rhetoric. Identifying such consistent gender change matters because it
played a central role in the interaction between individuals’ masculine
subjectivities and the ideals official rhetoric promoted through its soldier
heroes.
The framework of the masculine bloc shows how frontline
culture developed across the boundary of official and popular values and
norms. Even for the military sub-group of the Soviet population, the
pace of change in masculine ideals meant that there were multiple
scripts for individuals to adopt in any given year of the war, in addition
to the competing influence of comrades, family, and wartime
experiences.
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Gerçek Erkek Ayağa Kalkabilir mi Lütfen:
Trans Erkeklerin Cinsiyetlendirilmiş Performansı1
Elijah C. Nealy
Columbia University
Çev.: Baysar Tanıyan, Berk İnan Berkant
G
ünümüz toplumunda, kimlik sorunları, bir erkek ya da kadın
olmanın, ama daha da tartışmaya açık şekilde de trans erkek
veya trans kadın olmanın etrafında örülmüştür. Transgender
kimliği günlük hayat çerçevesinde sürekli olarak tartışılır ve tekrar
tartışılır – sokakta ve metroda, mesleki konferanslarda, benzin
istasyonları ve köşe-başı büfelerde, umumi tuvaletler ve soyunma
odalarında, inanç topluluklarımızda, arkadaşlar ve aileyle, sağlık
kurumlarında,
semt
berberinde,
çocuklarımızın
ilkokullarında;
toplumsal cinsiyet herhangi bir yerde ve her yerde dikkat çekicidir.
Trans olarak tanımlanmak bu işlemlerin her birinin zorluğunu arttırır.
Bu müzakere süreci trans erkek için başarıyla tamamlayıp geride
bırakabileceği
bir
cinsiyetlendirilmiş
şey
değildir.
kimliklerini
her
Aksine,
gün
transgender
hayatlarının
erkekler,
değişkenlik
gösteren ilişkisel bağlamlarında “icra eder” ve “tekrar sahnelerler”. Oyun
bittiğinde
ve
perde
kapandığında
kimliğini
arkasında
bırakan
profesyonel aktörlerden farklı olarak, transgender erkek rolünü
durmadan oynar.
Evet, hepimizin kimliklerimizi müzakere ve/veya icra ettiğimiz
yollar vardır. Erving Goffman, şimdi bir klasik olmuş The Presentation of
Self in Everyday Life (Benliğin Günlük Hayatta Temsili) başlıklı metinde,
1
Bu metin, Elijah C. Nealy’nin 11-13 Eylül 2014 tarihlerinde İzmir’de düzenlenen 1. Uluslararası
Erkekler ve Erkeklikler Sempozyumu’nda sunduğu bildirinin çevirisini sunmaktadır.
This text is the Turkish translation of the paper Mr. Nealy presented as a keynote speech at 1.
International Men and Masculinities Symposium, Izmir, Turkey on 11-13 Sept. 2014.
-MasculinitiesA Journal of Identity and Culture, Feb., 2015/3, 213-233
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kişiliklerimizi sürekli olarak icra etme şekillerini tarif etmek için tiyatro
metaforunu kullanmıştır. Goffman’ın bakış açısından bakıldığında, bu
konuşmayı yaptığım zaman ya da Columbia Üniversitesi’ndeki bir
sınıfımda ders verdiğim zaman olduğu
gibi rolümü halka açık icra
ettiğim bir ön sahne ve belki de evde ailem ile birlikte olan arka sahne
vardır.
West ve Zimmerman, 1987 tarihli “Doing Gender” adlı
makalelerinde, sürekli olarak “toplumsal cinsiyet rollerini icra etme”
eyleminde olduğumuz ilkesini örneklemek için bir trans kadın olan
“Agnes”in vakasından yararlanmışlardır. Buna göre, toplumsal cinsiyet
doğuştan edindiğimiz cinsiyet değil, günlük hayatta icra ettiğimiz bir
şeydir. Daha yakın zamanda, Judith Butler toplumsal cinsiyetin edimsel
olduğu ile ilgili kapsamlıca yazmıştır. Ama benim tecrübeme göre, trans
erkeklerin toplumsal cinsiyetlerini diğerleriyle etkileşime girmek
zorunda oldukları her yerde – yabancılarla sokakta, arkadaşlarıyla,
aileyle, tıbbi profesyonellerle, işverenleriyle – sürekli bir şekilde
yönlendirdikleri belirli yollar vardır.
Keith Berry (2013), bazı insanlar için kimliğin bir tertipten ziyade
bir müzakere meselesi olduğunu ileri sürer. Kendi yolculuğuma
baktığımda, gerek bir “erkek fatma” olarak çocukluğumda, geçiş
dönemimin başlangıcı olan erken yetişkinlik dönemimde genderqueer
“butch”
dyke3
2
olarak, gerekse daha yakın zamanlarda bir (transgender)
erkek olarak, toplumsal cinsiyetimi müzakere etmediğim hiçbir zaman
olmamıştır.
Yaşadığımız dünyada transgender olmak halen büyük bir damga 4
meselesidir. Gezegendeki çoğu insan için birlikte doğduğunuz organlar
cinsiyetinizi, yani toplumsal cinsiyetinizi tanımlar. Bu, sizin kendinizi
nasıl tanımladığınıza ya da cinsiyet geçişi yaşayıp yaşamadığınıza
bakılmadığında doğru olandır. Gerçek bir erkek olmak tipik olarak
doğumdan gelen organlarınızla tanımlanır ve bu yüzden trans erkek
2 Genderqueer: Toplumsal cinsiyeti belirsiz, karışık, uyumsuz, tuhaf olan
3 Butch dyke: Oldukça normatif şekilde erkeksi lezbiyenleri tanımlamak için kullanılır.
4 ÇN: Yazı boyunca stigma sözcüğü yerine damga ifadesi kullanılmıştır.
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çoğu zaman “gerçek” erkek olarak nitelenmez hatta bazen bir insan
olarak bile görülmez.
Erving Goffman (1963), bu damganın sosyal etkisini tartışırken,
sosyal etkileşim içerisinde biriyle karşılaşıp o kişinin onu bizden farklı
kılan bir niteliğe sahip olduğunu anladığımız anı tasvir eder. Bu farklılık
istenmeyen bir özellik ise, Goffman, bu kişinin “bütün ve olağan bir
insandan lekeli ve önemsiz birine indirgendiğini” (s. 2-3) belirtir. Bu
durum, bu damganın insan olarak bizlerin gündelik etkileşimlerimizi
nasıl etkilediğinin önemli bir göstergesidir. Goffman gözlemlerini şöyle
aktarır: “bu özellik kendini belli ettiğinde, bizleri bu izi taşıyan kişiden
uzaklaştırır, bize etki eden diğer özelliklerini geçersiz kılar... tanım itibarı
ile, bu damgaya sahip kişinin tam olarak insan olmadığına inanırız (p. 5).
Şimdi anlatacağım kısa hikaye insanlığımın hem sorgulandığı hem
de değersizleştirildiği bir anı gösterir:
Testosteron tedavisine başladıktan yaklaşık altı ay sonra,
Greenwich, New York’ta rutin bir kan tahlili için bir laboratuara
gittim. O zamanlar, sosyal ortamlarda tam bir erkek olarak
“yorumlanıyordum”. Tesis alçak tavanlı dar bir bodrum
odasındaydı. Sıcak bir yaz günü sabahın ilerleyen saatleriydi.
Kaydımı yapıp küçük ve kalabalık resepsiyon alanında bir
sandalyeye oturdum.
Kısa bir süre sonra ismim çağrıldı, “Elijah.”
Resepsiyon görevlisine yaklaşırken, bilgisayarda dosyamı
gözden geçirmeye başladı. Suratı şaşkın bir hal aldı.
“Siz Elijah mısınız?” diye sordu.
Başımı sallayarak onayladım.
“Ama burada ‘kadın’ yazıyor,” dedi.
Derin bir nefes aldım ve “Ben trans bir erkeğim ve
evraklarım erkek olduğumu söylüyor...” diye söze başladım.
Kaşlarını ani çatışı ikimizi de durdurdu.
“Sağlık sigorta kartımın üzerinde halen ‘K’ var,” diye
belirttim, “yani eğer jinekologa ihtiyaç duyarsam sigortamın
karşılayacağından emin olabilirim.”
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Kalemini masaya durmadan hafifçe vurarak bana baktı ve
odadaki herkesin duyabileceği bir ses tonuyla bana sordu:
“Pekâlâ, nesin sen o halde?”
Bu kısa hikaye ve Goffman’ın (1963) diğer birçok benzer örneği, bu izi
taşıdığı bilgisinin kişinin kendi insanlık hissiyatını nasıl azalttığını ve
başkalarının bize yaklaşımını nasıl bozduğunu gösterir. Bu görünmez
damga ile yaşamanın kişinin insanlığını azaltması bir sağlık çalışanına
sabırsızlıkla, “Nesin sen o halde?” diye sorma imkanı tanır, sanki ben
insandan çok bir nesneymişim gibi.
Bu damganın insanlığımızı azaltması benim bir trans erkek
olduğumu bilen insanlara ve şüphelenen yabancılara bedenim ve cinsel
organlarımla ilgili “Ameliyat oldun mu?” ya da “Operasyon öncesi veya
sonrasında mısın?” gibi sorular sorma izni verir. Goffman’a göre (1963),
itibarsızlaştırılmış insanın, “normallerin” [Goffman’ın damgaya sahip
olmayan
insanlara
verdiği
ad]
arasında
çıplak
bir
şekilde
mahremiyetinin ihlaline açık hissetmesi muhtemeldir. İfşa olmanın
hoşnutsuzluğu, yabancıların istedikleri gibi başlattığı ve onun ise
durumu ile ilgili hastalıklı bir merak olarak algıladığı sohbetlerle
artabilir.” (16)
Özellikle, trans kişilerin insanlıklarının inkarının bir yolu da
tanımlanmış toplumsal cinsiyetlerini kabul etme ve farkına varmada
başarısız olmaktır. Bettcher (2009) şöyle yazar: “Eğer diğerleri benim
cinsiyet ifademle ilgili arzularımı kabul etmiyorlarsa, aslında beni kişi
olarak kabul etmemektedirler. Saygısızlığın en temel biçimlerinden
birini sergilemektedirler.” (105)
Her yıl, bir meslektaşın düzenlediği lisans düzeyinde sosyal
hizmet kursunda misafir öğretim görevlisi olarak transgender
farkındalığı üzerine bir ders veririm. Birkaç yıl önce, bölüm
başkanı derse katıldı. Bu sene, dersten sonra meslektaşım,
bölüm başkanının ne zaman benden bahsetse dişil zamir
kullandığını söyledi. Bilgi acıtır. Bu kadın benimle sadece geçiş
dönemi sonrası karşılaştı, beni sakal ve erkeğe has kellikle
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gördü, takım elbise ve kravat içinde gördü, beni sadece Elijah
Nealy olarak biliyor. Dişil zamirler kullanmak için ne sebebi var?
Dişil zamir kullandığını duymak bir şekilde benim kimliğimi alçaltıyor.
Şöyle diyor: “Sen Elijah Nealy değilsin. Sen erkek değilsin. Söylediğin kişi
olduğuna inanmıyorum. Sen bir kadınsın.” Bugün olduğum şeklimle beni
kabul etmeyi reddetmesinde açık bir saygısızlık var.
Meslektaşım olması, bir bölüm başkanı olması, bunu sindirmeyi
iki kat daha da zorlaştırıyor. Trans insanlarla nasıl çalışılabileceğini,
kendilerini nasıl tanımladıklarına saygı duyulması gerektiğini anlattığım
ders boyunca sınıftaydı. Sosyal hizmet öğrencilerine ders veriyor. Trans
insanlar hakkında acaba onlara ne anlatıyor? Biliyorum, bunun beni
üzmesine izin vermemeliyim, ama birkaç gün boyunca bu mesele beni
yedi bitirdi.
Damga taşıyan kişiyi daha az insan kabul etmek birçok trans
insanın karşılaştığı sözlü taciz ve şiddete imkan tanır, hatta teşvik eder.
Bu gerçeklere değinirken Judith Butler (2004) şöyle yazar: “bazı
yaşamlar yaşam olarak sayılmazlar, insanileştirilemezler. … bu düzlem,
fiziksel şiddeti arttırır, kültür içerisinde hali hazırda etkin olan, bir
anlamda insanlıktan uzaklaştırma mesajını taşır” (25).
Butler (2004) [insan] yaşamlarının “farklı şekilde desteklendiğini
ve sürdürüldüğünü, yerküre boyunca insanın fiziksel kırılganlığının
paylaşımının çok farklı yolları olduğunu” anlamamız gerektiğini söyler.
“Bazı hayatlar sıkıca korunacaktır ve kutsallıklarının feshi savaş
güçlerini harekete geçirmeye yetecektir. Bazı hayatlar ise bu denli hızlı
bir
destek
bulamayacak
ve
hatta
‘acınılabilir’
olarak
bile
değerlendirilmeyecekler.” (24) Butler temel olarak her hayatın insani
sayılmadığını, ya da bazı hayatların diğerlerinden daha insani ve değerli
olarak sayıldığını iddia eder. Bu şemada, transların hayatları, toplumsal
cinsiyet normlarına uymayanların hayatları, na-trans (cisgender)5 ve
5
ÇN: Sistem sözcüğünün köküyle türetilmiş cisgender, biyolojik cinsiyetiyle cinsiyet
kimliği uyumlu kişileri tanımlar. Türkiye'de LGBTİ Hareketi, transları anormal olarak
tanımlayan dili yapıbozuma uğratarak cisgender yerine na-trans yani trans olmayan
tanımını sahiplenmektedir.
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toplumsal cinsiyet normlarına uyan yaşamlardan daha az değerlidir. Bazı
hayatların acınılır bile olmama durumu özellikle beyaz olmayan trans
erkekler ve fakir trans erkekler üzerinde etkilidir.
Goffman’ın (1963) damga ve Butler’in (2000) liminal özneler
üzerine çalışmaları, trans erkeklerin ve hayatlarının nasıl daha az insani
bir hal aldığını gösterir. Taşıdıkları damga ortaya çıktığında diğer insani
özellikler bu yolla silinir. Sonuç olarak hem değersizleşmiş (damgası
görünür ve bilinen olan) hem de değersizleştirilebilir kişi (damgası gizli
ve bilinmeyen) tipik olarak birçok sosyal duruma endişe ile yaklaşır
çünkü diğerleri ne öne sürerlerse sürsünler onları tam bir insan olarak
kabul etmediklerini hissederler ki bu çoğunlukla doğrudur (Goffman,
1963, s.7). Bu, genellikle erkek olarak “onaylanabilen” trans erkeklerin
(yani değersizleştirilebilir kişi) eğer trans oldukları öğrenilirse
diğerlerinin
onlar
hakkındaki
derin
algılarının
değişip
değişmeyeceğinden şüphe ettikleri anlamına gelir. Benim gibi trans
erkekler sürekli olarak başka bir kişinin trans geçmişimizle ilgili bir
şeyler öğrendiğinde bize karşı farklı davranıp davranmayacaklarını
hesaplar. Onaylanmayan trans erkekler sürekli olarak sözlü taciz ve
bazen de fiziksel şiddet tehdidi altındadır. Bu tarihsel gerçekleri ve
gelecek ihtimalleri her gün idare etmek inanılmaz zihinsel ve duygusal
dayanıklılık gerektirir.
Trans erkeğin insanlığının reddedilme şekli onun erkekliğine
karşı sıklıkla gerçekleşen itiraz yollarıyla yakın bir ilişki içindedir. Bu
sunumun başlığında dendiği gibi, “Gerçek erkek ayağa kalkabilir mi,
lütfen?”
50 yıl önce Goffman (1963) şöyle belirtmişti:
Amerika’da sadece bir tane “eksiksiz, utanmasına gerek olmayan
erkek” vardır”: genç, evli, beyaz, şehirli, kuzeyli, heteroseksüel,
kolej eğitimli Protestan, tam zaman çalışan, güzel görünüme, kiloboya ve iyi bir spor siciline sahip. Her Amerikalı erkek dünyaya bu
bakış açısından bakmaya meyillidir. … Bunların herhangi birinden
yeterli olamayan bir erkek muhtemelen kendini değersiz, eksik ve
aşağı hissedecektir. (128)
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Feminist eleştirinin ortaya çıkışıyla birlikte, Goffman’ın o zamana kadar
tanımladığı model “hegemonik erkeklik” olarak adlandırıldı – herhangi
bir zamanda, mekânda veya tarihte, toplumda insan olmanın en değerli
yolu olarak addedilen erkeklik biçimi (Connell, 1987, 1995; Carrigan,
Connell, & Lee, 2002). Erkeklerin sadece küçük bir kısmı kültürün
taleplerini gerçek anlamda yerine getirirken, bu istatistikî klişeden
ziyade ideal anlamında “normatif” olarak değerlendirilirler. Feminizmin
çoğu kazanımlarına rağmen, çok sayıda erkek, hegemonik erkekliğin
standartlarını sağlayamasalar bile, hegemonik erkekliği kalıcı kılarak
suça ortak olmaya devam etmişlerdir (Carrigan, Connell, & Lee, 2002;
Connell & Messerschmidt, 2005).
Hegemonik erkeklik, devletin, işletmelerin, okulların, işyerlerinin
ve ailelerin içine kurumsal olarak yerleştirilmiştir (Carrigan, Connell, &
Lee, 2002). Hegemonik erkekliğin hiyerarşisinin merkezinde kadın
üstündeki egemenlik gibi diğer erkeklerin ve farklı formdaki erkekliğin
ikincil konuma itilmesi de vardır. Bu paradigmada, erkeklik güçle
eşitlenir. Kimmel’e (2003) göre, “Kültürümüzdeki erkekliğin tam
tanımları bazı erkeklerin diğer erkekler üzerinde ve erkeklerin kadınlar
üzerinde sahip olduğu gücü kalıcılaştırır.” (57) Şöyle devam eder:
“Kültürümüzde erkek olmanın ne demek olduğunu, tanımlarımızı bir dizi
“diğer”e – ırksal azınlıklara, cinsel azınlıklara ve her şeyden öte, kadına karşı sıralayarak öğrendik.”(52) Aslında Birleşik Devletler'de hegemonik
erkekliğin ilk kuralı, bir erkek “kadına atfedilen bir şekilde davranamaz,
hareket edemez ve var olamaz”dır (Anderson, 2009, s. 34). Bunun,
“eskiden kadın olan” ve bazı gözlerde halen kadın olan trans erkekler
için özel çağrışımları vardır. Bu kurala bağlı olan ise erkekliğin normatif
modelinin her zaman heteroseksüel olma ısrarıdır (Carrigan, Connell, &
Lee, 2002).
Buna göre, Herek (1986) “Çağdaş Amerikan toplumunda ‘erkek’
olmak demek homofobik olma – yani, genelde homoseksüel kişilere ve
özelde eşcinsel erkeklere düşman olmak” (563) anlamına geldiğini öne
sürer. Bu düşmanlık diğer erkeklerin erkekliğimize meydan okuyacağı ve
dünyaya “gerçek” erkek olmadığımızı kanıtlayacağı korkusundan
kaynaklanır. Bu, diğer erkekler önünde küçük düşürülme korkusudur. Bu
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korku Amerikan erkeğinin yaptığı her şeyde – ne giydiğinde, nasıl
konuştuğunda, nasıl yürüdüğünde, ne yediğinde – hiper-maskülen bir
cephe almasını sağlar. Kimmel’in de belirttiği gibi (2003), “her davranış,
her hareket şifrelenmiş toplumsal cinsiyet dili içerir.” (65) İşte bu
anlamda homofobi, cinsiyetçilik, transfobi, hetero-seksizm ve hegemonik
erkeklik iç içe geçer.
Kimmel (2003) bu erkeğe yakışmaz görünme korkusunun
Amerikan erkeğini, diğer erkeklerin erkekliğini haksız yere inkar etmeye
sevk ettiğini iddia eder. Kendi erkeklik imgelerini desteklemek için,
Amerikan erkekliği Goffman’nın tanımladığı -beyaz, karşı cinse ilgi
duyan, orta veya üst sınıf, sağlıklı-klasik erkeğin ülkesi olmuştur ve
klasik erkekliğin tanımı, olur da hiyerarşinin tam tepesindeki “gerçek”
erkeği devirirler diye, diğer erkeklerin ona ulaşmasını engelleyecek
şekilde kurulmuştur. Amerikan tarihi boyunca, bu “diğer” erkekler;
ırksal/etnik azınlıktan olan erkek, engelli erkek, göçmen erkek,
homoseksüel erkek, ve bugün çoğu vakada trans erkek olarak farklı
şekillerde tanımlanmıştır.
Şimdiki kısa hikaye bir trans erkek olarak erkek kimliğime ve
erkekliğime nasıl karşı gelindiğini gösterecektir:
Birkaç yıl önce Yonkers’a taşındım ve bir Cumartesi sabahı bir 12Adım toplantısı keşfettim ve buna dahil olmak istedim. Her hafta
oda 16-85 yaşlarında 40 ila 50 erkekle doluyordu. Birkaç AfroAmerikan ve Latin haricinde çoğu beyazdı. Paylaşımlar inanılmaz
derecede gerçekçi ve bazen vahşice dürüsttü. Hiçbir şekilde konu
sınırı diye bir şey yoktu. Demek istediğim, en son ne zaman bir
odada oturup 40 erkeğin, bir saat içerisinde, seks, uyuşturucu ve
ibadet hakkında çok fazlasıyla ayrıntılı olarak konuştuğunu
dinlediniz?
Toplantılar aynı zamanda kahkaha doluydu. Erkekler toplantı
boyunca birbirlerine eğlenceli şekilde sataşıp duruyordu. Orada
bulunduğum ilk seferde, karım ve altı yaşındaki kızımdan araba
kullanırken birisine el hareketi yaptığım için özür dilemek
zorunda kaldığım öyküyü paylaştım. Bitirdiğimde daha önce hiç
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karşılaşmadığım bir adam bana “Hey, Eli!” diye bağırıp mutlu bir
şekilde el hareketi yaptı.
Kapıdan içeri girip bu adamları bulduğum andan itibaren
alışılmadık biçimde kendimi rahat hissettim. Rahatlık duygusu
toplantılar boyunca devam etti. Kendimi “evde” gibi hissetmiştim.
Kahkaha ve dürüstlüğün kaba birleşimini sevmiştim. Öte yandan
bu erkekler benim trans tarihimi bilselerdi ne düşünürlerdi diye
merak da ediyordum. Beni aynı şekilde görmeye devam ederler
miydi? Buna rağmen beni kabul ederler miydi? Bu tek gerçek her
şeyi değiştirir miydi?
Bir pazar sabahı, bir tanesi ile kahvaltı için buluştum. Restoran,
kilise dönüşü yemek için gelenlerle dolup taşıyordu. Sonunda
uzak bir köşede bir masa bulduk ve kendi küçük evrenimize
yerleştik. Bir noktada sohbetimiz esnasında anlattığım bir durumu
gerçekten anlayabilmesi için trans geçmişimi ona açmam
gerektiğini açıkça gördüm. Başka her şey aldatıcı ya da en azından
eksik görünüyordu.
Takip eden sohbet benim için çok bilindikti. İlk olarak söylediğim
şeyleri anlamadı. Kadın olmak isteyen bir erkek olduğumu
söylediğimi zannetti. “Trans erkeğin” ne demek olduğunu, bir kız
olarak doğduğumu ve sürekli erkek gibi hissettiğimi ve birkaç yıl
önce de erkek olarak yaşama geçiş yaptığımı anlatmaya çalıştım.
Fakat beyni bunu bir türlü algılayamıyordu. Bir noktada, en az üç
defa, “Ama vajinan var mı? Bilirsin, Eli, vajina? Vajinan var mı?”
diye sordu.
Kısa bir parantez – trans olduğumu açıklamadan önce hiç kimse
cinsel organlarımın nasıl göründüğüne dair bir soru sormamıştı,
ama trans insanlar bu sorularla sürekli muhatap oluyorlar.
İnanılmaz derecede saldırgan bir soru olmasına rağmen, size bu
soruyu soranlar, sizi çok az tanısalar bile, bu soruları sorarken hiç
tereddüt etmiyorlar. Yeni arkadaşım beni vücut parçalarımla ilgili
sorguya çekerken, kendimi saldırıya uğramış hissettim. Bu soru,
ya da “operasyon” geçirip geçirmediğim sorusu, sorgulayanın sizin
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“gerçek” olup olmadığınızı bilmek istediği imasını taşır – sanki
beden şeklimiz bu kültürde erkek veya kadın olmanın tek ve temel
belirleyicisiymiş gibi. Transların hayatları boyunca yüzleştikleri
şeyler iç parçalayıcıdır; yani, “Eğer trans bir insan olarak sizin
karşınıza çıkarsam, yine de beni gerçek bir erkek veya kadın
olarak görecek misiniz?” Ve, belki de daha önemlisi, “benim insan
olarak değerlendirecek misiniz?”
Bu adamın iyi niyetli olduğunu biliyordum, ama eve sersem bir
şekilde döndüm. Gelişmekte olan ilişkimiz birden bire ciddi bir
tehlike içine girmişti. Kendimi aşırı yüklenmiş hissettim. Bütün
etkileşimi bloke etmek istedim. Bu tarz açılım anlarının neden bu
derece güç olduğunu düşündüm. Neden bu denli tramvatize
hissediyorlar?
Kesinlikle, böyle bir deneyimi ilk yaşadığım zaman ile benzer
değildi. Kan tahlili yaptırdığım Greenwich’teki laboratuardaki anı
düşündüm. Sonra geçişimi ilk ilan ettiğim mesleki bir toplantı olan
aile terapi konferansını düşündüm. Trans olarak kendimi açtığım
ve birilerinin anlamadığı ya da vücut parçalarımın (yani cinsel
organlarımın) şu an nasıl göründüğü hakkında sorular sorduğu
diğer düzinelerce zamanı düşündüm. Buna neredeyse alışık
olmam gerekir. Bunu önceden tahmin etmeliyim. Ne kadar yıl
geçerse geçsin, hali hazırda defalarca bunu ifade etmeme rağmen,
bu etkileşim her zaman derinden rahatsız edicidir.
Goffman (1963)
şöyle söyler:
“Bu
damgayı
taşıyan bireylerin
hayatlarındaki temel belirleyen genellikle belli belirsiz ‘kabullenme’
olarak adlandırılan sorunsaldır. Bu bireyle ilişkide olanlar, onun sosyal
kimliğinin kirlenmemiş boyutlarının onların sunmasını beklediği, onun
ise görmeyi umduğu saygı ve takdiri sunmakta başarılı olamamıştır.” (8)
Goffman’a
göre
damgalanmış
kişiler
nasıl
karşılanacaklarından,
diğerlerinin onları kabul edip etmeyeceklerinden hiçbir zaman emin
olamazlar, ve bu da günlük müzakere ve travmadır.
İçselleştirdiğim utancım üzerine ne kadar gidersem gideyim,
kendimden çoğunlukla ne kadar emin hissedersem hissedeyim, başarılı
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bir trans “rol modeli”, toplumsal cinsiyet uzmanı olarak ünlenmeme ve
çoğu zaman diğer trans danışanlarla ve sıkıntılarıyla terapist olarak
çalışmama rağmen, insanların beni benim kendimi gördüğüm gibi
gördüğüne emin olamıyordum. Bazen geçmişimi gizli tuttuğum sürece,
kimsenin farkı bilmeyeceği ve (erkek olarak) kabul göreceğimi hissettim.
Kimliğimi
ortaya
çıkardığımda
ise
hiçbir
zaman
rahatlayamaz,
“erkeklerden biri” olarak kendime güvenemezdim. Her zaman beni
“gerçek” bir erkek mi erkekmiş gibi “davranan” biri olarak mı
gördüklerini merak etmek zorunda kalırdım.
Trans olarak açılmak ve bu yüzden trans erkek olarak
değersizleştirilmek erkekliğini sürekli olarak “kanıtlamak” gereği
doğurur. “Gerçek” bir erkek misin, Eli, yoksa bir vajinan var mı? “Gerçek”
erkeklerin penisi olur, vajinası olmaz. Beraber çalıştığım transların
defalarca karşısına çıkan bu soru, trans olarak kimliğimi ortaya
koyarsam beni normal bir erkek olarak görecek misin sorusudur.
Kliniğimdeki odamda oturan on altı yaşındaki trans erkek, kız
arkadaşının onu gerçekten
“normal” bir erkek olarak algıladığını
hissedip hissedemeyeceğini sordu. Eşcinsel bir trans erkek, hemen
yanında yatan na-trans eşcinsel adamın vücudunun kendisininkinden
farklı olması nedeniyle kendisini hiçbir zaman “yeterince erkek” gibi
hissedemediğini belirtti. Kırk yaşındaki bir adam geçişinin ilk
zamanlarında bana şöyle demişti, “bazen çok ikiyüzlü hissediyorum.
Beni değişime başlamadan önce tanıyan insanlar, beni hala eski halimde
görmeye devam ediyorlar; benim gerçek bir erkek olduğumu
düşünmüyorlar.” Bir başka trans erkek ise lise yıllarında birlikte
çektirdikleri bir fotoğrafı facebook üzerinden gönderen bir arkadaşından
bahsetti. “ Eğer gelecekte sevgilim olacak kişi bunu görürse ne olur?”
diye sordu bana. “ Gerçek bir erkek olmadığımı düşünür mü?” Gelişimsel
engelli genç bir trans erkek ise babasının ona “Bob, Brenda her neyse”
şeklinde hitap ettiğini hıçkırıklar içinde anlattı. “Benim gerçek bir erkek
olduğumu düşünmüyor.”
Erkekliklerine karşı yapılan bu sürekli meydan okuma, trans
erkek danışanlarımın, iş arkadaşlarımın ve arkadaşlarımın peşini
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bırakmıyor. “Gerçek” cevap asla bilinemez. Hatta cevap kabul edici gibi
göründüğünde bile, trans erkekler diğer kişinin onları, kendilerinin
translığı bağlamında tanımladığını yürekten bilirler. Bu yüzden sürekli
diğerlerinin senin hakkında gerçekten ne düşündüğünü bilememe hissi
vardır. Goffman’ın da dediği gibi (1963) , “bu damgayı içinde taşıyan kişi
muhtemelen, kendisinin tüm sosyal durumlarda ‘uyanık’ olmak zorunda
olduğunu, bırakmakta olduğu izlenim hakkında da bilinçli ve tedbirli
olması gerektiğini hisseder” (s.14) Bu tetikte olma durumu psikolojik
olarak zorlu ve maliyetlidir.
Birçok çeşitte trans erkeklik vardır – benim gibi görünen trans
erkekler, eşcinsel ve hetero trans erkekler, kadınsı trans erkekler, açık ve
gizli trans erkekler, gençken değişim geçirmiş ve çocukluğu boyunca kız
gibi görülmüş trans erkekler, daha geç değişim geçirmiş ve hayatının
birçok yılını kadın olarak geçirmiş trans erkekler.
Benim hikayemde ise, büyüme dönemimde yıllarca görünmez
olduğumu hissettim. Benlik algımın sürekli soru olarak kaldığı, hiçbir
zaman doğrulanıp onaylanmadığını hissetiğim yıllar. İç sesimin “erkek”
ya da “genç adam” dediği, insanlarınsa beni “kız” olarak gördüğü yıllar.
Sonunda yetişkinlik hayatımda dönüşüme başlama cesaretini buldum ve
erkek olarak doğru ve uygun sosyal ve psikolojik kimliğim ile yaşamaya
başladım.
Birçok trans erkek için, erkeklikleri onlara dış dünya tarafından
kolayca ya da özgürce sunulmaz. Bu, öz tanımlamayla, kendini bilme
yeteneğiyle içten gelmelidir, ve diğerlerinin söylediklerini dikkate
almadan, kişi, cesurca hayattaki kimliğini talep etmelidir. Bu dünyada kız
olarak doğmak ve erkek dünyasında kendine yer edinme gücünü bulmak,
muazzam bir cesaret gerektirir. Daha geçen hafta birlikte çalıştığım 16
yaşında biri, son iki yıldır kız olarak görüldüğü okulunda, genç bir erkek
olarak ilk senesine başladı. Facebooktaki bütün arkadaşlarına açıldı.
Okul müdürüne ve öğretmenlerine açıldı. Diğerleri ne derse desin
erkekliğini talep eden cesur ve cüretkar bir genç erkek.
Bu, kimliğimizin diğerleri tarafından onaylanmasının, kabul
edilmesinin ve meşrulaştırılmasının önemini gösterir. Bu olmadan, 12
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Adım grubu örneğimde de olduğu gibi, trans erkekler oldukları gibi
görülmemenin ve/veya kimliklerinin inkarı ya da geçersizleştirilmesi
travmalarını tecrübe ederler. Tipik olarak geçişten önceki birçok trans
kişinin hayatında eksik olan bu en basit insani ihtiyaç olan kabul görme
ve onaylanmadır. Birçoğu için fiziksel geçiş süreci muazzam bir onay ve
iyileşme sağlayabilir. Yavaşça kendimizi her zaman içten gördüğümüz
gibi dıştan da görmeye başlarız.
Devor’a
(1997)
göre,
“her
birimizin derinlerde
diğerleri
tarafından tanıklık edilme ihtiyacı vardır ve her birimiz, kendimizi
gördüğümüz gibi diğerlerinin gözünde yansımamızı görmek isteriz.” (46)
Tanıklar bizim gibi olmayan (yani na-trans) insanlardır ve bu yüzden
bize belirli bir mesafede ve nesnel bakarlar. Trans erkekleri
onayladıklarında, bu değerlendirmenin tarafsız olduğuna dair güvence
vardır. Yansıma bizim gibi olanların (diğer trans erkeklerin) gözlerindeki
yansımamızı gördüğümüzde gerçekleşir. Na-trans insanlar tarafından
tanıklık edilme ve diğer trans insanlarca yansıtılmayı içeren etkileşimsel
süreç kendi kişilik manamızı güçlendirir.
Waskul
ve
Vannini
(2006)
“aynadaki
beden”
üzerine
düşüncelerinde benzer bir dinamiğe dikkat çekerler. Charles Cooley’nin
(1902) “onlar” olmadan “ben”in olmadığını vurgulayan dönüşlü
benliğinden faydalan Waskul ve Vannini, aynadaki bedenin dünyadaki
fiziksel varlığımızın bir parçası olarak dönüşlülüğümüzü vurguladığını
önerir. Bu anlamda, etrafımdaki insanların beni ve benim erkekliğimi
yansıttıkları yollarla ben/erkekliğim cisim bulur.
Aile hayatımdan kısa bir hikaye trans erkeklerin hayatlarındaki
düşünümsellik fikirlerini yansıtmaktadır.
Oğlum ve ben birbirimizi New York’taki bir evlat edinme kurumu
aracılığıyla tanıdık. Web sitesinde bekleyen çocukların arasından
fotoğrafını gördüm. Uzun beyaz şef şapkalı Puerto Rikolu bir
ergen fotoğrafıydı. Özgeçmişi, Alex’in aşçılık okulunda olduğunu
ve amacının bir gün kendi restoranını açmak olduğunu
söylüyordu. Kocaman bir gülümsemesi ve gözlerinde açıklığın
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ışıltısı vardı. Kurum kendisine ait diyebileceği kalıcı bir aile
bulmak için dört yıldan fazla bir süredir onunla çalışıyordu.
Alex ile Yankee stadyumuna yakın Bronx’ta beraber bir burger
yiyip tanışmamızdan iki hafta sonra doğum günü -barbekü partim
vardı.
Alex
bütün
bir
öğleden
sonra
arkadaşlarım
ve
meslektaşlarımla tanışarak ızgarada takıldı. Hafta sonu için kaldı
ve hiç gitmedi. Haftalar içinde bana “babalık” diye sesleniyordu.
“Babalık” kulağa çok eski geldiği için üzülmüştüm ama yakın bir
arkadaşım genç, havalı, şehirli gençlerin babalarına bu şekilde
seslendikleri konusunda moral verdi. Ona ilk zamanlarda açıldım
ve beni farklı görüyor mu diye bazen merak etmeme rağmen
benim trans olmamdan şikâyetçi görünmüyordu.
Bir gece geç saatte ayaktaydık ve verandada konuşuyorduk. Alex,
yetiştirme yurdunda büyümekle ve ergenliğini bakım merkezinde
harcadığıyla alakalı birçok hikayesini benimle paylaştı. Bir
noktada dayanamadı ve dedi ki “Babalık, sana minnettarım. 21
yaşındayım biliyorum ve neredeyse yetişkinim, ama içimde bazen
hala küçük bir çocuğum. Yakın olduğum hiçbir erkek olmadı. Seni
bulduğum için çok minnettarım çünkü sen bana nasıl erkek olunur
öğretebilirsin”.
Kelimelerinin ardındaki duygular beni kapladı ve gözlerimde de
yaşlar oluşmaya başladı. Bazılarının asla “gerçek erkek” olarak
görmediği bu trans adamın gerçekten ona bunu öğretebileceğini
mi ima etmişti? Fakat o anda biliyordum ki Alex haklıydı – bırakın
bir ailesi olmasını asla bir erkek olacak kadar büyüyemeyeceğini
yıllarca düşünen bu çocuk, en sonunda yolun sonuna gelmişti.
Oğlum haklıydı – ona nasıl bütün hayatını cesaret, otantiklik ve
kendine saygı ile yaşayan bir erkek olunur öğretebilirdim.
O noktaya kadar, trans kimliğimi Alex’e nasıl açıklayacağım
konusunda çok fazla endişem vardı. Tanıştığımız zamandan beri.
21 yaşındaki bu düz-cinsel6 Puerto Rico’lu genç adamın benim
6 Straight: norma uyan yani na-trans heteroseksüeller için kullanılır.
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trans olmam hakkında ne düşüneceğine dair endişelerim vardı.
Beni babası olarak kabul etmek istemeyeceği anlamına gelir diye
çok korkuyordum, beni reddeder diye ürküyordum. Ve şimdi,
burada bana nasıl erkek olunuru ona öğretebileceğimi söylüyordu.
Alex’in yorumları doğrudan korkumun en derin merkezine ve
içselleştirdiğim utancıma işledi ve aydınlattı.
Daha önce anlattığım laboratuar, 12-Adım grubu arkadaşımla aramda
geçen
diyalog,
meslektaşımın
reddetmesiyle
ilgili
etraftakilerden
nasıl
beni
hikayelerim,
karşı
tepki
erkek
olarak
trans
erkeğin
geldiğini,
kabullenmeyi
erkekliğine
erkekliğimizin
nasıl
sorgulandığını açıklar. Ve bu dış dünyadan gelen meydan okumalar çok
gerçektir. Ama aynı zamanda bu mesajları bizim nasıl içselleştirdiğimiz
ve damgalanmayı içselleştirerek söz konusu olmadığı anlarda bile
reddedilmeyi nasıl öngördüğümüz sorusu da vardır. İşte bu oğlum
Alex’in, benim için kavraması neredeyse oldukça zor olan, ona nasıl bir
erkek olunacağını öğretebileceğim ifadesinde açığa çıkmaktaydı.
Bu durum “gerçek”
bir erkek olma hakkındaki kişisel
güvensizliklerime, erkekliğimin gerçekliğine inanma çabalarıma, bir
kızın vücudunda doğan birinin gerçekten bir erkek olarak büyüyüp
büyüyemeyeceğine dair iç ikilemlerime işlemişti. Dünya, bu şekilde
olmadığını söyler. Dünya, kızların ve erkeklerin var olduğunu ve bu
ikisinin tamamen zıt olduğunu söylemektedir. Ben de bu inanışları
içselleştirmiştim ve sonuç olarak da erkekliğimin güvenilebilir olduğuna
inanmak için verdiğim içsel mücadelem ile yüzleşmiştim. Bu kişisel
korkuların derinliklerine dokunmak Alex’in ona nasıl erkek olunacağını
öğretebileceğimi söylediğinde kendimi tutamayıp ağlamayı istememe,
kendi erkek kimliğimi kabul etmek için aşmaya mecbur bırakıldığım
bütün engelleri, dünyaya erkekliğimi ilan etme yolculuğum süresince
rastladığım bütün bariyerlerin ağırlığını, hala erkekliğimi inkar edenlerle
rastladığım anları, ve bu yüzden beni, benliğimi ve insanlığımı inkar
etmelerinin acısını hıçkırarak atmak istedim.
Daha önceden, hegemonik erkekliği ve nasıl sadece kadınları değil
öteki erkekleri de bastırdığı ve marjinalleştirdiğini tartışmıştım.
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Goffman’ın (1963) yazdığı “eksiksiz, utanmasına gerek olmayan erkek”
tabii ki trans erkekleri içermiyordu. Goffman, “bu yönlerden herhangi
birini yerine getirmede başarısızlığa uğrayan bir erkeğin, muhtemelen
kendini … değersiz, yarım ve aşağı olarak gördüğünü” söyleyerek bütün
diğer
erkeklerin
bu
basit
erkeklik
standardı
tarafından
nasıl
marjinalleştirildiğini vurgulamıştır (s. 128).
Bu birçok trans erkeğin mücadelesinin temelidir. Hegemonik
erkekliğin standartlarını içselleştirmede, trans erkeklerin her zaman
yetersiz kalması kaderlerinde vardır. Bu baskın anlatı göz önüne
alınacak olursa, trans erkekler asla “gerçek” erkek olmayacaklardır. Ve
bu
standartlar
içselleştirildiğinde,
trans
erkekler
kendilerini
muhtemelen “değersiz, yarım ve aşağı” olarak görürler. Goffman daha
sonrasında bu utancın genellikle başkalarının varlığında baş gösterdiğini
belirtmektedir, ama “kendinden nefret ve kendini aşağılama sadece
kendisi ve ayna söz konusu olduğunda meydana gelebilir” (s. 7) diye
ekler.
“Gerçek” bir erkek miyim değil miyim sorusu birçok erkeğin
yüzleştiği mücadeledir. Trans erkek ve uçlardaki erkekler çoğu zaman
bizi hükümsüzleştiren dünyada gerçek olarak kanıtlanmak için mücadele
verirler. Kültürel tarihçi Michael Kimmel (2012), Amerika’da erkekliğin
tarihinde, “gerçek erkekliğin” hiçbir zaman sabit bir zemini olmadığını
iddia eder. Kimmel’e göre, erkekler – bütün erkekler – devamlı bir
şekilde erkekliklerini ispat etmek zorundadırlar. Bu bağlamda, trans
erkeğin gerçek olarak görülme çabası (ya da toplumsal cinsiyet
performansının inandırıcı olması) Amerika’da erkek olmanın – özellikle
uçlardaki bir erkek, cisgender ya da trans, eşcinsel ya da düz-cinsel erkek
olmanın – ne demek olduğunun uç bir ifadesidir.
Afro-Amerikalı eşcinsel yazar James Baldwin (1962)’in
bahsettiği gerçek budur:
Kimliğini, erkekliğini onu yok etmek isteyen insan
zalimliğinin ateşinden söküp almak zorunda bırakılan bu
erkek, uğraşları sonucunda ayakta kalsa da kalmasa da,
kendi ve insan yaşamı hakkında dünya üzerindeki hiçbir
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okulun – ve kesinlikle, kilisenin de – öğretemeyeceği bir
şey bilir. Kendi sarsılmaz otoritesine kavuşur ve bu
sarsılmazdır. Bunun sebebi hayatını kurtarmak için
görünümlerin altına bakmaya, hiçbir şeyi kesin olarak
kabul
etmemeye,
kelimelerin
ardındaki
anlamları
duymaya zorlanmasıdır. (98-99)
Siyah erkekler, Latin erkekler, queer 7 erkekler, Türk erkekleri, engelleri
olan erkekler, trans erkekler; aslında uçlarda olanların hepsi baskının ve
haksızlığın
ateşinden
sıyrılıp
kimliklerine
sarılmak
zorunda
bırakılıyorlar. Hepimiz hiçbir şeyi sorgulamamaya mecbur bırakılmışız.
Trans erkeklerin “gerçek” olarak sayılma mücadelesi bazı yanlarıyla her
yerde bütün erkeklerin mücadelesidir.
Zira bu hikayenin tamamı değildir. Erkekliğimizin acı şekilde
inkar edilmesine rağmen, benim gibi trans erkekler, kendileri hakkında
kendi
inançlarını
damgalanmayı
oluşturabildikleri,
içselleştirmeyi
onları
saran
reddedebildikleri
bu
görünmez
zaman
başarılı
olabilirler. Irksal ihlaller hakkındaki bir çalışmada, Sue, Capodilupo &
Holder (2008) bazı katılımcıların ihlalleri mikroagresif olayların
ardındaki utanç ve aşağılıktan ziyade suç işleyenlerin hatası olarak
görebildiğini belirtmişlerdir. Bu başa çıkma stratejisi onları güçlü kıldı ve
benliklerini daha güvenilir oluşturmasında onlara imkan tanıdı.
Interseksler8 üzerine yapılmış bir çalışma hakkında yazan Preves (2003)
kendine güvenme yetisinin kurbandan güçlü olana geçme döneminde
önemli bir rol oynadığını belirtmektedir. Engelli olan kişiler hakkındaki
yazısında Charlton (1998) “uyandırılmış bilinç”li kişileri, bu kişilerin
belirgin bir şekilde baskın kültürden olanlardan farklı olarak inançlar ve
değerler geliştirdiğini ileri sürerek anlatmaktadır. Aslında, bu bir
“direnç” bilinci olarak terimleştirilebilir (syf. 5).
7 Queer: o biçim, kırık, tuhaf, lubunya
8 ÇN: Genel kanının aksine interseks çift cinsiyetli demek değildir. Çift cinsiyetlilik,
kromozom yapısıyla cinsel organların uyumsuz olduğu yüzlerce interseks tanımından
biridir.
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Preves (2003) bu görünmez damgadan arınma sürecinin uzun ve
zorlu olduğunu öne sürmektedir. Sıklıkla gizliliğin, soyutlanmanın ve
utancın ötesine geçmekle başlar – yani birinin hikayesini başka birine,
hatta kendine bile, anlatmasıyla başlar. Preves, bu damga ile yaftalanma
hikayesini güçlendirme hikayesine dönüştürmede bireyin bir bilinç
değişikliği – “kişisel zorluklar”ın “politik konular” olarak yeniden
şekillendirme yetisini ( syf 87, rfrns Mills, 1959) – tecrübe etmek
zorunda olduğunu belirtir. İşte bu anlamda hikaye anlatımı problemi
içsel olandan daha dışsal olana yeniden konumlandırır. Hikayedeki bu
hareket pozitif benlik imajının gelişiminde gereklidir.
Corrigan, Roe, and Tsang (2011), bu damga ile yaftalanmanın
şokunu atlatmanın anahtarının, kişisel edilgen kurban anlatısından kendi
yaşamının etken öğesine, “kendi hikayesinin kahramanı olmaya”
geçmekte yattığını belirtir. (137). Bu bireyler kendilerine olumlu
bakarlar, birçok pozitif öz ifadeden faydalanıp öz-yeterlilik hissine
sahiptirler. Baskın kültürün sunduğu bu damga ve yaftalanma öyküsüne,
kurban anlatısına karşın, aktif bir şekilde kendi hayat öykülerine
alternatif anlamlar inşa etmeye çalışırlar. Kendi hayatları için farklı
anlatılar geliştirirler.
Eşim ve üç çocuğum var – 10 yaşında bir kızım, oğlum Alex, ki
daha önce bahsetmiştim ve daha büyük kızım Karen. Hayatımdaki
varlıkları baskın kültürün sunduğundan daha farklı bir anlatı
yaratmamda bana yardımcı olmuştur. Aşağıdaki kısa hikaye bu süreci
anlatmaktadır.
Karen
ve
Alex,
Baltimore’da
düzenlenen
geçişimdeki
deneyimlerim hakkında konuşma vereceğim aile terapistlerinin
ulusal bir konferansında bana eşlik ediyorlardı. Kara yoluyla
seyahat ettik ve hepimiz bir motel odasına doluşturulduk. Sabah
konuşmam planlanmıştı. Alex astım atağı geçirmiş ve Johns
Hopkins’te acile yatırılmıştı. Onu nebülizöre bağlamışlar ve daha
uzun süre tutmak istemişlerdi. Fakat o ve Karen konuşmamı
kaçırmamakta kararlıydılar. Konferansın düzenlendiği otele tam
ben takdim edilirken yetiştiler. Konuşmam, trans bir erkek olarak
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kendi hikayem ve hastalarımdan elde edilen deneyimlerim
hakkında kişisel paylaşımlar içermekteydi. Konuşmamı verirken
meslektaşlarımın olduğu kadar çocuklarımın da önünde olduğum
için iki misli kırılganlık hissediyordum.
O günün ilerleyen saatlerinde otelimize geri yürürken, Karen ve
Alex trans olmak hakkında daha önceden hiç sormadıkları–
hormonlar ve ameliyatlar ve flört etmek hakkında - birçok detaylı
kişisel sorular sordular. Açıkça benimle, benim konuşmamla ve de
orada benim çocuklarım olarak bulunmaktan gurur duyuyorlardı.
Sorularına cevap verdikçe, hem görünür hem de kırılgan ve
gururlu hissettim. Geçmişim ve kimliğimle alakalı hiç böyle detaylı
ve açıklayıcı bir konuşma yapmamıştık. Otelimize neredeyse bir
blok kala, Alex birden durdu ve bana baktı ve şöyle dedi : “Biliyor
musun baba? Seni bir trans olarak düşünmüyorum. Bence sen bir
dönüşümcüsün.”
Baltimore şehir merkezinin sokaklarında bu etkileşimi derinlemesine
düşünürken, trans kimliğimin çocuklarım için kimliğimin genellikle en
belirgin yanı olmadığı dikkatimi çekmişti. Bana karşı olan gururları o gün
oldukça belirgindi. Meslektaşlarıma, oğlum ve kızım olarak tanıştırılmayı
sevmişlerdi. O gece, biri konuşmamın ne kadar güçlü olduğunu söylemek
için her geldiğinde çocuklarımın gözleri parlıyordu. Konuşmamı takip
eden soru cevap kısmı boyunca, sabah onların katılımlarına referans
veriyordum ve her ikisi de “Muhteşemsin, baba” diye bağırıyorlar.
Bu deneyime bakarak, onların gözünde en önemli şeyin babaları
olarak kendileri ile ilişkim olduğuna dair hiçbir soru işareti kalmamıştı.
Net bir şekilde, bu onlar için benim kimliğimin en dikkat çekici yanıydı.
“Seni transgender olarak düşünmüyorum, baba”. Onların gözünde, erkek
olmak, özellikle de onların babası olmak basitçe penisinin olmasından
çok daha fazla önemliydi. Onlar bu kadar net bir şekilde benim
erkekliğimi
babaları
olarak
sahiplenebiliyorlarsa,
bu
durumda
rahatlamamı hala bazen güçleştiren şey neydi? “Gerçek” bir erkek olup
olmadığım hakkında endişelerimi tetikleyebilmeye ara ara devam eden
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şey neydi? Dahası, trans erkeklerin, bırakın insanlıklarını, inkar edilemez
erkekliklerini tanımakta dünyayı bu kadar zora sokan şey nedir?
Bu dünyada erkek olarak kimliğimi sürdürebilmek için – hatta
samimi arkadaşlarım ve aile üyeleri için bile – dünyalar kadar akli ve
duygusal enerji harcadım. Bu enerjinin büyük bir kısmını trans bir erkek
olarak geçmişim hakkındaki bilgileri idare etmeye adadım. Bazı
durumlarda etrafımdakiler tarafından trans durumumun bilinmesi
yüzünden daha başlamadan itibarsızlaştırılırım. Trans geçmişimin gizli
ve bilinmez olduğu diğer karşılaşmalarda ise potansiyel olarak
itibarsızlaştırılabilirim. Bunlar hayatımın hem “dış” dünyadaki hem de
evdeki gerçekleridir. Bu bilgiyi idare etme kırılganlık, endişe, ve
mükemmel tasdik etme anlarıyla doludur.
Kimmel’in eserine dönüp referans vererek, hepsi olmasa bile çoğu
erkeğin erkeklikleri hakkında güvensiz oldukları bir durum olduğu
doğrudur. Terapist olarak, her hafta hikayelerini anlatan trans erkekleri
dinlerim. Her yıl yaklaşık 70 eşcinsel erkeğin invizaya çekilmesine
öncülük ederim. Ve her cumartesi sabahı, çoğunluğu hetero erkekle dolu
olan bir odada otururum. Oldukça farklı bu üç grupta, erkekler kendi
erkeklikleri hakkında endişe duyduklarından bahsederler.
Aynı zamanda, trans erkeklerin karşılaştığı zorlukların özgün
olduklarına da inanıyorum. Birçok erkeğin yüzleştiği soru “Yeterince
erkek miyim?” dir. Na-trans bir erkek oldukça kısa, oldukça şişman,
sporun içinde olmayan, oldukça koyu tenli, oldukça duygusal, bir engelle
yaşayan biri olabilir ama genellikle erkekliği sorgulanmaz. Egemen
erkekliğin gerçekleri düşünüldüğünde bu özelliklerden herhangi biri ona
erkekliği hakkında güvensiz hissettirir.
Trans erkeklerin yüzleştiği soru “Gerçek bir erkek miyim?”
sorusudur. Trans bir erkek olarak kimliğimi açığa koyduğumda
açıklamamı duyanların beni umursamayacağını ve odaya bakarak
“gerçek erkek lütfen ayağa kalkar mı?”diye sorup sormayacağını
bilemem. Amerika’da ya da Türkiye’de hastaneye gitmem gerekirse,
acilde etrafa bakarak, beni umursamayarak, “gerçek erkek lütfen ayağa
kalkar mı?” diye sorup sormayacağını bilemem.
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Judith Butler tanınmak ve “gerçek” olarak sayılmanın gerekliliği ile
boğuşmaktadır. Butler’ın bakış açısından, yaşadığımız gerçek dünyada;
beden yalnız; cinsiyet, toplumsal cinsiyet ve arzu, ancak heteroseksüellik
ile şekillendirilmiş bir çerçeve ile tutarlı olduğu zaman anlam ifade eder
(ve ancak önem taşıyan bedenler olarak sayılır) (Butler, 1990). Butler
için (2000), trans insanlar “insan tanınabilirliğini kontrol eden
normlardan” dışlanan ve insan kategorisinde bütünlüğe ulaşmak için
feda edilen “liminal özneler”dir (Halberstam, 2005). Butler (2004),
“gerçekdışı olarak adlandırılmanın ve bu adlandırmayı kabul etmenin
gerçekleştiği yerde, ayrımcıl muamelenin kurumsallaştırılmasının bir
şekli olarak insani olanın aksine bir şeye dönüşerek öteki olmak”
şeklinde açıklayarak konuyu bağlar (p.218).
Bu açıdan, insanlar “Peki sen nesin?” diye sorduklarında, insanlar
cinsel organımın şekli üstünden beni sıkıştırdıklarında, insanlar erkek
kimliğime ve taşıdğım eril göstergelere rağmen dişil zamirler
kullanmakta ısrar ettiklerinde, sadece erkekliğimi değil aynı zamanda
insanlığımı da inkar etmektedirler. Dünyanın her gün bana sorduğu
şekilde, Elijah Nealy, lüfen gerçek erkek ayağa kalkabilir mi?
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REVIEWS
Nurseli Yeşim Sünbüloğlu (eds.)
Erkek Millet, Asker Millet: Türkiye’de Militarizm, Milliyetçilik,
Erkek(lik)ler
İstanbul: İletişim Yayınları, 2013, 558 pp.
ISBN 9789750511530
E
rkek Millet, Asker Millet is an initial attempt to discuss military
masculinity in the Turkish context and in the greater spheres of
nationalism and gender studies. The book traverses a relatively
uncharted territory and compiles sixteen articles, which relate to
masculinity from different perspectives with compelling arguments and
well-chosen examples. Articles focus on a range of problems varying
from military masculinity in Balkan wars, martyrdom, and compulsory
military service, to Korea war, disabled veterans, football and the
representations of masculinities in media. The book convincingly argues
that masculinity is a critical issue surrounding discussions not only
about war and the military but also about sacrifice, discipline, hegemony
and education.
The introduction by the editor, Nurseli Yeşim Sünbüloğlu, covers
the historical and theoretical framework for the analytical discussion of
military masculinity, and discusses the socialization of people into a
militarized culture in parallel to the rise of nation-states ably supporting
the discussion with references to several theorists that led the way and
flourished men’s studies. Quoting key names such as Cynthis Enloe and
G.L. Mosse, Sünbüloğlu reminds that militarism is a complex social issue,
which cannot be downgraded to war periods, and that the attempt to
define what is normal masculinity, always comes with a discussion of
militarized power since normative codes of masculinity are derived from
the myth of warrior men.
First set of articles in the book has the concept “militarized
nation” at their explicit focus with different time frames. In his “Soldier
-MasculinitiesA Journal of Identity and Culture, Feb., 2015/3, 235-239
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Citizens and Heroic Men,” Yaşar Tolga Cora opens a discussion on the
masculinity of the Turkish nation-state, taking his lead from the body
politics of the pre-republican period. Güven Gürkan Öztan in his article
“Militarist Tendencies in Turkey during the Construction of National
Identity” carries the discussion to the early Republican times and up
until the Korean War. Tebessüm Öztan in her “Şimal Yıldızı (Northern
Star) as a Narrative of Excess” discusses the masculinity promoted in
Turkey in relation to Korean War, focusing on the popular movie Şimal
Yıldızı. Şafak Aykaç in his article “Martyrdom and the Reproduction of
Militarism in Turkey” takes the war with separatist PKK at focus, and
discusses how the discourses on martyrdom became tools of
manipulation to enlist public support in war. Murat Belge in his
“Teaching the Importance of the Military or on the Impossibility of
Professional Army in Turkey” discusses how compulsory military service
in Turkey has been acting as a tool to legitimize interventions of the
Armed Forces in Turkish politics.
The following articles provide case studies and detailed examples
on experiences of men in military. Barış Çoban in his “Hegemony of
Spectacle and Militarist Masculinity,” discusses how militarized
discipline is used to create prototypic men in a regime of hegemony,
which he argues to be based on performance. Ayşe Gül Altınay, in her
“One is not Called a Man until Completing Military Service: Compulsory
Military Service, Masculinity and Citizenship” argues that education as
designed in Turkey has an intention to militarize the culture, and hence
the army service is an extension to a more general education in
masculinity in Turkey. Ömer Turan in his article “To Stand at Attention:
Experiences from the Barracks or the Anthropology of Compulsory
Military Service in Turkey” discusses barracks as specific settings of
discipline and ideology formation, taking his lead from an autoethnographic study and interviews conducted in military compounds
outside zones of clash.
Shifting the focus to mothers, gay men and injured war veterans,
the next four articles elaborate on the side effects of compulsory military
service. Senem Kaptan’s article “Militarism in the Shadows of Cracks:
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Military, Motherhood and Gender in Turkey” reminds that women are
also inevitable part of the discourses on military masculinity although
they are mostly excluded from the army. Alp Biricik, in his “Seventh
Arrow-Militarism: On Citizenship, Indebtedness and Being Exempted
from Draft” elaborates on gay men’s experiences of military service
focusing on the health report often referred as “çürük raporu” (draft
exempt report) expected from them for being excluded from military
service. Nurseli Yeşim Sünbüloğlu in her “Fortifying Militarist Rote:
Media Representations of Disabled Veterans of Wars of Korea, Cyprus
and South East Turkey” focuses on newspapers and discusses the
transitions of the term “ghazi” (disabled veteran) in news from the
fronts, considering wars in Korea, Cyprus and South East Turkey. Salih
Can Açıksöz discusses the complex problem of sacrifice in his
“Construction of ‘Ghazi’ in the Context of Kurdish Issue: Hegemony,
Masculinity and Disability” and looks at disabilities caused by the armed
conflict.
The final three papers broaden the problem of militarism so that it
exceeds the confines of the military. Tanıl Bora discusses football as a
political, nationalist and militarist medium in his “Masculinity, Militarism
and Nationalism in Football: Single Goal”. Nazan Üstündağ in her
“Pornographic State-Erotic Resistance: General Economy of Kurdish
Male Bodies” discusses the construction of Kurdish identity taking her
lead from specific historical settings such as the infamous Diyarbakır
prison. Arus Yumul in her “Taking Rojin up in the Mountains or
Militarism, Woman and Humor” looks back with a gender sensitive
approach to the article written by a well-known columnist in 2009, in
which he used a sexually offensive language objectifying the Kurdish
popular singer Rojin.
Overall, the volume provides an integrated entrance into the
problem of militarist masculinity in Turkey, which has been mostly taken
for granted, and initiates a critical look at previously taboo subjects such
as the clashes in South East Turkey, unidentified deaths in barracks,
draft exempt reports obtained by providing graphic ‘evidences’ of
homosexual relationships etc. in a joint effort. Although a thoroughgoing
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and combined discussion theory-wise on masculinity is missing in the
volume, except in the introduction by the editor, there are provocative
swipes in the articles which add on to each other, bringing together the
individual agendas of the articles to form a generalized critical
perspective required in an edited volume.
Some very interesting critical twists are created unintentionally or
they appear in secondary comments, which are made in passing. Nurseli
Yeşim Sünbüloğlu, for example, raises a theoretical question in her
contribution on media appearances of war veterans without privileging
it, by her use of the term “nationalist militarism”. Is there a militarism
that is not almost already nationalist? Defending territories and
defending “a nation” are two different dimensions of war; however,
inasmuch as the protection of territories relates to the protection of an
“imagined community” conscious of its unity (i.e. the Ottoman Empire)
there is a meaningful overlap. Hence, although Sünbüloğlu devotes her
critical attention to war veterans, the question whether there is a more
“nationalist” militarism in post-Ottoman Turkey settles on table as an
open debate, haunted by the continuities between the Empire and the
nation-state.
Likewise, Nazan Üstündağ, opens a baffling discussion in her
article on Kurdish men that relates to horrible memories of Diyarbakır
prison during post-coup period following the military intervention that
took place in September 12, 1980 by resembling the Diyarbakır prison to
the “uterus of state” producing Kurds. The metamorphosis of the state in
the article from a violent masculine agent of torture and castration that
aims to annihilate Kurdish men to a feminine agent of reproduction,
producing impaired and traumatized Kurdish masculinities is a
challenging swing, which invites questions on the “gender” of the state.
Senem Kaptan’s ironic definition of motherhood as a kind of military
service in civil life, which is supported with a quote by Susan Zeiger
referring to the similarities of ideal soldier to ideal mother in her article
on gender dynamics of militarism, is also stimulating, and invites further
discussions. The book has its strength in such moves into blurred areas
of gender.
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Erkek Millet, Asker Millet is a successful attempt to force
militarism out of the confines of the military, and also masculinity out of
the confines of men. The book successfully shows the political
imperatives beneath the creation of militarist masculinities and gives a
sufficient historical depth to the concept considering the Turkish history.
It also makes persuasive arguments about the failures of the education
system, drafting system, media ethics etc. when the complex issue of
gender is at stake. Anyone researching or studying masculinities,
nationalism and military in Turkey would find it a valuable initial
attempt to discuss crucial issues surrounding these very complex
phenomena.
An apparent gap in the volume to strengthen the arguments,
however, is the issue of literature. Although the volume addresses
textbooks used at schools, media representations and movies while
discussing masculinities, an article that discusses literature produced in
Turkey from the perspective of men’s studies is missing. With some
observations on fictive literature, the book could have gone further in
the critical analysis of masculinities since literature provides the
nuanced medium where it becomes possible to speak aloud about
otherwise intimidating stories. It could also have given more attention to
the issue of religion, to give a fuller picture of masculinities in Turkey.
Religion is not entirely absent in the book; but it is not given a thorough
analysis.
Nonetheless, articles in this book make important points on
masculine/militarist power and hegemony, and open challenging
discussions about several issues such as body, discipline, sacrifice etc.
which makes Erkek Millet, Asker Millet a significant contribution to men’s
studies. The critical effort to deconstruct the dynamics beneath
nationalisms, militarization and masculinities in Turkey is vital to
propose a bold shift from a long history of gender conflict and political
inequalities.
Çimen Günay-Erkol
Ozyegin University
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Ofer Nordheimer Nur
Eros and Tragedy: Jewish Male Fantasies and the Masculine
Revolution of Zionism
Boston, Academic Studies Press, 2014. XXIV + 220 pp.
ISBN 978-1-936235-85-8
I
n the Preface to Eros and Tragedy, Ofer Nordheimer Nur describes
Zionism as a project of national rehabilitation, a ‘manly’ response to
a modern antisemitism1 and its ‘venomous view of the Jewish body
as ugly, abject, deformed, repulsive’ (VII). This statement conveys the
gendered framework employed to his analysis of one of the Zionist
movements, Hashomer Hatzair, which inspired Jewish youth in Palestine
and that living in the Diaspora, that is outside of Palestine, in the first
decades of the twentieth century. Hashomer Hatzair was established in
1916 in Vienna with the merging of two separate youth organisations,
Hashomer and Tse’irei Tsiyon, founded before the war in the provinces
of eastern Galicia. It was an independent and idealistic youth movement,
imbued with Zionist and socialist ideas that gave birth to a powerful
myth of a “new man”, which would overcome the negative image of the
diasporic Jew. A small group of Hashomer Hatzair’s members, who
between 1920 and 1922 came from the territories of the disintegrating
Habsburg Empire to Palestine, formed a community called Bitania Ilit.
Even though Bitania existed only for eight months, from August 1920 to
April 1921, it laid foundations for Israel’s first kibbutz movement –
kibbutz meaning a ‘group’ in Hebrew – and created a mental map and set
of rules by which the community tried to live by after settling down in
In this review, I respected Ofer Nur’s spelling of the word ‘antisemitism’
without the hyphen.
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Palestine. Bitania promoted a new way of life and it was to lay the
foundations for a new society, which would oppose the unhealthy,
degrading and repressed life in the Diaspora.
Although Hashomer Hatzair was a coeducational organization
accepting women into its ranks, the majority of the group’s members
were young men. The type of discourse and practices promoted by
Bitania’s leaders were expressions of the male fantasy, as Nur describes
it, evident in their almost obsessive determination to reinvent a Jewish
man as a “real man”; a hyper-virile man who would embody strength,
both physical and psychological: ‘the presence of women in this orbit of
fantasy was irrelevant and even detrimental’ (101). As Nur’s book
demonstrates, the quest for a “new man” and the emphasis on male
bonding within Bitania’s community, betrayed a desire of empowerment
that resulted from a deep crisis of manliness experienced by the young
generation of East and Central European Jews. The new historical
circumstances, the lack of sovereign territory and military power,
resulted in vulnerable and dependent Jewish communities and stemming
from it a sense of powerlessness. Zionist thinkers and intellectuals,
including Hashomer Hatzair, rejected the life in the Diaspora as ‘ill’,
‘miserable’, morally and spiritually degrading; through this approach,
ironically, they, in a sense, emulated the antisemitic stereotypes (23).
Cited by Nur Daniel Boyarin, the author of anti-Zionist pamphlet
“Unheroic Conduct: The Rise of Heterosexuality and the Invention of the
Jewish Man”, suggests that the condition of living in exile (Diaspora)
made a particular mark on Jewish masculinity, which, in order to
rehabilitate itself, had to somehow negate this experience of
powerlessness. Bitana was a manifestation of that sense of crisis, and, at
the same time, an attempt to create a new radical way of living and a new
“invigorated man”, without any mental or physical restraints (22). The
latter, according to Nur, was very much an expression of the Central
European age with its ‘assertion of youth as a force with its own
consciousness’ (21).
The book sets out to explore the historical context which made the
myth of a “new man” vital and appealing among young members of
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Hashomer Hatzair by recreating the ‘mental world of a group of
teenagers’ who belonged to the Bitania community in the early 1920s
(Introduction, XIV). In order to disclose the imagery of the new man and
the new society they wanted to form, Nur reaches for the original
material, such as the collection of confessions (Kehiliatenu), diaries and
letters of Hashomer Hatzair intellectual leaders, who worked together as
a part of the labour community, the material which reveals also their
cultural and ideological affiliations. As the author stresses on many
occasions, the new vision of society they sought to create in Palestine
expressed not only Zionist influences but also Central European
sensibilities apparent in the use of the most influential cultural
conceptual framework of the time. The two defining concepts of
Hashomer Hatzair’s new man and new society were based on the trope
of Eros and Tragedy, betraying exposure to the psychoanalysis of
Sigmund Freud and the German philosophy of Friedrich Nietzsche,
whose influence in the Jewish world and on Zionism are discussed in the
Chapter IV.
Chapter I provides the historical context of eastern Galicia and
Vienna at the beginning of the twentieth century and the status of the
Jewish Diaspora in both regions. The author introduces a particular
historical trajectory, which he describes as ‘Galicia-Vienna-GaliciaPalestine’, where all the places are of equal significance in forming
Hashomer Hatzair’s mental outlook (2). Since Nur’s narrative is densely
woven and rich in factual detail, the general overview of the book in the
preface and introduction sections, as well as the introductory Chapter I
prove indispensable in facilitating the reading of this highly ambitious
work. The events introduced in the first chapter, that is a period between
1914-1919, which saw the decline of the Habsburg Empire followed by
the civil war between Polish and Ukrainian ethnic minorities in Galicia,
were crucial factors in determining Hashomer Hatzair’s ideological
direction. The outbreak of the World War I forced many Jews to leave
eastern Galicia and travel to Vienna, at the time, a multinational, cultural
and intellectual centre of the Habsburg Monarchy. Although at the end of
the war some families decided to settle in Vienna, many returned to
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Galicia to their abandoned properties and businesses. Yet, at the end of
the war, Polish and Ukrainian nationalistic tendencies led to a violent
conflict in Galicia in the years 1918-19 over influence in the region.
Jewish communities trapped between the two national entities became
the target of antisemitism and abuse. The author notices that the Polish
national rebirth and the pogroms resulting from it, in particular, proved
‘a bitter disappointment for many Polonized Jews’, who had a strong
sense of belonging with the Polish culture, being themselves immersed
in the Polish language and literature (5). It was the rejection of the
Jewish Diaspora by other nationalities that in return provoked
enthusiastic responses to the Zionist visions. Zionism, whose popularity
grew in those years of conflict, offered fantasies about political
sovereignty in Palestine and a new independent society. It was the
political chaos and brutality in Galicia that drove many young Hashomer
Hatzair members to immigrate to Palestine in 1920.
The events in Galicia contributed also to intergenerational conflict
between the youth who retained a sense of a separate Jewish identity
and wished for a “Jewish renaissance”, and their orthodox parents who
became assimilated; that is, in the eyes of their children, they willingly
accepted an unhealthy and humiliated life in the Diaspora. The members
of Hashomer Hatzar, which stands for “The Young Watchman”, strived to
promote a Jewish national consciousness and create a new society for
Jewish people, which would oppose that of the Diaspora. In that,
Hashomer Hatzair’s mentality expressed Central European ideas and
values, brought about by the political awakening of the national
consciousness at the end of the nineteenth century. Nur set the stage for
the Jewish national revival in the disintegration of the Habsburg
monarchy which put the status and identity of the Jewish Diaspora into
question and, paradoxically, gave rise to Zionism. Most importantly, the
author provides evidence of the extent to which other European national
revivals, their symbols and heroes became part of Zionist theorisation
and practices. Chapter III discusses the aesthetics of Hashomer Hatzair’s
tragic man, which expressed the human condition at the end of World
War I. Hashomer Hatzair’s tragic man was a product of being entrapped
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in a tragic history, combining the elements of ancient Greek tragedy, a
romantic revolutionary hero and Nietzchean Übermensch, a ‘Promethean
personality, who dares to freely shape human history’ (69, original
emphasis). The members of Hashomer Hatzair found the embodiment of
the ideal tragic man in the book Flames written by the Polish writer
Stanisław Brzozowski; a book, which, according to Nur, had a
‘tremendous role’ in forming the movement’s ideal of the “new man”
(69). Nur’s research on the influences and significance of the tragic man
within the movement’s conceptions of new masculinity is the subject
previously overlooked and thus constitutes one of the most original
contributions to his book.
The second pillar of Bitania’s new man and new society, was the
quest for Eros, introduced in Chapters II and IV. In 1922, the most
popular weekly among Palestine’s workers, Hapoel Hatzair, presented
the concept of Eros as one of the most fundamental elements in the ideal
community of Hashomer Hatzair (58). In its conceptualization Eros did
not express merely a sexual experience but was based on the framework
of Karl Marks’ socialist ideas of work, and Freud’s psychoanalytical
discourse on libido. In his depiction of an erotic, and also a tragic man,
Nur draws heavily on the writing of Meir Yaari, one of the movement’s
leaders and its most influential thinker and theoretician. Yaari saw work
as a remedy for the distorted life of Jews in the Diaspora and as a mean
to overcome the sense of uselessness and passivity. Therefore, in the
new ideal society in Palestine, productive labour became essential for
regeneration of the Jew as an individual, a vehicle to change the whole
society. Unlike Freud’s repressed libido, manifested in dreams,
Hashomer Hatzair’s Eros was to be turned into a creative force:
‘sublimation of libido through work’ (63). Hashomer Hatzair therefore,
sought to use Eros as a medium for personal and social change, to create
an ideal, erotic community. Yaari’s approach exposes his concern about
the negative image of a Diaspora Jew as neurotic and sexually repressed
and his fantasies of a new man, who would embrace hard physical work
as well as his naked body, were attempts to overcome this stereotype.
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Chapters V, VI and VII trace the development of Hashomer
Hatzair’s ideal erotic community, Eda, from a Hebrew word for
‘community’, which wanted to practice and live by the ideas Hashomer
Hatzair’s educated, middle-class members, encountered and adopted
while living in the intellectual circles in Vienna, before arriving in
Palestine. Eda, the community inspired mostly by the non-Jewish
German thinkers, Gustav Landauer and Martin Buber and their concept
of spiritual community, was imagined as the fusion of all its members
into one whole. The most profound manifestation of Bitania’s eda was
through working, dancing and confessing together at nightly gatherings,
which was to ‘reveal their deepest and most personal secrets’ (140). One
of the most surprising conclusions from the reading of Nur’s book is the
extent to which the often racist discourses informed the new vision of a
man, coined by Hashomer Hatzair’s thinkers, with a desire to override
the image of the effeminate man of the Diaspora.
Eros and Tragedy is an original and interesting addition to the
subject of Jewish masculinity and Zionism, which, as the author himself
remarks, is a growing body of research. In his depiction of the complex
history of Hashomer Hatzair and their intellectual legacy, Ofer
Nordheimer Nur stressed that Bitania was a unique variant of Labour
Zionism, which offered more complex fantasies of a man than merely a
muscular Judaism. In the last chapter, Nur tries to argue that the quest to
create a heroic tragic man within the Bitania community, resulted in the
creation of a new type of masculinity, a sensitive man, conscious of his
“innermost feelings”, a claim which is however not supported by a
convincing argument (191). In its dealing with Zionism as a male fantasy
for creating white male dominance in Palestine, something that was
denied Jewish men living scattered in Europe, Nur conveys not only
gendered but also a post-colonial perspective. It is worth mentioning
that Nur’s teacher, and one of the main inspirations for his books, was
Saul Freidländer, author of a recently published study of Kafka’s letters
and diaries, Franz Kafka: The Poet of Shame and Guilt (2013), which
reveals how the discourses of racial, ethnic and class shame resurface in
issues of the body and sexuality. Nur’s book conveys a somewhat similar
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message when presenting the fantasies of a new man as rooted in the
tragic historical events, which saw Jewish people abused and humiliated.
In that sense, Eros and Tragedy, although based on the early twentieth
century events, can provide a new perspective on Israel’s aggressive
military politics namely, as a continuation of the Zionist myth of
empowerment in response to antisemitism.
Aneta Stępień
Department of Russian and Slavonic Studies
Trinity College Dublin, Ireland
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Laura Louise Paterson
British Pronoun Use, Prescription and Processing.
NY: Palgrave MacMillan, 2014.h/bk 192 pp.
ISBN 978-1-137-33272-1
Price $55.
L
aura Louise Paterson’s book entitled as British Pronoun Use,
Prescription and Processing gives a very compelling, lucid and indepth analysis of the term epicene pronoun, which is defined as a
pronoun which does not convey gender or sex information and is
coindexed with a singular noun phrase referring to an animate being.
The book targets for linguistic and non-linguistic readership and also
designed for students and it aims at chronologically giving a survey of
epicene pronouns and proposes the Homonymy Theory, an analysis of
different varieties of English.
The book has 5 well-designed chapters starting with a focus on
theoretical, experimental and empirical data, concerned with languageinternal (syntactic) and language-external (social) factors affecting an
epicene choice. The development of the epicene pronouns, he and they, is
showcased in a historical context, documenting that generic he appears
to have a default masculine value in Chapter 1 “Exploring Epicene
Pronouns in History”.
Chapter 2 “Epicenes in the Twenty-First Century” is the first of
two corpus- based investigation of current epicene usage. Almost 10.000
occurrences of he and they are analysed in two subcorpora of BE06
(based on Lancaster University) and this remarkable study highlights
that the use of they is the overwhelming choice of epicene pronoun in
British English. However, generic he is quite frequent in the modern data
despite the issues of gender neutrality and proponents of she.
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Chapter 3 “Epicenes and Social Movement” takes a very close look
at the language-external (social) factors affecting the personal pronoun
paradigm and revolves around two key elements of the epicene debate:
the promotion of generic he in the eighteenth century and the rise of
second wave feminism which rejects gender exclusive terms. This
structured chronologically arranged chapter moves from traditional
grammatical prescriptivism during the Middle Ages (where the
dominance of male generics is understandable as women were all but
excluded from the educated audience) to sexist language reforms which
argue that “languages which mark gender assiduously in their grammars
and treat the masculine as the unmarked gender will lead their speakers
to perceive the world in gender-polarised and androcentric ways (91).
The result of these reforms is the singular use of they, which correlates
with the fact that 60 per cent of the teachers (in Pauwels and Winter’s
study in 1998) would correct any students’ use of generic he in the
classroom despite the promotion and overemphasis in the grammar
books.
Chapter 4 “Prescriptions, Standards and Epicenes” delves into
research on epicene prescriptions in grammar books up to date and
address the fact that there is very little data on epicene prescriptions
after the 1980s with little hypothesis that grammars published at the
start of the twenty-first century will continue the trend stated in Chapter
3. Laura Louise Paterson talks about how she created the Grammar
Corpus in detail and meticulously by enthusing that she went through a
long ordeal to select 20 bestselling grammar books out of 42 books, 31 of
which have been published post-2000. It is clear that not only has there
been a movement away from endorsing generic he, there has also been
an increase in the consideration of singular they which is six times more
likely to coindex with an indefinite pronoun (such as somebody,
anybody…) than he.
The last chapter “Accounting for Epicene Choice” is concerned
with the results from the corpus analyses which are contextualized
within a wider literature. Paterson claims that the current epicene choice
in written British English is singular they, which is treated more
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favourably in grammar books. The final section of Chapter 5 is devoted
to Whitley’s theory (1978), known as the Homonymy Theory, which is
based on the principle that there are two morphologically identical but
syntactically different forms of they in the lexicon: one singular and the
other plural, which are accessed depending on the syntactic form of the
antecedent.
For all the readers whether they have linguistic or non-linguistic
background, Paterson’s work offers insights into the pronouns he and
they and constitutes an indispensable tool in understanding not only the
chronological history of epicene pronouns but also their current status
derived from corpus studies. Paterson renders the study a stimulating
and welcome contribution to the rising critical dialogue in epicene
pronoun scholarship. However, these five chapters do not conform to a
conventional train of thoughts of an average reader who expects a linear
presentation of historical documentation of epicene pronouns. It
requires a very alert and circumspect mind to assemble the bits of
information and the results of the corpus studies highlighted in the book
and to visualize the future debate of the use of epicene pronouns of
which even the author herself is not sure.
Feryal Cubukcu
Dokuz Eylul University
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Contributors to this Issue
Aneta Stepien
Aneta Stepien (PhD) is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Russian and
Slavonic Studies at Trinity College Dublin. She teaches a number of undergraduate
and postgraduate courses in Polish and European Studies, Comparative Literature
and Gender. Currently, she works on a project, which explores issues of sexuality
and gender relations in the works of Isaac Bashevis Singer. The project received a
research grant from the Irish Research Council.
Atilla Barutcu
He was born in Antakya, in 1988. He graduated from METU with a major in
Sociology and a minor in European Studies in 2011. He was employed in aviation
industry for 1.5 years. He got a masters degree from Ankara University, Women
Studies with his thesis titled “Physical and Social Phases of Construction of
Masculinity in Turkey”. He worked as a project assistant for academic projects.
With his short film titled “Damla Baligi” (The Blobfish), which he co-directed, cowrote and played a part in, he was awarded second place in “Women’s Voices
Now Film Festival” in the USA. He was qualified for competition, with the same
film, in “International Encounters of Short Films” in France. Currently, he is
continuing his studies for phd in METU Sociology and Ankara University Gender
and Women Studies programs, and is employed as research assistant in Bulent
Ecevit University Sociology department. He is also writing short stories and has a
book titled “Damla Baligini Anlamak”.
Ayşegül Taşıtman
Ayşegül Taşıtman received her master degree in General Sociology and
Methodology Programme of Mimar Sinan Fine Arts University to worked on
masculinity. In 2013, her project on women’s human rights was awarded Raoul
Wallenberg Institute Human Rights Research Grant Scholarship. She works in
Sabancı University, Education Reform Initiative as a Research Assistant.
Çimen Günay-Erkol
Çimen Günay-Erkol graduated from METU Department of Mining Engineering, but
never worked as an engineer except during her summer internships. She obtained
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her master's degree from Department of Turkish Literature at Bilkent University
in 2001, upon completing a dissertation on socialist realist writer Suat Derviş.
Between 2002-2008 she conducted PhD research in the Netherlands at Leiden
University's Department of Literary Studies, and earned her PhD degree from
Leiden University with a thesis on post-coup novels of 1970s, the so-called March
12 Novels. Since 2008, she is assistant professor of Turkish Literature at Özyeğin
University in Istanbul and since 2009 she is the mother of Ali Liber. Her fields of
interest include gender and masculinity studies, disability studies, biography, and
topics such as testimony in coup periods and fictionalization of history.
Feryal Cubukcu
Assoc. Prof. Dr. Feryal Cubukcu got her B.A. and M.A. on ELT from Dokuz Eylul
University and Ph. D. on critical literary theories from Ege University. Her main
interests are deconstruction, literary theories, film studies, applied linguistics and
psycholinguistics. She has currently been working at Dokuz Eylul University,
Faculty of Education.
Gloria Gadsden
Gloria Gadsden earned her Ph.D. from the University of Pennsylvania.
Her
primary areas of interest are gender/sexuality, race, pop culture and
crime/deviance. She recently relocated to the South Western part of the United
States where she teaches Criminal Justice and Sociology at New Mexico Highlands
University.
Ivan Ferrero Ruiz
Ivan Ferrero Ruiz was born in León, Spain, where he obtained a BA in English
Language and Literature. After finishing his studies in 2011, he moved to
Massachusetts to work as a foreign language assistant for Spanish at the College
of the Holy Cross. Currently, he is a PhD student in the department of Literatures,
Cultures and Languages at the University of Connecticut (Uconn), where he also
completed an MA in the Spanish section.
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N. Gamze Toksoy
N. Gamze Toksoy is Assistant Professor of Sociology at Mimar Sinan Fine Arts
University. She teaches Visual Studies courses in the Department of Sociology. Her
research interests qualitative researches, social thought and images, visual
documentaries, gender, masculinity, narratives, social memory and social power.
Nataša Pivec
Nataša Pivec, an independent researcher, has obtained a Ph.D. degree in sociology
at Faculty of Social Sciences in Ljubljana, Slovenia. She has published in
prominent Slovenian academic journals, such are "Teorija in praksa" and
"Družboslovne razprave". Her research focuses on genders, sexualities, media
representations, intersectionality, feminist and queer theory.
Steven G. Jug
Steven G. Jug received his BA and MA in history at the University of Toronto,
Canada. He received his PhD in Russian History at the University of Illinois in
2013. His dissertation, “All Stalin’s Men? Soldierly Masculinities in the Soviet War
Effort, 1938-1945” won the graduate essay prize (for the best chapter or article
about gender by a male or female graduate student) of the Association for Women
in Slavic Studies for chapter three, also in 2013. He currently lectures at Baylor
University in Waco, Texas.
Tamas Nagypal
Tamas Nagypal is a PhD student in Cinema and Media Studies at York University,
Toronto. He has a double Master’s in Philosophy from Eotvos Lorand University,
Budapest, Hungary and in Gender Studies from Central European University,
Budapest. His current research focuses on a Lacanian psychoanalytic reading of
cynical masculinities in contemporary neo-noir films. He has essays in the edited
collections Zizek and Media Studies: A Reader and the forthcoming Holy Terrors:
Essays on Monstrous Children in Cinema.
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Yayın ve Yazım Kuralları
Masculinities toplumsal cinsiyet ve erkeklik çalışmalarına eleştirel
bir yaklaşımı benimseyen ve yılda iki kez yayınlanan disiplinler arası bir
akademik dergidir. Araştırmacıları ve akademisyenleri, toplumsal
cinsiyet, ve özellikle de erkeklik temsilleri, toplumsal cinsiyet
kimliklerinin oluşumu, erkekliğin kültür ve edebiyatta kültürel, sosyal ve
estetik yansımalarına ilişkin bağımsız ve ilham verici tartışmaları
yürütecekleri bir platform sunmayı amaçlamaktadır.
Erkeklikler, öncelikle toplumsal cinsiyet ve erkeklik alanında ama
aynı zamanda kaçınılmaz olarak sanat, edebiyat, tarih, sosyoloji, felsefe,
iletişim ve dilbilim alanlarını da kapsayacak disiplinler arası ve öncü
çalışmalara yer vermeyi hedeflemektedir. Dergi editörleri, her türden
bilimsel ve eleştirel katılımı, makaleleri, kitap ve film incelemelerini,
yayınlanmış
makale
incelemelerini,
gerçekleştirilecek
etkinlik
duyurularını, konferans raporlarını, ve toplumsal cinsiyet çalışmaları
ve/veya erkeklik çalışmalarına herhangi bir çalışmayı dergide görmeyi
arzu
etmektedirler.
Gönderilen
metinler,
ikili
kör
hakemlik
değerlendirmesinden sonra yayınlanırlar ve ana yayın ölçütleri
orijinallik, kuramsal ve yöntemsel olgunluk, bilimsel öneme sahip olmak
ve netliktir. Editörler, gönderilen metinleri yayınlamak üzere kabul ya da
red etme hakkına sahiptir. Metinde yapılacak herhangi bir değişiklik
yayından önce yazara bildirilecek ve onayı alinacaktır.
Yayınlanmak üzere gönderilen makalelerin dergiye gönderilmesi
şu hususların net bir şekilde anlaşıldığını ve kabul edildiğini gösterir:
1.
Masculinities
dergisinde
editörlerin
ve
katkıda
bulunan
yazarlarının ifade ettiği fikirlerin sorumluluğu kendilerine aittir.
2.
Derginin dili İngilizce ve Türkçedir ve dergiye erişim ücretsizdir.
3.
Yazarlar yazılarının elektronik ortamda (ücretsiz bir şekilde
edinilebilen
PDF
kopya)
yayınlanma
hakkını
editörlere
vermiştir. Gönderilen yazıların içeriği tüm metin içeriğini ve
buna eşlik eden yazılı ve görsel tüm materyali de içerir.
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4.
Yazar, yazısının kopyasını eğitim ve araştırma amaçları
doğrultusunda meslektaşları ile derlemeler ya da diğer yayın
türlerinde paylaşabilir.
5.
Orijinal metnin herhangi bir şekilde çoğaltılması izni için yazara
yönlendirme yapılacak, yazarin yeniden basım için izin vermesi
ve metnin ilk basıldığı yer olarak Masculinities dergisine atıf
verilmesi koşulu ile,Masculinities dergisi herhangi bir itiraz dile
getirmeyecektir
6.
Yazar, yayınlanmak üzere gönderdiği metinin orijinal bir çalışma
olduğunu ve daha önce başka bir yerde yayınlanmadığını ya da
yayınlanmak üzere değerlendirmeye alınmadığını taahhüt eder.
Çok yazarlı metinlerde, metni dergiye ileten kişinin tüm yazarlar
adına söz hakkını kullandığı varsayılacaktır.
7.
Dergide basılacak metinler, güncel MLA formatında yazılarak
gönderilmelidir.
8.
Metinler, 7000 kelimeyi geçmemelidir. Metne ek olarak, kısa bir
özgeçmiş, 150-200 kelimelik Türkçe, 500-600 kelimelik bir
İngilizce özet, anahtar kelimeler ve iletişim adreslerini ayrı bir
metin dosyasında gönderilmesi istenmektedir.
9.
Yazarlar hakemlerin kararı ile ilgili olarak en geç 60 gün içinde
bilgilendirilecektir.
Metinler,
yayınlanacak
ilk
sayıda
değerlendirilecektir.
10. Makaleler dışında, kitap, makale, konferans, akademik toplantı,
film, performans, yüksek lisans ve doktora tezi incelemelerini de
yayınlanmak üzere gönderebilirsiniz. Bu türden her inceleme
genel itibarı ile yukarıda bahsi geçen hususlara tabidir. Ayrıca,
her bir inceleme, (eğer mümkünse) yazar, başlık, basım/
düzenleme yeri, basim/düzenleme tarihi, sayfa sayısı/uzunluğu,
dili, fiyatı vb. bilgileri başlığın hemen altında sağlamalıdır.
İncelemenin basılı metin/düzenlenen etkinliğin içeriğine dair
net bir bilgi sunması ve yazar/düzenleyenler hakkında kısa bir
bilgilendirme
yapması
beklenmektedir.
İnceleme
metni
çalışmanın/olayın kendi alanında önemini ve etkisini olduğu
kadar belli konulara değinme konusundaki yetersizliklerini de
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içermelidir.
İnceleme
metni
1200-1500
kelime
ile
sınırlanmalıdır.
11. Makalelerinizi ve incelemelerinizi bu metnin sonunda verilen
iletişim adresine gönderebilirsiniz. Metniniz editörlerin eline
geçtiğinde bir doğrulama mesajı alacaksınız.
YAZIM KURALLARI
Yayınlanmak üzere gönderilecek tüm metinler .doc ve PDF
formatında e-mail ile gönderilmelidir. Metinlerin şu hususları taşıdığına
emin olunuz:
•Metin, ayrı bir kapak sayfasında makale başlığı, yazar(lar)ın ismi ve
kurumsal bağlantıları, ve iletişim bilgileri yer almalıdır. Sayfa numaraları
metnin ilk sayfasından itibaren üst dış kenarda yer almalıdır. Kör hakem
değerlendirmesi politikası uyarınca, yazarın ismi ve kurumu yalnızca
kapak sayfasında yer almalıdır.
•Paragrafların ilk satır girintisi düzgün bir şekilde verilmelidir (1,5 cm).
• Notlar ve açıklamalar (varsa eğer) son not olarak verilmelidir.
•Metin iki yana yaslanmalı, başlık ve alt başlıklar sola hizalanmalıdır.
•Satır sonunda kelimenin bölünmesinden kesinlikle kaçınmalıdır.
•Son notlar ve referanslar kısmı dahil metin çift aralıkla yazılmalıdır.
•Resimler
ve
grafikler
ayrı
bir
klasörde
.jpg
dosyası
olarak
gönderilmelidir
•Tavsiye edilen yazı karakteri Times New Roman’dır (11 pt; sonnotlar9
pt).
•2-3 satırı geçen alıntılar için ayrı bir paragraf açmalı, öncesinde ve
sonrasında bir satır boşluk bırakarak soldan girintiyi 1 cm artırmalısınız.
•İngilizce/Turkçe olmayan önemli kelimeler/terimler italik olarak
verilmelidir.
•Metin içi referans ve kaynakça için, tüm metinler MLA formatına uygun
olmalıdır. Daha fazla bilgi için lütfen bkz http://www.mla.org.
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•Lütfen, çok gerekli olmadıkça kısaltmalardan kaçının, kısaltma
verilmesinin gerekli olduğu durumlarda, ilk kullanımda kısaltmanın
açılımını da veriniz.
Herhangi bir sorunuz olduğunda lütfen aşağıda verilen iletişim
bilgileri üzerinden editörlerle temasa geçiniz.
Murat Göç
İngiliz Dili ve Edebiyatı Bölümü
Fen-Edebiyat Fakültesi
Pamukkale Universitesi Denizli Turkiye
[email protected]
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